Cutting the first turf at work

Adjusting to a new workplace can be tough sometimes. As if driving to a whole new location and familiarizing yourself isn’t enough, there is an added challenge of getting to know new people. Especially if you are an introvert, things cannot be all hunky-dory.  

Well, here are some helpful tips right from the horse’s mouth (an introvert at GreedyGame) on how to break the ice with your colleagues. 

• Strike a conversation in the restrooms. It always works, and here’s why. There are few people in the restrooms at any given time, which means you get some space and privacy to open up and talk. Lead with a simple ‘Hi’ and ask some questions to get the conversation going.  
• Don’t miss lunch breaks. This is when you get to meet a lot of people in the cafeteria. In fact, keep visiting the cafeteria or pantry during the break periods for more opportunities to converse.
• Continue where you left. If you meet someone again, bring up an old conversation that was left mid-way. This is a great way to get acquainted and build a connection. 
• Use doubts and clarifications as an excuse. Let the doubts in your head multiply for a while before you approach someone for clarification. This gives you more time to converse with them, and before you know it, you’re already almost friends. 
• Don’t avoid eye contact. Anywhere you go, go with your chin up and eyes seeing across the room. If you make eye contact with someone, smile; it is the perfect way to break the ice. 
• Muster the courage and introduce yourself. When all else fails, you gotta do what you gotta do! Go up to your colleagues and introduce yourself. Use induction sessions to your advantage; share some details about yourself and ask questions to let them know you’re curious to learn and bond.

We know it can be hard, but it’s definitely not rocket science. Don’t let things get awkward by waiting for a long time to start a conversation. Utilize your opportunities to bond with your colleagues, and create a good network for yourself.