Here's the final two tips to help us be healthy spectators for our gaming kids. While we can be tempted to mail it in when spectating, doing so means we miss the massive opportunity to create an environment where our player feels valued, supported, and understood. And what parent wants that? Today’s two tips: Model Good Sportsmanship. Whether they admit it or not, our children look to us as a model of how to handle both success and disappointment. Like that security camera at the bank, they are always watching. They are picking up what we’re laying down. They’re taking their cue from us. As you spectate their games, celebrate their victories humbly and handle losses gracefully. Do your best to avoid negative comments about them, their game play, and other players or teams. After a loss or difficult challenge, remind your child that winning isn’t everything—the experience and learning also count. When we take a look at Philippians 2:3-4, we have a model for us to follow, too. “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. Everyone should look not to his own interests, but rather to the interests of others.” We see an emphasis on humility and putting others first, which is at the heart of good sportsmanship. It’s about celebrating with humility and handling setbacks with grace, setting a positive example for our players. Pro Tip: Make sure you have a good grasp on the game and how it’s played before commenting on what your player should/shouldn’t have done. Set Healthy Boundaries. We want to encourage balanced gaming habits, reminding our players to take breaks, stay hydrated, and balance gaming with other activities. These are important as well as establishing a routine that supports mental and physical well-being. Doing so will reinforce that we care about them beyond just their performance in the game. So, while spectating, you may be tempted to talk about setting healthy boundaries. But let’s be clear - it’s best to keep it quiet about this until the gaming is over. Spoiler alert: this is hard. Any type of conversation about boundaries while gaming will shut things down faster than a speeding bullet and more powerful than a locomotive. Like all things, timing is everything. Spectate the gaming session well and then talk about boundaries later. Pro Tip: Set aside a time when everyone is calm and go to a private, neural location to talk about boundaries. Think Dunkin, Chick-fil-A, Starbucks, Taco Bell. Being a healthy spectator for our gaming child is an opportunity to strengthen our relationship and build a bridge of understanding between us and our players. Just as we would in any other activity, our support and involvement make a world of difference. Make the connection: How might we build time into our routines to spectate our players in a way that strengthens our relationship with them? We are #ForTheGamer and help players play with purpose and win for good.
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We have six ideas to help us as parents become healthy spectators. We’ve shared the first two already will share 2 today, and 2 in the next post. We totally get that these next two tips might be a stretch. But what we know is that you love your kids and that you will do anything for them, including sitting in the cold and the rain, holding the umbrella in one hand and a Stanley of coffee in the other just to watch their soccer game. We can guarantee that these next two tips will be both warmer and dryer for sure. Today’s top two tips: 1. Watch a live stream or tournament. Many gamers broadcast their gameplay on platforms like Twitch or participate in online tournaments. Show your support by asking your player to watch a live stream together. This may be a whole new experience for you so do your best to enter with an open mind. You can even comment in the chat with your player or talk about what is happening during the match. If you can’t find something good to watch, ask your player to hop on Discord, play with their friends, and live stream the match for you to watch. *Pro Tip: Watch and cheer, just like you would at a their soccer game, minus the cold, rain, and umbrella.(You can bring the Stanley of coffee.) ☕ 2. Ask questions and show genuine interest. Engaging with your player through open-ended questions like, “What was the/your strategy of that match?” or “What was the hardest part of that match?” shows them you care and want to understand their passion. You’ll need to gauge how much to ask and when to talk. Just like physical sports, nobody likes a chatty Cathy during an entire game. *Pro Tip: Avoid judgmental or dismissive language that makes them feel that gaming is not valid. As you embark on this journey with your player, remember Proverbs 18:15: “The mind of the discerning acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks it.” Yeah, there’s a little bit of humility that goes with that you’re doing here, but when you take these tips seriously, you will create an environment where you are respected and your child feels heard and valued. Make the connection: Reflect on your experience watching a live stream and showing genuine interest, noting what went well and what can be improved for next time. We are #ForTheGamer and help players play with purpose and win for good.
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Spectating matters. For any type of public performance, your kid wants you to spectate. They want you to see them do their thing and be present through it all. They want to know that when they look up into the stands, they can see you rooting and cheering for them. It’s comforting and exciting all in one. And for physical sports, a piano recital, or a school play, most of the time you know what to do. Yeah, there are times when certain parents (thank God not you) get a little sideways but for the most part, they get it. But with gaming and esports? Hmmm, not so much. Yet, for parents whose kids are active in gaming or esports, knowing how to be a healthy spectator can seem less straightforward. Some don’t like gaming, some don’t understand the draw of video games, and some are willing but just don’t even know where to begin. The good news is that the same supportive behaviors from traditional sports and activities translate to gaming. Over the next three weeks, we’re going to share ways to help you understand why and how to be a healthy spectator. We’re also sharing with the players how to help you, too. The Why: Being a healthy spectator for gaming kids means more than just being present. It means creating an environment where your gamer feels valued, supported, and understood. Just as most parents wouldn’t criticize every missed goal or misplaced note, it’s crucial for you to approach gaming with the same grace and encouragement. It’s helpful when you understand that positive spectating fosters a sense of confidence, strengthens the bond between you and your kid, and encourages your gamer to pursue their interests wholeheartedly. It’s not just about winning or losing; it’s about celebrating effort, progress, and soaking in the joy that gaming brings to them. Helping parents understand these things is a big reason why Slingshot Esports exists. We want parents with gamer kids to be better equipped to create a healthy family dynamic so their kids can grow socially and spiritually while doing what they love. Join us at our upcoming GameFusion Event to learn more about how you can do that. Stay tuned. Next week we’ll begin to share practical tips for how you can be healthy spectators. Make the connection: What are some potential ways or things we can do to be a healthy spectator? We are #ForTheGamer and help players play with purpose and win for good. Want to read previous messages? Check out our Level UP blog here: https://lnkd.in/gTMRf2FU
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Happy to share our new study which examined a variety of demographic factors influencing browsing device trends before, during ("second screen"), and after sports games. It does so by utilizing survey data from Israeli viewers of the 2022 World Cup using a convenience sample (N=242). In line with our hypotheses, those with higher education and higher reported income were more likely to browse devices for information around and during games. Against our hypothesis, young adults were less likely to engage in browsing before, during and after the games, possibly because they tend to watch games with friends or in public places. Divorced and single individuals are more likely to engage in multi-platform browsing and second-screening during sport games versus married participants, who tended to watch the games with friends or in public places.The results are the first to indicate the important role of marital status in secondscreening during sport games.
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The Rise of E-Sports: Health Implications for Young Gamers In recent years, the world of competitive video gaming, known as e-sports, has exploded in popularity. With professional leagues, substantial prize money, and millions of viewers, e-sports has become a legitimate career path for many young gamers. However, with this rise in popularity comes a h... [...] #Health Read more... https://lnkd.in/dWaE7bYZ
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Do we know the game we are playing? Heads-up: So many questions are coming your way!! ------------------------------------------- What game am I talking about? ------------------------------------------- Is it the game of love? 💕 Is it the game of parenting? 👨👩👧👦 Is it the game of fitness? 🤸♂️ Is it the game of learning? 📚 Is it the game of growth in the organization? 📈 Is it the game of trust in our teams? 🤲 Is it the game of leadership? 🛣 ------------------------------------------- What is common among all the above? ------------------------------------------- In all these games, Is there a fixed set of rules? Are there fixed players? Is there a fixed timeline when the result is known? Is the result itself fixed or changing? -------------------------------------------- How do we play these games? -------------------------------------------- Do I play to win? Do I play to beat the competition (Is there a competition? 🤔 ) Even if I think I have won the game, isn't the next step to continue playing? -------------------------------------------- What am I talking about? -------------------------------------------- All the above games I talked above is an #infinitegame. Infinite game where I have no fixed players, no fixed timeline, no fixed rules and no fixed way of playing. The only thing I know and I can do is to "Play it". I cannot look at a finite strategy and measurements to play this game. It would be like hitting the gym for 10 hours in a day and thinking that I will be fit the next day. I will drain my will and energy if I do it. So we play this game with an infinite #growthmindset in which I look not at short-term gains, but at long-term sustenance. I would be even ready to sacrifice my short-term gains. So my #infinitegame is a choice that I can contribute to a cause in which everyone wakes up inspired, feels safe at work and goes back home fulfilled. This is my purpose - I want to be the change I want to see around me. I may not achieve this in my life time, but I will die trying. Are you ready to embrace this mindset and play the #infinitegame? #vucaworld #simonsinek #mindset #everydaystudent #leadership
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By creating legitimate competitions, the National Senior Games Association (NSGA) improves senior health and awareness across the United States and beyond. In this SPG exclusive feature, learn how the NSGA plays a large part in quelling biases. It goes a lot further than one might initially think! #SeniorGames #SeniorAthletes #BiasAwareness #SportsTourism #SportsEvents #EventPlanning
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“Are we rating honestly?” Between sports practices and birthday parties and all the things, four of our kids have immersed themselves in Roblox lately. My reaction is a mix of cringe and eyerolls and delight at their collaboration. They actually rushed thru showers last night so they could end the weekend playing together…. (See, so conflicted, lol) Anyhow, it cracks me up to hear them talking so explicitly about their goal before they start each round. 🫣Option A: Rate honestly and don’t tell anyone how you’re rating. 😱Option B: Vote 5/5 for each other and give low scores to the others in the round. So many life lessons to explore in this little scenario, but what struck me tonight as they plotted was how well they work together when they know the goal. They declare it explicitly, plan their outfits accordingly, and then vote to either destroy everyone else (most often) or rate honestly to see what happens (these are fewer but more fun to overhear). And yes, even with the goal clearly stated at the onset, the kids are constantly (CONSTANTLY) reminding each other whether it’s a “5 round” or an “honest round”… 🙄🤣 As I embark on this journey with Shockoe , I’ve been struck by how highly metrics are valued. This is an organization that understands the importance of measurable goals, tracking progress toward those common goals, and making adjustments as needed to keep those targets in range. Whether we are playing games, framing client projects, or defining corporate strategy, it’s important to start with the end in mind and keep it in sight as we move forward. Speaking of… I’m excited to share with y’all some of the stuff that Shockoe’s been up to lately… stay tuned…
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IC360 publishes advice amid Responsible Gaming Education Month 🥰🤝 In the article, “Gambling as Entertainment: 3 Key Ways to Support Responsible Habits in Your Loved Ones,” Daniel Trolaro, MS, Co-Managing Director of Education and Training at IC360, highlights the importance of openly discussing gambling and its risks, advising: 💬 Open communication - Allow your loved one to express their feelings about gambling and listen without interrupting ❎ Setting boundaries - Encourage your loved ones to set limits like deposit, wager, and time limits 🎨 Suggest alternative activities - Help break the activity cycle by recommending other hobbies, like reading, socializing, and playing sports Find out more in Ziv (Steve) Chen’s article for Sportsbook Review: https://lnkd.in/eh4k5K9A
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