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Co-Founder of Kunik. Our business is your people. Kunik elevates employee experience and drives retention & performance.

Have you ever felt like you’re living in separate realities from those around you? This week, I’ve been right there - with my fiance and with partners in our business. It’s like I'm a character from The Three-Body Problem, trying to calculate the alignment of various independent orbits. Inspired by Esther Perel's and fully informed by Carol Robin's concept of the "Three Realities of Interaction," here’s how we can frame these moments: My Reality - What I see and believe. Your Reality - What you see and believe. Our Shared Reality - Where our perspectives meet. With hindsight, it's become clear how much misunderstanding stems from not recognizing these different realities Yet, recognizing these realities doesn't instantly solve all disagreements, but it does help us see where the other person is coming from. It’s not just about reaching compromises but about truly understanding each other to create a narrative we both feel part of. This insight is a game changer—not only for personal relationships but also for leadership and teamwork. https://lnkd.in/erTknud8

How to build deeper, more robust relationships | Carole Robin (Stanford GSB professor, “Touchy Feely”)

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