Counselling Skills and Techniques
Counselling Skills and Techniques
Counselling Skills and Techniques
AND TECHNIQUES
Stages of the Counselling Process
1. Initial disclosure- Relationship Building
2. In-depth Exploration- Problem Assessment
3. Commitment to Action-Goal Setting
Core Conditions
Empathy: Understanding what the client feels and
empathy
Involves two strategies
SHOVLER and Listening Skills
SHOVLER
S-Face the other Squarely
H-Nod Heads
O-Adopt an Open Posture
V-Verbal Following
L-Lean towards the other
E-Make Eye contact
R-Be relatively Relax
Active Listening Skills
Most important counselling skill. Process of
‘hearing’ the other person.
Involves three aspects.
Open-Ended Questions
Questions that clients cannot easily answer
perception.
Used when client presents many problems at
once.
4. Summary
Collection of 2 or more paraphrases or
reflections that condenses the client’s
messages or the session.
Purposes
To identify common theme or pattern
throughout the counselling stages.
To ties multiple elements of client’s messages.
To review progress.
5. Reflection
Echoing back of the client’s last few words-
verbal response to client emotion.
Used to bring out underlying feelings.
Widely used in Rogerian counselling.
Example, Client: We move back to Delhi From
mediation.
7. Client Observation
Skilled client observation allows the
counsellor to identify discrepancies or
incongruities in the client’s or their own
communication.
Purposes
To check for any behavioural, emotional,
cognitive changes.
To have a better understanding of the client’s