'I'm ready to go.' It was summer 2005. After my daily bus commute through the Lincoln Tunnel from midtown to Weehawken, I made the announcement. I loved working in NYC. Before I met my husband, I never thought about leaving NJ/NY. But when he put a ring on it he said he couldn't see himself living there forever. I agreed and we spent the next 2.5 years trying to figure out where a girl with no plans to leave and a guy who loved Dallas would make a life together. St. Louis became our compromise city and home almost 20 years ago. Sometimes the thing you never thought you would do is an idea you needed to warm up to. An idea you needed to try on for size. Something you had to envision and examine before you could act. Selling your business may not be in your plan. Retirement may not be what motivates you to grow your business. Then again, circumstances may change. For sure, the unforeseeable will happen. How you feel, what you want or what you need may change, too. Moving from the footstep of Manhattan to STL was never in my plans. It challenged my sense of self, my place in the world, and was way outside my comfort zone. It was either going to be a spectacularly good move or terribly bad. The choice was mine. By spending time in the Lou, visiting other places, and thinking through where I could thrive, I warmed up to doing the previously inconceivable. I took the time I needed. Sought out resources. Talked through concerns. Trusted myself. Committed to the process. Acted when I was ready having prepared (mentally, emotionally and financially)for success along the way. Take a moment to consider what seems inconceivable for your business. What if it was inevitable? Think about what you might do differently now if you wanted more options and flexibility in the future. Consider what might be possible if you design your business and grow it with intention to create the life you love. Even if it's not what you 'do' forever. #businessownership #growth #legacy
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I believe building a legacy should include being remembered by your family too. You don’t have to be a workaholic to leave an impact. Even though we all think we know better, our culture still lionizes the individual who won’t stop working. And I think it keeps some entrepreneurs stuck, keeps them falling into the default position of the solo suffer. Because that’s so often the picture, the story we have of the path to great achievements. Now I’m not saying there isn’t plenty of hard work to do (there is). Rather, it’s about applying that passion and effort to more than just your individual scope. It’s about the arguably harder work of building something beyond yourself, so you’re not always what’s needed for significant things to happen. It means you have to break the pattern of - “If I don’t do it, it doesn’t get done right.” - “Oh I’ll just do it - it takes too long to explain.” - “Everything goes through me. It’s just better that way.” You can haul water every day, and start from scratch every day. Or, you can look to the future, and build pipes once. If your legacy relies on what YOU alone can achieve, well, that story can only be so long. You can only serve so many. You can only create so much. You can only become what one person has the potential to be (and you might miss a lot of great stuff outside of work). If you make the investment to build the pipes - infrastructure that can support a healthy team, all flowing in the same direction - those limitations fall away. The horizon grows. Building that network takes time, effort, and money, yes it does. You or others may have doubts, get impatient for the returns to be felt, look for ways to avoid the maintenance. But if you put your heart and hard work into a future beyond yourself, not just on the individual grind, you’ll not only have a broader impact than you could’ve ever had alone, you’ll have a team at your side to celebrate with. If you want to be remembered, by strangers and loved ones alike, start building the pipes. Watch your reach, and your kids, grow.
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