Go For Stupid: The Art of Achieving Ridiculous Goals
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What would you achieve if you weren't afraid of being laughed at?
In the age of "gotcha" culture, people are terrified to do anything that might be laughed at.
Steve D. Sims
Steve Sims has been running his luxury travel and lifestyle concierge firm, Bluefish, for more than twenty years. With his unique talent for connecting with people’s passions, opening doors, and making things happen, Sims has developed an exclusive reputation and impressive client list of the world’s rich and famous. Bluefish has offices around the world and has been featured in Forbes, The New York Times, Entrepreneur, Variety, Worth, CNBC, and many other media outlets. Sims is also a keynote speaker at venues including Harvard and the Pentagon, and has spoken at many top entrepreneurial groups, including Mastermind Talks, Genius Networking Events, and Entrepreneur Society of SF. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, kids, dogs, and a lot of motorcycles.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A staggering, stunning, life-changing work.
I will be going through the book again starting tomorrow, and answering the questions at the end of each chapter.
Bravo Steve!! - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Book to set big goals. Inspiring and easy to read
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Go For Stupid - Steve D. Sims
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Advance Praise
Simply put, I endorse him. Can I say any more than that?
—Jay Abraham, Founder and CEO of The Abraham Group
There are those who talk a good talk, and then there is Steve, who lives it.
—Jim Kwik, NYT bestselling author of Limitless
Steve Sims dares to imagine achieving the impossible and then delivers time and time again. Better still, he has distilled his trade secrets into this compelling book that has its own audacious goal to teach you how you can achieve almost anything you can imagine, regardless of the odds or incredulity of your friends, family, or others who find your ambitions too threatening to their own limiting beliefs of what is possible.
—Roland Frasier, Co-Founder of Scalable, DigitalMarketer, and Traffic & Conversion Summit
The day before something is a breakthrough, it’s a crazy idea. Steve Sims has the ability to go after goals that most laugh at, and that’s usually just before he achieves them!
—Peter H. Diamandis, MD, Founder of XPRIZE and Singularity and author of Abundance and Bold
Almost no person on this planet has made the kind of impact to my thinking as Steve Sims. He taught me how to lean into big, ‘stupid’ goals and watch how magically they don’t seem so stupid after crushing them.
—Brandon Turner, Founder of Open Door Capital and former host of BiggerPockets Podcast
If you need something done or something that is impossible, Steve is your man. He gets it all done.
—Tucker Max, author, speaker, and Founder of Scribe Media
In a ‘gotcha’ society where people are scared to try, Steve stands out as someone who aims high and achieves higher. We need more Steve Sims in the world if we wish to change it, and this book sets you on the right route!
—Joe Polish, Founder of Genius Network and Genius Recovery and author of Creative Careers: Making a Living With Your Ideas
In a world filled with constraints (both real and imagined), quite often people are more afraid of being laughed at than they are of missing out on their big dreams. Steve demonstrates how if your goal isn’t laughable, then it’s not big enough!
—JJ Virgin, celebrity nutrition and fitness expert and four-time NYT bestselling author
Full transparency: I know Steve, so I know where other people see ‘stupid,’ Steve sees opportunity. Steve starts where others give up. He succeeds where others are afraid they’ll fail. He is also generous. He wants others to succeed too. He demystifies the mysterious and gives practical how-to advice on how to reach your goals. Reading Steve’s book is like talking to him; he is clear and a hell of a lot of fun. Go for Stupid. It’s a smart move.
—Jeffrey Madoff, CEO of Madoff Productions, keynote speaker, and bestselling author of Creative Careers: Making a Living with Your Ideas
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Saying thank you seems inadequate when the person you are thanking is your everything.
This five-foot-five beauty scares and excites me at the same time, and without her, I wouldn’t be the person I am today.
To you, Clare, I can only say I love you, and I hope to show you every day how much you mean to me, but for now: thank you!
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Contents
Introduction
1. I Asked
2. It’s All Done for You
3. The Three Keys to a Success Mindset
4. Like Buying a Diet Book to Lose Weight
5. They Always Laugh Before They Applaud
6. Do You Have Standards?
7. Do You Have a Kenneth?
8. Don’t Sell the Item, Sell the Reaction
9. Amazonification
10. Let’s Play a Game
11. Going for Stupid: It’s Nothing New
12. Challenge Their Why
Conclusion
Acknowledgments
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Before you read this book, please scan this QR code for a personal message from Steve.
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Introduction
In 2017, I wrote the book Bluefishing: The Art of Making Things Happen to challenge myself. I never thought I’d be an author. Once it came out, I was blown away—really, just floored—by the response that it received: it was translated into six languages, and I received emails, tweets, DMs, and letters from people around the planet about it.
But what shocked me more than the compliments was how many intelligent people told me, I could have never done that.
When I dug deeper into why they thought that, the response was always the same—it wasn’t that they doubted their ability to achieve it, but that they were afraid to look stupid
if they failed. They cared too much about what other people would think of them, people who were watching what they did for the sole purpose of laughing at them. Thanks to today’s gotcha
society, people are terrified to do anything that may get them ridiculed.
Talking to these people, I realised that I have a superpower: I have never cared about anyone laughing at me.
My wife tells me it’s like I’ve always worn blinders (those screens they put on the eyes of racehorses so they can’t see anywhere but forward). I could never see or hear the hecklers around me because I was laser-focused on my goals: having a conversation with this successful person, getting that person on stage, putting together dinner in a museum. It wasn’t until I started to slow down and revel in the connections I had made that I realised that there are some people out there that love to ridicule anyone who dares to try. Even more astounding, I realised there are people who cared what these hecklers thought about them. I was staggered.
When I was still working in the concierge business, for every event I was asked to plan, my first thought was, How far can I take this? What would make this a stupid achievement?
One of my favourite go-for-stupid moments was helping a client, Dan, become the shortest-term lead singer of the rock band Journey. When he first came to me, he told me he wanted to meet Journey backstage at one of their concerts so he could tell them how he used to perform their songs in a cover band, which earned him enough money to get his degree, which, in turn, set him up for success. He wanted to thank them for creating music that got him through his toughest days. They were the soundtrack to the movie of his life.
With so much passion and gratitude radiating from Dan as he told me his story, I was surprised he was willing to settle for a simple handshake and three-minute conversation. That’s what he wanted for the crescendo of his movie? I decided to see how far I could take this request. I communicated with the band and got Dan on stage to sing four songs with them at a concert in San Diego. (You can read the entire story in Bluefishing.)
I wanted to be laughed at. I went for stupid. And that has led to enormous success and served as a critical foundation for every future venture.
I see too many business owners and entrepreneurs who are working harder, not smarter. They’re close to the action rather than in the action where they want to be. If only they’d take some stupid chances, but their fear of ridicule stops them.
You might not want to admit it, but you are full of fear: fear of failure, sure, but fear of being laughed at and embarrassing yourself and maybe your family. You’re worried about the wrong fear. You should be afraid of staying still because you never try. Fear just getting by or settling because you aren’t willing to go for stupid.
Let me ask you a question: what would you be able to achieve if you didn’t care about being laughed at?
What You’ll Learn
Reading this book will give you an unfair advantage over your competition. Putting the actions into practice will remove the pain and fear of being laughed at. When you’re done with this book, you’ll no longer overthink your fears. You’ll go for stupid, ridiculous goals—and achieve them. You’ll no longer be constrained by a gotcha
society.
To be more precise, you’ll learn:
How to see opportunities everywhere
The three keys successful people live by
The importance of mindset
Why your standards should be constantly upgraded
How to avoid Amazonification
Why it’s not all about you
Examples of the most famous stupid goals in history
The importance of asking why
At the end of each chapter are three questions to ask yourself. Use the provided space to answer them honestly and act on any discoveries that reveal themselves.
Most importantly, you’ll learn that going for stupid is the best way to achieve ridiculous goals.
More I Can
than IQ
You may be reading this book because you read my first book, Bluefishing. (If you are, welcome back!) Bluefishing was all about sharing how you can break down any door, transform your life, and achieve the impossible.
Throughout my life, I have always moved with purpose and impact. Jay Abraham, an American business executive, conference speaker, author, and friend, once said that I have a greater I can
than IQ.
I have never used the word impossible,
and that resulted in a business with a client list of the world’s rich and famous, many of whom have become close friends. However, as you’ll learn in this book, we need to constantly grow in our lives and businesses. My concierge firm taught me many life lessons that I was able to share in my first book, but it was eventually time to move on to the next challenge.
Since Bluefishing, I have created a personal brand (SteveDSims.com), a membership community (SimsDistillery.com), a marketing and branding company (Sims.Media), and a reverse mastermind company (SimsSpeakeasy.com). (You’ll get to hear about Sims.Media and Sims Speakeasy later in this book—including the time I took a court judge to a brothel.) The one thing every one of these ventures has in common is being stupid. No, the businesses aren’t stupid, but with the creation of each one, I went for stupid even though there were many people who told me they were bad ideas. (People were astounded I was starting a business during a pandemic.)
I learned how to go for stupid the hard way, and now I’m sharing those lessons with you. Be warned: in this book, I tell the truth the only way I’m willing to: directly, boldly, and without holding back. You won’t find any fluff or feel good
motivations in these pages. This is about creating practical actions to produce astounding results. In a gotcha society, this book will yell at you to ignore what everyone else thinks and go for big, stupid, ridiculous goals. After all, if a bricklayer from South London can do it, you can too.
A last caveat for you. This book isn’t meant to be read and put aside. You need to use the information and take action. If you aren’t going to do that, you might as well not read it. This is not a book to sit on your coffee table to impress visitors. It’s a guide to help you achieve your wildest dreams.
Let’s get started.
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Chapter One
1. I Asked
It’s Sunday, September 28, 2014. I was sitting at an iron table in the garden restaurant of the Hotel de Russie, Rome, when a client called.
Steve, I know you’re in Italy. I want you to do something for me.
Of course,
I said. What do you need?
"I’ll be in Florence this Wednesday with my fiancée, her mother and father, and a friend. I need you to sort out a fantastic dining