I've realized that lots of people think professors get paid to go to conferences. ⚠️ Mostly, that is far from true! With a very few exceptions, conferences are a money-making racket like everything else in academia. A community-building practice coopted. An average conference costs me around $3,000 to travel to, attend, eat at and dress for. I have never worked for a university that covered that, either, so I pay all that out of pocket. An elder said to me, "that's crazy, I would never pay money to share." And yes, that IS crazy. We work hard to develop something to share with the community, and then have to pay through the nose to do so.
I want to point to 2 notable exceptions that I have enjoyed: the Department of Education's National Native American Languages Summit is free to attend, and the Tusweca Tiospaye Lakota/Dakota/Nakota community-facing conference is much more affordable than most and always a worthwhile experience.
For most others, I'm increasingly hesitant to shell out because the assumption that I'm going to learn a ton or meet strong connections is a shaky one. They're overwhelming, exhausting, and take us away from our work, and in the end, conference presentations are viewed as "low value" by universities on a CV. Academia would much prefer you sell the rights to your years of work to a monopoly of for-profit companies who add no value by publishing in journals than have you share it with others who could use it. This whole system has got to go.