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Magnetic Attraction
Joseph Riñoza Plazo

Master of Persuasion, Influence and
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Creating Charisma
Stop for a minute... and search your heart. What is it that frightens
you the most? Ghosts? Demons? Or maybe... it is simply being
alone in the world... isolated... with not a soul caring whether you
existed. As you think about it now, maybe the one fear everyone
nurtures deep down is that of lonesome isolation.
Since birth, each person seeks out companionship. As children we
sought the approval of parents. As teens, we fought for a place
amongst friends. Then as adults, we struggle to find that special
soulmate with whom we would forge the rest of our lives with.
Man, indeed, is the ultimate social animal. He draws inner strength
from the well-spring of his circle of friends. Friends fuel the drive to
endure the rigors of life. With friends, man finds solace, sympathy,
and love.
While casual friends satisfy the basic psychological requirement for
companionship, there is one need that a regular friend cannot
satisfy: the need for intimate affection. At critical points in our lives,
we suddenly find ourselves yearning for special
companionship--one that friends cannot fill, but only lovers can.
The sudden rise of numerous industries promising instant fixes to
romantic frustrations naturally allow us to conclude that there are
hundreds of millions of lonely individuals out there. Turn on your
TV set or flip through your newspapers. Observe countless ads for
self-help seminars promoting "seduction strategies." Take note of
the sudden proliferation of "magic pheromone perfumes" that claim
to sensually arouse nearby sniffers. Then of course, browse
through the thousands of romance how-to manuals parading on
bookshelves. For millions of the lovelorn, the need for affection
grew to a national obsession. That desire now drives industries
raking in millions. What makes this book any different?
Step into a popular seminar room where a love-guru enthralls his
students with masterful techniques of seduction. Yes, you will
learn, in fact, you will absorb so much knowledge that before you
know it, you'll be fighting off scores of love-crazed individuals from
your door. Such skill comes with a price, of course. Expect your
wallet to be several inches and hundreds of dollars thinner .
Alternatively, you can go the economical route and invest in a few
national best sellers costing $15 a pop. Browsing through the

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hundred or so pages of this standard romance fare will typically

leave you dissatisfied. Most of what you learn are theory and with
little real-world illustration. Theory appeals as enticingly as
dishwater. You want tried and tested techniques. You want results.
You want to embrace someone dear, not in the next decade, but
right now. So you finally shelve those books and sigh in
melancholy.
Your Key to Fulfillment

Magnetic Attraction (TM) strikes the middle ground between the
high-quality but costly seminars and the economical, but impotent
library books. Magnetic Attraction resulted from scores of research,
personal experiences and interpersonal experimentation to bring
you a powerful source of theory and real world techniques that will
magically fill that empty void now plaguing your heart.
Magnetic Attraction is a breakthrough manual designed
exclusively for men. Magnetic Attraction assembles an arsenal of
Seven Power Principles of Chemistry guaranteed to transform the
average lonely man into an irresistible magnet of attraction. As you
learn the individual Principles, you immediately take momentous
strides forward to becoming a modern day Casanova.
Each Principle is designed around the psychological make-up of
women and offers you irresistible avenues to hotwire her
neuro-circuitry in order to incite attraction beyond simple
infatuation. Picture yourself now... as you experience unlimited
social power... instantly resulting from the rapport you readily
generate at will! Imagine, all your friends wondering about the
tremendous secret that you alone possess.
Stop... and draw a long breath... understand that you hold the key
to unlimited social fulfillment. Sit back, relax and prepare to embark
on a mind-lifting experience ...
Within this concise manual, you will understand not just what
women seek for in their fantasy partners, but you will also discover
how to easily create emotional states ranging from magnetic
rapport to pure enthrallment. Each principle you unlock will
naturally unleash an unstoppable fury of almost unnatural
allurement when combined all at once.

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The following are the Seven Power Principles you will master in
succession:
Principle of Dominance
Principle of Value
Principle of the White Knight
Principle of Nuclear Power
Principle of Magnetic Attraction
Principle of Verbal Acrobatics
Principle of Psychic Dominance

At the end of this book is a certificate for you to affix your signature,
certifying your mastery of the art of irresistible magnetism. Mount it
proudly on your wall and sally forth, a master amongst men.
Good luck.
Seven Power Principles of Chemistry

Principle of Dominance
Within the animal kingdom, the weak fall before the strong. Animals
that run faster, fly longer, swim deeper have the largest territories,
the greatest stockpile of food and raise the largest prides, schools
or herds. The powerful obviously relishes the best of spoils. This
law of the jungle transcends time and applies equally well in the
human species.
As with their less-sentient counterparts, men come in just two
flavors: the dominant and the domineered. There exists no middle
grounders because you either lead or you follow.
History tells us that dominant individuals get the largest chunks of
the pie. Not only are they richer, more influential, and have greater

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access to a variety of resources, they also command the respect

and affection of the fairer sex.
Domineered individuals, on the other hand scrounge in corners and
lap at the scraps left behind the masters of the world. As such, their
bounty is less than impressive. They lack the will to assert their
needs. Ultimately, many of the domineered simply fade into
nameless oblivion, unable to leave a mark and worse... offspring.
For a race to endure, nature implements the Law of Natural
Selection. Simply put, the law allows the strongest to survive.
Without this principle, weak offspring may ensue and fail to
propagate the race.
It has been proven in the animal kingdom that females always
submit to the stronger male, known as the alpha male. Over a doe,
two bucks will clash horns till one falls due to exhaustion. The
victor always struts off with the admiring doe. The same
phenomenon can be observed among mountain goat, dinosaurs,
and roosters.
While seemingly unfair, nature allows this process so that the
genetic material of the superior male fuses with the egg to create
an even stronger future generation. Strength is necessary for
survival.
The phenomenon of natural selection subliminally impacts the
behavior of human females in general. Within the female brain are
genetic commands that instruct her to seek out strong males that
possess the capability to raise and nurture a superior family. Ask
any female what she prefers in the male. She would normally
respond with "strong", "caring", "sensitive", "wealthy", "influential".
These traits are among the many that a man needs in order to
successfully propagate the race. Without knowing it, the female
follows her DNA's demands for natural selection by seeking the
best possible male for her offspring. Without such a male, the
probability of her child's survival drops precariously.
Naturally dominant males face no problem winning the approval of
females by virtue of the characteristics their gene pool endowed
them with. Domineered males, on the other hand, are not so lucky.
What's a weak male to do in such an inequitable position?
To bow down and slink off in resignation is out of the question.
After all, you must propagate your offspring, no matter how weak
you may be.

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While it may be impossible to genetically reprogram your genes for

instant superiority, it is possible to alter your external appearances
and immediate environment to manifest traits normally ascribed to
the vaunted Alpha Male. By mimicking these traits, you transform
yourself into an Alpha Male in the eyes of females. Suddenly, the
female brain goes Click! and she recognizes you as a possible
mate to rear her child.
The first step to creating chemistry is transforming yourself into the
Alpha Male.
Alpha Male Body Language
Alpha males are powerful. Power excites the fairer sex. Alpha
Males move in a certain way that exudes authority. The first step to
creating the alpha image is to move like the alphas of the world.
Commit the following alpha strategies to memory:
Move with sweeping, grandiose gestures. Alpha males love to

embellish their arguments with up-thrust fists and rigid fingers.
Their arms move with exaggerated flourish.
Stand straight, as though a rope held your head straight up.

Your neck rarely bows in submission. You look straight
ahead, with sweeping or darting movements.
Move towards your destination with purpose and deliberation.

Alpha Males feel important and have definite agendas. They
stride towards their objectives with bouncy steps. Act as
though you know where you are going and why you are going
there. Timid, daydreaming shuffles are left to domineered
males.
Take as much space as you can. Occasionally hold your arms

akimbo. When you gesture, feel free to sweep your arms in
impressive, but non-intrusive arcs. When seated at a
conference table, clear out as much space around your seat
as you can and use your personal belongings to stake out
your "air space". Put your glasses, your pen in a massive
radius around your area, almost to the point of invading the
space of others.

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Phallic Point. Remember how the cowboys of old exuded

manly sensuality? They stand straight with their feet slightly
spaced wider than shoulder width, with their thumbs tucked in
their pockets and their index fingers pointing straight at their
groins. This pose arouses unsettling feelings amongst
females and it intimidates surrounding males. The Phallic
Point is a posture adopted by those confident in their sexuality
and social position.
The Alpha Male Gaze
The alpha male gaze emanates subliminal vibrations of

dominance. Certain alpha males have mastered this type of
gaze and with impressive result: people clear a path around
them! To duplicate the alpha male gaze, simply concentrate
your focus on the center of each person's eyes. Never allow
the gaze to drop less than the bridge of the nose. The effect is
to create primal, disconcerting feelings among rival males and
to incite sensual excitement among females. Women, in
particular feel that your gaze penetrates directly to their soul,
as though reading their mind. By repelling males, and
attracting females, you quickly gain alpha male reputation.
Two telepathic techniques further enhance the alpha male

gaze. The first technique creates attraction. To incite this
arousal, gaze directly between the other person's eyes, and
then, proceed to smile through your eyes at the other person.
Yes, smile through the eyes, not through the mouth. If you
cannot get the technique, close your eyes, look down and
imagine that you are looking at your heart. Now, using your
eyes, smile at your heart. You will feel a lightening of your
spirit and your eyes will suddenly feel a radiance. That is the
sensation of smiling through the eyes. When you smile at
someone through the eyes, you project psychically appealing
thoughts and your eyes radiate bursts of attractive energy.
Lovers do that all the time when they gaze at each other
lovingly over a flickering flame. Observe how their eyes seem
to glow! In the absence of such romantic situations, you
simply have to to the smile technique to radiate even more
love energy than lovers already do.

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Eye smiling at women is romantically beneficial. Alternatively,

you could use eye snarling with rival males to scare them off.
The key to creating a repulsive force against males is to gaze
directly between their eyes, and mentally shout out, "clear a
space around me. out of my way!" Project the thought
forcefully while imagining a clear field of space around you
repelling others. Your mind will automatically broadcast
repulsive brainwaves that others will feel on a subliminal level.
As you accomplish this, notice how it easily works on friends
or enemies. Experiment with a friend to verify the power of
this technique. He will indubitably feel your mental force.
Alpha Male Mind Set

Assertiveness
The Alpha Male radiates a powerful gaze and moves masterfully.
More than that, he also adopts thinking frames that convince not
just others, but also himself that he is indeed dominant.
The secret to Alpha Male thinking is assertiveness.
Assertiveness lies midway between being compliant and being
aggressive.
Compliant people buckle under pressure and seek to please
everyone. These are the types afraid to voice their needs and their
wants. Regular doormats, compliant people acquiesce to every
request even at the cost of their dignity. They fear hurting others,
so they bear their resentment in silence.
Aggressive people inhabit the opposite end of the spectrum. These
misguided individuals believe the world revolves around them and
they make sure others know it. With strong words and through
coercion, they bully their arguments into other people's heads,
regardless of the seething resentment in their wake. Aggressive
people, by virtue of their poor human relations skills, alienate
everyone and fail to inspire loyalty or affection.
Assertive people strike a good balance. Assertive people respect
themselves enough to firmly, but courteously voice out their
opinions, complaints, and ideas. They recognize both their
personal dignity and that of their colleagues. As such, assertive
people make it a point to firmly repeat their idea till it is understood,
but without necessarily compelling others to agree with it. Hence,
their innate nature of firmness tempered with gallantry inspires

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admiration.
Acquiring assertiveness takes a few simple maneuvers:
Always voice out your opinions, thoughts, needs and desires,
regardless of what you feel others would think. It is your
destiny and right not just as alpha male, but also as a human
being.
Ensure that NO one ever interrupts your speech or train of

thought. When interrupted, demand silence and the
opportunity to finish first. You will automatically garner the
respect of the violator.
Understand that you have the prerogative to accept or decline

any request or command, unless ethically bound to do so. An
alpha male is no one's slave unless he lowers himself.
Converse with others in measured tones and with downward

inflections. The resulting vocal quality will create an aura of
command. Ensure that each and every syllable is carefully
enunciated! Observe how news anchors pronounce each and
every syllable. Their voices resonate with power.
Mind Blocking
Imagine what happens when an obstacle suddenly blocks your
path. For instance, you find yourself facing an upcoming
presentation upon which your career strongly depends upon. Your
pulse races, your breath quickens and a lump forms in your throat.
Thoughts race through your mind along the following themes:
doom, failure, humiliation, loss of face...
STOP!
The first step to failure is to consider the possibility of failure. Allow
these detrimental thoughts to invade, and you surely set yourself
up for a fall. Expectations of failure develop into into a self-fulfilling
prophecy. Your subconscious mind registers the thoughts of
failure, transforms them from mere electrical impulses and into
concrete reality. Thinking failure is like subconsciously
commanding yourself to fail.

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Proof of this is easy to observe in reality. Take the presentation

example. Unless the presenter snuffs those thoughts, he creates
and travels a path directed towards failure. Influenced by the mind,
his bodily responses create the necessary ambience for
catastrophe.
Examine the escalating bodily malfunctions of a man on Failure
Avenue: first, he begins breathing erratically and stilts his voice. He
stumbles over key points and fails to address questions rapidly
enough. His eyes dart nervously across the room. He loses
credibility. Unwittingly, his mind subverted his desires for success.
Expectation of failure is a subliminal command to the self to fail. As
the subconscious is receptive to unspoken commands, it responds
almost instantaneously and instructs the nerves, muscles and
organs to carry out the directive. Hence, failure ultimately arises.
Every challenge one faces incites that "fear-of-failure-response." In
shy men, the sight of a beautiful woman is almost guaranteed to
inspire a total mental shutdown because of the flood of negativistic
thoughts. For that reason, you are now already readily aware why
so many are alone. Before contact is made, these men have set
themselves up for failure.
Why do we suffer anxiety attacks? It is a natural psychological
response designed by our DNA for protection purposes. Worry
prevents us from taking risks. Anxiety inhibits us from taking
chances. In a way, this is Mother Nature's technique for ensuring
the survival of the species.
Today, anxiety no longer serves as good a purpose as it did when
our ancestors had to flee wildcats and bears. Anxiety destroys
instead of preserves.
Snuff the anxiety cycle before it begins, through an effective
technique called Mind Blocking.
Mind Blocking is a method I use to destroy thoughts that have no
positive value and which create feelings of fear.
The next time you feel those thoughts assail your mind and the
cold touch fear creep across your neck, first blank your mind.
Imagine a white wall in your mental screen and nothing else. From
there, when your brain cycles have stabilized, swing your thought
patterns 180 degrees around, from thinking of yourself to
something else completely. Illustrating, fixate your eyes on the
nose of the woman who is causing you anxiety. Or, maybe, focus

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on the slideshow presentation your are making. All your efforts

must be totally detached from yourself and flung upon something
else. It is the preoccupation with anything else but yourself which
effectively and naturally blots out the recurring cycle of negative
thoughts when a challenge looms ahead.
Stray thoughts may infiltrate. Banish them by mentally reciting a
meaningless monotone mantra to kill them. The indian mantra
"Om" is a good resonant word."
Finally, a last tactic is lunge head into the challenge or obstacle
without first giving yourself a chance to worry about it. Doing so
pre-empts the cycle of fear that arises when a threat arises.
Operationalize this technique in the romance world. The next time
you see a woman who knocks the breath out of you, block your
mind with a white screen, gaze and focus into her eyes, recite your
mantra, and approach her within seconds of first seeing her. Say a
warm greeting in measured tones. The rapidness with which you
make your move allows you to forget any feelings of anxiety and
project an image of determination and self-assuredness. In the
romance game, self-assuredness is a desirable trait.
Recapping the Mind Block Technique
Cast a white screen in your mental field of vision to screen
anxious thoughts.
Recite a repetitive mental mantra pre-empt extraneous fears.
Focus exclusively on some external object other than yourself

till your pulse subsides.
Make an aggressive move towards the challenge (such as the

woman) before the fear cycle registers. In romance,
approaching a woman within five seconds of establishing
visual contact is a power move which endows you with an
impressive first impression. Remember, he who hesitates is
lost.
Modeling
When we see someone we admire, we tend to imitate not just their
manner of speaking, but also their method of dress and personal

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habits. At times, such imitation breeds copy-cats so similar to the

real thing that the genuine article no longer differentiates himself
substantially.
Shortly after Elvis Presly disappeared, a wave of fanatics emulated
the King's modus operandi. Many took voice classes and donned
the outfit that catapulted him to fame. Some of these imitators
achieved such proficiency that many swore that these fakes just as
good as the King. Obviously, imitation can clone success.
Think now of the ideal Ladies Man. He may be fictional. He may be
a legendary personage such as Casanova. Whom you chose
doesn't matter; what does is that you are bitingly aware of the very
traits this man possesses.
The process of modeling allows you to replicate the success of
others by stepping into the reality of that person you wish to model.
You would first create a three dimensional image of that person in
your mind, take note of the traits he possesses, and absorb it into
your own system.
Is modeling easy? Since childhood, we modeled ourselves against
parents, teachers, popular friends and superheroes. We have done
it effortlessly and enjoyed it! Modeling a Ladies Man to boost our
romantic prowess should be utter simplicity.
Ladies Man Technique
The first step to take is to close your eyes and envision that
superior person in your mind's eye. Picture him vividly as though
he were a few feet from you. Create an environment around him. A
good place would be a social setting. Now imagine a crowd of
adoring females around him. Observe carefully his behavior. Notice
his body language. How does he move? What does he say? Since
you are totally disjointed from this individual, it becomes easy to
imagine this superior man doing things that you would normally not
do.
Spend a few minutes in (envious) observation. Pay careful
attention to how he interacts, from approaching others to carrying
on a conversation. Your mind will be free-wheeling, generating an
image of what the superior person should be, based on your past
experiences and drawing from subconscious observations of
others more successful than you.
The next step transforms you into THAT superior man. As you
watch the Ladies Man entrance the females around him, feel your

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presence dissipate, as though you were a ghost. Feel your

presence envelope the Ladies Man and become wholly him. You
have become the LADIES MAN.
Now, proceed to behave as you have observed the Ladies Man
behaving. Seeing him act confident, sensual and suave readily
allows you to naturally behave in the same manner. Observe how
you speak, how you move, how others approach you.
You are the Ladies Man. You have already begun to acquire the
traits of the man you envied for years. Enjoy the sensations and
the power confidence that washes over you.
Now open your eyes. You have just radically expanded your
perspective of the world. Recreating your reality with the Ladies
Man exercise allows you to behave in a manner once alien to you.
You can already begin immediately to understand the secrets that
allowed others to succeed miraculously where so many have
failed. The difference between the losers and the winners obviously
spawned from their mindsets. The Ladies Man succeeded because
he had an overpowering outlook of unstoppable confidence. As the
Ladies Man in those brief minutes of reality altering, you readily
understood the key dispositions necessary to allure women.
Take out a pen and paper. List down all the emotions, beliefs and
traits you think created that Ladies Man. There should be at least
twenty. Every night gaze at that list and tell yourself this is how you
are now. This is how you will behave.
You have recreated your reality in your mind. Achieving that in the
real world will take no effort. After all, we are whom we think we
are.
Be the Ladies Man.
Principle of Value
The Eagle's Ambition
When women enter a relationship, they expect to receive
something from it. Some may aspire for contentment, others for
affection, and still others for excitement.

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At the most fundamental level, women engage in relationships to

satisfy a need for emotional security. The world is a dangerous
place, and it is in the arms of her lover that she obtains comfort
against numerous uncertainties like poverty, and hunger.
Additionally, she hopes that through romantic partnership, she can
enjoy a measurable degree of material comfort that will be
conducive to raising a future family.
These are all ends values, psychological goals that must be met to
put her mind at ease. If you can demonstrate to her that you
possess these desired values, you will instantly put her mind at
ease. Getting her comfortable is a prerequisite for creating
attraction. As you may know, a relaxed mind is more open to
romance. Hence, one requisite to laying the groundwork for
attraction is to create an aura of security. In order to engulf her with
that sense of security, the simplest technique is for you to exude an
ambitious spirit.
The Ambitious Man

Men who have ambition are naturally attractive to the female mind.
When men have a sense of purpose, with lofty goals, they
broadcast signals of security. Females feel confident in the
company of such men because they are assured that at the very
least, their material needs will be met.
In Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs, the biological needs (such as
security against hunger, pain and bodily threat) rests at the bottom
of all human needs. Only when this is satisfied can we move on to
entertain the next level of needs, that of affection, love and
companionship.
Men can satisfy the the first level needs of women by broadcasting
ambition. Ambitious men aspire for greater achievements and are
open about their goals. They are proud about their work, and yet,
will not rest on their current successes.
To project ambition to a prospective female, begin by disclosing to
her your future dreams. If you don't have any, make sure you
create some first. Paint glowing pictures of what you hope to
achieve, whether professionally or socially.
Never, however, belittle your current standing. Avoid putting
yourself down! Why tell others you are a loser? No woman in her
right mind will consider you a worthy prospect. Bask in pride of
what you have achieved and are yet to achieve.

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Vivid Occupational Descriptions

A useful technique for making good first impressions is to create a
short paragraph of your current preoccupations. Describe it in vivid,
enthusiastic detail and commit it to memory. The next time you
meet someone who asks you what you do, recite that short
paragraph. Without sounding too boastful, emanate a sense of
pride in what you do.
Even dull jobs can be made to sound great and exciting. For
instance:
"Me? I love my job. I handle the internal waterworks integrity of
residential areas. Sometimes I find it stressful when I can't locate
the source of pressure conflicts. Anyway, when I finally get the job
done, I feel a sense of accomplishment. I then go home and
celebrate the day's triumph with a fatter wallet that will help me
create a larger and formal outfit in the near future. I truly enjoy what
I do! How about you? What gets you busy?"
Who would ever know this were a plumber? The man exudes as
much stability as a banker. Better yet, this man is on a mission. He
set his sights high and refuses to be content. His vigor, outlook and
enthusiasm would indubitably impresses his female companion.
Pursuit Vs. Attraction

Desperate men act desperate and in so doing, repel women. While
a tautological argument, observations certainly prove that
desperation in a male is an unwanted trait.
When a man overtly manifests his dead-set desire to get any
woman, regardless of quality or personality, he cheapens his
image. He is the type who approaches women in bars with
laughable pick-up lines that are obviously memorized . He bounces
from woman to woman begging for a date. When he receives
rejection, he gets moodier and moodier. He wonders what it is
about himself that repels others so much. These are the social
misfits who believe that chasing women is the only path to
success.
Successful Ladies Men take an alternate route. They don't chase
after women, they attract women.

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Attracting women implies creating an image of nonchalant

desirability. Instead of pursuing, Ladies Men offer themselves as a
prime choice... maybe, the ONLY choice.
To attract women, demands that the male adopt an attitude of
nonchalance. In his quest for romance, he cares little whether his
advances will be received or not. If rebuffed, he moves on. If his
charms are welcomed, then that is icing on his cake, a triumph.
The Ladies Man understands that he is offering himself as an
exciting alternative to the bland men out there. If his company is
not accepted, he automatically shrugs his shoulders because he
knows it's her loss not his.
This attitude of indifference makes men magnetic because women
who are used to being pursued suddenly find themselves working
actively to gain the attention of this "difficult man." It excites them.
Nonchalance is but one ingredient to attracting women.
Another tested formula is to create a vast network of casual women
friends. Being seen with many casuals invokes curiosity and rivalry
in the minds of women who develop an interest in you.
Forging the network takes a bit of exertion. As a fledgling ladies
man, you may consider going out of your way to make friendly
acquaintances with everyone you meet. Start small in the
beginning. Smile or say hello to the hotdog vender or salesgirl
where you get your coffee. Greet the woman who delivers your
laundry. Entertain that cute little girlscout selling cookies! Be warm
with everyone by giving one or two compliments.
Work your way up. When you have established the seed of
confidence, begin smiling at those whom you find attractive. Be
pleasant to total strangers. In time, the network of casual
acquaintances will surprise you. Everyone in town would have
become familiar with your friendliness. The next time a beautiful
stranger agrees to meet with you, she will be amazed the the
tremendous rapport you have with others, and she will seek to
discover the secret of your charisma.
"Get Together" Technique

Subtlety pays off in spades. The aspiring Ladies Man avoids pickup
lines because pickup lines beg for rejection. How could you not say
no to, "Gee, your father must have been a thief because he stole
the stars and placed it in your eyes. Can we have a date?"

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Appalling!
Approaching a newly-made acquaintance and requesting for a
future afternoon of relationship-deepening need not be such a
humiliating experience.
When proposing a date, it may even be better not to mention the
word "date" because it puts women on the defensive. Women feel
pressured by the the request because of the connotations
enveloping a "date." Dates imply a certain level of commitment and
performance, which she may not be prepared to handle. Hence,
one sure-fire way of creating resistance is asking, "Hello, since we
know each other a little, why don't we have a date, say next
week?" The line is uninspired and speaks of an uncreative mind.
To get that "date", the Ladies Man tactfully approaches the
dilemma by suggesting not a connotation-laden "date", but
instead, an innocent "get-together."
A suavely uttered line could be, "Mary Anne, I enjoyed this
conversation immensely. Maybe we could get together sometime in
the future over a cup of coffee? Would you look forward to that?"
Simple, effective and non-threatening. The sentence profoundly
suggests an innocent meeting between friends with no pressure to
comply. Furthermore, there is the embedded command that she
would even look forward to it. (More information on embedded
commands later.)
The woman receiving the suggestion will feel flattered. You
compliment her on the conversation, and imply that you would
appreciate a repetition of the experience. Then, you gallantly offer
her the power to decide the future "date", should she choose to
accept it. In one sentence, you set yourself apart as a confident,
sensitive individual. There is no desperation, in it, just warmth.
The Power of Scarcity

We naturally ascribe greater value to what we find in limited
supply. From basic economics, price rises when supply dwindles.
The rarest objects command hefty compensation, such as
diamonds, Cadillacs and miracle cures to AIDS
The principle of scarcity provides a powerful tool for human
relations. Men value women who escape the grasp of normal
mortals. The appeal of movie stars and celebrities illustrate the

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power of this principle. Julia Roberts enjoys a mystique partly

drawing from her scarcity. There is just one Julia Roberts with the
special Julia qualities. Julia enjoys many admirers, but can devote
her time to only a select few. What precious time she allocates to
her close friends increases in value to outsiders because not
everyone could so much as even walk up to her and say hello.
Julia is scarce and her scarcity enhances her market value.
Men wishing to use the principle of scarcity, and therefore increase
their attractiveness, must create the appearance of not always
being available.
Too often do they do the opposite. Men readily jump when asked
out by a beautiful woman. They stretch phone conversations or
dates till the woman yawns in boredom. Essentially, men who are
always there lose their mystery.
In order to appear scarce, the Ladies Man makes it appear that his
calendar is always full. He gives the impression of being busy.
Because of his hectic schedule, Ladies Men make it a point to turn
down invitations occasionally on the pretext of a more important
engagement. The Ladies Man cuts short a date or phone
conversation while the going is good to create a sense of
anticipation in the woman.
Women treasure such men because they pose a challenge.
Whenever a great date is terminated early they wait excitedly for
the next one so that they can experience again the emotional
exhilaration. Teasing her with your scarcity-- the results can be so
delightful!
The psychological need for completion further augments the desire
for future encounters. Each time a lovely conversation is cut, the
woman yearns to finish the discussion next time to create a sense
of completion. You seek to maintain that taut tension, so you cut
future conversations as well.
Maintaining the scarcity principle for a certain period is advisable.
Once real affection has been attained, the Ladies Man relieves
some of the pressure by making himself more available to the
chosen one. After about ten to fifteen exploratory encounters, he
makes her feel that truly, he is scarce, but for her, he makes
adjustments. Watch her admiration for him skyrocket!

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Power of Differentiation
In MBA school, competitive advantage comes from product or
service differentiation. Set your product apart by a unique
feature-set and you readily inspire curiosity and generate brand
loyalty. Apple triumphed with its savvy delicious design of laptops.
To invoke the power of differentiation, you as an aspiring romantic,
must develop specialties that the common crop of man normally do
not possess. You can use these skills as focal points for
conversation and to demonstrate to her that you are unique, and
therefore superior to the rest. These skills also come in handy
when you hit a lull in conversations and must fill in the vacant time
with some amusement.
The talents that you develop need not be difficult to master.
Anything out of the ordinary would do. Popular favorites among
charmers are those that invite participation from women such as:
Tarot card reading
Fortune telling
Palmistry
Psychological analysis
Handwriting analysis
Magic tricks
The secret to the effectiveness of these techniques is that they
inspire curiosity. Women, by nature, love discovering about the
unknown. Unearthing secrets allure their fancy. Tickle their
fantasies by offering uncovering something about themselves
through your skillful analytical skills!
Principle of the White Knight

As children, women dreamt of being swept away by a Knight in
Shining Armor. Unsurprisingly, the desire to be treated like
princesses endures till adulthood. The romantic image of a Knight
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knightly arms and handled with absolute care would still be very
much welcomed.
Most men feel that modern women disdain courtly behavior and
prefer to do things by themselves. The powerful career woman
invokes images of independence and cold aloofness. As a result,
the old ways of holding open doors or pulling out seats for women
have been consigned to the dusty annals of outdated behavior.
But do women really desire to be treated like "one of the boys?"
A recent interview conducted over the net, canvassing 7500
respondents of international backgrounds provide conclusive proof
that even the most jaded modern woman would melt in the hands
of a gallant man. Gallantry could never be an out-of-date technique
because through it, women are made to feel special. The female
psyche is inherently emotion-based and for the Ladies Man, that is
one doorway through which he can win her over.
Emotions: The Master Key to Her Main Door

To appeal to women, touch them on an emotional level. The
neuro-circuitry of their minds responds well to emotional
stimulation. In contrast, men function on a rational, logical manner.
This basic difference readily explains the great rift between men
and women. Both genders process experiences in radically
different ways. For that reason, misunderstanding ensues rapidly.
Remember the common complaint men have against women?
They are too emotional. They cry too easily. They find lots of things
funny, which is why they giggle a lot.
Women view men differently. Men are blocks of ice. They have a
lifeless heart. They look at life like one large conquest.
To win a woman over entails crossing sides. The man who shuts
down his rational self and activates his emotional circuitry will begin
thinking like a woman, and more importantly, begin empathizing
with her. He will understand why she behaves in such a manner
and how to touch upon, and validate her emotions.
That is the theory. Applying it in practice, again, is simplicity itself.
I recommend the would-be Don Juan to drop most of his rational
thinking when in the company of women, specially the highly
emotional ones. Laugh with them when she giggles. Fawn over the

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stray dog that her heart bleeds for. Swallow your pride and weep
silently when she cries buckets of tears at a movie.
Everytime the woman shares her feelings, be sure to manifest
understanding and acknowledgement. You don't have to agree
with her; simply demonstrate that you empathize with her
emotions. For instance, as she mourns over the death of her
hamster, give her hand a reassuring squeeze and a big hug. Most
lesser males would unceremoniously toss the hamster in the
trash-bin... to the horror of their girlfriends or their wives! Diablo!
What a brute!
The Power of Feelings Talk

When women gather, they discuss John's love affair, Martha's
great birthday party, and Angel's recent coming of age. Their
conversations drip heavily with feelings.
When men gather, they discuss stock-markets, souped-up Lexus
engines and the miracle of microelectronics. If they do discuss
something emotional, it usually revolves around a rookie wrestler
bashing in the head of the reigning champion.
Men talk facts; women talk emotions. When men talk with women,
women get bored to tears. The lack of emotion drains away the
rapport.
Instead of discussing facts, talk feelings! Men who can create a
conversation laden with feelings set themselves apart as sensitive
and exciting. This may be the one conversational skill that can
make even the ugliest male shine out in a group of females.
Consider the following conversation between Mark and Jeff
Mark: Hey Jeff, whatcha doing?
Jeff: I'm fixing the boat. Why?
Mark: Dunno. Just curious. Where are you taking it later?
Jeff: Going to Palm springs.
Mark: Gee that's far. How far away is that?
Jeff: About 50 miles. Gotta tank up.

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Mark: Oh. That will cost fuel. How many gallons can she hold?
Jeff: 120 gallons tops.... etc etc.
Mark and Jeff's conversation reflect typical male banter. The
subject matter tends to be fact-based, and questions are close
ended, meaning that one or two words are required to answer
them. These conversations allow little room for savvy maneuvering
and interpersonal exploration. No wonder males and females don't
not always get along.
Now consider Josie and May:
Josie: Hi May, I just passed the boards!
May: Wow! I'm so happy for you! How did you feel about it?
Josie: I'm so relieved. I crammed so much, my stress levels shot
through the roof. I can now mellow down with the kids and go out
with Jack later.
May: I can imagine. It's like a tight rubber band just eased up huh?
I felt that way too when I hurdled my recent GMATs. I could barely
think straight. I was so afraid to fail!
From the conversation, both women elaborated on their emotions.
May, as supportive friend, validated Josie's feelings of triumph and
empathized with her by recalling a similar emotional incident in her
life. Each woman experienced tremendous rapport because both
were in emotional sync.
A man who desires the same amount of conversational rapport
with women sheds his propensity for fact-based questions. Instead
he asks questions that are open ended. Open-ended questions
typically begin with what, why or how and require entire paragraphs
in order to be answered.
Furthermore, the sensitive Ladies Man, crafts his questions that
touch base on the woman's emotional circuitry. He wisely asks her
how she feels and why she feels that way. To be a Don Juan, the
Ladies Man masters the art of emotional questioning and active
listening.
When he elicits a response, the Ladies Man then proceeds to
validate her emotions by raising a similar emotionally charged
incident in his life to demonstrate that he truly understands how
she feels. He can also opt to paraphrase her emotionally charged
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Wham. Instant rapport and powerful connection!

To take advantage of feeling-based questioning, remember the
following standard questions and sprinkle them liberally in
conversations. Watch her eyes light up as she sifts through her
emotions almost as though she were in a trance.
How do you feel about that?
How does that make you feel?
What brought about your joy (sadness)?
How do you feel now?
I can see you're upset. Do you want to talk about it?
I go through that often. Let's talk about how you feel.

These power-packed questions will immediately unleash her dam
of emotions. Make sure that you nod appreciatively while listening.
Take care not to interrupt. When she reaches the point of
emotional purging, proceed to demonstrate understanding by
raising a similar incident or describing in analogous terms your take
of her story.
Now consider a talk between Don Juan and his Lady:
DJ: Hey, how did you spend your weekend?
L: I went hiking up Mt. Craggy.
DJ: Oh, wow. That made you feel good?
L: (Beaming) Yeah. gave me a rush.
DJ: Ah... I can imagine what you mean. It's really roughing it there.
The exertion must have taken your best. Imagine... clambering
over those rocks and bracing yourself against those winds. But
when you finally get to the top, you see that expanse below you...
and your heart soars... with all that blue sky around you like the
world is your kingdom! You must find it a liberating experience!
L: Yes yes yes! That's exactly how it felt. So I camped at the peak
and waited for sunrise.

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DJ: Sunrise? It must have been magnificent! How did that make
you feel?
L: (spends ten minutes in breathless description)
Principle of Nuclear Power

Power Enthusiasm
Energy animates all living things for energy is the source of life.
From scientific observations, we discover that at every well-spring
of energy, animals, vegetation and civilizations flourish.
Moths flock around light-bulbs. Fish swarm towards lamps. Baby
chicks huddle around incubation units. Phytoplankton burgeon in
sunlight. Man builds camps around camp-fires and hunting
grounds.
As we are all naturally aware, energy attracts. The lack of energy,
on the other hand, repels. The icy wilderness sustains no life, but
the energy-rich tropical forests do.
Each human carries within him a power-source of energy. We are
walking batteries of life force. Animals and plants likewise are
miniature storehouses of energy.
Not everyone carries the same amount of energy. We classify
individuals as either high-energy or low-energy.
Experiential observations readily indicate that high-energy people
possess a natural attractive radiance. For instance, athletes,
dancers and busy executives appear more likeable than lethargic
couch potatoes. The overwhelming store of energy in active, happy
individuals creates a force which infects and enlivens those around
them.
Contrast this with the moody gloomer. People feel down around
despondent individuals and prefer to avoid them. You can actually
feel a strong drain on your own energy when you mingle with
low-energy people. It is like you are sapped of your life-force.
In most cases, attracting women to you becomes much easier
when you put on an upbeat personality as you mingle with them.
Set aside the sad stories and long faces. Project a burst of energy
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exuberance. Laugh... laugh a lot! Add bounce to your step and

quiet force in your gestures. Sprinkle pep into your every
interaction.
Spill your energy over into your personality. Reek with enthusiasm!
Manifest a zest for living. In fact, live on the edge!
Women find themselves naturally affected by emotions. Women
are sponges of feelings and their own outlook readily adjust to
those with whom they spend time with. If you want them to be
happy around you, you simply must be happy and bouncy around
them!
Exposed to your high-energy levels, women will associate their
resultant emotional high with you. They will consider your company
highly because they feel good when you are around.
Shooting the Messenger

When someone brings bad tidings, he normally faces the ire of the
recipient. The bad news, apparently, becomes identified with the
messenger. Regardless of whose fault it is, the messenger suffers
the blame.
You don't want to be associated with any bad news that could lead
to negative emotions. Hence, avoid carrying bad news to the object
of your affections, otherwise she will associate you with bad news.
Give her a lot of bad news and she will drop you like a hot potato.
Corollary to this, avoid being around women when they are in a
bad mood. It may sound like common sense, but many men start
showing up when women are in the blackest of moods, hoping to to
pull them out of their doldrums. It rarely works. Women sometimes
prefer to be alone in such times. Being there when she feels nasty
will just associate you with bad feelings in her mind. She'll think,
"He's always around when I'm in a lousy mood. Therefore John=
Bad Moods. Therefore, John is worthless. Therefore I must avoid
John."
Poor John.
Get out while you can!
In order to exploit the Principle of Nuclear Power:
Manifest an upbeat spirit all the time.

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Crack a lot of jokes. Tell exhilarating stories. Infect her with

enthusiasm.
Avoid dark conversations.
Avoid her when she has her period or when she prefers to
grump around.
Never pass on bad tidings. Let your rival do that for you.
Create a sense of youthful urgency in your movements.
Wear animated facial expressions.
Take her on high-energy outings that will arouse her

emotions, such as amusement parks, and hiking trip. The
higher her level of energy the better. She will associate her
highs with you.
Principle of Magnetic Attraction

Creating incredible states attraction is the ultimate aim of this book.
This section builds upon the previous principles and elucidates
formidable methods that will empower you to incite sensual highs
in almost any woman. As you read through the following passages,
you will become aware of the secret tactics that have given the
Ladies Man his real edge over the regular Johns.
Whether you choose to master these techniques or integrate them
into your daily arsenal of allurement, you will readily find yourself
entering into profound relationships that you never before dreamed
possible.
Creating Magnetic Rapport

We like those who are like ourselves. This is the prime
psychological rule of attraction. Contrary to popular belief,
opposites do not always attract. In the long run, disastrous
relationships result from such partnerships. Consider a pro-lifer
dating an abortion supporter. Sparks will fly.

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The reason we like those who resemble us is that we find our

existence validated. The more someone mirrors us in thought,
word and deed, the more we feel that we ourselves are important.
It makes us feel special to know that someone agrees with us on
matters important to us.
Countless psychological studies proved the veracity of this
phenomenon. Best friends normally share the same interests. Boys
frequently marry women who remind them of their moms. Women,
likewise, marry men who resemble their dads. This type of
marriage occurs because sons and mothers, daughters and dads
usually share the same values, and hence, look for the same in
their partners.
In order to irresistibly attract the woman of your dreams,
demonstrate your inherent similarity to her. This is called the
technique of Rapport Generation
First Level Rapport Generation

The first step to rapport creation is to mirror the thinking processes
of the woman you seek to impress. You must demonstrate that you
share her position, her opinions and her beliefs. The first few
exploratory meetings is not the time to disagree and prove your
powers of argumentation. In order to attract her, you have to
sympathize with everything that she shares with you. Later, as the
relationship deepens, you can manifest the slight differences that
you may have.
Second Level Rapport
Demonstrating a similarity in thinking and opinions instantly creates
a sense of union. The woman feels that you and she share a
special bond arising of the intellectual connection you reveal.
You can carry the rapport to the next level by demonstrating
similarities in her emotions. Whatever her emotion, recreate the
same emotion in yourself. If she's exuberant, you must match her
level of excitement and talk as animatedly. If she's feeling down
and blue, tone down your own emotions to her level to gain
rapport. Speak soothingly and reassuringly to demonstrate
understanding of her feelings. Then, as you create the bond,
gradually increase the pep. If you had created enough rapport, she
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Third Level Rapport

The third level packs a powerful punch. To create a tremendous
sense of profound rapport requires that you mirror every aspect of
her movements, posture and vocal quirks. By mirror, I mean that
you are to be her exact reflection.
Using the science of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP),
researches positively concluded that when we create a mirror
image of the person we are with, we affect their subconscious with
lasting impact. The technique of this 100% mimicry is called
Mirroring.
When your mirror another, you wait a few seconds, then you
exactly mimic the same posture and movements that the other
person makes. In essence, you take the reflection of her position.
When she crosses her arms, you cross yours. When she strokes
her cheek, you massage yours. As she taps her pen, you clink your
key chain.
You mirror as best as you can. Subtle mirroring is of little use. To
create an irresistible impression in her subconscious, your
mirroring ought to be precise. Thus, ensure that you are seated in
the same manner or standing in the same position. If you can,
breathe with the same rhythm that she uses.
Mirroring also demands that you speak at the same rate she does.
Match her tempo, timbre and tone. Infuse your voice with the same
inflections that she prefers. Pepper your speech with the words she
loves repeating.
Mirroring works so well, because, while the woman does not
consciously perceive your copy-cat act, she will notice it on a
subliminal level. Her subconscious mind will register the fact that
you behave so similarly, thereby causing her to feel an
overwhelming sense of psychological ease and connectedness.
Remember, we like those who remind us of ourselves.
In normal life, we already practice an unconscious mirroring with
those whom we have established a deep level of intimacy with. If
you were to observe lovers in intimate conversation, you will
witness a startling amount of mirroring. Both partners would be
leaning together in the same direction. When one reaches for a
glass, the other would reach for hers. Sometimes they laugh at
almost the same time; they likewise yawn in unison. If the guy were
to fix his bow, the girl would subconsciously adjust her blouse.
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other's minds and blurt out the same thing at the same time!
The Seductive Gaze

What if you had the power to arouse unsettling feelings with your
eyes alone? There exists a secret of arousing with magnetic eyes.
The eyes can project subliminal sensuality. Master seducers
understood that by gazing directly into the point between a
woman's eyes, a sense of intimacy develops, even between casual
acquaintances.
Eye seduction starts with extended gazing that eventually begins
roaming across the entire facial region of the woman. Throughout
the gaze, the eyes should never leave the woman and be focused
upon her eyes and any region of the face.
Don't divert you glance for any reason. Act as though she is the
only entity in existence. A crashing plate or passing bombshell
cannot distract you. Your eye worship is the ultimate psychological
caress. In her mind, she will be tremendously flattered that nothing
can seem to tear your gaze away.
Drop your eyelids just a bit, as though you were squinting at a
painting. This creates the "bedroom eyes" effect and if done right,
can be very arousing. Tilt your head downwards 10 degrees and
peer at her from an angle.
You can also expand your pupils, thereby transforming your eyes
into wondrous beacons of charisma. In order to accomplish this,
imagine tubes of sizzling white light connecting your eyeballs to
hers. Your pupils will automatically enlarge and simultaneously
transmit an alluring brainwave to her mind. Experiment with a
friend and you will easily experience how surprisingly effective this
is.
The Seductive Voice

Second to the eyes, the voice is a powerful tool of enticement. With
your voice, you can easily channel the mood of a woman into the
direction you want.
By merely modifying your vocal tone to reflect the emotion you
desire, you gradually recreate that same emotion in the woman you
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Try this. Banter away in a rapid, upbeat tone. Watch as her voice
speeds up and her emotions perk in response to yours. Making
someone happy with your voice is easy.
Seducing someone with your voice can be accomplished just as
rapidly. The secret is in how you enunciate.
For the moment, say the word "telephone" in a neutral tone. Take
note of how it sounds. Say the word "telephone" again, this time
angrily, as though the "telephone" roused you from sleep. Be
aware of the shift in vocal quality.
Now... this is the secret that will allow you to stir intense feelings of
attraction: the whisper.
Whisper the word "telephone" slowly and sooooothingly. Project
the word from the back of your throat or from the pit of the
stomach. The effect is the same. "Telephone" suddenly sounds
sexy.
Now repeat it again, this time, literally breathing the word and
deliberately elongating the vowels. Make your voice low, whispery
and sexy.
That's it! Surprised? You've just discovered the power of vocal
inflections. When you want to create intimacy, simply lean in close
and conduct your conversations in this seductive manner. Count
the stars that begin sparkling in her eyes as you talk. Sheer
mesmerism!
For those wishing to deepen the tonality and quality of their voices,
practice the following exercise:
Open your mouth slightly.
Start humming the word "oooohhmmmmm..." repeatedly and

smoothly.
While humming, project the sounds directly from the bottom of

your belly and feel the reverberation on your middle chest.
The absence of reverberation implies that the exercise is not
being done right.

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Hum for 15 more minutes then proceed talking normally.

Delightfully observe how the resonance and sensuality of your
voice dramatically improved. Each syllable you issue will
vibrate at a low level and attract the person you whisper your
alluring phrases to. This is the secret of stage actors to create
fullness to their vocal quality.
The Magic Touch

Women tend to be touchier than men. Observe how women hug
each other and hold hands. They possess a psychological need for
tactile sensations. Touching satisfies their constant need for
reassurance and safety.
In the psychological world, people who like being touched are
called kinesthetics. They process more information through touch
and not through the other senses of sight and sound.
Kinesthetics constantly touch and hold things in order to feel
connected to reality. It is a subconscious need.
Kinesthetics derive security when they can get a grasp of material
objects and people. You can automatically tell who is kinesthetic by
the amount of touching he or she does, as well as by the choice of
words she uses. Words like "fuzzy", "warm", "sensations", "hold",
"bring" are their favorites. Observe that some people have an
interesting urge to pick up objects and examine them. They betray
their kinesthetic tendencies.
A key rule to remember is that most kinesthetics are very easily
aroused (not necessarily in a sexual manner) by tactile sensations!
Most women are naturally kinesthetic. They love hugging, holding
and fiddling with their hands, arms and bodies. hence, touching
can arouse them easily.
Males, on the other hand are highly visual and derive great
psychological stimulation through what they see. This fact explains
why men are so turned-on by naked women but women are not as
easily aroused by naked men.
Women prefer hugging. The bear hug incites a range of emotions
from security to deep affection. Nonetheless, while males
concentrate on erotic stimulation, women focus on emotional
stimulation. Shame on men!

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Since women prefer the touch to any other stimulation, it makes

sense that men adopt touching as one of their rapport-generating
tactics.
With non-sexual touching, the male can give the woman a sense of
security and intimacy. Whenever the opportunity arises, the male
can lightly brush the woman's sleeve to remove an imaginary
speck. He could squeeze her arm or shoulder for reassurance. He
may tap her elbow when making a point.
The more kinesthetic touching, the better. Touching easily creates
a sense of incredible connection.
A word of warning: common sense dictates that the male first
gauge exactly how much touching should take place. Some women
may be repulsed by too touchy a fellow. Furthermore, avoid
amorous advances by touching erogenous zones. It is not only
disrespectful, it can kill rapport.
A quick rundown on kinesthetic tactics:
Touch as often as you can if she welcomes it.
Good upper region touching includes brushing the sleeve,

tapping the arms, shoulders and stroking the cheek.
When both are seated, the male can slightly brush his knee
against hers.
When both are standing, attempt to lean in a little closer,

thereby entering her personal space. This works only
between established friends and promotes intimacy.
A reassuring squeeze or hug can work wonders when done at

the right time!
The Magic of Praise

Women subsist on s stable diet of reassurance. Whenever they
receive a compliment, it's a sensual bullet straight through their
psyche. It drives them crazy.
Men must make it a point to avoid criticizing and instead, to
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elevates the female mood and her perception of the praising male.
Praise works beneficially for both parties!
Praise, done too often, loses its power. Like a medicine taken very
often, constant praising becomes boring. Men must bide their time
when deciding to launch a praise.
Praise comes in three levels:
Kudos
Called reflex praise, this is the flavor of flattery that is immediately
expected by a woman regardless of the situation.
An instance calling for kudos arises when she just accomplished a
tough marketing assignment or she had proudly created a
magnificent quiltwork. In these situations, it must be an automatic
reflex of the Ladies Man to heap mild recognition on her efforts. A
simple, "Good job, Linda... I love it!" will do. Linda will surely beam.
When praise is not given in such situations, the impact is
detrimental to the male. The woman will feel disappointed in the
apparent insensitivity of her lover.
Occasional Praise
The sensitive lover takes the time to observe for his lady's unique
qualities upon which he can heap genuine praises upon. A woman
would be very flattered receiving praises for something which she
is very proud about, but which most people normally overlook.
Seek out the special quality in your woman, then praise it. An
effective way to sniff out qualities is to observe what preoccupies
her a lot. If your woman spends so much time doing her hair, then
she definitely would appreciate a glowing comment on it.
Otherwise, it won't be her focal point!
Deliver this kind of praise at least once a day.
Mega Praise
Sometimes, the regular praise won't do anymore. Dining on a
stable diet of mundane praises could tire even a vain a woman. In
this case, use mega praise. Mega praise is a knockout
breath-taker. It's impact is guaranteed to leave her glowing for

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hours on end. Of course, that afterglow will benefit you because

she will indubitably associate her state of emotional high with you.
In order to deliver a payload of mega praise, the praiser spends a
few minutes in quiet meditation that will lead him to discovering a
very special, never before-complimented aspect of his lady.
Through a series of self-imposed question and answering, he
probes every facet of her physical, mental, emotional, social and
professional life. He seeks out that praiseworthy gem like a
bloodhound and shines the strobe lights of praise on it.
Deliver that knockout comment when you discover the
praiseworthy nugget. First, approach the lady, address her by
name, pause for dramatic effect, then deliver the praise in a soft,
seductive and sincere manner. The emotional burst emanating
from a well-praised woman could light 100 light bulbs till Christmas
day.
Praise of this sort is regulated medicine. Choose the time and
place and when launching mega praise will have the most impact.
Killer Body Language

Body language experts teach how to identify emotional states by
reading both the posture and gestures of people. While there are
thousands of possible posture and gesture combinations, this book
concentrates on just two generic categories which is pertinent to
the art of magnetic attraction. These are the open and closed body
languages.
Open Body Language

In order to attract other people, we must project a sense of
approachability. The body movements and posture we use betray
both our thoughts and emotions. Luckily, we can modify our body
language accordingly to create subliminal messages that we are
open to exploring new relationships.
Using open body language sends out signals of warmth and
friendliness. A man or woman adopting this pose appears more
likable. In order that you can lower the resistance of the woman
you want to attract, see to it that your body language is always
opened!

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Opened body language is analogical to an unlocked house. The

doors, the windows, the porch gates are open. An air of comfort
exudes in the unlocked house. People find these houses inviting.
Opened body language, like the unlocked house, is easy to spot.
You will readily examine that the arms, the legs, the eyes are all
free. An open person uncrosses her arms, uncrosses her legs and
looks at you steadily. Instead of retreating, she leans forward, as
though inviting you closer. She faces you squarely and not at an
angle. Her palms are out in the open, unclenched.
When trying to attract someone, make a mental assessment of
your posture and unlock any part of you that is tightly fastened.
You will emanate more charisma by projecting openness and
approachability.
You can also use your body language skill to identify prospects
who are open to advance. Approach women who are relaxed and
unlocked. Women in an opened posture are not on the defensive.
There is a strong possibility that they have an amiable frame of
mind and would be amenable to meeting new friends.
Closed Body Language

Women in closed postures have retreated into a defensive or
uncommunicative frame of mind. Observe a person sitting with her
arms firmly crossed against her chest, and her legs crossed across
the thigh. She leans away or backward and may refuse to gaze at
you steadily. Instead she looks at you from the corner of the eye,
and makes darting glances towards her environment. Her closed
mind-set is made more apparent with tightly clenched fists or
hidden palms. Observe the breathing. It may be short, clipped and
shallow.
Avoid these people unless you feel you can open them up. Be
forewarned that you will expend a great deal of energy trying to
enliven their spirits.
The Magic of Names

The most beautiful sound in the world is a person's name. Whisper
a woman's name in a noisy room, even at a distance, and her ears
are bound to perk up.

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Saying someone's name repeatedly is an emotional stimulant. The

sad fact is that many men forget names so easily, or fail to use it
often enough.
Create rapport with the woman you love! Liberally sprinkle it in
conversations. Whisper it lovingly. Holler it with pride. State it
firmly. Every time you mention that magic word, you ring the bells
of her heart... and her ego.
Pet Names
Transcend beyond the acquaintance level. Offer to use her pet
name or create one yourself. Close friends share secret names. It
doesn't matter if it is ridiculous. When you utter pet names, you
invoke a sense of intimacy. Each time you invoke that special
handle, you will find yourself deepening the relationship.
Principle of Verbal Acrobatics

Words sizzle with power. What we say and how we deliver it can
easily influence the behavior and emotions of others. The sections
on Seductive Voice and Feeling Talk readily demonstrated how
easily you can increase rapport by modifying your vocal tone and
selecting your subject matter.
This section hones that basic power further. You will now learn how
to arouse emotions, any emotion with your words alone.
But for the the time being, let me stop and tell you about a recent
holiday that I enjoyed immensely... I just embarked on a
magnificent trip to a tropical paradise.... Now.. I can still imagine
how beautiful the scenery was.... I stood on a rocky crag, feeling
the sun bathe my skin with soothing warmth.... I can remember the
delicious caress of the sea breeze on my cheek... heavenly! The
ocean pounded on the surf below... insistently like a seductive
slooow roar.... and in the distance, I watched as seagulls flew
high... soaring.... enjoying the tremendous liberation of it all. With
me was my girlfriend... and she reached out, hugging me tightly...
and a I felt her warmth and the love that she radiated into the very
pores of my skin....

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As you were reading through that highly descriptive paragraph, I

can imagine the numerous vivid images flashing through your
head... as well as the sounds of the crashing ocean and feel of my
girlfriend's tight hug.
You witnessed the power of the word.
In order for you to make sense of the passage, you had to
experience for yourself what I wrote. Those were mere ink
scribbles on paper, yet they invoked very powerful, very real
emotions.
The human mind interprets the stimuli it comes across and
processes them through the five senses. When confronted with
very descriptive, emotionally-charged words, an amazing thing
happens... almost instantly, your feelings go click! and it work in
tandem with your mind in order to create a three dimensional
reality of the two dimensional words your read or hear. Without that
process, you cannot relate properly to the passage. Our mind
processes stories by tapping the five sensual apparatuses of our
body.
Paragraphs that vividly describe emotional and sensual sensations
(sight/sound/touch) create an alternate reality in the minds of the
listener. When you tell a compelling story, she listens, while
internalizing and actually experiencing what you say.
Romantic Story Telling

The Ladies Man would like to create favorable emotions in the
heart of his lady. He may opt for fascination, warmth, attraction or
love. Whatever the emotion is, all he need do is create a story
fraught with emotion and tell it to her in a slow, soothing and
spell-binding manner. Remember the ellipses (...)? These are
pause points where the story teller heightens the anticipation by
compelling the listener to hang on to the succeeding descriptions.
For a demonstration, let's assume, you want to create a state of
being in love with your new lady. Accomplishing this task need not
be too complex. Simply describe all the desired emotions in the
context of a compelling story. She will absorb everything rapidly!
Tip: Story telling can revive a staling romance.
An example:

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I can remember a time when I was so in love with in someone.... I

felt so blissful... it was like the most wonderful thing in the world.... I
remember how intimate, how warm we felt each time we
hugged...it was like the entire world faded away and all you see
would be the person right before you. Have you ever felt that way...
I mean, can you remember a time when you felt so totally in love
with someone that your world was so focused on just him?
Note the italicized words. These verb phrases are the key to
emotional stimulation. The italicized phrases are direct commands
which you utter in a special way such that the woman you say it to
will feel compelled to act upon it emotionally.
Known in the science of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) as
embedded commands, these verb phrases can create any emotion
if properly hidden in the context of a larger sentence.
When we seek to create intense emotions in our listener, we first
create a list of the emotions that we want her to experience. We
then transform these emotional states into direct verb commands.
For example:
...Have an incredible fascination..
...Become increasingly attracted...
...Get very excited...
...Remember having a wonderful time...
...Experience a liberating sensation...
...Grow very attached...
...Fall in love...
...Consider all avenues and perspectives...
...Imagine the pounding exhilaration...

The aforementioned list is by no means exhaustive; nonetheless,
five or six emotional states is the appropriate amount for one story.
The next step requires a bit of creativity. You now weave the

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commands into the story that your create. If you had time to
prepare, you could memorize a story before hand and imbed the
commands within the story.
There you have it: basic emotional stimulation in a nutshell.
Story telling works so well because it takes the subtle route. The
mind of your listener never perceives that you are suggesting that
she experiences those emotions, hence, you face no mental
resistance!
Imagine if you blurted out those commands directly without the
benefit of the story?
Here's a ridiculous example:
Martha, I want you to feel totally fascinated. As we sit here, you
find yourself getting interested in what I'm saying. My God, you are
getting so interested, that you can barely contain your enthusiasm.
Ludicrous indeed! Martha will reject such overt attempts of
manipulation.
Advanced Neurolinguistic Story Telling

Basic storytelling has you as the star. Re-read the first story. In that
example, the story is told from the first-person point of view. It is an
effective and non-intrusive method.
A more powerful method is to describe the story from the second
person point of view. You will address the other person directly this
time, telling her that she is the one experiencing those emotions.
How do you get away with being subtle this time?
You achieve this easily by utilizing "softener phrases". These
words appear innocuous, but they allow you to link the embedded
commands immediately after the launching of these phrases. The
softener phrase diverts the attention of the listener. It prevents
them from directly perceiving the succeeding commands as
intended directly from them. Essentially, they create an indirect
assault.
The most powerful softening phrases are the following:
Can you imagine how...

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Imagine what it would be like...
Picture now...
Have you ever...
What is it like when...
As you...
You may find yourself...

Commit those phrases to memory. Done? Good.
These phrases are then directly linked to the embedded
commands to soften their impact. Resultantly, the listener doesn't
perceive the phrases as commands. She thinks of them as mere
suggestions or statements of fact (compelling ones at that).
Let's get it all together now. Let us assume that you choose to
invoke a sense of fascination... a favorite of many Don Juans.
You create the story by beginning with the softener phrase,
following with the direct command, then proceeding to describe the
emotional state. The description grows in power when you choose
vivid words.
At the end of the description, make sure that you link the resultant
emotions to yourself. You can do this by pointing at yourself or
creating self-references throughout the story. It is stealthy, and
effective. As you use this tactic, do consider the repercussions of
your actions. Use this powerful tool benignly.
Here's the example:
I'm curious... do you mind if ask you.... Have you ever been totally
fascinated with someone? Like perhaps, as you sat there, gazing
at him, and you began to listen intently... maybe you felt that his
beautiful voice appeared to embrace you oh so gently.... and
then... the rest of the environment faded away.... and your entire
world... your focus was just on that face before you... oh so
enchanting.... and you drank in the sparkle of his eyes... and
maybe, as you listened on and stared into his eyes... your heart
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getting fascinated with his words... with his face... with his touch....
So... as you remember all that... could you maybe see yourself
there with him... just enjoying his company... can you imagine what
that would feel like?
Notes: The green phrase is the softener phrase. The underlined phrases are the
embedded commands. When you enunciate the embedded commands, you first
pause before uttering them, then you say them firmly, as though making an
imperative. Avoid making pronouncing the commands too obviously, or you will sound
ridiculous.
The power of the spoken word. Imagine now, how easily you can
use this technique to inspire people. In addition to enhancing
romance, story telling can obviously incite rousing pep talks for
office subordinates!
Principle of Psychic Dominance

The final chapter of this book inspires polemic. Sadly, mind powers
have not yet been accepted by many cultures. If you have a
disposition unwilling to explore the full potentials of your existence
skip this section. Otherwise, read on and discover for yourself how
you can magically create rapport with your mind alone. These
methods have been field tested over a span of ten years and has
lived to the expectations of its practitioners.
The full bulk of these techniques are enshrined in the book Psychic
Seduction.
Exceed International's third book, Psychic Seduction explains the
theory behind telepathic influence and assembles a vast array of
methods designed to create emotional attraction by radiating
surplus ki/chi force with your mind power.
The book Psychic Seduction is free to owners of Magnetic
Attraction. You can download Psychic Seduction (PS) with your
passcodes at www.mindcontrolseduction.com or
www.geocities.com/psychicseduction.
If any of these techniques feel strange, or if it is your first time to

experience certain terms, refer back to PS. Everything you would
need to know is there.
The Basics in a Nutshell

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Every man is a storehouse of etheric energy known as chi/ki/prana.

This energy animates all living beings and supports life. Chi is not
spiritual energy. Chi belongs to the physical universe and is made
of the same stuff as plasma energy, radiation and heat. In fact, if
atoms are the basic building blocks of matter, chi is the basic
building block of energy. Chi is rarified energy, that when
processed, becomes higher level energy such as heat, sound,
radio waves and gamma rays.
As previously mentioned, chi sustains life. The human body feeds
on chi and circulates it around his system in invisible electrical
channels. These channels can be viewed by psychics or with
sensitive electronic equipment. A pioneer technology in this field is
Kirlian photography.
Accupuncturists manipulate chi flows with needles to heal the
body. Aikido experts channel chi energy to defeat opponents.
Karate masters collect chi to break hollow blocks without breaking
their hands.
You will use chi to attract others.
The Energy Bubble

Recall from the Principle of Nuclear Energy that high-energy
people are attractive. Bouncy males and females tend to draw
others to them. The secret is their excess energy. Bouyant people
radiate chi. Like a light bulb attracting moths, chi-emanators draw
others to them.
When people gather excess chi into their bodies using their
willpower, they strengthen the hidden aura that permeates their
physical form. A man's aura is a globe of pure energy that he
carries wherever he goes. The aura serves as a defense shield
against negative energies and it also circulates more chi
throughout the physical form.
Two thousand years ago, Chinese esoterics realized that by
closing their eyes, breathing in a certain rhythm, and visualizing a
waterfall of light cascading across their bodies, they automatically
absorb a lot of chi. Recent developments reveal that those with
surplus chi radiate ethereal force that puts those in the immediate
vicinity in a good mood and makes the radiator appear exceedingly
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Sounds great! Let's absorb some chi.

Stand straight, close your eyes. Relax your eyes, calm your
nerves. Now breathe. Deeply.
Exhale...
That's it. Feel relaxed? Good.
Now we shall begin chi breathing. Chi breathing is done in a
special rhythm. You don't have to know why it works. Just
understand that centuries of yoga and chinese tai chi practice have
proven the power of chi breathing.
Inhale slowly into the bottom of your stomach. You are to count up
to six as you do so. Stop and hold your breath for three counts.
Now exhale... as you count up to six again. Now your stomach is
empty. Hold that empty feeling for three counts again. Inhale for
six counts. Hold breath for three. Exhale for six. Hold breath for
three. That's the secret.
Repeat the cycle fifty times. By the fiftieth breath, you will find your
body vibrating tremendously. Even absolute beginners experience
this. This is the sign of massive chi collection. Your aura is bulging
at all corners.
With your eyes closed, imagine and feel the presence of a glowing
ball of gold around you. See that ball whirl and get denser around
your body. You are activating your aura.
Now command your aura. Tell it that it shall attract others to you.
Will your aura to reach out to everyone within its range and attract
them. Instruct your aura to recharge itself for at least eight hours.
Open your eyes.
Notice a change? You would feel lighter, bubblier. Maybe you can
feel a radiance. That is the radiance which will subliminally
influence those whom you meet throughout the day.
The bubble described is a simplified version of the advanced Aura
Meld contained in Psychic Seduction.
The aura you have energized will remain with you for up to eight
hours. Eventually the energy dissipates and you will find your
emotional high draining away.
Recharge your batteries anytime. The energy is free!

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Subconscious Overdrive
Man possesses three levels of consciousness. There is the
subconscious, the conscious and the superconscious.
Our normal cognitive facilities draw upon the power of the
conscious mind. This mental level handles rational thought such as
doing math, deciding what to wear and choosing a business to
embark on.
For our Magnetic Attraction course what we are interested in, is the
subconscious. The subconscious handles all mental, physical and
emotional functions that our conscious mind has no control over.
This low-level mind directs the beating of the heart, the pumping of
the lungs, the creation of memories, and the absorption of wisdom.
The subconscious also serves as the bridge between the
conscious and the superconscious. The superconscious mind is
our higher intellect which governs the various paranormal powers
such as telepathy and energy projection.
If we can properly harness the subconscious, we can subvert and
command the superconscious.
Psychological research proves that the subconscious mind is
inherently dumb and responds to external and internal stimuli like a
robot. Commands or suggestions that reach the subconscious are
eventually acted upon and passed on to the conscious mind for
processing. Eventually, the commands transform into reality.
Recall that as we watch television, thousands of commercials
parade across the screen. We rarely pay attention and stare
blankly. Our conscious mind drifts somewhere else in reverie,
maybe recalling the day's events.
While the conscious mind flies off into space, take note: the
subconscious is fully aware of everything that goes on around you.
It absorbs all stimuli and files it away in memory for future use.
Later you will go out to a mall and mutter, "Hey! Powerscrub soap!
I think that's a good brand!" The amazing thing is, you never
consciously remember watching the Powerscrub commercial.
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The subconscious is always aware. More startlingly, the

subconscious acts upon commands and instructions directed
towards it. Recall the subliminal advertising scare in 1956.
Messages were flashed to "Buy Coke" on a movie screen using a
frequency the eye failed to catch, but which the subconscious
easily perceived.
People reported getting thirsty and buying coke!
A breakthrough technique I will now impart shall allow you to
command that powerful subconscious mind of yours to carry out
paranormal errands.
The Mind Flash Technique

To harness the power of the subconscious mind, you must first
learn to call its attention. Right now, think of a very unique name.
This name will be used to address your subconscious. Make sure
no one else has this name. It is unique.
Now, condition your subconscious to respond to that name. This is
the process of Calibration. Calibrate by directly addressing your
inner self, saying three times, "Subconscious mind, I hereby call
you Larus! You will respond to that name!" It helps if you address
yourself strongly.
That is all there is to create the necessary psychic bond to your
low-level subconscious. Now you can order it around.
Let's try something easy. Shift your memory back 50 years ago,
back to the day you met your first crush. I bet you forgot who she
is. Now address your subconscious in explicit terms, "Larus, tell me
now, who is that pretty girl 50 years ago in that nice red dress?"
Repeat the command three times then stop thinking about Larus
and the girl in the red dress. Let Larus rifle through his store of
memory files. Don't keep badgering Larus with more demands; let
him work on your request.
Suddenly, it would come to you. In five minutes, or five yours. The
name will pop into your head. Larus has done your bidding!
You'll be surprised at how effective this is to locate missing keys,
remember lost names and recall Mike's birthday.
Here's another application. Get three cups and put a coin
underneath one. Rapidly shuffle the cups around so your eye can

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no longer keep track of where the coin is hidden. Larus will

remember.
Stop. Now, ask of Larus, "Larus, where is that coin? Is it under cup
A? Is it with cup B. Or is it hidden with C?" Repeat it three times.
Now walk away. The answer may suddenly pop into your mind or
you will feel an attraction towards a certain cup.
Powerful Larus!
Let's use Larus to make you more powerful with the opposite sex.
Each time you go out, tell Larus, "Larus, I want everyone to find me
attractive and sexy." Say this three times, fully visualizing Larus
attracting others to you. Expect that Larus will do it, then forget all
about Larus and proceed with your business.
Observe how people treat you. Larus is at work. Hmmm... didn't
that cute blonde just peek at you? Wow!
You can even demand that Larus send people telepathic thoughts.
As you're walking behind a pretty executive, tell Larus, "Hey Larus,
make her turn around and face me."
Keep your jaw shut and please reign in your surprise when she
does turn around.
How long does it take to create a powerful Larus? It is not
overnight. You must hone Larus's response rate by consistently
practicing your sessions with him till his reaction is instantaneous.
For beginners, start by doing the cups experiment at least a week.
Advance yourself them you may explore transferring thoughts to
attractive executives.
Epilogue
Congratulations! You have discovered the secrets of Magnetic

Attraction. As you may be aware, the knowledge that you have
gained is useless unless put to practice.
Reading through this book allows you to experience the unlimited
potential Magnetic Attraction offers for your supreme benefit. All
that is left now is for you to put the lessons to practice. Whether
you hone your magnetic attraction skills or deploy these techniques

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in your day to day life, it is my fervent desire to see measurable

levels of success. Feel free to send me feedback on your progress.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Sincerely,
Joseph Riñoza Plazo
www.exceed-international.com
Certificate of Mastery
This Certifies that
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is a Master of
The Science of Magnetic

Attraction
Noted this day of ________________
by Joseph R. Plazo
Exceed International

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Magnetic Attraction

Joseph Riñoza Plazo

Advanced NLP Emotional Elicitation Psychic Rapport Behavioral Influence

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hundred or so pages of this standard romance fare will typically

Your Key to Fulfillment

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Principle of the White Knight

Principle of Nuclear Power

Principle of Magnetic Attraction

Principle of Verbal Acrobatics

Principle of Psychic Dominance

Seven Power Principles of Chemistry

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access to a variety of resources, they also command the respect

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While it may be impossible to genetically reprogram your genes for

Alpha Male Body Language

Move with sweeping, grandiose gestures. Alpha males love to

Stand straight, as though a rope held your head straight up.

Move towards your destination with purpose and deliberation.

Take as much space as you can. Occasionally hold your arms

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Phallic Point. Remember how the cowboys of old exuded

The Alpha Male Gaze

The alpha male gaze emanates subliminal vibrations of

Two telepathic techniques further enhance the alpha male

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Eye smiling at women is romantically beneficial. Alternatively,

Alpha Male Mind Set

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Ensure that NO one ever interrupts your speech or train of

Understand that you have the prerogative to accept or decline

Converse with others in measured tones and with downward

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Proof of this is easy to observe in reality. Take the presentation

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on the slideshow presentation your are making. All your efforts

Recite a repetitive mental mantra pre-empt extraneous fears.

Focus exclusively on some external object other than yourself

Make an aggressive move towards the challenge (such as the

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habits. At times, such imitation breeds copy-cats so similar to the

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presence dissipate, as though you were a ghost. Feel your

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At the most fundamental level, women engage in relationships to

The Ambitious Man

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Vivid Occupational Descriptions

Pursuit Vs. Attraction

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Attracting women implies creating an image of nonchalant

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