Celebrity Celebrity Weddings Golden Bachelor's Sandra Defends Missing Daughter's Wedding — Only to Be Eliminated 1 Week Later (Exclusive) Sandra admitted to Gerry Turner during week four that she had skipped her daughter's wedding to be on the show By Stephanie Wenger Stephanie Wenger Stephanie Wenger is a TV Writer/Reporter at PEOPLE. She joined the brand in 2021 as a digital news writer, covering stories spanning across the site's verticals. She previously contributed E! Online, Hollywood Life and Oscar.com. People Editorial Guidelines and Julia Moore Julia Moore Julia Moore is a TV writer-reporter at PEOPLE. A graduate of Northwestern University, she has been working at PEOPLE since 2022. People Editorial Guidelines Published on October 30, 2023 01:29PM EDT Sandra is eliminated on episode five of 'The Golden Bachelor'. Photo: Disney/John Fleenor One week after revealing that she opted to skip her daughter’s wedding to find love on The Golden Bachelor, Sandra Mason didn't receive a rose from Gerry Turner. Despite the disappointing turn of events, the 75-year-old retired executive assistant tells PEOPLE she doesn’t regret her decision and opens up about the “motivation” behind missing the big day. “My son-in-law said, ‘Mom, our ceremony is eight minutes. Our marriage is a lifetime.’ He said, ‘You go. Go.’ And of course, my daughter said, ‘Mom, I've got my guy. You go get yours, ’” the Georgia native says. “So they practically shoved me out and said, ‘You got to do this.’ ” She describes her daughter and new son-in-law as “great people,” adding of their unwavering support, “I’m blessed.” Gerry Turner and Sandra FaceTime Sandra's daughter ahead of her wedding on episode four of 'The Golden Bachelor'. ABC/John Fleenor Everything to Know About 'The Golden Bachelor' Sandra admits she was "kind of sad" to not receive a rose before hometowns because she was “hopeful” about the possibility of finding love with Turner, 72. Despite her journey coming to an end, she calls the first-of-its-kind ABC series "a great experience." She says that her two daughters were her “cheerleaders” throughout the five-week journey and had a similar reaction to her elimination. “They had hoped for a better outcome, [a] different outcome,” she shares, adding that they were “pleased that [I] dared to even do this and excited.” Sandra adds that the experience made her more hopeful about finding love in the future, sharing, “I'm more motivated. I know it's possible. No, it's not just possible — it's probable. It'll happen. And just be open to it. Just embrace it. f you don't buy a lottery ticket, you can't win. Same kind of concept.” Gerry Turner and Sandra talk one-on-one during episode five of 'The Golden Bachelor'. Disney/John Fleenor The Golden Bachelor's Ellen Reveals Her 'Old Boyfriends' Reached Out After Seeing Her on the Show (Exclusive) During the Oct. 19 episode, Sandra revealed to Turner the sacrifice she had made in order to be on the show with him — prompting surprise from The Golden Bachelor as well as viewers. She said it was “something my daughter and I discussed early on,” to which he responded, “I feel very flattered, but that’s a big event.” The two then called Sandra’s daughter on FaceTime, which she later said during a confessional was “so sweet.” “He’s always full of these sweet surprises and he’s so thoughtful. This man is something different.” Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. The Golden Bachelor airs Thursdays at 8 p.m. ET on ABC. Close