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THE ART

OF
FINESSE
TURN HIM
DOWN, SAVE
HIS EG0,SAVE
YOUR LIFE.
3 APPROACHES OF MEN & SOME
CLEVER SAYINGS TO GET THEM TO
BACK DOWN EASY

PRINCELLA THE QUEENMAKER


contents
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THE NATURE OF MEN

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A RING WON’T STOP
HIM

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DON’T SAY KEVIN
SAMUELS
CHAPTER

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When women learn who men are at the core, they
move from oblivion to conscious fear. They do
not know how to move in the world and are
anxious. What she doesn't realize is fear and
anxiety attract predators. Predators prey on the
weak and stray away from the strong.

Women who lack communication skills and


creativity are fearful because they do not know
how to respond to men. I want to arm them with
some clever sayings that will make her more
comfortable when they approach. Women don't
realize that many men are weak and fearful.
fearful animals attack when they feel threatened
and they also attack when prey is weak. We want
to greatly reduce the chances of this happening
to those who listen to me.

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Man: Hey beautiful, can I get your number?

Me: come on now, what will you do with my


number? I am not going to put the burden of
carrying something so heavy on you. So, I will do
you a solid, let me take your number and make
your day.

Man: how do I know you will call?

Me: You don't. I may throw your number away or I


may call it, either way, it's a gamble you take and
you look like a gambling risk-taking man. I see
You often win when you do gamble. You're quite a
lucky man. So, You'll know you've won when you
hear my sweet voice on the other side of that
ringtone.

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The psychology of what is happening here: Men
are competitive by nature. They love to win. So
you are stroking his personal identity by telling
him he is a lucky competitive man who wins a lot.

This places him in a hopeful world where he has a


chance of winning with you. You have implanted
suggestive thoughts that he should back down
and take the chance this way he will be less
aggressive and more relaxed for the game.

This places you in control while suspending him in


a world of fantasy. Women do not understand
men. Men inhabit a masculine vessel in the
material plane. The masculine counterpart is a
moving and forceful counterpart thus making
men this way. The masculine is designed to push
boundaries.

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So women creating weak boundaries will not do
anything for the masculine counterpart. A weak
boundary is the idea of wearing a fake wedding
ring. Think of it this way, the Aesop's fable, the
wolf in sheep's clothing represents the
MASCULINE counterpart, the sheep represents the
feminine. The wolf in sheep's clothing is not the
only story you've heard about the wolf.

You've heard about the boy who cried wolf and the
3 Little pigs with the wolf chasing them. Let's
focus on the latter. The first pig made its house
out of straw, the next pig made his out of sticks
and the third pig made his out of brick.

Women who are fearful and don't want males


speaking to them, opt for the wedding ring
approach. This barrier is like building a house with
straw. He'll huff and puff and blow that house
down.
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A man can and still will approach you even with
a ring on your finger. One study found that 13%
of married women are cheating on their
husbands.

So, if there is a chance to blow that straw


house down, they will. So, what do you do then?
You build it out of stick.

That would be a wedding ring and a slick


response.

A brickhouse would be a ring, slick response


and a social group or gun with you.

Let's look at the Slick response you can tell a


male about your marriage.

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Man: Are you married?

Me: yes.

Man: well, you can have friends. Ain't nothing


wrong with friends.

Me: you're right but let me ask you a question.

Man: ok.

Me: What would you want me to say if I was your


wife?

Him: Most likely he will back down


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What is happening here psychologically?

Men are territorial and they see the world through


their own desires. By placing the ball in his court
and creating the image that you are his property,
he will respond with his own thought process and
neutralize himself.

He doesn't want another man walking on his


property and you made him imagine that you were
his and what he would want you to do if you were
speaking to another man about him.

You never want to turn a man down with reality.


Truth does not support male existence therefore it
is the biggest and hardest blow to the male ego. It
does not make you powerful to intentionally make
a male react negatively, it makes you weak.

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You are weak because you are doing it to stroke
your own ego by weaponizing the truth to shatter
someone only for you to feel superior.

You become of more power when you do things


without ego and to preserve harmony and safety.
Power is not allowing someone to harm you, power
is in wisdom of being in the world but not of it.

You are not doing this to boost the male ego


artificially. You are doing this to sedate him and
make it home safely. You are in control.

I asked many women what is a common thing men


say to them that they dislike and want to respond
better to. Many stated something about smiling.
"hey beautiful, you should smile more" "can I get a
smile" "why are you looking so mean?"

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People who exist in their ego believe the world is
centered around them and they move that way.
Women walk around without smiles on their faces
because of very real human things going on within
them and around them.

So, it is understandable that you won't always see


a woman smiling. In this artificial world of
patriarchy, everyone is negatively impacted by its
oppressive effects, this includes the male

However, in terms of women, it has burdened her


down so much that she has been disconnected
from an authentic, pure and harmonious version of
herself which causes her to reflect pain outwardly
beginning with her face.

Only she understands what she is feeling and


radiating at that time.

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Well, where she is at this point is low frequency
and low vibrational. Society has strategically kept
women in this low frequency and in these low
frequencies, consciousness is obsolete.

This is important to realize because become


frustrated when men ask that they smile when
they see them.

This is a recipe for disaster because if you have


my "The 5 Components of Love" book, you will
understand Love is the only true concept that
conquers.

The first component of love is to seek first


understanding. When people are in low
frequencies, they do not seek first understanding
which is the cause of conflict

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If women understood men, their view, life and
psychology, it would be much simpler to deal with a
man telling you to smile. It is not from a place of
control that this is being asked.

Men ask women to smile because by nature males


are programmed to see women as divine and godly.
You don't believe that to be true because of how
society is shaped in patriarchy. However, you need to
understand patriarchy is unnatural and the average
male is not the creator of it---he is a victim of it. His
nature is to see the woman as divine and superior.

The average male is born into hell. The make-up of


the male body traps them in the lower nature which
is hell. The system of patriarchy then adds additional
pressures on the male by telling him to take on the
characteristics and responsibilities of women. What
are those women responsibilities and
characteristics? Providing, Protecting and Leading.

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These are traits of women not men. So, as a result
of this mountain of pressure and pain the male is
experiencing, he becomes desperate, depressed
and destitute.

Men see women as mirrors to themselves, so when


a man looks into the face of a woman and sees a
scowl and indignation, she reflects to him the hell
he is already in.

So, men ask women to smile to give them a sense


of hope and a brighter day.

It's not with the intent to control and make women


inanimate objects. It may come off that way or be
perceived that way, but the deeper issue is what I
just revealed.

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So, here are a few clever responses you can say to
a man that asks you to smile.

Sometimes it's a gateway for further conversation


and sometimes it really is just them being
desperate to see a smiling face on a woman who
is attractive or divine like to them.

Women are heaven on earth. They don't want to be


reminded of hell. This does not take a lot of time
to do.

Smile #1

Man: Can I get a smile?

Me: Possibly. We all desire sunlight on cloudy


days. So, before I shine bright on your day, can you
tell me how my smile would make your day?
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Man: (whatever he says....)

Me: Well, I think that's quite deserving of a little


sunshine. (Smile).

Man: (whatever he says...)

Me: I am very glad that I could make your day.


(act as if you have an important meeting via the
phone or zoom that you have to make) and
disconnect the conversation abruptly.) I wish I
could chat longer but I have a scheduled meeting I
need to attend and I'm late.

Smile #2

Man: Why are you looking mean?

Me: Am I? I wasn't aware. I bet you see me as an


angel and angels shouldn't be looking mean huh?

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Man: (he will most likely agree with you and double
down to further boost your ego)

Me: I was probably looking mean because I saw


(some dead celeb who shouldn't be in heaven get to
heaven i.e. Kevin Samuels or someone popular) Lol
God was really tripping when he let________in. (don't
say Kevin Samuels by the way because this opens up
a conversation you do not want to have. he's just an
example)

Man: response is dependent on who you name. But if


he is popular and low-threatening, he will probably
laugh.

Me: (laugh with him), Alright. I fixed it. I ain't looking


mean now lol. Well, I hope you have a good day. I
have to get to a meeting, I am running late.

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Smile #3

Man: Smile more

Me: You missed it, I just got finished smiling before


you looked over. I hate you missed it, so here's what
you missed. (smile)

Man: That's great, you have a beautiful smile. Keep


doing that.

Me: I will. Thanks. I hope you have a nice day.

This is the psychological explanation for the smile


scenario.

What is going on here psychologically? The person


who is asking the questions is in control. They
determine the direction of the conversation. So, when
a man asks a question and you respond with closed-
ended answers such as yes and no, you leave room
for him to ask you another question and take you into
an area you don't want to go.
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It places you in a submissive position in the
conversation. So, what I have done, is I've responded
in a way that puts the control into your hands by
answering his question and then asking him a
question within your response to him that he now has
to respond to. Now, you get to drive the train.

Also, laughter relaxes a person and drops their


defenses. I have made the responses lighthearted
that will make him feel relaxed, seen and interesting
because you're actually conversing with him.

Because you were so engaging, clever, and non


arrogant, he is more willing to believe that you really
are in a rush and he will let you go easy.

Princella The QueenMaker

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