James Lee
CEO & Co-Founder at Bella Groves | Creator & Co-Founder of Think Tank | Keynote Speaker | Senior Living Business Coach and Consultant | Level Up podcast host | McCombs MBA
San Antonio, Texas Metropolitan Area
11K followers
500+ connections
About
I have been in the senior and aging services profession for 16 years. If I'm lucky, I'll get to do this for a very long time alongside some amazing people throughout this industry. In 2021, I transitioned from successful work in established senior living organizations to launch three interrelated endeavors: a senior living operating company, a consulting firm, and a leadership podcast (and associated content). The bottom line: I want to carve my own path of serving this industry, and I want to help others to do the same.
BELLA GROVES - CEO & Co-Founder: We are a care education company developing dementia training for family caregivers, a coaching service to guide families in their care for loved ones, and a 32-bed dementia care residence that serves as the hub of learning and modeling care. Our tagline and guiding star is Unconditional Joy™.
BEAR WISE - Owner: We are an executive coaching and consulting firm, specializing in leveling up existing and emerging small businesses in the senior living space. Developer of the Go With The F.L.O.W.™ dementia approach and care methodology. Developer and Producer of the Senior Living Think Tank event and workshop.
LEVEL UP LEADERSHIP PODCAST - Creator and Host: a podcast dedicated to sharing self-growth and development ideas and techniques to become the best Head + Heart™ leader you can be in a service oriented profession. I write a newsletter on LinkedIn and am a frequent guest speaker on industry channels, shows, and conferences.
SPEAKER - I have been delighted to contribute to industry thought leadership through conferences, webinars and organizational leadership development events. I speak on topics of leadership, strategy, and innovation in senior living. The speaking engagements are rooted in storytelling, data, and inspiring action. Please let me know about your Keynote Speaker needs, and I'll tailor my engagement to anchor your event to a shared, central message.
I'll end on my favorite quote and words I try to live by every day: "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." - Aristotle.
Serve well, my friends. Live your legacy today.
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Articles by James
Contributions
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How can you build trust at work using emotional intelligence?
Empathy is not a style. Empathy is a skill. It is important to note this difference, because like any skill you have to practice it in order to keep it. There are also nuances and different types of empathy. Like a chef that understands different cuts (knife skills) they make based on the overall effect they want the meal to have, an empathetic person wields their understanding of the types of empathy to positively influence their relationships with others. Cognitive empathy helps you see others’ perspectives. Emotional empathy helps you feel what others feel. Compassionate empathy helps you take action to help. Lastly, remember that empathy is not about being a “good person.” It’s a life skill to help you manage relationships.
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How can you build trust at work using emotional intelligence?
The first and most difficult step is sharpening your self-awareness. When you are first beginning to learn this skill, it is important that you correctly label emotions. It is too easy to say that you're sad, frustrated, angry, or other generic "umbrella" emotion. Look up "emotions vocabulary" or "emotions wheel" for a visual reference, and keep it handy - like on your phone. As you hone your self-awareness, you will begin to differentiate between feeling insulted versus feeling slighted; feeling inspired versus feeling energized. The nuances matter when it comes to becoming self-aware. You cannot change or manage your own emotional responses without first knowing what exactly you are responding to.
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What are some ways to calm your nerves before speaking in public?
Remember that people are at this presentation because they WANT your message to have an impact. They want you to succeed, because that means they are receiving value from this shared time. You are there to serve the audience not the other way around. Your message isn’t about what you have to say as much as it is about what they want or need to hear. How will receiving the message help them? Picture THEIR success armed with the insights from your message. It isn’t your wisdom they will remember. It is their own wisdom that your message will help to unlock. Your audience wants you to succeed as a speaker, because it means they will be more successful in the subject area of your message. This mindset helps to calm my nerves as a presenter.
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How can you use emotional intelligence to improve your negotiation skills?
Keep in mind that a successful negotiation means that both parties feel like they achieved their goals. One of the best ways to regulate your own emotions (stay in control) is to focus on the emotional awareness of the other party. This is empathy at its best. I have said during a negotiation, "it seems like my last ask for X,Y,Z may have struck a nerve (or chord) with you. Would you mind helping to unpack that for me to gain perspective? Maybe there's a different way we can both achieve what we want." This has a double benefit of giving you more information and conveying strongly that you're looking out for their interests as well.
Experience
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Brookdale
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Brookdale Senior Living
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Real Estate Consultant
Pyles Whatley Corporation
Education
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The University of Texas at Austin - Red McCombs School of Business
Master of Business Administration - MBA
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Activities and Societies: McCombs Ambassador Committee, Winner of E. Craig Nemec Elevator Challenge Award Winner for Texas Venture Labs
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Texas Lutheran University
Bachelor of Arts (B.A.) Finance, General
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Activities and Societies: Orientation Leader, Student Ambassador, TLU Choir & Chorale, Student Activities, Summer Programs, Honors Curriculum
Volunteer Experience
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Board Member
Hands 4Life
- Present 2 years 6 months
Social Services
I support Hands 4Life as an advisor to the organization in fulfilling its mission to develop intergenerational centers in developing countries to bring together orphaned children and seniors.
Initial projects are in Honduras and Nigeria. -
Board Member
Hands 4Life
- Present 2 years 6 months
Social Services
I support Hands 4Life as an advisor to the organization in fulfilling its mission to develop intergenerational centers in developing countries to bring together orphaned children and seniors.
Initial projects are in Honduras and Nigeria. -
Committee Member
Texas Assisted Living Association
- Present 3 years
Health
I’m proudly serving the Texas Assisted Living Association as a committee member for Workforce Development.
Skills
Courses
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Art & Science of Negotiation
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Corporate Restructuring and Turnaround
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Financial Accounting
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Financial Management
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Leading People and Organizations
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Legal Environment of Business
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Managerial Accounting
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Managerial Economics
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New Venture Creation
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Operations Management
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Statistics
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Strategic Management
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Honors & Awards
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Alumni of the Year
Alice Independent School District
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