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The Holiday Season: A Time of Joy and Reflection The holiday season is often described as “the most wonderful time of the year,” but for many, it can also be a season of sadness, grief, or loneliness. As someone who deeply values connection and empathy, I’ve come to recognize that this time of year brings different emotions for everyone. For some, the holidays are filled with laughter, family gatherings, and cherished traditions. For others, it may be a reminder of loved ones who are no longer with us, personal hardships, or simply the feeling of being out of sync with the festive spirit around them. And that’s okay. The holidays are a time to reflect, not just on the good things we have but also on the ways we can extend kindness and compassion to those around us. Whether it’s reaching out to a friend who might be struggling, offering a word of encouragement, or simply letting someone know they’re not alone, small acts of kindness can make a big difference. If you find this season challenging, know that your feelings are valid, and you’re not alone. Let’s embrace the true spirit of the holidays—not just joy, but connection, understanding, and love.

The holidays can be bittersweet.. This time of year is all about gratitude and togetherness, but for a lot of us, it also comes with memories of loss. It’s tough - those feelings of missing someone don’t go away just because it’s the “most wonderful time of the year.” That’s why I think it’s so important to focus on being thankful for the present moment - not just during the holidays, but every day. Life moves fast, and if we’re not careful, we miss the good stuff happening right in front of us. So, here’s what I’m trying to do this season: Pause and reflect. Take a second to soak in the little things that make life great. Reach out. A simple text or call can brighten someone’s day - or even change it entirely. Imagine the impact if you made this a daily habit. Keep it going. Gratitude doesn’t have to stop when the trot ends, or the tree comes down. Let’s carry it into every day of the year. Dose it daily - to yourself and to others. Grief and gratitude can exist together. The best way to honor what we’ve lost is by making the most of what we have. What are you doing to stay present and thankful right now? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Wishing everyone a happy Thanksgiving - may it be filled with love, connection, and plenty of moments to be thankful for! 🦃🍁 #MindOver.. #JAE #Gratitude #HolidaySeason #Support #GoBills

The holidays are coming, and while they’re often filled with joy, they can also highlight feelings of loneliness for many. But there’s a small, meaningful change that can help ease those feelings: practicing gratitude. Research shows that gratitude can act as a powerful tool to combat loneliness. People who focus on what they’re thankful for—whether through journaling, writing a letter, or simply taking a moment to appreciate the good things in life—tend to feel more connected and less isolated. It doesn’t have to be complicated: ✨ Write down three things you’re grateful for each day. ✨ Reach out to someone and let them know you appreciate them. ✨ Take a quiet moment to reflect on small joys, like a good cup of coffee or a kind gesture. This holiday season, try weaving gratitude into your routine. It’s a simple step that can make a big difference. What’s one thing you’re grateful for today? Drop it in the comments—we’d love to celebrate it with you! ❤️ #ThankfulThursday #GratitudeConnects #CreateToday #HappyThursday #CommunityConnection #MentalWellness #MentalHealth #SocialRecovery

Honor your Happy! So often I’ve taught, “No one owns the right to steal your Happy”…or “Keep your Happy.” As we approach the holiday and holy days season, many of us lean on traditional celebrations to create and/or support feelings of cheer and security. This is a season touted by vendors and well-meaning marketers as the happiest time of the year. The truth is: Many people are feeling anything but secure, and some are living with lesser and lesser degrees of happiness, almost as a new norm. Along with the rampant and growing transparency of information comes manipulation of information; just as long with access to data comes a need for relevance and time. This is not a glass half full vs half empty time. This is a time of new normalcies that may nudge one to simply accept life as changed for the lesser. Don’t let this happen to YOU. Let your little light so shine that you are warmed by it, as others enjoy a path lit by your glow. People have lived through centuries of changed economies, governments, climates and relationships to the heavens. No matter how you are feeling impacted by your immediate circumstances - positive or negative …remember that two things can be true: You may not have all you want. This must not stop you from enjoying all that you have! Laying the tables and decking the halls of your home can be a happy experience - not burdened by guilt, worry, or regrets - simply filled with joy in the moment of recognizing the blessings in your life. Happiness is confidence and satisfaction. Be confident that worry is not a path to a solution, nor is guilt a contributor to satisfaction. Worry and guilt come disguised as humane and caring emotions. They, in truth, are robbers of our abilities to clear our minds and hearts to contribute, set right, and enjoy the process of our lives with others. Give yourself permission to enter this season, giving honor to your Happy! Enter it with Thanksgiving and sing Noel! Let it bring the birth - or rebirth - of your highest aspirations, your fondest joys, and your kindest deeds. Honor your Happy! Sing ‘Noel’!

The holidays can bring a tender mix of emotions—a longing for those we’ve lost and a deep love for the memories we carry. Let’s take a moment to honor their presence in our lives by embracing gratitude for the moments we shared. 🕯️ Tonight, light a candle and let its flickering flame guide you to a favorite memory. Reflect on the joy they brought into your life and the love that continues to connect you. ✨ Grief and gratitude are two sides of the same love. One reminds us of the depth of our loss; the other reminds us of the beauty of the connection we shared. The holidays can feel overwhelming, give yourself permission to take it one moment at a time. Small steps matter, and self-compassion can be your greatest guide. 💭 What’s one way you can create space to honor your emotions today—whether it’s through journaling, a walk, or a quiet moment of reflection? 💭 What qualities or values of your loved one can you carry forward into this season and beyond? Pause, reflect, and let these questions guide your heart today. You are not alone in this journey. 💕 #GriefAndGratitude #HolidayHealing #HonoringLove #SelfCompassionJourney #GriefJourney #Grief #GriefSupport #YouAreNotAlone #LivingAfterGrief

As we gather with family and friends this week, many of us turn our attention to what we are grateful for, be it the splendid spread in front of us or the healthy body that got us there. But gratitude researchers and practitioners make a strong case for practicing gratitude year-round. As Angela Duckworth, professor and author of The New York Times bestseller “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance” says, “Gratitude is like ketchup — put it on anything and it tastes better.” So, as we move beyond the celebration of Thanksgiving Day, here are 3 ways to keep gratitude front and center. 1. Keep a gratitude journal. Pick the format that works best for you – a spiral school notebook, fancy gratitude journal with inspiring words or a gratitude journal app for your smartphone – and the best time of day to pause and count your blessings. 2. Send a gratitude note. Again, you can send an email, text or greeting card, or a handwritten note. The important thing is the message, be it “you’re always there for me” to “you were there for me last week.” 3. Check out Grateful Living resources. This nonprofit offers a variety of content on how to live gratefully. You can sign up for its free daily “Word of the Day” email and lots of other free resources or its online retreat Dec. 6-7 ($125). According to the folks at Grateful Living: “The science says what ancient spiritual traditions have taught for millennia: Gratitude lowers stress by enhancing your perspective and grounding you in what you value; and gratitude improves mental and physical health by decreasing loneliness and fostering deeper connections and stronger communities.”

🦃 The holidays are a time for love, togetherness, and reflection. While it may not seem like the most festive topic, the season is also a perfect opportunity to have meaningful conversations with your loved ones about your final wishes. Here are five tips to make the conversation heartfelt and productive: 1️⃣ Choose the Right Moment: Find a quiet time when everyone is relaxed. Over dessert, after a big meal, or during a peaceful family gathering can be ideal moments. 2️⃣ Express Your Intentions: Let your family know why this is important to you. Share that you want to make things easier for them in the future by being clear about your wishes now. 3️⃣ Keep It Positive: Focus on how this planning reflects your love and care for them. This isn’t about fear or worry—it’s about ensuring they have peace of mind. 4️⃣ Be Specific: Discuss things like your preferences for medical care, funeral plans, or how you’d like your belongings handled. If you’ve already documented your wishes, share where your family can find that information. 5️⃣ Encourage Questions: Invite your family to share their thoughts and ask any questions. This is a two-way conversation, and their input is valuable. 🎁 Remember, these conversations can be a gift to your loved ones—giving them clarity and easing potential stress during difficult times. 👇 If you’ve had these talks before, share your experience below! What helped? What made it easier? Let’s support each other in having these meaningful discussions. 🤝 #FinalWishes #FamilyConversations #HolidayReflections #PeaceOfMind #Thanksgiving #HolidayGift

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. In part, because gratitude is essentially my life philosophy and religion. But also because Thanksgiving is the real start to the holiday season for many of us. I guess I'm just an overgrown kid who doesn't want the fun to end. I'm always kind of sad when Christmas is over. Because then it's just winter and no Christmas -- like the White Witch and Narnia. But Thanksgiving is this huge feast / celebration. And then it's the holiday season. And holiday cheer. And people are nicer to each other for a little while. And there are Christmas trees and people put up lights on their houses. And there are parties. And glee club concerts. It's nice. I like that sort of stuff. It makes me happy. At the same time, the holiday season gives us chance to slow down and reflect. I think that's important. I really like the work I do. Yes, we fight a lot of uphill battles. And it gets hard sometimes. It can be stressful. But I know in my heart and soul that I have been true to myself. I have carved out my own path in the world. I have gone out, fought the good fight, and used my talents and abilities to make my small corner of the world a bit better. I've taken a stand for what I believe in. I've been true to myself. And with a small-band of undaunted dreamers who are also doers, we have made a meaningful dent in the system. First, build a foundation so you can survive. Once you know that you can survive, then ask yourself: What is my mission? What is my destiny? What is my cause? What is my dream? That doesn't necessarily have to be your work. It can be. But maybe it's not. Maybe your work is just something you're good at that pays the bills -- and that leaves you with lots of money and free time to pursue your true passions. I know a guy from high school who works as a recruiter. He's been doing it for 20+ years. He's great at it. He might work 20 hours a week. That's it. He makes plenty of money. He spends the rest of his time playing guitar. He's in like 3 bands. That's his passion. That's his dream. Or, maybe you're like me. Where your work is tied into your mission and your dream. Maybe you're like me -- And when you were 7 years old you realized how fucked up the world was and you decided that some day you were going to go out and try to make it better. For all the trials and tribulations of being a renegade crusader fighting against a corrupt, dysfunctional system -- I could never trade the struggle. My soul's gotta be in it. That's just me. Otherwise, I would be unfulfilled. We're all on a rock hurtling through space and headed back to dust. It's both earlier in the day and later in the day than you think it is -- all at the same time. Be true to yourself. Walk your path. Go to your destiny. And if you need a fork in the road, find one. JP

The holidays bring us together with family, laughter, and traditions, but they can also bring challenging conversations, especially when opposing political views are in the mix! 🦃 🎄 🕎 Here are 3 tips to stay grounded and foster forgiveness during those tough moments: 1. Pause/Stop and Breathe: When emotions start to rise, take a deep breath. A moment of calm can make all the difference between reacting and responding thoughtfully. 2. Redirect and Respond with Kindness: If a conversation becomes heated, try shifting the focus. Ask about shared experiences, holiday memories, or future plans. Connection often dissolves tension. 3. Prioritize Compassion Over Confrontation: Remember, forgiveness doesn't mean agreement. It means valuing peace over being "right." Sometimes, choosing to listen without judgment is the most healing gift you can give. This holiday season, let's focus on what matters most; love, understanding, and making memories that bring us closer. 🗣️💬 What's your go-to strategy for navigating difficult conversations? Share below! I'd love to hear your thoughts! #holidays #family #forgiveness #nataliebairdking #healing #difficultconversations #familyarguments #disagreement #peaceduringtheholidays #holidaytips #kindness #breathe #familygettogether #thanksgiving #christmas #hanukkah #holidayseason #forgivenesscoach

The holiday season is supposed to be filled with joy, but for many of us, it brings stress, guilt, and overwhelm. Why? Because we’re stuck in patterns that make us feel obligated to show up...even when it drains us. Here’s what might be holding you back from setting boundaries: 1️⃣ The pressure to 'keep the peace' We’ve been taught to avoid conflict at all costs, even when it means sacrificing our own energy and well-being. 2️⃣ ‘They’re family’ guilt Society glorifies loyalty to family, even when our boundaries are crossed. But loyalty shouldn't come at the cost of our peace. 3️⃣ Fear of judgment Saying no can feel like you're disappointing others or being labeled ‘selfish,’ especially during the holidays. 4️⃣ The nostalgia trap We cling to the hope that the holidays will magically fix toxic dynamics, chasing the picture-perfect moments we’ve always dreamed of or even the memories we once shared. 5️⃣ We were never taught how Boundary-setting isn’t something most of us learned growing up, but once you do, it’s life-changing. ✨ This holiday season, it’s time to prioritize YOUR peace. You don’t owe anyone your energy, even if they’re family. Join my FREE Masterclass to learn how to set boundaries, release guilt, and create a holiday season that feels joyful and fulfilling for YOU. 📅 When: Dec 4th at 7 PM EST 🔗 Regiester Here: https://lnkd.in/eMdZu5v8 Let’s make this the year you reclaim the holidays. #holidays #selfcare #boundaries #selflove #mindsetmatters #peace #happiness #joy #relationships #selfimprovement