KHC 4 Letting It All Go

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Letting It All Go: Supporting Her Surrender Into Bliss
Transcript of Audio Segment 4
Multi-Orgasmic Position Recap
We talked about the big O and how women can have more of them and dif-‐
ferent ways and techniques that you could help coach her to be more or-‐
gasmic. And then I also shared with you about different posi@ons through
intercourse that you can try out that are really good for contac@ng her G-‐
Spot and s@mula@ng that and giving her more pleasure and different crea-‐
@ve varia@ons of all of those posi@ons.
It Was Right There The Whole Time!

Let’s focus on the G-‐Spot and give you a really wonderful G-‐Spot exercise
and talk more about awakening sensa@on there. And every woman has a G-‐
Spot, and some women have really big G-‐Spots that are really close to the
vaginal opening and others have G-‐Spots that are further back, and the
workshops that I’ve taught there have been several women that are con-‐
vinced that they don’t have one. And aGer further inspec@on it became
clear that their G-‐Spots were literally just right there, and they were big and
juicy and hard to miss once you know what you’re looking for.
Rest assured that there has not been a single woman ever in the history of
my workshops who has not leG knowing exactly where her G-‐Spot is. And I
have yet to find one woman who doesn’t have one. She has one, rest as-‐
sured. The best way to find her G-‐Spot I recommend is through touch or
arousal and knowing what you’re feeling for, and the best way to locate it is
P e r s o n a l L i f e M e d i a! Keep Her Coming

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when she’s aroused because there’s erec@le @ssue in the G-‐Spot. It’s more
visible and it’s harder to miss when it is nice and plump.
You can actually see her G-‐Spot when she pushes out because it’s so close
to the vaginal opening. This is true for many women, and there’s a whole
bunch of other women too that it’s a liMle bit deeper back and not as visible
when she pushes out. When she does push out and you do see something
emerge, you’ll probably see a ridgy mound that emerges from the top of
the vaginal opening. If her G-‐Spot is deeper you might not be able to see it.
But around 70 percent of women have G-‐Spots that are closer to the vaginal
opening, and can therefore be pushed out and made visible.
This is an opportunity for you both to get acquainted with her G-‐Spot and
really try this when she’s more aroused, because it is more visible and eas-‐
ier for both of you to see. And you can actually take out a hand mirror and
she can see her G-‐Spot and you can see her G-‐Spot. And remember the la-‐
bial explora@on we did earlier where you’re looking at her clit and her labia.
What we’re going to do is we’re going to wake up the outer part of her va-‐
gina.
Remember, we’re working our way from the outside in. We had an exercise
earlier where you started to learn how to really awaken her clit and arouse
her externally, and so now we’re going to do an exercise for internal s@mu-‐
la@on and arousal.
Create A Romantic Space

We’re going to start with a G-‐Spot explora@on exercise and this is just going
to be like a run through of a possible scenario that you can exercise with
your sweetheart. You want to set up a cozy place with towels down for your
gorgeous goddess and create a roman@c sacred space for her with lovely
music, candles, special ligh@ng and beau@ful aromas to s@mulate all of her
senses.
You might want to start by telling her how beau@ful she is, gazing into her
eyes, taking some deep breaths with her, asking her if there’s anything she
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needs to feel more comfortable. Discuss any of her fears, desires or
boundaries and state yours as well. Be honest with her if you have some
worries so that way they won’t overtake your mind if you express them and
then you can be fully present with her.
To be fully present with her is to be aMen@ve to her completely without
geSng stuck in your mind or fears. You don’t want to be spacing out or un-‐
comfortable in your body, so make sure you are just as comfortable as she
is. I recommend surrounding the both of you with lots of pillows to support
your arms, back and legs and head. Make sure any distrac@ons like your
phone, animals or other people, are out of the way with ample @me to ex-‐
plore. Take some nice deep breaths together. Release in a long sigh any ex-‐
cess energy or thoughts.
You can laugh and release any nervous tension that might be there. This
doesn’t have to be super heavy and intense. You both can create whatever
space you want with the goal of helping her to feel safe, honored, loved and
super juicy. Close your eyes and start at home base with one hand on her
heart and the other on her pubic bone.
Take a moment to do a check in to find out what her pussy might need. Find
a calm and center place within yourself and take some more deep breaths.
Be pa@ent with her if she is finding it difficult or if it takes her a while before
her mind stops racing to get focused and in her body. Breathe in whatever
you want to create and exhale any of your frustra@ons. Tell her to do the
same if you sense some tension. Take a lubricated hand and stroke her
whole pussy in whatever way feels delighXul, soothing and nurturing. Rec-‐
ommend that she undulate her hips to take in full luxurious breaths if she
likes.
S@mulate her clit more specifically with your finger when you feel ready. If
you have any preprogrammed ways that you s@mulate her clit normally try
to break out of your paMern and find new ways to s@mulate her that are
crea@ve. Let your free hand touch the rest of her body. Touch her breasts,
neck and face, stomach and inside of her thighs. Let any stuck energy or
blockages be released by breathing with her and massaging out any places
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Imagine you’re opening a flower gently and slowly. You have to finesse her
in all the right ways and places with pa@ence and love. Encourage her to
ride any energy waves of arousal with sound and movement. When she’s
sufficiently aroused and you no@ce her clit is hard and juicy take your index
or middle finger and lovingly enter her magical pussy. You can let her slowly
take your finger in with her breath in muscles movements. Make sure you
have lots of lube on your finger. Feel free to tease her a bit with this one, to
build up her arousal and an@cipa@on. Curly your fingers in the come hither
mo@on inside of her vagina and see if you can feel a spongy mound with
ridges.
Apply firm pressure star@ng with the very opening of her vagina while going
deeper and deeper. Ask her what sensa@ons she’s feeling when you apply
firm pressure to her G-‐Spot. Pressure, pain, pleasure, numbness or a feeling
of needing to pee are some possible answers. Simultaneously with your
other hand s@mulate her clit and check in to see if both the external/
internal s@mula@on together are arousing for her. See if you can feel the
guMers, which run along either side of the spongy mound. Really take note
of this spongy mound and its dimensions. If you don’t feel any ridges or
spongy mound you might have to bring her to more of an aroused state in
order to feel it.
Get out the hand mirror and hold open her inner labia. Tell her to push out
with her pelvic floor muscles and see if her G-‐Spot emerges and is made
visible when she does this. There’s a chance that as she is sufficiently
aroused and some ejaculate has built up that they very act of the pushing
the G-‐Spot out will allow her to ejaculate when she does this. Be prepared
for a poten@al unannounced squirt from this. If you can’t see it emerge do
not worry. Her G-‐Spot might be further in and harder to see. If she wants
you to keep going with your G-‐Spot s@mula@on then you can take this exer-‐
cise in any direc@on you would like.
If you feel like you’ve found her G-‐Spot and are ready to take a break you
can congratulate her and yourself for finding her beau@ful G-‐Spot. Please
note, if you s@ll cannot find the spongy mound with ridges do not give up.
Keep on feeling around and applying firm pressure near the opening and
gradually move further back. If anything feels like she has to pee when you
press firmly on it, then you are probably encountering a part of her G-‐Spot.
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If you have found the spongy mound but she doesn’t feel any sensa@on or
arousal, don’t panic. I will guide you from there. The goal of this exercise is
simply to find it. Once you’ve done that you’re off to a great start.
Sexual Healing, Uh Huh

That’s a great opening exercise that can lead to so much more. And I would
like to share with you some more about the G-‐Spot. Something that’s really
important when you’re going to start inves@ga@ng down there to prepare
yourself for the possibility of an emo@onal response from her when you
start s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot.
Now the G-‐Spot is a place that holds a lot of emo@on and even trauma. Be-‐
cause the G-‐Spot is surrounded by muscles and packed with nerve ending,
it can be a vortex for deep seeded emo@ons. Some of them could be related
to sexual experiences that were trauma@c or could be related to stress at
work. And I got cer@fied as a soma@c sexologist a few years back and I stud-‐
ied a lot about soma@c therapy and how we hold emo@onal energy in our
body and we hold it par@cularly in our muscles. And when we get massage
or a certain part of our body gets ac@vated some@mes that trauma which is
stored there can release, and when it releases, which is a good thing,
some@mes things can shiG for us.
If we had a backache and then we have an emo@onal release, then the
backache can go away. For example, if we have pain or discomfort and then
whatever emo@onal energy that’s stuck there is released, then what could
be there as a result aGerwards is pleasure. And the same is true for the G-‐
Spot. We all hold our emo@ons in different parts of our body, like our
assholes. You know the phrase as in @ghtass or up@ght, and it might sound
scary to encounter intense emo@ons, but ul@mately the release and ac-‐
knowledgement of them is vital to her well being and self awareness. This
might in turn create more in@macy between you. If we can acknowledge
and incorporate her emo@onal energy into her sexual experiences and ac-‐
knowledge it as such, she’ll be far less repressed and more fully expressed,
awakened and radiant and be this juicy superstar sex goddess.
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I say all this not to scare you, ‘cause it could be scary. I think a lot of guys are
in touch with their emo@ons. I know there are plenty of guys who are. But if
you’re not really that well versed in handling your own emo@ons it might be
scary to encounter hers. And it might come up because the G-‐Spot is a
sponge.
It literally is a sponge, so what’s happening is if she even has some small bit
of trauma or something disturbing happening or emo@onal it might be in
her G-‐Spot, and if you’re s@mula@ng it for the first @me that might actually
get released. If she feels a wave of emo@onal energy coming through when
you’re s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot or during an orgasm, encourage her not to
hold back, repress and shut down because of fear. These emo@ons need to
come up and get released for a reason, and you need to give her permission
to express herself fully.
And if she needs a good cry she can let it out, she’ll be just fine and perhaps
she might eve feel light on her feet, and this is natural and a part of being a
sexual woman. You might be surprised to feel panic stricken seeing her cry
or have an emo@onal outburst or trauma@c memory, but I can’t emphasize
this enough, don’t try to stop her from emo@ng, just allow her to feel what
she’s feeling and simply be present and loving with her. You don’t even have
to say much. Perhaps you might even want to encourage her to let it all go if
she’s feeling self conscious.
Actually saying, “Babe, it’s okay. Let it go”, “ That’s fine”, just anything that
you can say to her that’s reassuring ‘cause she’ll probably feel self con-‐
scious. If she’s having an orgasm or just feeling really close with you and
then all this emo@on just starts to come through, and it needs to come
through, wants to come through, and that is what happens when you start
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Learn to “Hold Space”
What can you do? You can hold space for her, and I can describe what it is
to hold space. If she knows that you can hold space for her wherever she is
at then this will create this profound level of trust and surrender between
the two of you. She’ll also feel so grateful that you stood strong and were
very compassionate and loving and look up to the way you truly showed up
for her.
Women have various issues sexually – whether it has to do with religious
upbringing that was taught to her or religious upbringing that told her that
her sexual feelings were sinful, maybe a difficult and painful experience at
the gynecologist, maybe she was molested or raped or maybe she just feels
shut down aGer having her heart broken.
This variety of experiences make us who we are and as difficult as it is al-‐
lowing them to come up and be healed by acknowledging them will be a
transforma@ve experience and help you deepen your connec@on with her
and she with her own sexuality and this will ul@mately be very empowering
for her. She will learn a lot about herself and through you start to see you as
someone who is catalyzing sexual awakening experiences deep within her.
And that’s powerful.
This is not anything to be taken lightly and maybe that’s kind of what you
were thinking of, “I’ll just get her off several @mes and it will be cool” and
you could have that experience. Sex could be anything of how you make it.
But if you are going to be having such a profound knowledge of her body
and be checking in with her and cul@va@ng this feeling of closeness and in-‐
@macy, especially if you’re doing some of the eye gazing techniques and
puSng your hand on her heart and on her yoni, she might get to a point -‐ in
fact I would highly es@mate that that would be the case, that she would
start to open up and, ‘cause she’s star@ng to feel safe with you.
My word of cau@on too is that since this could be a very emo@onal experi-‐
ence, it might not be, but I want to prepare you in case it is, you have to be
prepared for her to feel more emo@onally bonded and connected with you
through these sexual experiences, and if you’re not ready for that or you
have different inten@ons that she does or there is some lack of integrity on
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your part, then that could be even more hurXul to her, especially if she feels
like she’s opening up and being vulnerable and then feels betrayed, that
could be really horrible. Really just when you’re doing work with her such as
this where you’re really helping her open up to profound levels of emo-‐
@onal vulnerability as well as sexual arousal because they go hand in hand
oGen@mes, just be careful. Be careful with her heart, be honest, be trans-‐
parent.
This is an opportunity for really profound in@macy on your end too for you
to also open up your heart. And depending on where you are with your re-‐
la@onship – it may not be a serious rela@onship – but just if it’s not then I
would be careful about how far you go and how deep you go and how much
you want her to open up vulnerably. That’s just my word of cau@on.
It Can Change Both Your Lives Forever

I wanted to share with you a quote from someone who was an incest survi-‐
vor and that had some sexually awakening experience.
“I’m an incest survivor, and as you might imagine sex has been a very chal-‐
lenging and even painful experience for me. I really didn’t think I could ever
truly enjoy sex and that it was just not for me. I would feel overwhelmed
some@mes during sex and all of my painful memories and trauma would
come rushing back. I went to see a woman who specialized in sexual healing
work and she recommend G-‐Spot healing. I had no idea what that was, but I
thought it was worth a try. She told me that applying pressure and s@mulat-‐
ing the G-‐Spot can help release stuck and blocked energy. Midway into our
session I started trembling and let out a huge sob that shook my whole
body. I felt all this light releasing at the top of my head and I felt like some-‐
thing huge was released that I’d been holding onto for years. The next days
aGer that I felt radiant and very hopeful that I could actually have a healthy
sex life. I know I have a lot more work to do, but this experience has
changed my life forever.”

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This is a really encouraging quote and you might – not you, but she might
feel very overwhelmed emo@onally and that’s a possibility and I would just,
again, be pa@ent and loving and sit with her and hold space and just be her
rock and be so encouraging of how she can feel free to express herself
sexually.
Awakening Her G-Spot

I want to talk to you a liMle bit about awakening her G-‐Spot, awakening sen-‐
sa@on there. This might sound strange but you can actually awaken sensa-‐
@on in the G-‐Spot. Even if her G-‐Spot feels good and arousing it can feel
even beMer, so you can sensi@ze any part of her body by giving it aMen@on
and s@mula@on and focusing your energy on it. You’re literally crea@ng new
neural pathways to the pleasure centers of her brain by focusing touch and
arousal in different places on her body, especially her G-‐Spot. When you
tried the exercise previously that when you were finding her G-‐Spot, she
might’ve told you any number of things about what she was feeling. She
might’ve said that she had pain in her G-‐Spot.
There are a range of possible feelings, when you are first making contact
with her G-‐Spot, how it could feel. If she says that there’s pain in her G-‐Spot
this might be because she’s holding onto a trauma or a wounding in this
area, and I encourage you to keep s@mula@ng the area gently at first and
have her breathe through the pain of discomfort, to eventually release the
stuck energy.
Now there’s probably nothing wrong with her from a gynecological per-‐
spec@ve and most likely this physical pain is a result of emo@onal pain and
tension in the area and she might know what it is, she might not. The im-‐
portant thing is to not give up on her. Do not push her if she’s not ready to
go there, but if she is ready then working with her G-‐Spot, releasing the
stuck energy and then tapping into the ero@c energy that can now be ac-‐
cessed, can now be a huge breakthrough experience for both of you. And
you want to tell her to keep undula@ng her hips and breathing to move the
energy, and you pay close aMen@on to her breathing.
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If she stops taking deep breaths, in this case it could be because she’s in her
head or figh@ng against some sensa@on that’s coming up for her that she
feels in her body and that’s making her uncomfortable. But she wants to
keep breathing. You want to help her keep breathing. Eventually you might
have some amazing breakthroughs or even small ones with her. I also en-‐
courage you to have her seek pelvic release work or some kind of soma@c
therapy or other modali@es of healing if you feel like she needs support be-‐
yond the healing work that you can give her or if she’s faced a big trauma or
some major stuff that’s come up for her.
You don’t have to be a sexual healer to be her partner, but know that this
might some@mes come up and it is good to be prepared for lest you make
her feel even worse by reac@ng and you don’t want to do that. You want to
just seem very calm and strong and solid and really show up that way as her
rock. And it’s easier than you think to just hold space and to be present and
to allow her to emote and release everything she needs so that she can
open up her body to pleasure and ecstasy.
When She Can’t Feel Anything

The next one is numbness in her G-‐Spot. And she might just say, “I don’t
feel anything. It doesn’t really feel like much.” And if she never even knew
she had a G-‐Spot to begin with and never directly s@mulated it before, then
chances are that her G-‐Spot might not be sensi@zed yet. Don’t worry. As I
said, it’s possible to sensi@ze an awakened sensa@on in her G-‐Spot, and the
best thing that you can do if she doesn’t feel much of anything is to first try
applying firmer pressure.
I will be soon just talking about the most sensi@ve areas of the G-‐Spot. If
you have tried a firm pressure to the whole sponge and around it and she
s@ll doesn’t feel much just keep prac@cing and s@mula@ng it and eventually
she’ll have sensa@on there, which is so cool that our bodies can do this.
When she’s aroused explore the area and have her pay aMen@on to even
slight @ngles and feelings there.
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And over @me I promise you, over @me and with prac@ce, awareness and
s@mula@on, you will find that you have a very sensi@ve and happy G-‐Spot
with full-‐on mul@ple orgasms and possibly female ejacula@on. If she feels
like she has to pee this is a very common response actually and when pres-‐
sure is applied to the G-‐Spot in fact this is oGen the way to know that you
are in fact on her G-‐Spot.
Part of the process of sensi@zing her G-‐Spot is by taking sensa@ons that
prior to might feel uncomfortable or they might feel strange and transform
them into arousal and orgasmic sensa@on. For example, if the feeling of
needing to pee isn’t something that she’s normally seen or has normally
been a feeling of arousal for her, then shiGing her consciousness and trans-‐
forming it into a pleasurable sensa@on might be something consider. It
might be a whole transi@on for her to reorient herself with her body and
these new sensa@ons.
When you’re opening her up into new sensa@ons that she’s never experi-‐
enced before be prepared for her to not necessarily have the most amazing
reac@on. She might say, “ That’s kind of strange” or “ That’s interes@ng.” But
what ends up happening is that she just doesn’t have the neural pathways
necessarily yet, those pleasure centers are not necessarily there yet. When
you’re working with the area and s@mula@ng it and con@nuously prac@cing
and puSng energy towards that part you’re awakening new neural path-‐
ways to pleasure for her and what could be seen as painful, numb or weird
or strange could all of the sudden become – I shouldn’t say all of the sud-‐
den – but over @me become something very, very, very pleasurable.
If you’re s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot and she complains that she feels like she
has to pee, then if you say something like, “Good, that’s a sign that I’m right
on your G-‐Spot. It might feel strange at first but if we prac@ce s@mula@ng it
over @me it might eventually feel really good and you might even experi-‐
ence a G-‐Spot orgasm”, so giving her that reassurance. Because you know
what’s going on. You’ll probably know more about women’s sexuality than
she will by leaps and bounds aGer this program.
You can really knock her socks off by having this informa@on already and if
she says, “Wow, man, how did you know that” or “Wow, is that really what’s
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happening”, I mean you can really impress her and she’ll say, “Wow, he’s…
Wow! That’s my man.” You’re going to impress her just with your knowl-‐
edge, I mean let alone your techniques.
The Perfect Duo

In the case where it feels like a pressure sensa@on I recommend adding
some clit s@mula@on with that and see if the combina@on of both is suc-‐
cessful and it’s arousing elixir for her. The G-‐Spot have different kind of
nerve endings than the clit and it’s a deeper sensa@on, one that at first can
feel unfamiliar and strange, but with prac@ce and the accompaniment of it’s
BFF, it’s best friend forever, the clit, the orgasmic possibili@es are endless.
OGen@mes in my workshops there have been many women that tell me
that their G-‐Spot feels strange when they s@mulate it for the first @me, and I
found that when I said, “Why don’t you s@mulate your clit simultaneously
and see how both of them feel together”, then I’m usually told that they are
able to feel intense pleasure and they understood how well the two actually
go together and how they really compliment each other.
Now For The Juicy Stuff

I want to tell you the most sensi@ve areas of the G-‐Spot, and my caveat in
revealing this informa@on is that you must find what works uniquely for
you. And when it comes to the G-‐Spot, geSng to know all of its dimensions
and awakening sensa@ons are the key. And here are the two most highly
sensi@ve part of the G-‐Spot. Are you ready? Number one is behind the
sponge.
Now that you’ve located that spongy mound with ridges you can feel its di-‐
mensions from the guMers – remember those guMers running along either
side as well as the back of the sponge, which actually tapers off. And one of

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the most highly sensi@ve parts of the G-‐Spot for many women is the spot
right behind the urethral sponge, which oGen aligns behind the clit inter-‐
nally. The best way to find this highly sensi@ve spot is if you use your fingers
so you know how far in you are when you reach it, and you’re curling your
fingers up in the come hither mo@on to get to the G-‐Spot.
Every woman’s anatomy is different in regards to this, so her special spot
might be a liMle farther back or slightly to the right or leG. When you use
the firm pressure on the spot right behind the sponge, fireworks might not
necessarily go off the first @me. In fact, she might be thinking, “Is this what
all the fuss is about?” Keep at it.
As I said earlier, the sensi@vity of the G-‐Spot can be awakened and it might
not feel pleasurable in the beginning. On the other hand, she might experi-‐
ence pleasure never before imagined. And even though every woman is dif-‐
ferent you can count on the fact that pleasure is a possible experience of
her G-‐Spot just like her clit, and it’s only a maMer of @me before she awak-‐
ens to her orgasmic poten@al. Have faith and trust in that process of awak-‐
enment.
And the other really exci@ng and highly sensi@zed part of the G-‐Spot for
many women is the front of the sponge; behind the sponge and then now
the front of the sponge. It’s another @@lla@ng and juicy hotspot. The front
of the sponge, the urethral sponge, is easier to find because it’s where the
urethral opening is. The urethra is a highly sensi@ve place, which has erec-‐
@le @ssue and it has several nerve endings surrounding it. As I said, I refer to
it as the u-‐spot.
Rubbing and tapping the spot and rubbing with a well lubricated finger or
penis is really important and this spot is highly pleasurable and can lead to
some explosive ejacula@on too, as well as heighter her arousal for mul@ple
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Get Out The Toys, Boys!
I would also like to talk about G-‐Spot toys. Manually s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot
can be uncomfortable. If she, for example, is s@mula@ng herself or it can be
uncomfortable for your fingers if you’re at it for a while; I also recommend
and checking out having handy some G-‐Spot toys that she can also try out
herself and that she can have and use to masturbate and prac@ce with and
help awaken her own G-‐Spot and do her own homework and research in
regards to that.
G-‐Spot toys can be extremely effec@ve in s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot and in ex-‐
ploring new ways to G-‐Spot pleasure and orgasm, and you can find G-‐Spot
toys on the internet and at sex posi@ve stores in most major ci@es. And G-‐
Spot toys are usually notable because they have a hooked shape and they
have the hooked shape to s@mulate the juicy spot behind the G-‐Spot and it
delighXully kind of pulls and tugs at the sponge while building up the ejacu-‐
late and building up the arousal.
I recommend buying her a fun and beau@ful G-‐Spot toy or even a couple to
try out. And oGen@mes these G-‐Spot toys are made out of pyrex or they’re
made out of glass. Glass ones are really nice. They’re made out of very firm
and hard material because the G-‐Spot really likes the hard pressure and
firmness. It doesn’t necessarily need vibra@on. Some women might like
that, and you might even want to experiment with that, but the G-‐Spot likes
firm pressure and a toy that is too flimsy might not feel like anything.
Remember the G-‐Spot needs that firm pressure in order to really start get-‐
@ng going and get ac@vated, so you want to find a toy that she’s going to
enjoy playing with, that’s beau@ful and it is probably going to be made out
of glass. I also highly recommend the toys that are made out of steel.
There’s these G-‐Spot toys that are made out of steel and they’re very wash-‐
able, they’re heavy, you can do pelvic floor exercises with them and they’re
just shaped really nicely.
The brand is Njoy and that’s a really good. They’re expensive but well worth
it. You can look online to gather and get excited about new toys, and more
expensive doesn’t always mean more pleasurable, although the one I just
recommended is $100 dollars. But remember that vibra@on can be good for
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the clit, it makes sense the clit likes that nice vibra@on, but the G-‐Spot is
more deep and hard and firm pressure and it likes this intense rhythmic
rocking kind of energy and s@mula@on.
Come Hither or Cum Hither

I wanted to talk about the come hither, which is one of the best ways to
s@mulate the G-‐Spot. The famous come hither approach and since you now
know that behind the urethral sponge is one of the most sensi@ve parts
aside from the front of the sponge, then s@mulate it with the come hither
mo@on is the most effec@ve in building up her orgasmic energy and even as
well as the ejaculate.
By doing this you’re essen@ally milking the G-‐Spot by geSng her nice and
engorged and erect and filled with fluid. Start by taking two fingers – actu-‐
ally one to start. Start by taking one finger, yes, and s@mula@ng from behind
the sponge forward with firm pressure. And then you’re always going to
start with one finger and then build up to more, you’re always going to start
a liMle bit slower then build up to faster, you’re always going to start with
less pressure and build up to more pressure, unless she is barking orders for
you to do other…
If she says jump you say how high. Do this over and over and over again
with the varia@ons of speed and pressure and with her, communica@ng with
her too and checking in with her, and no@ce how engorged her G-‐Spot gets
when you do this. You might even hear the ejaculate sloshing around, and I
recommend star@ng, really experimen@ng with your come hither mo@ons
and again geSng crea@ve with it and leSng her be your guide. “Babe, what
happens if we try this windshield wiper kind of effect”, and you can do
something where you’re taking your fingers and you’re kind of ac@ng like a
windshield wiper.
Or you can do one where you’re kind of doing pulsa@ons with your finger
and you’re kind of keeping it straight but just kind of vibra@ng and kind of
tapping the G-‐Spot with your fingers internally. You might want to be going
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in and out with your fingers or you might want to be staying inside and do-‐
ing some more subtle movements and deeper firmer pressure behind the
sponge. And then you might also want to be incorpora@ng the front of the
sponge.
Once you’ve got her G-‐Spot nice and juiced up complete with the sloshing
sounds where you can really hear the fluid and the ejaculate building up,
you’re going to probably say, “All right, I’m off to a preMy great start here”,
perhaps it might be @me to incorporate the urethra or the front of the ure-‐
thral sponge as I had men@oned earlier, and this is a very sensi@ve part of
the G-‐Spot, and running your fingers near the opening of the vaginal canal
in combina@on with this deep firm pressure and the come hither mo@on is
a great way to really get her juices flowing.
Combined With Deeper Thrusting

Near the entrance of the vaginal canal is where her urethra is and explore
this yummy, yummy, yummy area when she’s really turned on. Again, you’re
exploring it with the flat of your finger. You’re not poking her urethra, you
don’t want to poke at it. You want to use, your penis will feel so good
against the front of her sponge, the u-‐spot. Definitely highly recommend
using your penis as, whether you’re hard or not, as a way to s@mulate her u-‐
spot, her clit, and tease her. It’s the opening of the vaginal canal is such a
yummy place for women.
That’s where the G-‐Spot is, the urethral sponge, the glands that fill with
ejaculate, that’s where a lot of the amazing good sensa@on is having, as
well as deep within when you get more towards the cervix. Really experi-‐
ment with the shallow s@mula@on, intercourse wise, or even with your fin-‐
gers too, combined with this deeper thrus@ng and deep s@mula@on, and
just kind of see what gets her going more if she’s more responsive to like
this more rhythmic shallow thrus@ng or like the really deep or combina@on
of both. Get crea@ve.

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Reassure Her
She might feel as you’re rubbing her urethra that she has to pee or that she
might accidentally pee. This is a normal sensa@on and over @me she will
come to associate it with ejacula@ng. Just reassure her that this is normal
and to just feel free to let go even if she’s convinced that it’s pee. When you
get into s@mula@ng the G-‐Spot there’s this con@nuous pee feeling that
comes up and it’s a sign that she most likely needs to ejaculate or just that
you’re s@mula@ng the urethra and that’s where you normally pee and that’s
what most women associate with s@mula@on of the urethra with is what
they know, which is peeing.
When the ejaculate is building up the pressure with the ejaculate can make
her feel like she has to pee but if you reassure her and tell her that she can
let go, this can help liberate her in terms of ejacula@on. And oGen@mes
that’s what the case is. And remind her that it’s okay to make a mess and
that there are plenty of towels that you put down ahead of @me so she has
nothing to worry about.
This is important. Tell her that if she does end up peeing instead of ejaculat-‐
ing that that’s okay too and that you’re not going to judge her in any way.
Let her know that you find it sexy when she feels free and uninhibited and
lets herself go. And you can even have her pee beforehand before she starts
the session so that she just doesn’t have to worry about it.
That’s my word of advice too is just that when you start working with the u-‐
spot and with the G-‐Spot there’s going to be that pee feeling and if she
knows what it is versus just this fear of it could be having to pee, then she’ll
just be able to let go and release it if she needs to, if it feels good to do so,
or just not feel self conscious or like she really has to hold back. You have
the front of her urethral, how it feels for her when you rub the front of the
urethral sponge, gently at first and then you alternate that with deeper and
firm pressure behind the sponge with that come hither mo@on.
You can also try taking the flat of your hand and tapping or lightly slapping
the front of the urethral opening. This might sound like it’s painful, but note
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that you’re not doing it hard and that you can control how hard you’re do-‐
ing it and that you’re also leSng her be your guide when it comes to that.
There’s something about this mo@on of the tapping, the firm rubbing or the
slapping or the flap, flap, flap, which you can do with the head of your penis
against her urethral opening. And that actually gets the ejaculate to squirt
out spontaneously, and she’s kind of feeling like she can’t really let it go but
she needs to ejaculate, that some@mes help and there’s some other points
too here that I don’t want you to lose sight of when we’re talking about the
G-‐Spot, is the G-‐Spot and the clit go so well together and this is key for
mul@ple orgasms and for orgasmic experiences in general.
When you’re working with G-‐Spot explora@on I highly recommend simulta-‐

neously s@mula@ng her clit. It’s important in the beginning for her to under-‐
stand the sensa@ons in her G-‐Spot first without other types of s@mula@on
so she can really feel what’s happening there, and the more she focuses her
energy on the G-‐Spot sensa@ons, the more she can really understand and
sensi@ze the area. But the G-‐Spot and the clit are very complimentary. If
s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot feels spectacular and then s@mula@ng the clit feels
really good and heavenly, then put them together and you have a perfect
recipe for mul@ple – I did say mul@ple – blended orgasms, as well as the
possibility of juice ejaculatory orgasms as well. Some@mes when the G-‐Spot
s@mula@on alone feels strange
I recommend incorpora@ng the clit s@mula@on to help get her more
aroused. If clitoral orgasms or s@mula@on is what’s familiar to her start with
what she knows and is comfortable first and then weave in the unknown so
her body has an opportunity to blend the familiar with the unfamiliar. And
over @me knowing that more is possible she will crave both and she will
learn how to work with both the G-‐Spot and the clit together and receive
that kind of s@mula@on.
How this relates to mul@ple orgasms is that because all the energy is just
not focused in the clitoris, she can have buildup towards – first of all she’s
having heightened sensa@on because she’s having not one, but two differ-‐
ent types of ero@c sensa@ons happening, so she’s more apt to feel more
pleasure and ero@cism in her body, and now you know the techniques
building up the energy and teasing her and checking with her for guidance,
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as well as the hotspots of the best and most sensi@zed spots of the G-‐Spot.
You put that all together and she’s going to build up towards an orgasm.
This isn’t going to be the type of orgasms that ends with her not wan@ng to
be touched aGerwards or not having her be too sensi@zed to be touched,
because the energy, the ero@c energy is being dispersed throughout her
en@re vagina, not just focused right on her clit. She’s going to want to keep
going, and that’s the beauty of working with the G-‐Spot is it really helps and
it makes it a whole different experience of orgasm.
When you’re working with both of those together – and I’m going to even
do an exercise of the blended orgasm so you really understand that process
so she can get to mul@ple orgasms. And remember that the blended or-‐
gasm consis@ng of both clitoral and G-‐Spot orgasm is the number on way
that women have mul@ple orgasms and ejaculate. I also highly recommend
geSng her to the edge of a clitoral orgasm and then s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot
without clitoral s@mula@on for a while.
You’re going to build up the arousal in her G-‐Spot and then switch the clit
again when she is ready. Try working them back and forth and then puSng
them together. Playing with both together is a great way to get her aroused
and really juicy. It’s kind of like the G-‐Spot/clit dance.
What’s Next?
Next we are going to talk about different ways to s@mulate her G-‐Spot manually,
with toys, with dildos, with your penis, anally and some more about the blended
orgasm and mul@ple orgasms, as well as some more @ps and techniques.
Now it’s @me to move on to Segment 5, the G-‐Spot Ac@va@on Formula.

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