As long as we continue to buy into the patriarchal rhetoric of what it 'means' to be a man or a woman in this world, those in dire need of support, understanding, compassion and love will continue to die. We *have* to change the narrative. #MensMentalHealthMonth
Couldn't agree more, there is so much stigma of what it means to be a "man" but it is so dangerous. In fact, I think speaking out about your issues shows true strength!
Totally agree #dontmanupspeakup
Can I just say a very inconvenient truth here - there are lots of women who live and breathe a very outdated and very patriarchal value system and they are also very much a part of the problem here. Sorry if I offended anyone. Maybe we can all just be a bit kinder to each other and embrace more equitable relationships.
“To be human is to feel it all” - love that quote. All emotions are valid, whoever you are and however you feel your experience. Exploring vulnerability is a strength and we must change the narrative on where this is seen to be OK to do or not OK to do and create safe, supportive environments.
100% agree. But the change is going to be a long road. And these initiatives bring the conversation to the front line.
Yes, we just keep going 😞 .... because nothing will make sense to others if we don't! So for the sake of the others, we just have to keep going!
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Such a succinct and excellent explanation of this damaging rhetoric
A very very powerful opening statement.and completey spot on!
Director of Men's Circle | Facilitator | Speaker | Father
1w100%, spot on. AND we need to do more than reach out and ask the question to men. This isn't enough. Asking men to talk, open up, BE VULNERABLE isn't just a choice for most men. They can't just hit a switch and start chatting, we need to create spaces where they actually feel 'safe enough' to open, be challenged, and ultimately loved. And the evidence shows, the most effective is in a male-only, group settings. 🤝