I love this! Here’s 2 specific ways that I use positive self-talk to help me engage an audience: 1. Just before I’m about to hit the stage, whether for a keynote, workshop or comedy gig, I remind myself of what I need to do to get the results I want. Sometimes it’s a simple as “you’ve got this”, “listen and respond” or “take your time”. 2. When I actually hit the stage, I smile and think “welcome”, “I’m so glad you’re here” or “this is gonna be fun” while looking at the audience. This get me in an appreciative, present mindset that connects me to the audience and relaxes me so that I maximize my capacity to deliver with ease, joy and impact. I’d love to hear what works for you!
Positive self-talk makes all the difference in realizing your dreams or not. When you convince yourself that you *can* achieve them, you probably will. Let’s practice: leave a comment with a positive affirmation!
Oh man, watching someone demonstrate their brilliance, knowing what it took to get where they are, is so inspiring! One of the many reasons I enjoy co-facilitating with you, Ken. I love that your first example is self-focused, and your second one is audience-focused. Similar to Sabrina, I like to reframe nervousness as excitement. I also love to envision the positive impact the folks I'm working with will have on those around them, and on the world. Focusing on that ripple effect gets me out of my own brain and more connected to our shared purpose.
President at Evoke Consulting Inc., Author of FLAUNT
6moAgreed! Controversial viewpoint: What you say to yourself just before you take the stage matters as much prepping your content when it comes to performance.