Your Favorite Celebrities — Including David Beckham and Sebastian Stan — Weigh In on What Makes Someone Sexy

Ahead of PEOPLE's 2024 Sexiest Man Alive reveal on Nov. 12, stars reveal their definition of "sexy"

David Beckham, Sebastian Stan, Anthony Ramos
(L-R) David Beckham, Sebastian Stan and Anthony Ramos. Photo:

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“Sexy" is in the eye of the beholder. 

There’s no right answer to the age-old question of what makes someone or something sexy, as evidenced by celebrities’ wide-ranging responses. For Anthony Ramos, sexiness lies in ambition and personality, but for The Inheritance actor Austin Stowell, respect for all is sexy.

Ahead of PEOPLE’s 2024 Sexiest Man Alive reveal on Nov. 12, see what stars have to say about the ever-changing definition of “sexy.”

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David Beckham

David Beckham attends the UK Series Global Premiere of "The Gentlemen" at the Theatre Royal Drury Lane on March 05, 2024 in London, England.
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David Beckham, the Sexiest Man Alive of 2015, gave a diplomatic answer for the meaning of “sexy”: “I suppose it’s what every individual thinks, really," stays the soccer star, 49, who has been married to Victoria Beckham for 25 years. "That’s what’s great about a human. They have different likes and dislikes. And some people have things that they think is sexy and some things that they don’t.”

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Sebastian Stan

Sebastian Stan attends "A Different Man" New York Screening at Metrograph on September 17, 2024 in New York City.
Sebastian Stan.

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For Sebastian Stan, 42, sexy is “pure and simple.”

“It’s confidence and ownership of self, absolutely,” the A Different Man actor says. “It doesn’t matter what else is going on. If you own yourself, then I feel you’re good.”

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Rachel Zoe

Rachel Zoe attends 2023 Baby2Baby Gala Presented By Paul Mitchell at Pacific Design Center on November 11, 2023 in West Hollywood, California.
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Rachel Zoe needs a man who can take care of himself.

"A guy that needs a woman to carry him and babysit him or mom him or fix him or tell him how to be, that's not a good look," says the fashion designer, who recently split from husband Rodger Berman. "The sexiest man alive just has his s--- together and can carry himself in any room."

Zoe, 53, prefers "confident" men who don't "need validation" from others. As for ego-driven guys, they're "not sexy at all," she remarks.

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Anthony Ramos

Anthony Ramos attends SiriusXM At Super Bowl LVII on February 09, 2023 in Phoenix, Arizona.
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Personality is the make-or-break factor for Anthony Ramos. 

“If you meet somebody who you may not necessarily be attracted to immediately, but then they start talking and they’ll start cracking jokes and you’re like, ‘Wow. She’s really nice, she’s funny, she’s charismatic, she’s thoughtful,’ and all of those things, I think make someone sexy,” Ramos, 33, says.

The Twisters star adds, “Sexy is different to different people. For me, I would say that somebody with ambition, goals. That makes somebody sexy.”

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Austin Stowell

Austin Stowell arrives at the Fall Schedule Celebration at Paramount Studios on May 02, 2024 in Los Angeles, California
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“Sexy to me is people who take care of their family,” NCIS: Origins star Austin Stowell, 39, tells PEOPLE in a joint interview with former Sexiest Man Alive Mark Harmon. “Sexy to me is people who look you in the eye and tell you the truth and treat people who are in positions of service with respect.”

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Jennifer Tilly

Jennifer Tilly
Jennifer Tilly.

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Sexy goes beyond the surface for Jennifer Tilly. The Oscar-nominated actress and Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star, 66, admits she has never been attracted to men with "perfect six-packs." Instead, she prioritizes "a sense of humor, a personality and also a caring sense."

"I’ve been with my man for 20 years, and he has all the qualities that I mentioned previously, except for the perfect six-pack," says Tilly, who is in a relationship with poker player Phil Laak. "As far as I'm concerned, he's the perfect man."

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Mark Duplass

Mark Duplass
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The Morning Show star Mark Duplass, 47, had a name in mind when thinking of “sexy” — Sterling K. Brown. Duplass starred alongside the Oscar nominee in the 2022 film Biosphere, and he recalls how Brown worked “12 hours a day for three weeks in a sweaty, s------- built set on the east side of L.A.”

“He loves acting, and he was gracious with the crew," says Duplass. "He was lively and energetic, put an incredible performance. He’s hot as f—. That’s it. It’s SKB… or bust,."

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Ron Funches

Ron Funches attends SoulPancake's "Four Conversations about One Thing" at Hammer Museum on May 29, 2019 in Los Angeles, California.
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Ron Funches of Loot reveals his definition of sexy comes from watching HBO’s House of the Dragon.

“You’re sexy when you can make the people around you feel safe and feel free to be themselves,” Funches, 41, says. “I try to provide that type of atmosphere for anyone around me, that you are free to be who you are always around me.”

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