Conversational Ballgames Short Essay

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Gabriela P.

Rodriguez Fontanez

INGL-3104 M06

Due Date: 2/13/24

Prof. Craig Graham

Comparison/Contrast Essay (”Conversational Ballgames”)

Every culture has its own conversational style. In the essay “Conversational Ballgames” by

Natalie Masterson Sakamoto compares Western and Japanese conversational styles with game

analogies. Surprisingly Sakamoto found both conversational styles are very different.

The Japanese and Western conversational styles are both culturally based. The Japanese

conversation style reflects cultural values of harmony, respect, and shared understanding, which

underpin their communication norms. Participants demonstrate deference to seniors,

communicate indirectly, and prioritize listening and patience, fostering a sense of cohesion

within Japanese society. In contrast, the Western conversational style emphasizes assertiveness,

directness, and individual expression. People engage in lively discussions, freely expressing

opinions and challenging ideas without fear of reprisal. Reactions are characterized by

assertiveness, active engagement, and directness, with participants using verbal cues and gestures

to emphasize points and maintain the flow of conversation. While Western conversations

prioritize individual expression and critical thinking, Japanese conversations prioritize group

harmony and deference to authority, while shaping their distinct communication styles. Both

styles, though different, reflect the cultural values and norms of their respective societies, which

contributes to diverse approaches to communication and social interaction.


Both Japanese and Western conversational styles have their own distinct rules of engagement. In

Japanese conversation, participants abide by sequential turn-taking. The speaking order is

determined by factors like age and status. While politeness and respect are essential, people are

listening attentively without interrupting is very important. They use non-verbal cues to convey

understanding. The goal is to maintain harmony and deference to authority while fostering a

polite and respectful atmosphere. In Western conversations, however, people engage in dynamic

exchanges characterized by assertiveness and directness. In the Western conversational style,

they freely express their opinions and challenging ideas, and contribute to lively discussions

without hesitation. The emphasis is on active participation, where people assert their viewpoints

and contribute to the conversation's progression.

In both conversational styles, people react differently. In Japanese conversations, participants

react with politeness and patience, listening attentively without interruption and employing non-

verbal cues like nodding to convey understanding and respect. In Japan, conversations should be

harmonious and demonstrate deference to individuals of higher status to foster a polite and

respectful atmosphere. On the other hand, in Western conversations, reactions are characterized

by openness and directness. People freely share their thoughts and opinions in lively discussions.

They express agreement, disagreement, or elaboration to actively contribute to the conversation's

progression. Assertive body language and gestures are used to emphasize points and sustain the

flow of discussion. This reflects a cultural preference for individual expression and active

engagement.
Both styles are differently paced. In Japanese conversation, the pace is deliberate and measured.

People take their time to speak and respond thoughtfully. Moreover, pauses between speakers

allow for reflection and ensure each participant's turn is respected. This deliberate pace

contributes to the overall atmosphere of politeness and consideration. In Western conversation,

on the other hand, the pace is brisk and energetic, and people engage in rapid exchanges and

dynamic interactions. There may be occasional interruptions as individuals strive to assert their

thoughts and opinions assertively. The quick pace reflects a culture that values directness, active

engagement, and the free flow of ideas in conversation.

In conclusion, Japanese and Western conversational styles differ significantly due to cultural

norms. The Japanese style focuses on harmony, respect, and indirect communication, while the

Western style is more assertive, direct, and individual. These differences reflect their cultural

values and impact how people interact socially. Understanding these distinctions is very crucial

for successful cross-cultural communication and relationship-building.

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