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Emotional

intelligence
The Key to Effective Communication
01 - What’s emotional intelligence?
02 - EI’s core elements
03 -People with high EI
INDEX 04- The strength EI
05- The weaknesses of EI
06- Example
07 - Conclusions
What is emotional
intelligence?
Emotional intelligence (EI), also known as emotional quotient (EQ), refers to the ability to
successfully comprehend, use, and control emotions. It is a critical skill that may help
people succeed in both personal and professional relationships.
Psychologists Peter Salovey and John D. Mayer brought the concept of emotional
intelligence to prominence in the early 1990s, and author and psychologist Daniel
Goleman popularized it.
Core elements of Emotional
Intelligence
1. Self-awareness: the ability to identify, understand, and manage your own emotions, as well as
being aware of how these emotions influence your thoughts and behaviors.

2. Self-regulation: The ability to effectively manage and regulate one's emotions, particularly in
challenging or stressful circumstances, which includes the capacity to suppress impulsive reactions.

3. Motivation: Using emotions to drive us towards our goals.

4. Empathy: The ability to understand and share the emotions of others, which involves perceiving
and comprehending the feelings of those around you.

5. Social skills: The ability to establish and maintain positive relationships, communicate effectively
across diverse perspectives, resolve conflicts respectfully, and work collaboratively towards shared
goals.
"PEOPLE WITH HIGH
EI ARE OFTEN
DESCRIBED AS..."
Empathetic as they can comprehend and share the emotions of
others.
Assertive as They can communicate their demands and feelings
clearly and confidently.
Adaptable as they can adapt to new conditions and changes.
Resilient because they can deal with stress and setbacks.
STRENGTHS OF EI

Emotional intelligence facilitates the understanding and respect for others'


Improved communication and
emotions, leading to more effective communication and empathetic interactions
empathy (Lopes et al., 2003).

Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in successful leadership and


Improved leadership collaboration by empowering individuals to grasp and regulate their own
emotions as well as the emotions of others (Goleman, Boyatzis, & McKee,
2002).

Individuals with strong emotional intelligence are better equipped to handle


Better Conflict Resolution disagreements constructively, leading to more positive and mutually beneficial
Skills: resolutions (Brackett et al., 2019).
WEAKNESSES OF EI
Subjectivity Personal biases can impact EI assessments, which are frequently subjective.

EI does not always ensure success. People with high EI may nonetheless make
Lack of predictive power terrible judgments or fail in their careers.

EI norms differ among cultures. What one culture considers a normal emotional
Cultural differences response may be judged improper in another.

Individuals with high EI may nonetheless struggle in some settings to


Misinterpretation of comprehend and interpret the emotions of others.
emotions

Manipulation If not employed correctly, EI can be taken advantage of to influence people.


EXAMPLE
In the past, I struggled with being a good listener to my friends due to my
ADHD and tendency to get easily distracted. I would often share my
problems with them, but I would rarely pay attention when they shared
theirs. This led to them feeling upset and believing that I didn't care about
their feelings. One day, a close friend stopped confiding in me and started
talking to others instead. Concerned about losing this friendship, I
approached her to understand why she had changed her behavior. She
confronted me about my inattentive listening habits. Since that
conversation, I have made a conscious effort to improve my listening skills
and become more empathetic towards others.
Conclusion
Recognize your own prejudices: Recognize how your own personal biases may impact your
appraisal of the emotions of others.
Seek feedback from others: Request feedback on your emotional intelligence from friends,
family, and colleagues.
Discover different cultures: Learn about different cultures and how EI norms change
amongst them.
Exercise self-control: Develop healthy coping techniques for dealing with your own
emotions.
Use your EI for good: Build solid relationships and assist people by utilizing your EI.
References
Goleman, D. (1995). Emotional Intelligence. Bantam Books. Mayer, J. D., & Salovey, P. (1997). What
is emotional intelligence? In P. Salovey & D. J. Sluyter (Eds.), Emotional Development and
Emotional Intelligence: Implications for Educators (pp. 3-31). Basic Books. Bar-On, R. (1997). Bar-
On Emotional Quotient Inventory (EQ-i): Technical Manual. Multi-Health Systems. Matthews, G.,
Zeidner, M., & Roberts, R. (2002). Emotional intelligence: Science and myth. MIT Press Salovey, P.,
& Mayer, J. D. (1990). Emotional intelligence. Imagination, Cognition and Personality, 9(3), 185-211.
references
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