Navigating Sleep Deprivation: When Fun and Exhaustion Collide This weekend, my daughter had a sleepover with her auntie and cousin. Her cousin is one of her best friends, so as you can imagine, they stayed up late laughing, playing, and chatting. It was a night full of joy—but little sleep. By Sunday, the lack of rest started to catch up with her. She was completely overwhelmed, deregulated, and struggling to manage her emotions. As a parent, I felt the strain too, especially as we had to make the tough decision to reduce sensory input for the rest of the day. The Heartbreaking Moment It was particularly hard because reducing stimulation meant she missed out on festive activities with her cousin, including visiting Santa. By the time Santa came out, she had fallen asleep, completely exhausted. Watching her miss out on something we had been so excited about was heartbreaking, but in that moment, her rest and regulation had to come first. How We Coped Managing a sleep-deprived child (and parent!) can feel overwhelming, but here’s what helped us navigate the day: 1. Prioritising Rest: Keeping the environment quiet and calm gave her a chance to recharge, even if it meant missing out on some activities. 2. Simplifying the Day: I kept the schedule light, with no expectations beyond making her feel safe and supported. 3. Recognising Emotional Needs: She needed lots of cuddles, reassurance, and patience—because tiredness amplifies everything. 4. Taking Time for Myself: When possible, I stepped away briefly to catch my breath and reset. Parenting while exhausted is no easy task! Moments like these are tough. As parents, we want to give our children every opportunity for joy, but sometimes their needs (and ours) require a different path. I remind myself that the missed moments are temporary, but the love and connection we build in these challenging times will last a lifetime. How do you handle these kinds of days when sleep deprivation takes its toll? I’d love to hear your tips or strategies! #Parenting #SleepDeprivation #NeurodiverseParenting #FestiveSeason #SelfCare
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🤔Being a new parent comes with its share of challenges, from sleepless nights, overwhelming emotions to endless responsibilities. We get it. We want you to know that you’re not alone in this journey. At Upzeez, we understand the struggles you're facing. That's why we're here to share some valuable self-care tips, because we believe that nurture your own well-being is just as vital as tending to your precious little one. 🧡Prioritise Sleep: While it's challenging with a newborn, try to rest whenever possible. Take turns with your partner for night time feedings or naps during the day to catch up on sleep. 🧡Accept Help: Don't be afraid to ask for or accept help from friends and family. Whether it's someone bringing over a meal, doing laundry, or watching the baby while you take a break, accepting support can make a big difference. 🧡Eat Nutritious Meals: Fuel your body with healthy, nourishing foods to support your physical and mental well-being. Prepare easy-to-make meals and snacks in advance to save time and ensure you're getting proper nutrition. 🧡Exercise Regularly: Incorporate gentle exercise into your routine, such as walking, yoga, or stretching. Exercise can help boost your mood, increase energy levels, and reduce stress. 🧡Practice Mindfulness: Take moments throughout the day to check in with yourself and practice mindfulness. Whether through deep breathing exercises, mindful eating, or simply being present with your baby, mindfulness can help reduce anxiety and promote relaxation. 🧡Be Kind to Yourself: Remember that it's okay to feel overwhelmed, tired, or unsure at times. Be gentle with yourself and acknowledge that you're doing the best you can. Celebrate small victories and milestones, and don't hesitate to seek professional help if needed. 🧡Embracing the journey of motherhood with grace, resilience, and self-compassion is something to be celebrated and cherished. Remember, you are enough, and you're doing an incredible job. Keep shining brightly momma!🧡 💖 #ParentingJourney #SelfCare #UpZeezSupport" #ParentingStruggles #SelfCare #UpZeezSupport"
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Sleep—the elusive unicorn of new parenthood. We see you, and we understand how exhausting those sleepless nights can be. It feels like you're running on empty, trying to be and do everything for your baby and family while your body craves just a few hours of uninterrupted rest. How does one even function?! It does get better over time, but here are some tips to help you manage: Sleep When Your Baby Sleeps: It might sound cliché, but it works. Even short naps can help you catch up on rest. Share Nighttime Duties: If possible, take turns with your partner for nighttime feedings and diaper changes so both of you can get some rest. Prioritize Tasks: Let go of non-essential chores and focus on what really needs to be done. Your rest is more important than having a spotless home. Accept Help: Don’t hesitate to ask for or accept help from family and friends. Whether it’s someone watching the baby while you nap or helping with meals, every bit helps. Create a Sleep-Friendly Environment: Keep the room dark and quiet, and use white noise if needed. This will help both you and your baby sleep more soundly. Take Care of Yourself: Make sure you’re eating well and staying hydrated. Proper nutrition can help combat the effects of sleep deprivation. Rest When You Can: Even if you can't sleep, take time to rest. Sit down, close your eyes, and take deep breaths. Relaxing your body and mind can help recharge you. If sleep deprivation is severely affecting your well-being, please reach out! We are here to support you on your journey as a new parent. encircledtherapy.ca #NewParent #Sleepless #YYCMoms #MentalHealth #PerinatalTherapy #NewBabyTips #EncircledTherapy
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