CH13 Amazing Sex Games and Play in Marriage

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The document provides 44 different games and activities for married couples to engage in together to enhance intimacy and passion.

Some of the games and activities described include playing with body paints, engaging in foreplay over the phone, giving massages with different oils, having partially clothed sex, and creating a 'pleasure pack' with various intimacy items.

Some tips provided for enhancing intimacy include going for drives together, stargazing, making love in front of the fireplace or among fallen leaves, visiting places with privacy for intimacy, and putting scented candles and flowers in the bedroom.

44 Games to Play 1. Play artist or painter.

Use edible body paints or sauces like chocolate or strawberry to decorate your partners body. Paint your design on your spouse over as much of their body as possible, and then lick it off. Work your way to the naval. Avoid putting anything in the vagina or any recess in the body as it can cause an infection. Create a target with the paint and give your spouse 30 or 60 seconds to clear that mark using their mouth. Each side gets a number of chances to do finish the job. 2. Have aural sex with your spouse. Call them up from a location where you have privacy and cant be overheard. Then, tease and talk about what you did last time you made love or what you would like to do in coming rendezvous. 3. Massage each other with different kinds of oils, scented, flavored, or self-heating. Slide your bodies over each other. If you will be using a condom, avoid the genitals, or ensure that you both shower, and wash away the oil, before sex. 4. Have sex partially clothed. Ladies, meet your man at the door, start to undress your husband by unzipping his pants, but dress yourself in a trench coat with nothing on underneath. Make love standing or on an unusual location like in the laundry room or bathroom counter.

5. Create a pleasure pack with various types of condoms (you can buy assorted kinds pre-packaged) and combine with massage oils, and water-based lubricants, fruit flavored mints. Place this pleasure back in a secret location and only bring out certain things when the mood is right. 6. Create your own board game. You can buy a used board game and replace the squares and markers with your own directions. 7. Play strip dice: Create a list with numbers one through 12. Each one represents one item of clothing to be removed. The winner is one who gets their spouse's clothes off first. For example: 1. Jacket 2. Shirt 3. Pants 4. Bra or T-shirt 5. Belt 6. Necklace 8. Play sexy dice. There should be two colors: One dice represents a body part and the other represents an action you must do with the accompanying body part. Dice One 1. Nipples 2. Neck 3. Genitals 4. Inner thigh 5. Belly Button 6. Feet. Dice Two 1. Massage 2. Kiss 3. Stroke 4. Nibble 5. Lick 6. Suck 9. A variation of the dice game is to play spin the bottle and add different foreplay options. 10. Play strip-dice, this time the person with lowest score gets to take one item of clothing off in a seductive way. 11. Play your usual card games, but raise the stakes. For each loss, the spouse has to remove one article of clothing the other one dictates. First one naked loses.
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12. When eating dinner in a restaurant write a sexual suggestion and give it to your spouse. 13. If restaurant has a long tablecloth use your foot to turn your spouse on. 14. Pretend you are on your honeymoon and can't get enough of each other, feed each other, suck or lick each others fingers. 15. Take a ripe cherry or strawberry and use it to caress your spouse's lips. Take a nibble and put the rest in his or her mouth. 16. Take a ripe mango or kiwi and rub it on your spouses body and then lick it over. 17. Share an ice cube from mouth to mouth.

18. Dust your spouse's body with talcum powder and use an ice cube to make patterns and use the tingle of cold on hot skin. 19. Put a large plastic sheet on the floor. Cover each others body with oil and have a wrestling or sumo match. 20. In the next few months never have sex the same way twice in a row. Vary the position, location, and foreplay that we cover in the book. 21. Toss a coin to see who gets to be on top while having sex.
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22. Play zoo and pretend you are the animal of your choice. Be wild, make noises and pretend to make love that way. 23. Wear old clothes, and rip each others clothes off before sex. 24. Blindfold each other and undress each other slowly and sensually, touching and caressing each part of the body your hands come into contact with. 25. Put a tent in the backyard and sleep under the stars in the same backpack. 26. Watch TV with your spouse in the family room with a blanket over you. Let your fingers do the walking and fool around only when commercials come on. Turn down the volume and create your own dialogue or voice over for fun. 27. Watch a sunrise or sunset together. If it is over a lake or near the ocean even better. Take along snacks, blanket, and chair. 28. When its raining go for a walk or drive together. Play in the puddles. Men carry the umbrella for your wife, and kiss at certain spots. Drive up to a remote location and make creative foreplay but be sure that you won't be stopped by the police and onlookers. 29. Recreate a cascading waterfall by changing your showerhead and using the island theme music. Make love in this tropical setting.

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30. Get into the island theme by donning a Hawaiian shirt and shorts and for ladies a Hawaiian dress. Pick up artificial or real flowers, get a coconut and puncture two holes in the eyes and drink with a straw. 31. Create the jungle theme by donning a net or gauze around your bed and suspend from the ceiling. 32. Some airports have side roads where citizens can go and see planes landing and taking off. Find a secluded spot and as long as it is not an area where police or security roams, have fun. 33. Drive out of the city into the country and go star gazing at night. Take a blanket, and enjoy. 34. Buy glow in the dark stars and planets. Either suspend or stick them on the ceiling above your bed. 35. Go shopping together. It could be for lingerie, or see-through dress, or an elegant dress with elbowlength gloves, or a style that you would never dress ingothic or Hells Angels with leather pants and long boots. Even if you don't buy, window shopping and trying outfits out can be fun. Beware of exposing yourself in front of security cameras. Of course you can always buy and try them in the privacy of your home. 36. Have a wet T-shirt contest in the shower or in the backyard with a garden hose or soaker guns. 37. With all the different extended foreplay and slow sex techniques shared, have a love making marathon to see how long you can make passion last. We are not advocating spending a whole day, as there are other important things in life, but just to push your selves. 38. Put floral scented candles and potpourri in the bedroom. Sprinkle the bed with talcum powder or better still get roses from your florist that are wilted and sprinkle on your bed sheets.

39. Make love in front of the fireplace. Snuggle up with a blanket and sweaters. 40. Rake leaves in fall and in the backyard crash in onto them and make love. 41. If you have an outdoor jacuzzi with privacy, use it for fun. 42. Go to the movies and sit in the back row and flirt with each other. 43. Borrow or rent a luxury or sports car and drive down country roads. Find a secluded spot and go wild. 44. Play the Playful wave. Put on any music with a sensual rhythm, sit facing each other and make eye contact. Reach out and meet your partners hand and move your hands as if you were dancing.

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26 A-Z Descriptive Phrases of What Married Couples Do 1. Affection: show you are adoring, caring, considerate, devoted, loving. 2. Beauty: show your inner and outer beauty by being attractive, charming, elegant, graceful, and loving. 3. Cherish: esteem, prize, treasure, cultivate, foster, nurture your partner. 4. Delight: enjoyment, gladness, happiness, joy, pleasure. 5. Endless: be in the present continual, eternal, perpetual, unceasing, unending, timeless. 6. Faithful: be constant, steady, steadfast, true. 7. Genial: warmly, pleasant, cheerful. 8. Happiness: bliss, cheerfulness, contentment, delight, joyfulness, optimism. 9. Infinite and inspiring: endless, limitless, unbounded, immeasurable & exciting, exhilarating, motivating. 10. Jovial: hearty, joyous humor, and a spirit of fellowship. 11. Kinky: (just a little) naughty, nibbling, tease, tantalizing. 12. Loyalty: allegiance, constancy, devotion, faithfulness, fidelity. 13. Magnanimous: generous, forgiving, open-minded. 14. Noble: august, royal, ethical, moral, virtuous, honorable. 15. Only: alone, entirely, exclusively, solely. 16. Priceless: precious, inestimable, invaluable, valuable. 17. Quaint: old-fashioned attractiveness or charm. 18. Renew: regenerate, restart, refresh, rekindle, honor. 19. Sincere: genuine, honest, real, heartfelt. 20. Tenderness: affection, gentleness.
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21. Unselfish: selfless, self-sacrificing, converge, join, meet, merge, unify. 22. Virtuous: intense, strong, vivid, dynamic, energetic, vigorous. 23. Worthy: compassionate, sympathetic, tender, capable, deserving, desirable. 24. eXpert: educated, responsible, learned. 25. Yogic: union of the self with God, universal soul, or ultimate principle. 26. Zenith: the summit, the highest point.

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