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Supporting parents of premature babies through trauma, mental health, & NICU. Services include speaker, blog, podcast, retreats, and resources. Upcoming books Tiny Miracles & Tiny Heroes empower parents at every step.

Navigating Sleep Deprivation: When Fun and Exhaustion Collide This weekend, my daughter had a sleepover with her auntie and cousin. Her cousin is one of her best friends, so as you can imagine, they stayed up late laughing, playing, and chatting. It was a night full of joy—but little sleep. By Sunday, the lack of rest started to catch up with her. She was completely overwhelmed, deregulated, and struggling to manage her emotions. As a parent, I felt the strain too, especially as we had to make the tough decision to reduce sensory input for the rest of the day. The Heartbreaking Moment It was particularly hard because reducing stimulation meant she missed out on festive activities with her cousin, including visiting Santa. By the time Santa came out, she had fallen asleep, completely exhausted. Watching her miss out on something we had been so excited about was heartbreaking, but in that moment, her rest and regulation had to come first. How We Coped Managing a sleep-deprived child (and parent!) can feel overwhelming, but here’s what helped us navigate the day: 1. Prioritising Rest: Keeping the environment quiet and calm gave her a chance to recharge, even if it meant missing out on some activities. 2. Simplifying the Day: I kept the schedule light, with no expectations beyond making her feel safe and supported. 3. Recognising Emotional Needs: She needed lots of cuddles, reassurance, and patience—because tiredness amplifies everything. 4. Taking Time for Myself: When possible, I stepped away briefly to catch my breath and reset. Parenting while exhausted is no easy task! Moments like these are tough. As parents, we want to give our children every opportunity for joy, but sometimes their needs (and ours) require a different path. I remind myself that the missed moments are temporary, but the love and connection we build in these challenging times will last a lifetime. How do you handle these kinds of days when sleep deprivation takes its toll? I’d love to hear your tips or strategies! #Parenting #SleepDeprivation #NeurodiverseParenting #FestiveSeason #SelfCare

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