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    Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are
    Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are
    Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are
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    Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are

    Written by Lysa TerKeurst

    Narrated by Lysa TerKeurst and Jim Cress

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    2024 ECPA CHRISTIAN BOOK AWARD - AUDIOBOOK OF THE YEAR

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    Relationships are wonderful . . . until they're not. Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye.

    Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that’s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.

    After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.

    In these pages, Lysa will help you:

    • Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.
    • Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you.
    • Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.
    • Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.
    • Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.
    • Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa’s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.

     

    You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea.

    Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa: 

    • Forgiving What You Can't Forget
    • It's Not Supposed to Be This Way
    • Uninvited
    • You're Going to Make It
    • Embraced
    • Seeing Beautiful Again
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherThomas Nelson
    Release dateNov 8, 2022
    ISBN9781400211807
    Author

    Lysa TerKeurst

    Lysa TerKeurst is president and chief visionary officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of six New York Times bestsellers, including Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, Forgiving What You Can’t Forget, and It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way. She writes from her family’s farm table and lives in North Carolina. Connect with her at www.LysaTerKeurst.com or on social media @LysaTerKeurst.

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    Readers find this title to be a beautiful and insightful book that provides practical advice on relationships and boundaries. It offers encouragement and deep insight, making it a must-read for all adults. The author's relatable and authentic writing style is highly appreciated. The book helps readers evaluate toxic relationships and find wisdom in setting appropriate boundaries. Overall, this book is thought-provoking, eye-opening, and highly recommended.

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    • 5/5
      This was such an amazing book. Boundaries are so important I'm the kingdom of God
    • 3/5
      Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" offers some practical and insightful tips on setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. The content is well-organized and provides realistic scripts and strategies that can be immediately applied to everyday interactions. I found the sections on understanding the importance of boundaries and how to implement them effectively very helpful.

      However, the book heavily emphasizes a religious perspective, which might not resonate with all readers. The extensive use of biblical references and theological discussions were not particularly beneficial for me and felt somewhat limiting. While the religious aspect might be a strength for some, those looking for a more secular approach to boundary-setting might find it less appealing.

      Overall, if you can navigate through the religious content, the practical advice on boundaries is valuable and can contribute positively to personal growth and healthier relationships.
    • 5/5
      Thank you. I needed to read this. So very helpful.
    • 5/5
      Excellent book that was eye opening as well as thought provoking. Highly recommend!
    • 5/5
      This has such practical advice along with the complexities of relationships. I HIGHLY recommend!
    • 5/5
      Brilliant and insightful! This book should be required reading for all adults everywhere.
    • 5/5
      It was Very helpful and insightful. Thank you and Go bless.
    • 5/5
      Excellent Book for everyone ! This was a thoughtful well rounded excellent book on boundaries and the truth of the Bible .
    • 5/5
      This is a great book giving life to the concept of boundaries
    • 5/5
      This book was amazing! It’s a must read you guys!
    • 5/5
      LOVE LOVE LOVE Amazing how relatable and authentic the author is!!!
    • 5/5
      Although i don't come from faith, value of this book is incredible, i am going to listen again and make notes. If you struggle with toxic relationship and need to assert your self, protect and fight for your own good, struggle with condependancy - you have to listen this one. Is is a gem in boundaries books area!

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      This book was a gift from God and I know will be used by him to help so many.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Wonderful book for realizing there are times we need to say “no” and not feel bad about it. Wisdom on what is appropriate in relationships and what isn’t. I will be reading again.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      When I was thrust into a pain journey due to the the choice of another, my ‘running’ took me on a road trip.
      This book was like water on the burn, light in the tunnel and air through an open window.
      Thank you.
      Want to buy a paper copy and memorise passages that really spoke to me.
      Thank you. ♥️

      1 person found this helpful

    • 3/5
      I wished she talked about what the Bible says about divorce and what she wrestled with it

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      This book provided such beautiful encouragement and deep insight into how to carefully and prayerfully evaluate toxic and hurtful relationships in love and seeking Christ through it all. Thank you, Lysa!!!

      1 person found this helpful