𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐞? What should a leader do when: - A team member consistently misses their responsibilities? - There’s always a reason - an excuse - but no accountability? - I feel like I’m walking on eggshells to avoid upsetting them? It’s frustrating, especially when I can’t afford to lose them, and taking on their role myself isn’t an option. 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝟏: 𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 - Are the accountabilities clear? Do they know what’s expected of them? - Is this a matter of skill, motivation, or external factors? - What’s the impact on the team and organizational goals? 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝟐: 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐎𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 - Invest in Development: Provide training or coaching to address gaps. - Reassign and Restructure: Can we redistribute tasks or hire support? - Set Clear Boundaries: Establish non-negotiables and monitor progress. But moments like these aren’t just about the other person. They’re an invitation for me, as a leader, to reflect: 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐦 𝐈 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐝𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐜? - Do I avoid conflict or hesitate to confront performance issues directly? - Am I enabling this behavior by accepting excuses instead of driving accountability? - What unspoken messages might my communication or actions send to the team? 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐈 𝐚𝐝𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡? - 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲: Am I setting crystal-clear expectations and holding people accountable? - 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐯𝐬. 𝐁𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬: Am I balancing understanding their challenges with protecting the organization’s goals? - 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞: Do I face difficult conversations confidently, or delay them? 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 - 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐩. These situations often mirror unspoken dynamics: - 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐬: What if I lose this person and can’t replace them? - 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐲: Am I over-prioritizing avoiding conflict? - 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫: Sometimes, the behavior I see in my team points to changes I need to make in my leadership style. This is more than a practical dilemma; it’s a chance to grow as a leader. What do you think? When faced with a challenging team member, how do you balance personal growth, team needs, and organizational success? I’d love to hear your thoughts. #LeadershipChallenges #TeamManagement #ExecutiveCoaching #OrganizationalPsychology #CareerGrowth
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Are you the reason people are exiting both physically and emotionally? There is lots of talk about the importance of retaining talent, fostering collaboration, and building trust. BUT what about when the real issue is closer to home? Sometimes, leaders can unintentionally become the reason their team members withdraw, work in silos, avoid communication, or even resign! It’s painful to consider, but if people are disengaging, if collaboration is stalling, or if turnover is high, it’s worth asking the hard questions Why did it have to come to this? Why aren’t the signs being seen and acted upon? Why hasn’t anyone stepped in to give the feedback needed for growth? In reality, the signs are often clear if we’re willing to look. People may stop reaching out, go silent in meetings, or give up on bringing their best ideas to the table. These behaviours aren’t random, they’re often a response to leadership styles that might unintentionally stifle open dialogue, discourage teamwork, or prevent people from feeling safe. A call to action ✅ Take Accountability- Leadership means owning not only our achievements but also our impact on others. It’s about being self-aware enough to see when we’re the problem. ✅ Seek Candid Feedback - Don’t wait for someone to quit to find out why they’re unhappy. Create an environment where your team feels comfortable giving feedback without fear of repercussions. ✅ Address Your Blind Spots - We all have them. Invest time in self-reflection, coaching, or even formal development to become the leader people want to work with, not despite. Great leaders don’t just inspire performance; they inspire connection, trust, and commitment. Ensuring we’re leading in a way that brings out the best in our teams and makes them want to stay, collaborate, and grow alongside us is essential for both ourselves and the business we operate in. Don't be the reason your people walk away. Be the reason they stay and thrive. ___________________________ After three decades of senior leadership, 15,000+ hours of coaching, and the adventure of building, scaling, and selling a business, one thing’s crystal clear. I’m here to make a real difference. My passion? Helping clients level up their lives, careers, and the teams they lead, all while keeping things fun and meaningful. Whether you're looking to achieve big goals, make lasting changes, or just shake things up, I’m all in! Curious how I can help you? Then book a free consultation, link in my bio.
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Here's a Recipe for Toxic Leadership and Failure... Picture this: a mid-level manager at a renowned company, driven and intelligent, but with a leadership style that was a recipe for disaster. This is the story of a client I'll call "John." John was intelligent and driven and wanted his team to excel. But his leadership style was a textbook example of what not to do. He constantly hovered over his team, believing no one could do the job as well as he could, so he controlled every detail. John's behavior stifled creativity and left his team feeling undervalued. He rarely took the time to understand his team's personal and professional challenges. He saw their problems as distractions, leading to disengagement and resentment. He was notorious for withholding information, and his team never knew what was expected of them or why certain decisions were made. One day, John would praise an approach; the next, he'd criticize it, creating confusion and stress. John had a few favorites who could do no wrong. Others, regardless of their hard work, felt overlooked and unappreciated. When things went wrong, John was quick to point fingers. He never accepted responsibility, which destroyed trust within the team. The perfect recipe for leadership failure! The consequences were severe. The team's morale plummeted, stress levels soared, and productivity took a nosedive. Once motivated and engaged, employees now did the bare minimum to get by. The company's reputation suffered, making attracting top talent challenging. But there was hope. Upper management stepped in, giving John an ultimatum: change or leave. He chose to change, and we began the leadership coaching process that included a multi-rater approach to assess and get input. Key areas we focused on were empathy, communication, and consistency. Over time and with hard work, John learned to trust his team, listen to their concerns, and provide clear, consistent guidance. The transformation was gradual but significant. The team's morale improved, productivity increased, and the toxic atmosphere dissipated. John's story powerfully reminds us that leadership styles can make or break a team and a career. Recognizing toxic traits and working towards creating a healthy, supportive work environment is essential. For leaders and aspiring leaders, this is a wake-up call. Cultivate inspiring and engaging leadership styles, not draining and demoralizing ones. Ready to transform your leadership approach? Let's connect! Join the conversation and share your thoughts on the impact of toxic leadership. Have you encountered a leader like John? How did you overcome it? Please share below! #LeadershipDevelopment #LeadershipCoaching #TeamSuccess #HealthyWorkEnvironment
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𝗜𝗻 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲, 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝘀𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝘂𝘁 -- 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻. This insight unveils a critical aspect of effective leadership during turbulent times. Let's explore how we can harness the power of empathetic listening to navigate change: • 𝗔𝗰𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗱𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗘𝗹𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁: Change isn't just about processes or strategies - it's deeply personal. Recognizing this is the first step to effective leadership. • 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘇𝗲 𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆: "We need to feel listened to, like somebody is hearing us and empathizing with whatever is going on for us." Empathy isn't just nice to have; it's essential for guiding teams through transition. • 𝗔𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲: "You're going to have members of your team who are not going to manage to change well." Expect and prepare for varying levels of adaptability within your team. • 𝗖𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗦𝗮𝗳𝗲 𝗦𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲𝘀: "You need to find a way to hear them and you need to find a way so that they feel heard." Cultivate an environment where team members feel safe expressing their concerns. • 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴: "Really listening to them and feeding back some of their words to them." This technique ensures your team members feel truly understood. • 𝗩𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀: Recognizing and validating emotions can be incredibly powerful in building trust and resilience. • 𝗘𝗺𝗯𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝘆: Far from being a 'soft' skill, empathy is a crucial tool for effective leadership and team cohesion. 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘀𝗼 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘁𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁. Using empathetic listening, leaders can build the trust and understanding necessary to guide their teams through even the most challenging transitions. In a business world that often prioritizes speed and efficiency, your ability to slow down and truly listen could be the differentiator that sets your leadership apart. 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴? P.S. Can you recall a time when feeling truly heard made a significant difference in your ability to navigate change? 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗿? 𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗼 "𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽: 𝗙𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗘𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗠𝗶𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗔𝗱𝗼𝗽𝘁 𝗡𝗼𝘄" 𝗼𝗻 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗲𝗱𝗜𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗴𝗮𝗺𝗲-𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲. https://lnkd.in/eRn5mdpY
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5 years ago, burgers and coffee became my primary diet. I used to decline all the gathering invitations from my family, and slowly, the calls + texts from them stopped coming ( & I totally get it). But the worst was…When my daughter scored the winning goal in a football match, I wasn’t there to see it - GUILT till today. That’s when I realized that I spent most of my time in the office and rarely at home. Today, I am filled with deep gratitude. - Being present - Feeling Fulfilled - Remote work-culture - In good body, mind and soul Here’s the thing: I changed my way of leading TransforMe Learning & Leadership Solutions A leader who held onto old approaches. ↓ A leader who adapts and inspires. That’s why I stress the importance of evolving leadership to stay relevant in 2024 and beyond. Like I can’t expect my team to try new approaches if I’m not setting the right example through my own behavior. Do you agree? then, Hi5 👋 So, the takeaway here is: → Leaders should FOCUS on: Continuous evolving leadershing To walk my talk, I challenge myself with 5 check-in questions every morning. Here it goes: 1/ When did I try something new for the first time? ↳ (To show others how to lead by example.) 2/ What new strategy/approach have I added to help my team trust each other faster? ↳ ( To fail fast and learn, then they'll build closer connections with each other.) – That’s how real friendships are made.) 3/ Do I tell my team – forget the data—what are 3 personal reflections you had in the last quarter? ↳ ( To develop learning-based reviews > project-based reviews at the workplace) 4/ Am I encouraging honest, direct & candid feedback, or or am I acting as a messenger between people? ↳ ( To build a stronger, more transparent team culture) 5/ Do I acknowledge and celebrate the progress my team makes, or wait for the final outcome to give remarks? ↳ (To build team morale and strengthen relationship) Think of new ways to do old things, and you’ll bring in the right people and best opportunities in your life. That's why, ‘Evolve’ is my word for 2024. PS: What’s yours?? #gatikchaujer #storytelling #team #coaching #coach #leadership #leaders
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Attention: Working Professionals, New Leaders, Corporate Professionals, Sales Professionals Treat others and speak to them, the way you would like them to you. 🌟 Emotional Intelligence: The Key to Effective #Leadership and #Communication 🌟 In the realm of leadership, technical skills may get you through the door, but #Emotional Intelligence (EI) is what keeps you in the room. It’s the ability to recognize, understand, and manage your own emotions while also recognizing and influencing the emotions of others. Let me share a quick story about Maya, a newly appointed team leader in a fast-paced corporate environment. Initially, she struggled with her team’s dynamics. Deadlines were missed, and conflicts brewed. Frustrated, she decided to confront her team with more authority, only to find resistance and a drop in morale. After reflecting on her approach, Maya realized she needed to connect with her team on an emotional level. She organized a casual team lunch where everyone could share not just their work-related challenges but also their personal stories. This simple act of openness revealed that many team members were grappling with stressors outside of work. By practicing #empathy and acknowledging her team’s struggles, Maya transformed the atmosphere. She learned to validate their feelings, offer support, and adapt her leadership style. As a result, team collaboration skyrocketed, and projects were completed ahead of schedule. Why #EmotionalIntelligence Matters: 🎯 Enhances Relationships Understanding emotions fosters trust and creates a safe space for team members to express themselves. 🎯 Improves Decision-Making Emotional awareness allows leaders to navigate complex situations with greater insight and clarity. 🎯 Inspires Engagement Leaders with high EI motivate their teams by recognizing individual strengths and addressing concerns effectively. In today’s fast-paced environment, honing your #emotionalintelligence isn’t just beneficial; it’s essential. Elevate your leadership by #communicating and #connecting with your team on a deeper level. Learning: #Emotionalintelligence isn’t a soft skill; it’s a #leadership necessity. Practice #empathy, stay self-aware, and focus on building emotional connections with your team. B By doing so, you’ll create a culture of trust, loyalty, and high performance. To help you become a leader with confident #communication and impactful #presentationskills, type 'ME' in the comment for a FREE 1 to 1 clarity call. #leadership #emotionalintelligence #teamwork #corporateculture #communicationskills #leadershipdevelopment #presentationskills #communicationskills #brainexpansiongroup #mumbaihrgroup #organisationdevelopmentgroup #grownsucceedwithnaresh
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2wRaya Belinsky,Great insights, Raya! Balancing empathy, clarity, and boundaries is key. Reflecting on our own leadership approach helps drive accountability and strengthen the team.