Free Oral Sex Guide: Where's The Clit?

Welcome!
I’m Stacey Glass. I’m a 29-year-old bisexual female

and decided to start producing these high-quality sex
ed resources to help combat the diluge of bad infor-
mation out there about how to please women in bed.
Above all, I think EVERY women deserves to have regu-

lar orgasms from sex. For the 88% of men with partners
who seldom or never achieve orgasm from regular old
penetrative sex, cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) can
help you realize that goal.
I hope you find this brief guide instructive. For more in-
formation, please check out my website:
www.nobullshitsexadvice.com
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FORGET THE CLIT
very man I’ve ever dated has asked me the same
E question: “How do I find the clit?”
I’m sure you probably read online, or heard in a locker

room, or saw somewhere in a men’s magazine that the
clitoris is the “orgasm button” that will get your partner
to climax.
Bullshit! The internet is full of bad advice, mostly written

by self-appointed “sex gurus” who usually have one
thing in common when it comes to cunnilingus: they’re
men. While they may think they are first-rate at pleasing
women, they often don’t know the first thing about what
a woman really feels while receiving oral sex. They talk
up the importance of the clit to make themselves seem
knowledgeable, but usually they’re just spouting jargon
they’ve heard thrown around elsewhere. The clit is not an
I’m a bisexual woman, which automatically gives me “orgasm button.”
more insight into the problem than most of the other
people you’ll find writing on the topic of oral sex. After
years of giving and receiving cunnilingus, I know a thing
or two that those “Men’s Health”-type writers might not.
And I want to help you, because I think every woman
deserves to have a good orgasm once in a while. It’ll
do wonders for your relationship and your sex life when
you learn to reliably give her the orgasms she’s been
frustrated and unsatisfied when your over-
simplified approach doesn’t work out and
you end up licking endlessly without re-
sults.
Imagine your new girlfriend wants

to give you a blowjob... but she’s a
virgin and has never given one before. Rock
on, right?
de- Of course you say yes. Your woman imme-
prived diately goes to work, but pretty quickly you
of for so many realize that something is wrong. She’s sucking
years. and licking and applying a ton of pressure
right on the head of your penis. She read on
I can tell you it’s definitely true that the clitoris the internet that the tip of the penis is the most
can help your partner reach climax. But it is sensitive part so she’s focusing all her efforts
NOT necessary to find it straight away. So re- in that area. Maybe she even scrapes you a
lax. little with her teeth (ouch!) because she’s not
very experienced.
Seriously, stop worrying about it.
Why? Because attacking your girlfriend’s clit
Sounds awkward, doesn’t it?
isn’t going to produce the results you want.
While it’s great she wants to give you oral sex,
her overzealousness may end up causing you
The clit needs to be coaxed…. finessed…
a nontrivial amount of discomfort. If this sce-
massaged. But it’s only one of her many sensi-
nario actually happened to you, you might
tive parts. If your approach to oral sex starts
even start to wonder why she seems to be in
with the question “Okay, so where is the clit?”
such huge a hurry to get you off. Is she just
then you are in serious danger of ending up
doing what she thinks will “get it over with” as you’re giving her and there’s a good chance
quickly as possible? she’ll NEVER finish.
Not only would she have failed to satisfy you You see, the clitoris is what is known as a “ho-
physically with her toothy assault on your penis’ mologous structure” that contains nerve end-
head, she’s also made you question her mo- ings equivalent to those in the head of the pe-
tives. What should have been an intimate ex- nis. These nerve endings are what make the
perience is in danger of causing mistrust in your clit so very sensitive. It’s like a tiny penis head,
relationship. waiting for you to massage it to orgasm. Be
gentle and patient, listen to feedback, and
You should see how attempting a blow job with eventually you’ll get there.
bad information can have disastrous effects;
don’t make this mistake when YOU are learning
to go down on a woman!
“OK, but where is it?”
A woman’s experience is similar to this sce-
nario when a man aggressively goes after her The clitoris is a small nub of sensitive flesh lo-
clit and neglects the rest of the oral sex experi- cated at the frontmost (or, if she’s lying on her
ence. This error is compounded if you ignore back, the uppermost) end of the vaginal slit.
her audible cues (is she silent? moaning? etc) It’s often concealed by small folds of skin. But,
while you’re learning how to please her with basically, it’s the last thing you’ll encounter be-
your mouth. If you focus too much attention fore reaching the edge of “Hairsville.” Don’t
on one place before she is ready it will be un- worry if you can’t see it clearly or aren’t quite
comfortable for her, and even if she is ready it is sure (you’re not supposed to be on a sight-see-
easy to overstimulate the area such that she will ing tour anyway!), because applying indirect
NEVER reach orgasm. pressure on the clit by licking around the gen-
eral area will still feel nice for your partner.
Worse still — if you home in directly on the clit
without taking any time to explore her vagina When you first start foreplay the clitoris will be
or try different things it will make her think you the equivalent of “flacid” or soft; only when
are in a rush to finish. If she gets that impres- your partner is sufficiently turned on will it perk
sion, it will counteract a lot of the pleasure up and start to peek from her intimate folds. If
she’s nervous about the encounter, this may one way or another as long as you’re in the stan-
take longer than expected, and you definite- dard woman-on-back position.
ly shouldn’t just jump right into things.
Oral sex masters are great because they use
When she does eventually get turned on you their ears and brains to respond to their partner’s
might see a little pink or purple nub of flesh at cues. If you learn to do this, you will be success-
the very front of her womanly “slit,” although ful. Good luck!
if she has big labia you may never be able to
see it.
Often the clit stays hidden inside the folds of

her “clitoral hood” — the technical name for
the frontmost part of her vaginal lips — but
you will still notice that area becomes warm
and slightly swollen as she becomes more
turned on by foreplay and gentle, explorato-
ry licks as you begin your oral sex adventures
together. Indirect pressure through these
skin folds is as good as or better than directly
drilling down on the clit, so don’t worry if you
can’t ever pinpoint the precise location.
The truth is, it doesn’t really matter whether

the clit is visible because good oral sex is not
given with one’s eyes. It’s not a sight-seeing
expedition, after all. If your partner is on her
back and you are on your knees or stom-
ach, your angle of approach will force you
to lick near her clitoris whether you can
easily see it or not. And because it’s so
small relative to the size of your tongue,
changes are good you’ll be stimulating it
Thank you for reading this free guide!
The few minutes you’ve invested here should pay

you dividends many times over in the form of in-
creased self-confidence and intimacy in the bed-
room!
If you’ve got two minutes to spare, it would really

help me out if you took my super short survey to
let me know how I can improve this and future oral
sex reports, guides, and manifestos! I’ll be using
your feedback to keep developing new materials
for people like you.
Please, take my survey now!

If you have any specific questions, leave them in
my survey or shoot me an email at
[email protected]
Thanks again for reading!
Sincerely,
Stacey Glass
Bisexual Vagina Enthusiast

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What advice does Stacey give about finding the clitoris?

What should you avoid doing when performing oral sex?

Welcome!

I’m Stacey Glass. I’m a 29-year-old bisexual female

Above all, I think EVERY women deserves to have regu-

Also, when you’re done reading, I’d really appre-

Click Here to take my survey now!

I’m sure you probably read online, or heard in a locker

Bullshit! The internet is full of bad advice, mostly written

Imagine your new girlfriend wants

Often the clit stays hidden inside the folds of

The truth is, it doesn’t really matter whether

The few minutes you’ve invested here should pay

If you’ve got two minutes to spare, it would really

Please, take my survey now!

Thanks again for reading!

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