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🚀 Recovering Barrister 👩⚖️ General Counsel 🤖 Wellness Founder 🍃 Venture Scout 💫 Board Advisor 💼 Public speaker 🎤 Follow me for insights on career transition, finding your purpose, and living better for longer

This week I turned down my dream tech job... . . . . And I'm so proud of myself! Wait... What? 🤔 Here's the story: I'm lucky to have stayed connected with some incredibly influential individuals at one of the world's leading venture capital funds since my time on the board at flatfair, and occasionally they reach out to talk to me about exec roles in their portfolio companies 🌐 Last week was one such occasion, and boy was it a good'un! 😍 A hugely successful LegalTech company, where the GC/CLO role is front and centre and as focused on ops as it is on legal (my absolute fave combo - also incidentally why I love regulated FinTech), where the team are amazing, the pay is amazing and they're likely on track for a pretty epic exit within a reasonable timeframe 📈 💸 Why turn it down then, I hear you ask❓ The truth is, I'm just not ready to take on another of these mega roles just now 🤷♀️ I've hustled hard my whole life - first as a barrister, then in disruptive tech - constantly chasing the next big title, the biggest pay check, the board seat, the direct reports, the status... 💨 But when I really sat with this opportunity and the decision whether or not to accept it, I realised that it just didn't feel aligned ❌ I think there's a few reasons for this (which have everything to do with me and nothing at all to do with this amazing company): 👉 Firstly, since leaving the Bar, I forgot how much I love self-employment, and these days I absolutely relish the freedom and variety that my fractional GC work with LegalEdge offers me. I really want to continue to support some of my awesome clients for the longer term - including Superhog, Thompson Taraz, Homemove, Landytech and Nodes & Links just to name a few 🚀 👉 Secondly, after recently completing some serious life admin, I'm planning some BIG personal moves this year (watch this space), and I want to give myself the space to embrace those fully 🕶️ 👉 Finally, I'm loving the direction I'm taking Elevate. in, and I want to leave room in my schedule for more epic retreats and collabs alongside my work in tech, both of which fulfil me in such different ways 🤝 And so on balance, it's just not the time to dive into another C-Suite role which - while undoubtedly in some respects would be amazing for my career - would also take more from me than I'm willing to give right now 💼 Maybe the biggest learning of all is realising that as you get more and more senior and experienced, you know that these incredible opportunities aren't just going to come around once... I know I'm good at my job, and great roles will continue to present themselves 🔄 But sometimes the most powerful move you can make to preserve the longevity of your career, your complete values hierachy, and your general wellbeing, is to say thank you so much, but no 🤚 💜 #BigDecisions #CareerTransition #Boards #GeneralCounsel #StartUps

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Priscilla Pollara

Communications + Business Consultant. Passionate about unlocking confidence in leaders, founders + businesses to help them communicate better and show their worth more. Founder - Top Trick | 1:1 - Workshops - Speaker

2mo

Well done Nat. Such power in being asked. More power further to you when you say “no”. And I’m looking forward to the announcement of these big moves 😉

Maryam Ziarati McLoughlin

General Counsel | Executive Advisor | NED

2mo

Such power in knowing yourself. Congrats Natalie Connor 🫶

Jono Randell-Nash

IFA specialising in the legal profession | I help you reach financial independence, providing clarity, security and peace of mind | Dad to 3 boys under 5 | Recovering lawyer

2mo

That's awesome - recognising what you want, on a deep level is so hard. If it doesn't align up front, it's unlikely to the further in you get! Knowing yourself, your needs and wants is such a key part of the battle 👏

Emily Hughes

Co-Founder at Jeco Bowl 🌴 Building Reco HQ, Sports Recovery & Wellness Spa🧘♀️

2mo

Extremely proud of you, I know what a difficult decision this was! What you’re building is so valuable to the lives of others x

So pleased you made that decision Natalie. I know how hard it must have been for you. We’re v lucky to have you.

Stacy Thomson

Founder & CEO @ Reddi | The MatchMaking Dating App | MatchMaker | Executive Confidante | Coach | Award Winning Mental Health Practitioner | Educator of the Human Condition

2mo

And she keeps rising…. At the cornerstone of you my friend is self-awareness and a love for the life you are creating. Looking forward to watching and being an active participant in this journey with you.

When you put principles in place, decisions become so much more easier to make. Well done for really leaning into what matters for you Natalie

Patrice Gordon

Author | TED Speaker | Reverse Mentoring Expert | Executive Coach | Commercial Leader | Harvard Women's Leadership Board Member | BBBA Winner

2mo

Love that you are staying true to your calling and holding that space for more magic to enter and most importantly keeping your sanity! Super proud of you and so inspired x

Alice 🦩 Stephenson

Lightening the Load for In-House Lawyers | Founder of Plume | Employment Lawyer | Flamingo Obsessed

2mo

This is huge!! I know how hard this decision was for you and I’m super proud of you. For what it’s worth, I think you’ve made the right call x

Nikki Alderson

Specialist International Coach supporting organisations retain female talent through women’s leadership development&empowering female professionals to achieve career ambition|TEDxSpeaker|Author|ExBarrister bit.ly/34nB3Xm

2mo

Such power in learning the art of saying no 💪

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