Someone told me, “We should support these people,” While another chimed in, “Yes, you people also deserve equal rights.” [1 min read] Their intentions were well-meaning, but the words? Not so much. Phrases like “these people” or “you people” may sound harmless, but they subtly create a barrier. They categorize and otherize the LGBT+ community, making them feel separate, distant, and even less deserving of belonging. It’s not just words — it’s a tone of exclusion, creating a sense of otherness. Words matter, and small tweaks can have a big impact. 🛑 Why it matters: Inclusive language sends a powerful message: “You belong here.” Language has the power to connect or alienate. Saying “you people” or “those people” might: 1️⃣ Sound dismissive: It feels like pointing a finger, even if unintentional. 2️⃣ Erase individuality: LGBT+ people are more than just their identity—they are individuals with unique lives, stories, and contributions. 3️⃣ Create division: It enforces an “us vs. them” mindset, which is exactly the opposite of inclusivity. 🤝 How to Do Better: Here are ways we can address the LGBT+ community respectfully and inclusively. Try these alternatives: ✅ Use Names and Inclusive Terms: Instead of “these people,” try: “friends in the LGBT+ community” or simply “everyone.” ✅ Speak With Connection: “We all deserve equal rights” is far more inclusive than “You people deserve equal rights.” ✅ Neutral and Welcoming Words: “Folks,” “team,” or “all of us” helps everyone feel included. ✅ If it’s relevant, mention the group respectfully: “Members of the LGBT+ community have been advocating for change, and it’s inspiring to see their progress.” 🌟 It’s not about perfection—it’s about intention. The next time you catch yourself defaulting to “you guys,” pause and try one of the alternatives. Over time, these small shifts become second nature. Have you ever caught yourself using phrases like “those people” without realizing it? Let’s unlearn together and share ways to make our language more inclusive! Cheers! Sonali #LGBTInclusion #InclusiveLanguage #Allyship #Belonging
I have watched your video at an event and you have done extremely well You have been an inspiration to me the way you have been helping the community hope so one day I can contribute some of mine
Can’t agree more
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1wAbsolutely agree with you Dear Sonali Dutta !