Veja como você pode navegar em conversas difíceis com colegas como um profissional no meio da carreira.

This is both difficult and delicate because it may very well change the dynamic of the relationship of the person you're giving feedback to (most often negatively), so here's what I'd suggest: 1. Setting the stage - I often find that saying "Hey I want to have a conversation and it may not be an easy one.." 2. Reinforce that this is for the good of the company/team, and its not personal 3. Celebrate what went well, but in fairness, also highlight where things may have fallen short 4. Listen to the other side of the story - were there circumstances/difficulties that played a part? 5. Make plans to minimise/eradicate similar problems, aim for an improvement the next time. 6. Reinforce that "your success is our success" Good Luck!

En mi experiencia, este tipo de reuniones deben discurrir dejando da un lado el ego, sin hacer de nuestro punto de vista una cuestión de honor y cuya defensa debe hacerse "a muerte". Se debe afrontar la reunión con "mente abierta" y buscando el consenso en una estrategia de "ganar-ganar". Generalmente, las estrategias de confrontación se presentan en situaciones en que una de las partes se siente en desventaja o mal preparada, en esos casos es preferible suspender la reunión para una fecha posterior y en un ambiente más constructivo. Una preparación adecuada y una (o varias) estrategias de negociación son ingredientes esenciales para generar respuestas consensuadas, aceptables para las partes involucradas

As a mid-career professional, handling tough conversations at work is essential for a positive and productive environment. Here’s how to do it effectively: Prepare in Advance: Understand the issue, plan your key points. Choose the Right Time, Place: Find a private setting, ensure both parties are calm. Communicate Clearly and Respectfully: Use “I” statements, be specific about the issue. Listen Actively: Acknowledge their viewpoints, avoid interruptions. Stay Calm, Professional: Manage your emotions, focus on the issue, not the person. Seek Solutions Together: Collaborate on finding acceptable solutions. Follow Up: Summarize the conversation, check in to ensure progress. Approaching difficult conversations with preparation and empathy.

From my experience, human beings appreciate being respected. In situations where the conversation becomes tense, the most effective way to contain the tension is by remaining calm and allowing the other party's voice to be heard. When one maintains calmness, the other party can express their opinion calmly, knowing that they have a platform to express exactly how they feel without disruption and therefore can articulate their thoughts better and create a more meaningful conversation. Keeping your composure also helps you to put yourself in the other person's shoes enhancing empathy. In the end, it leads to a faster way to find a solution to the problem at hand.

When discussing with colleagues, remain calm and avoid jumping to conclusions. Also, refrain from judging individuals based on others' opinions; instead, form your opinion by listening to both parties.

One of the best advice I got from a counselor is that human beings do not like to be blamed. For example, a colleague can miss a work deadline. To address the situation using an "I" statement to communicate is heard clear than using a "you" statement. For example instead of saying "You always miss deadlines", one can say "I feel concerned when deadlines are missed". This removes blame from the other person and instead addresses your feelings on the problem at hand in a genuine manner.