Recently, I had a conversation with my 12-year-old nephew that gave me pause. He confided in me that he was feeling down because a girl turned him down when he asked her out. Initially, I chuckled—after all, he's just a kid; only 12 ! But then it hit me hard. Are we unintentionally burdening our children with adult emotions and pressures? Social media seems to have fast-forwarded their childhood, exposing them to expectations and rejections far beyond their years. It's as if their playground now includes navigating complex relationship dynamics and managing online personas before they've even mastered long division. Real education, one that is based on values, seems to be missing today. How many youngsters would without hesitating give up their bus seat for an elderly person or a physically challenged person? These acts of kindness and respect are as crucial as any lesson in algebra or history. In a world obsessed with grades and achievements, we often overlook the importance of teaching life skills. How to cope with failure, how to treat others with respect, how to handle disappointments—these lessons are just as vital as algebra and history. Real education should emphasize values and ideas alongside core subjects. When faced with a problem, it's often our ability to cope and our moral compass that guide us, not just our academic knowledge. Life itself is an exam, but its syllabus isn't always taught in the classroom. I believe it's time to rethink our educational priorities. As parents, educators, and mentors, it's on us to nurture the next generation not just academically, but as compassionate and resilient individuals. Our children deserve an education that prepares them not just for exams, but for life itself. I'm curious to hear your thoughts. What values do you think should be at the core of education today? Let's start a conversation in the comments below. Together, let's shape a brighter future for our youth—one where they thrive academically and emotionally. Follow ACHYUTHANAND MEEDINTI for more insights #Education #LifeSkills #Empathy #Resilience #Parenting #Mentoring
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"Your work is good, but your ideas are not as creative as David's. Work harder". "Sammy, I expected more from you. This is no longer kindergarten, remember?" Do those comments strike you as encouragement or pressure? Either way, you're correct. As teachers and parents, we do this all the time, which leaves our children feeling as did Sammy, a curious learner. He feels anxious due to his parents' emphasis on straight A's and comparisons to his siblings. He hesitates to participate in a science fair, fearing the oft-repeated refrain of not being "good enough." Got the message? Learning over grades👌. As mentors, we need to skillfully maintain an equipoise between extremes while shaping the lives of our dependents. Let me show you some ways to do just that. ✍️ Praise versus Criticism: Genuinely praise effort but offer constructive criticism to propel towards growth. ✍️ Challenge versus Onslaught: Stimulate them to progress but do not crush them with unrealistic expectations. ✍️ Freedom versus Guidance: Grant clearly defined age-appropriate choices but step in with needed boundaries (structure). ✍️ Nurturing versus Coddling: Provide emotional support /safety net but avoid throwing them a life raft indiscriminately. ✍️ Creativity versus Perfectionism: Encourage experimentation but do not obsess over flawlessness. ✍️ Self-esteem versus Ego: Build confidence in them but do not encourage an inflated sense of self. ✍️ Reward versus Entitlement: Appreciate good behaviour but do not give them absolute right (let them earn it, don't spoil them). Remember Sammy, at the beginning? His teacher reassured him that creativity and effort mattered most, and he rediscovered the joy of learning and self-expression, beaming with pride over his project, even though it didn't win a prize in the first stage. When we pressure our children and compare them to others, we damage their self-worth and turn hobbies into chores. Teach them to love learning, and the grades you wanted in the first place will follow. PS: What other extremes do you think we need to strike a balance with? I'd love to read those. #mondaymotivation #teachthechild #learningovergrades #education #teachers
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Positive affirmations for high school students can be a powerful tool to promote confidence, resilience, and a positive outlook on life. https://buff.ly/4f5kIbu #SelfWorth #Engagement #Purpose @Let's Learn Slang
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🌟 **The Power of Encouragement** 🌟 Teachers, remember: **your words have the power to inspire!** 🌈 In our daily hustle, it's easy to overlook the impact our encouragement can have on those around us. Today, I invite you to take a moment to uplift a colleague or a student. A simple “**I believe in you**” can ignite a spark of motivation that lasts a lifetime. As educators, we are not only shaping young minds but also nurturing their confidence and self-worth. Let’s make it a priority to lift each other up as we navigate this incredible journey together! 💬 Share your experiences in the comments: when was a time someone’s encouragement made a difference in your life? Let’s spread the positivity! Together, we can create a community of support and inspiration that echoes far beyond our classrooms. #Encouragement #Teachers #Education #Inspiration #Support #Collaboration #Motivation
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SHOUT OUT TO TEACHERS!!! *That took the time to know their students beyond the classroom. *That went to extra cirricular events of their students to support them. *That realized everyday the platform they have the privilege to stand on daily and impact lives for the future *That wasn’t just about the rules but also the relationship in meeting the needs of their students. *That took the time to not only invest in the academic but also the spiritual needs of their students. *That balanced the load of being a parent and also caring for the needs of their school kids. *That stayed up late praying for that kid that you knew struggled. *That stayed after school many a times to give extra help. *That took the time to visit the families of your kids. *That cared more about your kids and how they were doing more than getting your lesson done. *That took the time to explain the “WHY” more than just giving the “What”. *That didn’t forget what it was like to be a student and knew when to give them a break. *That didn’t just give homework to give homework. *That persevered even when your voice wasn’t heard by your administration. *That encouraged students to think outside the box *That focused in trying to reach the heart of their students and not just change their behavior *That encouraged kids that after they graduate, their path does not have to look the same as everyone else. *That reached out to the student who didn’t receive any awards of any kind, and congratulated them for the effort they gave and inspired them to do what they can *That realized that not every student is made for the classroom and that intelligence is not confined to tests and quizzes but hands on creativity *That even right now you still think about and pray for former students because you always see them as your kids. PRESS ON!!!!! T. Jones 🙏🏽❤️ #Teachers #studentsuccess #leadgeneration
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🌟 The Dilemma of 'To Do or Not To Do': Guiding Children Through Their Confusion 🌟 As parents, educators, and mentors, we often encounter children grappling with the timeless question: "To do or not to do?" At such a formative age, this dilemma can be both overwhelming and paralyzing. The plethora of choices can sometimes lead to confusion and hesitation. 🔍 Key Areas of Focus: Encouragement: Provide a supportive environment where they feel safe to express their thoughts and fears. Guidance: Offer gentle guidance rather than dictating decisions. Help them weigh the pros and cons. Exploration: Allow them to explore different activities and interests. This helps in self-discovery. Patience: Understand that hesitation is part of the learning process. Be patient as they navigate their paths. Our Role: We must equip children with the tools to make informed decisions. Teaching critical thinking, encouraging curiosity, and fostering a growth mindset are crucial. The Outcome: When children are empowered to make their own choices, they grow into confident, independent thinkers. Let's nurture their decision-making abilities and support them in every step of their journey. How do you help the children in your life navigate this dilemma? Share your thoughts and experiences below! 👇 #ChildDevelopment #Mentorship #Parenting #Education #GrowthMindset #DecisionMaking
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Working with young minds is always a privilege and responsibility that I don't ever take lightly. And I truly respect the heads of institutions who while they focus on academics, go beyond this domain and create time in their busy schedules to address the mindset and emotions of the children entrusted to their care. The interaction this time was so much deeper as the students shared doubts, not just on the theme but also their deeper apprehension about feeling vulnerable in critical areas of their lives. We discussed effective study strategies, the path to achieving goals, communication with authority, family and siblings, healthy relationships with friends, the insecurity and shame that they feel at times when they watch reels on social media, setting and respecting boundaries without guilt.... and so much more. The vote of thanks and the tokens of gratitude are good in their own stead. Yet, I am convinced my time here has been successful when: ✓ The students experience a space in which they feel safe enough to address their demons and even share incidents from their own lives. ✓ The students share their reality without feeling the need for masks. ✓ Students hush up another's chatter because they want to listen without distraction to the facilitator's input and to each other's sharing. ✓ When students are courageous enough to share their personal perspective, ask questions and offer tools they have used in the past which worked too. ✓ When students connect with a strategy and tell you exactly where and how they plan to use it. ✓ When students hang around even after the sessions closes and it's recess, to speak personally with the facilitator. ✓ When students speak to their parents, and they revert to make an online appointment to help empower themselves further in areas they need help. Feeling blessed, purposeful and fulfilled. Keeping the faith 💫 Teens today truly have a lot more going on within than we see on the surface, do you agree? #workshop #education #school #life #emotion #principal #teachers #grow #mindset #skills #strategy #purpose #teenagers #students #parents #work
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Cultivating Meaningful Growth: The Value of Asking the Right Questions In our pursuit of academic success, it's easy to focus on grades, test scores, and measurable achievements. But when we talk to kids about school, are we asking the right questions? The most important questions aren’t necessarily about the results they achieved but about the values and experiences that shape them along the way. Consider asking: What made you feel sad, worried, or joyful this week? These moments reveal a lot. Joy might come from a breakthrough in understanding a difficult concept, or it could come from bonding with friends. Likewise, sadness or worry might point to the real challenges they face – and the resilience they’re building. Another powerful question is: What challenges did you face, and what did you learn from them? When children reflect on their struggles and see how they grew from these experiences, they learn the value of perseverance and self-discovery. These lessons last longer than any grade and become the bedrock of their confidence. Lastly, we might ask: Who did you help, and who helped you? Kindness and community are essential skills for a meaningful life. When kids recognize the importance of supporting others and being supported, they develop a spirit of empathy and teamwork that fuels their personal and social growth. By focusing on these values-centered questions, we can help children look beyond grades and achievements. We empower them to reflect on their experiences, acknowledge their growth, and celebrate the positive impact they have on others. These conversations will nurture well-rounded individuals who value resilience, empathy, and lifelong learning over mere accomplishments. #ValuesOverResults #CharacterBuilding #GrowthMindset #BeyondGrades #EmpathyMatters #LifelongLearning #TeachValues #ReflectAndGrow #InspiringFuture #EducationWithPurpose #StudentWellbeing #NurturingPotential #EmotionalGrowth #SupportAndEmpower #LearningJourney
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If you can read this, thank a teacher.” It’s a simple American saying but powerfully reminds us of how teachers shape our lives. Coming from a family of educators, with my grandfather and uncles serving in schools, I've always recognized the importance of teachers. In my last post, I shared what no one tells you about mentors. Today, I want to highlight what we often overlook: anyone can be a teacher. Even my 6-year-old has taught me valuable lessons that I, as an adult, sometimes fail to recognize. On this Teacher’s Day, I want to share how these special individuals have taught me and helped me grow: 🌟 My grandfather, a lifelong professor who molded countless students, including me. 🌟 My parents, who shaped me into who I am today and always say, "We’re here for you." 🌟 My little son, whose innocence and wisdom remind me of life's simple truths. 🌟 My husband Ripul Sharma, who continually inspires and encourages me, reminding me that I’m never alone on this journey. 🌟 I thank Ravi Uttamchandani, Umesh Uttamchandani, Pradeep Dutt, Sumit Gandhi, Manu Chandra, and Faraz Wadhwania, Sumit 'Curl' Karranji, whose insights have been profoundly shaping my entrepreneurial journey. Thank you all for being my teacher- mentors in life. To everyone who has inspired me through direct guidance or indirect inspiration, my deepest thanks. Here’s to celebrating those who teach us to be better and who mentor us to reach greater heights. Happy Teacher's Day! PS: This picture is from a recent visit to a preschool, where being around teachers reminded me of how educators shape us from our earliest days. #TeachersDay #Mentorship #Gratitude #Inspiration
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When we think of teachers, many of us envision those remarkable individuals from our school days—those who guided, nurtured, and shaped us during our formative years. As we grow older, we may find ourselves without that go-to person for advice, wisdom, or support. But should our learning ever stop? Absolutely not. We need teachers at every stage of life. Whether it's a mentor at work, a coach, or even a friend sharing their experiences, teachers come in many forms. As Albert Schweitzer said, "At times, our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person." These educators inspire us, challenge us to grow, and help us become the best versions of ourselves. Remember how, as children, we would eagerly run to our teachers with every question, seeking comfort and guidance? Imagine if we maintained that same mindset throughout life—constantly learning, seeking, and evolving. As Mahatma Gandhi wisely noted, "Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." Teachers help us see beyond our current understanding and open doors to new possibilities. On this Teachers' Day, let’s celebrate the idea that learning is a lifelong journey, and teachers are everywhere if we are willing to seek them out. Here’s to honoring the teachers of our past and embracing those of our present and future. They are the beacons that light our path, guiding us no matter where we are on our journey. As Henry Adams said, "A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops." #lifelonglearning #teachersday #HRinschools
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