How do I know IT’S LOVE?

Falling in love is exciting, but it’s the start of the journey, that’s all. It flags almost nothing about how that love might play out. Which means it’s also highly deceptive. We get caught in a rush of emotions and hormones. We’re overwhelmed with the joy (or perhaps relief) of finding someone who “gets” us; we fix on all their good bits and close our ears to any clanging warning bells.

‘Real or mature love can’t survive in a cauldron of emotion’

We certainly don’t ask about their “crazy”: the buried complexities; their core belief systems; the (often) dysfunctional ties