Dennis Miedema What Attracts Women Ebook

What Attracts Women – FREE Ebook
What Attracts Women

“How To Become A Chick Magnet Today,
Thanks To One Of 12 Different Traits…”
Discover The Overlooked Secrets That Separate Guys

Who "Get The Girl" From Nice Guys Who Never Will
Do you have NO CLUE about why the girl you like runs off with that guy
over there, instead of with YOU? And are you annoyed as hell by it?
Are you tired of investing loads of time, energy, and emotion into talking
to beautiful, interesting, and attractive women… only to discover later on
that she “just wants to be friends”? Are you getting desperate?
Hell, do you want to meet as many women as possible in the

shortest period of time, without much effort… and, ideally, without
hurting their feelings too?
If You Answered “YES” To One Or More Of The Questions Above,

Then This FREE Ebook Might Just Be The Most Important Thing
You’ve Ever Read… And You’re About To Find Out Why This Is So…
-- By Dennis Miedema & Win With Women
© 2010-2011 Dennis Miedema & Win With Women. www.Win-With-Women.com.
Feel free to share this ebook with friends! As long as you don’t
change the contents of it, we won’t mind you sharing it at all.
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Why You Need This Ebook About Attracting Women…

Fellow Dater:
Seeing a woman you really like favor someone else and NOT you sucks…
Just like becoming friends with a hot babe, hanging out with her for days,
weeks, or maybe even months… and then hearing she wants to be friends.
All of that nastiness in your life is about to go away though.
Why?
Because I promise that after you’re done reading all of this?
You WILL know how to be a chick magnet using one of 12 different traits…
And you WILL know how to meet as many women as possible in the
shortest period of time, without much effort… and without hurting their
feelings too!
Just imagine what your life would be like when you would know how to get
ANY woman you’d like whenever you choose to:
… No more dry spells! Your life will start to resemble one that Hugh Hefner
must live, one filled with beautiful ladies, sex, complete satisfaction, and
an almost constant big smile on your face...
… No more frustration and desperation because you don’t know what a

woman will do next and why, because you’ll know. You’ll see it coming
and you’ll get what you want before your jealous friends and even SHE
knows what happened …
… You’ll almost forget what walking is like, because you’ll be spending

WAY more time in bed than doing anything else, and you won’t be alone in
that bed either …
… As you date around, you’ll get to know all the “tricks of the trade” that
will prepare you for when your “Miss Right” comes along so you will never
screw up your chances to land your dream girl ever again …
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I can almost hear you think: “Dude! Who the hell are you to say you can
make all these things happen in my life?”
Quite frankly, it’s because I’ve been there. There where you are now.
It took me years to figure out how to walk up to a woman and have a

conversation with her that she enjoyed, let alone to figure out how to
create sexual tension so she would want to either kiss me, date me, or do
me right then and there.
As you can read in the story of how I got started, it’s been a wild ride and
I’ve been through a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get where I am
today: being what some people would call a “dating guru”.
In total, I’ve successfully shown 6,176 regular guys such as yourself what
to do with women during the last couple of years, including how to get
30,880 phone numbers, and how to go on 15,403 dates.
So, you could say I know what I’m talking about.
But let me get this straight:
Although I LOVE to brag about my love for movies and coffee, I don’t like
to brag about my accomplishment OR my advice because the proof is in
the pudding as they say.
The proof is in how good my advice is. And I’ll let you be the judge.
So, are you ready to discover how to meet as many women as possible in
the shortest period of time, without much effort… and without hurting
their feelings too?
Then buckle up, because it’s going to be a wild ride that includes many
insights that may shock you…
To More Dating Success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
P.S. Feel free to share this ebook with your friends! I won’t mind it at all,
as long as you don’t change the contents.
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Table of Contents
Chapter 0: The Best Way To Use This Ebook……………………………………….6
Chapter 1: Attracting Women By Being A Pain…………………………..7

1.1 Why Being A Pain Works…………………………………………7
1.2 Real Life Examples of Being A Pain………………………..10
Chapter 2: What Attracts Women? Being A Pleasure Does!..........11

2.1 Why Being a Pleasure Works…………………………………..11
2.2 Real Life Examples of Being a Pleasure………………….13
Chapter 3: Get Women By Being In Need of Help……………………..15

3.1 Why Needing Help Works………………………………………..15
3.2 Real Life Examples of Needing Help………………………..18
Chapter 4: Attract Women By Being The Anti-Prude…………………20

4.1 Why Being The Anti-Prude Works…………………………….20
4.2 Real Life Examples of Being The Anti-Prude…………….22
Chapter 5: Make Women Like You By Being Different……………….24

5.1 Why Being Different Works……………………………………….24
5.2 Real Life Examples of Being Different……………………….26
Chapter 6: Being The Manager of Her Crushed Stardom……………28

6.1 Why Being The Manager Works…………………………………28
6.2 Real Life Examples of Being The Manager………………..30
Chapter 7: Get Her By Fulfilling Her Psychological Needs………….33

7.1 Why Fulfilling Her Psychological Works……………………..33
7.2 Real Life Examples of Psychological Needs……………….38
Chapter 8: Get Dates By Being Ambiguous………………………………40

8.1 Why Being Ambiguous Works…………………………………….40
8.2 Real Life Examples of Being Ambiguous…………………….43
Chapter 9: Get The Girl By Making Her Compete………………………45

9.1 Why Making Her Compete Works……………………………….45
9.2 Real Life Examples of Making Her Compete………………47
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Chapter 10: Spark The Chemistry By Showing Your Flaws…………49

10.1 Why Showing Your Flaws Works………………………………49
10.2 Real Life Examples of Showing Your Flaws……………..51
Chapter 11: Make Her Love You By Being Sexually Aggressive…..53

11.1 Why Being Sexually Aggressive Works………………….53
11.2 Real Life Examples of Being Sexually Aggressive….55
Chapter 12: Let Her Chase You By Being A Charmer…………………57

12.1 Why Being A Charmer Works………………………………….57
12.2 Real Life Examples of Being A Charmer…………………59
Chapter 13: There’s One More Thing You Need To Know…………..61
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The Best Way To Use This Ebook
Just so we’re clear here, and so you’ll learn everything you can from all of
the pages that follow? I thought I’d give you some “instructions” on how
best to use this ebook, so you’ll get all the results with women you can…
Because I really do want you to meet as many women as possible in the

shortest period of time, without much effort!
Here’s a quick breakdown of how it all works:
1) First, I’ll give you a brief description of a certain way to create

attraction, so you’ll have a general idea of what attracts women about it.
2) Then, I’ll drill deeper into all of the psychology behind it so you will
know absolutely everything about why it works, how it works… and how
you can start using it yourself within days.
3) Last but not least, I’ll drive my point home by sharing real life
examples: my own personal experiences with it, how one of my fans has
successfully used the technique, or how some of the most well known
womanizers on the planet used it to their own advantage.
On a side note: when I said my personal experiences with it, I mean

things will really get personal. You’ll hear embarrassing and funny stories
from my life, but you’ll hear shocking ones as well.
Shocking stories as in: everything from learning about very unlikely

teachers that showed me many things about how attraction works…
To insights on how the human mind works that will rock your world and
may even change your outlook on life.
Don’t say I didn’t warn you. I’d much rather tell you things you cannot
handle (yet), than lying to you about what a "happy, happy, happy" place
the dating arena can be sometimes.
Let’s get started already, shall we? Oh come on! Don’t be scared now!
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1. Attracting Women By Being a Pain
Women don’t want a man who agrees with everything and who’s always
sweet. Frankly, most women have a live that gets increasingly boring over
time so they crave drama because it makes them feel alive again. So, you
give them drama. Criticize them, argue with them, and so on. Sometimes,
attracting women is about giving them their personal Jerry Springer show.
1.1 Why Being a Pain Works
You can only attract women when they have an unsatisfied need. You
simply can’t attract a chick that’s happy with absolutely everything that’s
going on in her life.
I can almost hear you think: “So creating attraction is even more difficult
than I thought it was? Damn it!”
But looks can be deceiving my friend.
You see, I haven’t heard of a single person in the world who’s satisfied
with every little thing in his/her life. Well, maybe the Dalai Lama because
Buddhists teach themselves to be selfless and without cravings…
But the rest of the planet is always unhappy with something: your job,
your family, your sex life, your education, your lack of sleep, your lack of
confidence, and the list goes on, and on… and on.
Where am I going with this?
The answer’s simply, really. Most women, just like most of us men, have
to deal with daily routines. Annoying little things to do like sitting behind
the desk at office until 5 PM, or going to school and making your
homework, paying the bills, etc.
And you know what?
These obligations and routines bore them out of their freaking minds!
Women desperately crave an escape from the brain killing routines and
days that are a 1 on the excitement scale from 1-10.
And, whether you like to hear this or not, drama is a risky situation that
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they normally don’t go through.
Let me rephrase that: drama is more exciting than every day life to
women, because it provides a little escape from reality just like movies do.
Just like TV shows do. Just like music artists do.
Not only that, drama always means things get worse than they were.
There’s a difference compared to the every day situation.
And by criticizing a woman for example, you’re giving her a contrast.

Simply said, the bad times make her appreciate the good times that much
more. And because she’ll never know when you’re going to give her
negative feedback, you’ll stay unpredictable.
By being unpredictable, you prevent a conversation, a date… hell… you’ll

even prevent a relationship from becoming a routine. It’s because she
never knows what to expect next, and because of that it’s exciting to talk
to you.
That’s why a woman is attracted to you when you’re being a pain.
Whenever I bring this up, guys often bring up several objections:
“So does that mean you’re asking me to start treating women like dirt?”
“Yeah I get it, but do you want me to criticize them for no reason now?”
“So I need to hate on women, and love myself for it? What the f*ck!”
You may think about these objections yourself too, but don’t worry,
because the answer to all three questions is a big fat “NO”.
I’m NOT saying you should bash on women (literally or figuratively) for no
reason, or to feel good about it after doing it.
I’m asking you to criticize her behavior, when she deserves it.
I know, I know.
That may sound like common sense, but meeting and dating women is
NOT based on common sense. Trust me.
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Because here’s the deal: as soon as us men like a woman, we accept

more from her than we accept from other women. A whole lot more.
Men accept all kinds of words and behaviors “because we love her”.
I don’t want you to go there, ever. A woman will lose respect for you
when you don’t tell her what’s wrong and what’s right. It makes her think
that you’re just one of those guys who likes to kiss ass because you think
she likes it. And let me tell you: there’s a big difference between being her
slave… and being her lover.
And on a biological level, whenever you refuse to be territorial (here and

no further type behavior) you decrease the attraction.
Why?
Because back when humans still lived in tribes, a man who would defend
what was his gave a woman a higher chance of survival. And guess what?
A woman who had higher chances of survival gave her offspring higher
chances of survival as well, so being territorial was good for the species…
So, in a few words, women started to sexually select men who were more
territorial than others because it would help secure the survival of
humankind.
In a nutshell, I highly recommend you stop accepting second class

behavior from women. Whenever they do something you don’t like, you
call them out on it. You confront them and tell them the truth: stop doing
that or I will get angry and be on my way.
Once you stop accepting second class behavior, you’ll be on your way to
being rejected less and dating women more…
All because of the reasons I’ve mentioned before.
Once you start being a pain, you’ll be well on your way to meeting as
many women as possible in the shortest period of time, and without much
effort, just like I promised you at the start of this ebook.
That’s when you’ll become a chick magnet…
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1.2 Real Life Examples of Being a Pain
Back when I first wanted to meet and date more women, I somehow got
this idea into my head that I had to entertain women:
I would say to myself that if I could make women laugh and feel good
about themselves? That I would “get the girl”.
The only thing that ended up happening was that they saw me either as
the class clown or as a very good friend.
So, I decided to stop being the nice guy by playfully teasing them and I
was under the impression that if I could not tease them… I was very busy
failing what I had set out to do.
The result: I was seen as the class clown yet again, or the ladies would
think I was an asshole because I never stopped slightly insulting people
(teasing them very well).
Then, on a rainy day in August, which is supposed to be the month of fun

on the beach except that it almost never is here in Holland?
I had a breakthrough. This girl called me out for always teasing people on
this guy’s birthday, but never showing any weakness. She thought I was
weak for not showing anything more than a big mouth, and an asshole for
always making people laugh but at the cost of someone’s self-esteem.
That made me so angry. Damn. I started yelling at her, told her that she
embarrassed me by saying that in front of a whole lot of friends of mine,
that she had no right to assume I didn’t dare show any softer side
because I was insecure, and I went on and on with the accusations.
When I was speaking my mind, I thought she would throw a glass of wine
in my face, break down and cry, or leave the party all upset. Instead, she
kissed me right there on the spot.
At first, I just thought she was one crazy bitch! But when I started
confronting women with stuff I didn’t like more often and they reacted by
treating me with more respect and chasing me around?
That was when I realized how powerful being a pain is. How powerful
minor conflicts are. I hope you do too by now.
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2. What Attracts Women? Being a Pleasure Does!

Compliment her a few times on a daily basis and do sweet stuff for her.
Works best if you create a contradiction with being a pain: now you’re
sweet, then you’re an asshole. The tension created by you doing A now &
opposite B afterwards is what creating attraction is all about.
2.1. Why Being a Pleasure Works
Ain’t it funny how the dating game plays all kinds of tricks on your mind? I
know it ISN’T funny when you’re still a bit inexperienced with women, but
it won’t be long before you’ll start appreciating the Universe’s version of
sarcasm.
You see, the vast majority of men out there make dating women wayyyy
more difficult for themselves than it ever should be.
Basically, I can classify average guys like you and me into two categories:
1) The nice guys who truly believe that by giving a woman everything she
wants, she will give them what they want. They still believe in the
“become friends with her first and hope for the best” approach. Hopelessly
outdated and completely naive. That’s what it really is.
2) And then there are the disgruntled nice guys. They know that nice guys
always finish last and that the bad boys somehow seem to “get the girl”,
so they decide they need to be bad themselves. Somewhat true, but it’s
only one side of the coin.
You see, you, as a guy, are raised with the mindset that some things are
“cool” to do as a man and some things are just NOT done. Things like
talking about your feelings, crying, and being a pussy.
The funny thing though, is that while half the male population of the globe
is trying to do exactly what women want… and the other half is trying to
do the opposite because they think it works better?
Everyone seems to forget that you can also give a woman what she
NEEDS. There’s a difference between what a woman wants (what she tells
you), and what she needs (what satisfies her desires).
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And the cosmic joke here, is that in these modern times no man really
courts a woman anymore. And I mean courting in a good way:
- Giving her genuine compliments that make her blush from ear to ear
- Making an incredibly romantic plan for a date that includes a candle lit
dinner, watching the sun set together, slow dancing together, etc.
- And so on
In short, in a society where people get more brutal, straightforward, and

anti-social every single day (think about: how much times do you eat your
dinner in front of the TV instead of actually eating at the table with the
family)?
No one makes a woman feel like a princess anymore, like she’s the most
amazing woman in the entire Universe, like she’s the only person and
thing that’s worth your complete attention.
And trust me when I say: the need for a woman to feel like a princess is
very real, because it’s nothing more than the female version of the two
basic drives of human psychology.
Famous psychologist Sigmund Freud discovered the two basic human

drives, the sex drive and the need to feel important, many years ago.
Meet Sigmund Freud.
What did Freud discover about the need to feel important?
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He found everyone wants to be somebody, to be respected for something,

to be known for something, to just… feel important for a change, if only
for a little while.
Now, this is where I’ll ask you a simple question:
If more and more guys forget all about being a gentleman and courting a
woman, how effective will it be when you make her feel like the most
important person in the world? Like royalty?
That’s right: you’ll be satisfying a need (the need to be important) that

almost everyone ignores these days. That’s like a sea in the freaking
dessert filled with water-deprived people who got lost and need a drink!
2.2. Real Life Examples of Being a Pleasure
I still remember the first day at work in a clothing factory in the center of
Utrecht, which is one of the biggest cities in the Netherlands.
I don’t know if you know the story of how I got started, but if not then let
me tell you that working there was for from voluntarily. I had to, because
I needed to pay off the debts I had incurred because of my previous fuck
ups with women.
To be a little more precise: I met a gold digger and she got me for all I
was worth… and more.
Anyways, I still clearly remember the first day working there because I
met this Chinese chick. She was four years older than me, hot as hell, and
there was something about her that made you say “she must be a freak in
the bed”. Now that’s how I like my women!
So, I didn’t even know her yet and somehow we got to talking about how
our dumb asses ended up working there. I brought up the fact that I was
in serious trouble and probably needed a place to sleep.
She immediately offered to talk to her brother and his roommates who
were looking for a new roommate. I was so grateful, even though her
brother and friends were super Christians and I’m not really down with
praying before every snack, breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
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I was grateful because she knew they would take this poor soul in without
asking me for rent (which I couldn’t afford).
But the point here is: I immediately thanked her from the bottom of my
heart, told her how awesome she was for even bringing it up, that it was
the sweetest thing a friend ever did for me, and that her kindness made
her even hotter than I already thought she was.
It made her blush, so I asked her out, did the whole romantic nine yards
thing (cooked for her, gave her roses, held an umbrella over her head
when it rained, gave her a massage and all kinds of other stuff that
“normal” guys would consider to be gay).
The result: I spent 3 days at her place and all we did was have sex.
As you can see: that’s how powerful being a pleasure can be. I do feel I
have to tell you that being a nice guy is very different from being a
pleasure.
Being too nice (so being a nice guy) means agreeing with everything,
accepting second class behavior, being desperate and chasing women
around until they think you’re a creepy stalker… or their best friend.
Being a pleasure, though, simply means being more romantic than a

woman thinks a man is capable of. It’s one of my most overlooked
strengths, really.
And it’s definitely worth considering when you want to get a good-looking,
interesting woman to come inside with you after a date…
Or a good idea for ON a date of course!
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3. Get Women By Being In Need of Help

Every woman has a maternal instinct. The need to take care of others.
Create attraction with another technique first, and as soon as you’re sick?
Burned yourself so “you can’t cook”? Broke? Let her know you need help
and her maternal instinct and need to prove her love will do the rest.
Just tell her:
3.1 Why Needing Help Works
I can almost hear you think when you read the brief overview:
“What, so I’m suppose to let a woman know I can’t do something and she
will automatically do it for me… AND will be attracted to me?”
Nope.
There’s a little more to it than that amigo. Here’s the juicy secret of how it
really works: us men have been raised to show the world we know
everything, can do everything, and never admit we can’t.
No, really!
Think about it: if a guy asked you the way to a certain street and you
kinda know where it is but don’t have a good idea of how to get there?
You’ll still give him some directions, won’t you?
You’ll do it even though you’re not sure, right?
And it’s typical male behavior. Better said: women expect men to act this
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way. Guess what happens when you openly say you have a weakness,
need help, and don’t feel good or bad about it?
To women, it’s TRUE confidence. Admitting a weakness and feeling

comfortable about it is kinda sexy to women.
Because women are much more sensitive than us men will ever be simply
because they’re wired in a different way than we are, so when a guy…
who is expected to always be bold and brave (especially around women)…
breaks down and admits a weakness?
A woman’s maternal instinct comes into play and she’ll take care of him
like no one can, and feel good about it and the guy too!
WARNING: admitting weaknesses every single day and coming across like
you’re never in control, and always need help, is a turn off. The trick is to
do what you always do, and when you feel down every once in a while and
need someone to talk to?
That’s when you admit a weakness.
The most interesting aspect of being in need of help though, is when it’s
the opposite of what you usually do.
For example, when you created attraction in more aggressive ways like
playful teasing, being picky, or being dominant yesterday or for several
weeks…
And then you go ahead and show a soft side by admitting a weakness?
That will let a woman know there’s more to you than meets the eye.
First of all, this creates an air of mystery around you and that by itself is
enough to create attraction.
Secondly, by being A today and the opposite Z another day, you’ll be

unpredictable to her. And like I said before: being unpredictable means a
conversation, date, or relationship with you won’t become an every day
routine…
Routines a woman has to go through day after day, after day, are boring…
and they’re the MORTAL ENEMY of attraction.
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And I think this is a good time to tell you that the old saying “opposites
attract” is true, but in an entirely different way than you think it is!
You see, if you would be the same every day? Then your conversations,
dates, and relationships will get boring for the ladies and they WILL leave
because you can’t satisfy their needs. That’s what I can guarantee you.
Yes, they will even leave you when EVERY DAY you spend with them is
awesome, because after a while? They will get used to it, so awesome will
become normal for them… and in the end, just another routine for them.
In come the opposites. You’re a pain (see page 7 for more info) on day 1,
and a pleasure (see page 11) on day 2. You’re hot on day 3, cold on 4.
The differences between days are dramatic this way. If she could rate
days on a 1-10 scale, then you being a pleasure on day 1 would be a 10,
you being a pain on day 2 would be a 1.
Do you see where I’m going with this?
- Because the differences are so huge, a woman won’t get used to it so

you’ll keep being unpredictable. And that, my friend, creates attraction
- Because it’s great to be with you today and a nightmare to be with you
tomorrow, a woman will treasure the good days like crazyyy. She’ll start
to do anything to make more good days happen, including chasing you
around and trying to keep you interested
- Because you show her a soft side and a dark side at random and on a
continuing basis, she can’t decide whether you’re a nice guy or an
asshole. In other words, she has to find out more simply because humans
are curious by nature.
Hell, the rollercoaster ride that is being with you evolves into something
that’s much like a drug after a while. And in case you’re wondering: YES,
this is why women stay with rock stars that beat them up, use drugs, and
cheat on them.
If the only thing you’ll take away from this free ebook is that opposites
attract and that you should thus use two qualities that contradict each
other in your interactions with women?
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Then I know I did my job and did it really well, because this stuff is scary
effective. So much so, that it works just as well when you want to make
new friends or want to climb the corporate ladder of the company you
work for.
It will only be a matter of time before people will start seeking your
approval… just so they’ll get a good day from you.
Start asking women for help to show your softer side, so they see both
the tough exterior and the soft center, and you WILL meet as many
women as possible in a smaller amount of time than you thought to be
possible.
Hey, don’t take it from me man. Take it from Casanova.
3.2 Real Life Examples of Needing Help
Fun fact: some of the world’s most famous bad boys, one of them being
Casanova, have used being in need of help to their advantage.
I regularly talk about why bad boys are so attractive, and how you can
meet as many women as possible in the shortest period of time by
learning from them, in my Inner Game newsletter.
But back to Casanova here…
Meet Casanova.
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Casanova was seen by many women all over Europe as a bad boy, a
womanizer, someone who destroys marriages, someone who went against
everything the church believed in (back then the church still pretty much
ruled the world).
So, whenever Casanova would meet a new woman who had already heard
about him? He knew the odds were against him. He knew that by being
what was expected of him (a bad boy), he wasn’t going to get very far.
That’s why he would first be the typical Casanova (a playful teaser and
romantic), and then he would suddenly talk about the hardships of life, a
bad childhood, the enormous sense of guilt he felt because he seduced so
many innocent women that deserved better…
And women would melt in his arms whenever he showed he needed their
help, that he had a weak side, even though he was seen as pure evil by
most of Europe.
Casanova probably didn’t consciously realize it at the time, but he served

women the ultimate ego trip: what seemed to be a chance to tame the
bad boy, the lion that was seen as evil but now looked so soft and
innocent in their arms.
Do you see which basic human drive he catered to here? I mentioned it

before: the need to feel important. If a woman is able to tame a bad boy
and make him a good guy again, it’s a huge boost for her ego and let’s
her know that only SHE was able to do that. It makes her feel important.
Combine that with the power of opposites, and showing women you need
help is a powerful way of attraction. Best thing about it: I’m willing to bet
you that not a single dude you know will ever realize what’s really going
on when you use this stuff.
It means you’ll have ZERO competition, and that you can do whatever the
hell you want and get away with it, because even women won’t know the
psychological buttons you are pushing…
Only you and me will know, so start using this subtle but extremely
effective technique from this day onward!
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4. Attract Women By Being the Anti-Prude

There are plenty women who worry way too much about what others and
society thinks of them, but who secretly want to stop caring and get down
and dirty. Lure them out of their politically correct cave with your sexual
confidence and enjoy the super freaks you create!
4.1 Why Being the Anti-Prude Works
Here’s some God forsaken truth about the dating game: men have made
it harder for other men to get women. Why?
In today’s society, when a guy sleeps with multiple women a week, he’s
called a hero. Every other dude wants to be your friend and then find out
how you do it.
But a woman? When a woman sleeps with several guys in 1 week, she’s a
slut, a whore, a prostitute, a skank, a tramp, a ho, and any other kind of
name you can give sleazy women.
Do you realize what this means?
It means women are ridiculed, insulted, and gossiped about when they try
to have the same sexual freedom as men have.
Meanwhile, women have the same sexual urges as men have. They
fantasize about sex as much as we do. You just think they don’t, because
women can’t tell you about it because they are looked at the wrong way
when they do.
In short, women want to… but can’t, because they fear their reputation
will be destroyed by it when someone starts talking. They know society is
just built that way.
The reality is that women are expected to act “lady-like”, which boils down
to covering up that they have the same sexual urges as men have.
Sure, it’s not like women aren’t horny and honest about it when you’re
alone with them…
But at some point, they all have to play along with the game society has
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programmed to play. They don’t want to, but they have to.
Having said that, can you imagine the HUGE relief when you let women
know that they can truly be themselves around you?
That they can truly be open and honest about their sexual urges, act on
them, and that you won’t tell a soul about it?
And if you’re wondering what the hell you can say to get women to finally
drop the act and be as sexually free as men are…
Try saying what I just told you. It hasn’t failed me yet, so I don’t see any
reason while it will fail when you start using it!
Strange things start to happen when you let women know you don’t
believe in society’s definition of how much sexual freedom women can
have.
Once you let them know in advance that you don’t want a relationship and
are fine with them seeing other people because you want to see other
people as well for example?
You start getting fuck buddies left and right, especially if you also let
women know how you feel about their sexual freedom…
Aren’t women awesome? If you still think they’re not, then just wait until
you hear the rest of what I have to say…
And speaking of being the anti-prude: many women want the same sexual
freedom as men do, but they’re looked at the wrong way if they confess
they slept with a guy on a first date. There’s this BIG taboo around
sleeping with someone on the first date…
But you can call yourself one lucky bastard, because I wrote a blog post
about it that shows you how to have sex on the first date without forcing
women to do it AND without making them regret it later on.
Check it out:
Sex On The First Date: How To Easily Have Sex On The First Date
Onward…
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4.2 Real Life Examples of Being the Anti-Prude

At a certain point in my “dating career”, I was getting sick and tired of
having to go out to clubs, malls, the streets, or to colleges to pick up
women.
I wanted something a little more… long term. I put my money on social

circles and from that day onward vowed to only be friends with women,
even if they liked me, until I thought it was time to make a move.
That was when I met Amra, a woman who was a natural at seducing
women. I was so proud of myself for befriending her…
Because not only did I prove my persistence because she was smoking hot
and thus hard to befriend instead of make a move on, I was able to learn
a lot from her very seductive ways.
Anyways, I was always teasing her, and being very dominant around her.
Then, one day, she asked me what I thought of her sleeping with more
guys than the average girl. That was when I gave her the story about
women wanting the same sexual freedom as men do, but that they never
get it, and that I thought it wasn’t fair.
And guess what? Her eyes started twinkling, she got very touchy-feely
afterwards, and when she met a bad boy who dumped her instead of her
dumping him?
We were fuck buddies. And I’m 100% sure that the sole reason for me
getting such an aloof chick, a female player, was that I was an anti-
prude…
Because I did everything else right before that and never got a real
chance to make a move (even though I didn’t even want it before the bad
boy came along).
In a few words, being an anti-prude works well on the wild chicks. You
know, women who love to party, or who date around, or who are afraid of
commitment.
But don’t think other kinds of women don’t like the potential sexual
freedom! Think about it: women from the Middle East, Hindu women, and
women with a very, very religious (Christian) background… are all still
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women.
They have the same sexual urges as any other woman does, as any man
does, but they are much more limited in their ways… and that means they
crave to be free (sexually) deep down inside more than anyone else.
Proof: my current girlfriend Naisa is from Iraq AND her family is very
religious while she’s not. She was very… shy at first, but now? I think you
know what I mean…
Let’s keep this puppy going, shall we? Neeeext!
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5. Make Women Like You By Being Different

If a woman has only known country boys, imagine what happens if she
meets a guy like you from the big city! You’re unique, rare, and if you
keep talking to her then it’s easy to get a date. Why? Everything that’s
different by comparison is new and thus exciting for her so she’s naturally
attracted to it. Creating attraction = being the new guy.
5.1 Why Being Different Works
Let me get this straight dude…
Being different by comparison does NOT mean you should start dressing
like a gothic weirdo, a cowboy that walked right out of a Western movie,
or any of that other over-the-top nonsense.
It’s not about being a clown. Or a weirdo. Or dressing funny to stand out.
You see, as I explained before, women feel like they’re stuck in their
boring every day life full of its boring daily routines and boring obligations.
Women are bored with the mediocrity, the lack of excitement, the plain
mediocrity of the world around them. They’re bored just like men are.
Now imagine if you were the daughter of an insanely rich oil magnet. All
you’ve known in your life is horses, getting everything you want at will,
and boys that are just as stuck up and spoiled as you are.
Sure, you date a guy here and a guy there, but somehow you feel like
they’re not right for you. You feel like something’s missing. Like they’re
too predictable.
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In comes a guy “from the hood” with goals, who has to fights for what he
wants, he doesn’t give a shit about manners and being polite. He’s a guy
with a risky guy. Guess what?
If a woman ends up in a situation like this, she’ll pick the guy from the
bad neighborhood 9 out of 10.
Why?
Because he’s different by comparison. He’s almost the opposite of what a

rich girl is used to… and that makes him unpredictable. Exciting. Risky. A
woman feels like being with him is an emotional rollercoaster where she
never knows what happens next and feels more alive than she has felt in
years.
In short: the dude is completely unpredictable, and it’s what keeps her
interested.
On the other hand, if we would put the same guy back in his
neighborhood? He would just be one of many. Introduce 1 artsy, cultural
nerd in there who’s very sophisticated and again… comparison comes into
play.
This is another reason why opposites attract and what the saying
opposites attract really means:
If you’re close to the complete opposite of a woman’s world? You create

attraction by being unpredictable, and you aren’t doing anything for it!
You’ll be exciting, risky, an escape from her every day life of boring
routines and obligations… just because you’re so different from what she’s
used to.
Thinking along those lines, you could try the following:
- Going to a birthday or party where mostly R&B and rap is played? Go in

a dress shirt, maybe even wear a tie, and see what happens…
- Going to a birthday or party of pretty rich people? Dress like 50 Cent

would and see what happens…
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- Hate art? Go to a museum or art gallery
- Hate sports? Go to as much football, soccer, etc. games as you can
And I’m willing to bet you that you will grab women’s attention, especially
when you start talking and let them know how different you really are.
All you have to do then is NOT screw up, because being unpredictable can
be so powerful that it will get you phone numbers while you’re not really
asking for them.
5.2 Real Life Examples of Being Different
Me and a couple of friends wanted to go clubbing in Utrecht (a pretty big

city in the center of Holland) several years ago. We had no freaking clue
about where to go and decided to just pick a club at random and go there.
We decided to go to the Tivoli, a club in the center of town. And it turned

out there was a party with only rap music going on in there. So, we boldly
went in, and then…
Before I continue, you have to know here that we were celebrating the
birthday of one of my friends. Now, I wouldn’t say the guy or his family
was swimming in piles of money, but he could afford to dress like a
businessman (suit and everything) every day and not wear the same suit
twice in weeks…
That’s why me and my bro’s decided to “suit up” and wear dress shirts
and matching ties because we knew our friend would do the same.
So there we were: dressed up like businessmen and walking into a club

filled with, well, the kind of people who always go to rap parties. Think
baggy jeans, XXL shirts, baseball caps, and lots of “bling bling” here.
I was the first one that made it into the club, and it was like the music
stopped playing and time stood still, because almost immediately 4
different women tried to make eye contact with me.
The first woman I talked to just had to know why I was wearing such
fancy clothes, which resulted in me claiming to be Scarface’s evil little
brother, her laughing, and me taking her home.
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It was the first woman I talked to! That was when I knew I was on to
something.
An important side note here: don’t let your clothing style (or any other
eternal stuff like money, cars, fame, power, jewelry and so on for that
matter) decide how confident you feel.
You can also be different by comparison by going to places you dislike to

meet women there, like going to art galleries and museums while you
hate art…
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6. Being the Manager of Her Crushed Stardom

It’s easy for women to lose faith in their own abilities after a childhood of
dreams that never came true. She used to believe anything was possible,
but doesn’t believe anymore. Creating attraction is easy here: excessively
show her you believe in her dreams and make her ambitious again. She’ll
love you for it.
6.1 Why Being the Manager Works
Us men are followers of the herd whether we like it or not. We’re group-
minded, probably because as a group we have a higher chance of survival
than on our own so we needed to become part of a herd as a species just
to survive… back when we still lived on the plains of Africa in little huts.
Back to the present.
Recent research has also shown that while men have 8 or so unique
emotions (we feel sad, angry, happy, etc.), women have a whopping
number of 200+ emotions. Essentially, it means women have much more
feelings that can distract them.
And I’m willing to bet you that it’s the reason why they want to be led
more than us men do, and that plus the group-mindedness of humans in
general…
And what you get is women looking for management. I’m not saying that
to disrespect women by the way, because YOU have a natural tendency to
be led too, just like I do.
Here’s a juicy secret about being the manager: as women get older, the
stuff they dreamed of becoming usually hasn’t come true, and they feel
desperate, hopeless, and frustrated because of it.
As we all get older, plans made with passion get replaced by choices made
with reason: we give up on our dreams and “do what’s right” (which is
wrong in my opinion by the way).
But that doesn’t mean we stop dreaming. It doesn’t mean our youthful
enthusiasm is gone. It doesn’t mean women never hope for better days
anymore.
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And THAT is what I call an unsatisfied need. Remember: anyone that has
a need that hasn’t been satisfied can become attracted to you, once you
start fulfilling that need. I’ve shown that time and time again and I will do
everything in my power to make you see it too, throughout this ebook.
So, how do you create attraction now you know about this need to be led
and about her long lost dreams?
Simple: talk about it. Instead of having another lame conversation about
how her day was, ask her what she wanted to be when she was young.
Ask her what she wanted to do when she was older.
Not only do you get to know her better this way (and by now you should
know that anything information she gives you can be used to create
attraction with)…
You’ll also discover what the ambitions she had as a child were.
And then you go: “you know you can still make it happen, right?”
That’s when you start to see her eyes twinkle. That’s when you tell her
you believe that people can reach their full potential and that you love
helping them do it, including her.
“Why does this work Dennis?”
I’m glad you asked! First of all…
On page 12 and 13 of this ebook I explained how every human being has
the need to feel important. Everyone dreams of being a star. If you give
someone enough reason to believe they can be a star, they’ll feel
important… because of you.
That’s attraction right there, because you can bet your ass that she’ll want
you to keep inspiring her, and keep making her feel important!
Secondly, by offering to be her “manager”, you are being dominant in a

subtle way. You’re LEADING her. You’re taking her hand so she can go
where she wants to go with you as her inspiration.
Dominance creates attraction like CRAZY, partly because of what I

explained before: humans have a natural tendency to be led because it
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was advantageous to our survival.
Don’t just Win With Women, dominate!
Last but not least: you’re literally inspiring her, making her feel positive,
making her feel confident. These are all feelings of pleasure.
And a deep psychological drive of all animals, and of humans in particular,

is the desire to seek pleasure and to avoid pain.
Since you’re giving her plenty of pleasant emotions here, she wants to feel
them some more. So, she starts automatically chasing you my friend.
And do you see the big picture here?
One way to describe creating attraction is:
Find a way to give her more pleasure emotionally, psychologically,

physically, or spiritually than she’s getting now… and she will chase you to
get more pleasure, because humans are psychologically wired to seek
pleasure and avoid pain.
Start being the manager of her crushed stardom. Make her feel like a star
and she’ll be your porn star in a very short period of time.
Just kidding! Or am I?
I’m not kidding dude. Being the manager is the right thing to do,
especially if you want to meet more women in the shortest period of time,
and without much effort…
6.2 Real Life Examples of Being the Manager
So far, I’ve shared some new and amazing ways to create attraction with
you. And sometimes, I was a little controversial. But prepare for even
more controversy, because what I’m about to say may shock you:
The masters of being managers of women’s crushed stardoms are…
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Pimps! Wait, wait. Don’t start hating my guts now dude. Hear me out.
Pimps paint a perfect picture for women that caters to their specific hopes
and dreams they have both now and those they had when they were
children.
Asking a woman for her life’s story is actually one of the first things a
pimp does. Hell, pimps have perfected being the manager of crushed
stardom up until the point of them sending women out onto the often
cold, or rainy, or dangerous streets to make money by screwing guys…
And making the women believe they will live their dreams because of
doing that in the foreseeable future.
This is how incredibly powerful this technique is. So powerful, that pimps
are able to use it successfully and have been able to do so for years.
You may be wondering by now: “How does he know all this stuff?”
To tell you the truth: if you’ve read the story of how I got started, you
would know I was a homeless bum for a while.
During my days of struggling just to eat and find a warm place to sleep I
met some very bad people. Dealers. Junkies. And a guy who was sending
women to the Red Light District in Amsterdam when he wasn’t busy
serving time or robbing stores.
It wasn’t a pretty sight to see all that stuff going on right in front of my
face, let me tell you that. And let me be honest with you when I say: I did
what I had to do to survive and get out of the streets, without physically
hurting anyone. And I’ll leave it at that.
I really wasn’t lying in my personal story of going from broke and dateless
to well paid and lots of ladies when I said I had to improve a lot about
myself.
I almost took a trip down a very wrong path in life, but my persistence to
create a positive life for myself kept me from doing it. I had seen too
much drama as a homeless guy and during the divorce of my parents to
want even more of it.
Anyways, the part-time pimp taught me how to be the manager without
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being aware of it. And it wasn’t until a year later that I realized why what
he did, worked.
That’s the only thing I can thank him for, really, because other than that?
He was what you would call “criminally insane” and I’m glad I don’t know
him anymore.
Wew! You’re getting some intense stories inside this ebook, huh? But I
feel that’s necessary to show you the full extent of how and why certain
techniques to create attraction work… and so you’ll see them work from
multiple angles.
Not only that, I also believe in transparency: I’m very open and honest
about who I am, where I’m coming from, and what I can and cannot do
for you.
In my opinion I HAVE TO BE, because how else can you tell my dating
advice is worth its weight in gold?
How else can you tell I know what I’m talking about?
How else can you tell I care so much about your dating success that I’m
willing to reveal embarrassing stuff about myself just to help you?
Let’s keep it moving here though!
Let’s look at a major force in the dating game: fulfilling her psychological
needs. I think it’s CRUCIAL, must-know information if you ever want to try
to achieve long-term success in the dating game.
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7. Get Her By Fulfilling Her Psychological Needs

Everybody has an unfulfilled need in life, a hole in their system. Example:
women who grow up without a father crave a really dominant male with
authority who protects them, because it allows them to fulfill their
unfulfilled need for a father. Be that guy.
7.1 Why Fulfilling Her Psychological Needs Works
Earlier on, I explained to you that no woman can be attracted to you if she
doesn’t have a need that’s unfulfilled… and that that’s actually a good
thing because there’s always an unsatisfied need to take care of.
Hell, there are so many unfulfilled needs that I almost don’t know where
to start with explaining them all to you. Let me give it a shot…
The oldest sister

The oldest sister in the family has always had the most responsibility: she
was the one who took care of her little brothers and sisters when they
were younger. She got to do all kinds of stuff first too.
In short: she feels privileged and has always been the dominant one.
If you want to attract the older sister (the same goes for an only child by
the way), you have to emphasize that you’re the leader. You’re essentially
telling her:
“It’s great that you were always in control at home, but you’re with me
now and I’m in control here. Like it or not”.
You see, the older sister or only child has been raised believing that she is
the boss and that she always gets what she wants when she wants it (her
reasoning: “because I’m the oldest”).
You could say the oldest sister or only child is a little spoiled. It’s your job
to UNSPOIL her!
Who would have thought that asking if a woman has any brother or sisters
and how old her siblings are has an actual purpose in the dating game!?
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The middle sister

The middle sister of the family feels oppressed, and she has good reason
to believe she’s being oppressed too. She’s not the oldest and not the
youngest, so in her opinion she’s nothing special.
All she wants is to feel important (there we have this basic human drive
again, it’s so important in the dating game!), and to be free.
You can easily attract her by making her feel important (use Being a
Pleasure of Chapter 2 for example) or by giving her an escape from the
oppression by doing something exciting.
This is when you’ll do very well by taking her on dates with a little risk
involved: mountain biking, racing, rock climbing, and other active sports
and activities.
Remember, by giving her the pleasure she seeks, she wants more of it
because of the way humans are wired: seek pleasure – avoid pain.
The youngest sister

The youngest sister usually feels TOO young. And with that I mean: she
feels like people think she can’t handle herself well, like she can’t do stuff
on her own, like she can’t be responsible or in control.
When you want to attract the youngest sister, you’ll do almost the
complete opposite of what you do with older sisters: you let her have
control, be dominant, and make the decisions.
Don’t worry, because it doesn’t mean you’ll have to be her bitch. It means
you give her the illusion of choice, the illusion of power. It’s like saying:
“What do you want to do today? Go rock climbing or go skating? I think

both are fun! Rock climbing is best in my opinion because we can have a
romantic pick nick after all the hard labor”.
Do you see what I did?
I gave her two options, let her know I like both, and then let her picture
the thing I really want to do in her mind’s eye.
Guess what she’ll pick? She’ll pick the thing you chose 9 out of 10.
Because whether she’s the youngest sister or not, women still want to be
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led because of all the doubts their emotions create and because of our
group-mindedness as humans.
So, you gave her the illusion of choice while you made the decisions, so
you fulfilled two psychological needs at once: the need to feel important
(to be recognized as full in this case) and the need to be led.
The father seeker
I once met a chick from Bosnia who lost her dad in the Balkan wars when
she was very little. She always seemed to seek men’s approval and
because of it flirted a lot, she always immediately responded to
dominance, and she asked me for advice on absolutely everything.
Then I met a hottie that was part Portuguese, part Surinam whose dad
left her mom and her when she was young because he wanted to sleep
around like the typical Surinam male does (or so they say).
She, too, was looking for a lot of male approval, and she, too, got turned
on by dominance like bees are attracted to honey.
After that, I met a psychology student with beauty and brains (see the
Real Life Examples of this Chapter) who finally made me realize:
Women who never had a father figure in their formative years (between
the ages of 0 and 7 years old) didn’t have a male role model to look up to
and are still looking for one. They’re stilling looking for a male authority
figure.
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Famous psychologist Sigmund Freud found that the father and the mother
of a child growing up represent the archetype of the male and the female
for the child. In other words, the child thinks that males are how her
father is and females are like how her mother is.
In fact, Freud found that throughout life, women will subconsciously go for
someone who resembles their father in many ways… while men will want
someone who resembles their mother in many ways.
Weird huh? And yet, somehow, it makes perfect sense.
Example from real life: my girlfriend Naisa’s dad is a self-made

entrepreneur, an intellectual, a deep thinker, and he loves reading and
psychology. And me? All I have to say is: check! Check, check, and check!
I am and love all of the above as well…
Anyways, women who grew up without a father are still looking for a guy
that tells them what’s wrong and what’s right, someone who protects
them, someone who leads them every step of the way, and who gives
them the approval they need…
In short: they’re looking for all the traits that a father has. Give them to
her, and she will stay with you forever.
The only reason why I didn’t stick with the Bosnian OR the half Portuguese
chick, was because I myself got tired of being a one trick pony. I wanted
to explore other facets of creating attraction so I moved on.
The idol worshiper

Everyone who doesn’t have a goal in life feels empty in life, but like
Robert Greene explained in his excellent book called The Art of Seduction?
The idol worshiper feels emptier inside than most people: she’s insecure
and can’t be satisfied with herself, so she’s looking for something to fill
the “hole in her heart”. She wants someone or something to worship,
because by focusing on something that’s “higher” than her, so she’s
distracted from the void she feels inside herself.
So far for the almost direct quote from Greene’s book and onto my own
experiences. An idol worshiper is a chick who has so many insecurities or
feels so insecure about herself, that no amount of doing anything will help
her get rid of it.
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She needs to distract herself… FROM herself with a cause, with something
that’s bigger than her.
Sounds difficult, I know, but it’s actually quite easy. If you are fighting for
a good cause (charities, animals, whatever), you simply get her involved
in it so she has something to worship.
But what’s more common these days, in my opinion, is a complete lack of

goals and purpose in most people’s lives. They’re simply bored by every
day life filled with its lame, mind numbing routines… but don’t know what
to do about it. And that includes women.
Hell, I’m willing to bet you that most women are idol worshipers up to a
certain point, since women are very self-conscious and way more
emotional than us men are.
Anyways, the point I’m trying to make here is this: women in general, and
shy and insecure ones in particular, can’t wait to distract themselves from
feeling bad about themselves. By having something going for yourself
that’s bigger than you, like a job, a sport, a hobby, ANYTHING, you give
them the distraction they need.
What’s more, women will secretly envy you because you seem to worship
something that makes you completely forget about yourself, and they
want to learn how to do that from you!
The aging baby

I have to give credit where credit is due here: this is another example
from Robert Greene’s book The Art of Seduction that I’ve taken one step
further by applying it in real life… and showing you how to do it as well.
An aging baby is someone that simply doesn’t grow up. You probably
know a woman who’s an aging baby: she’s 25 but act like she’s 18, she’s
30 and still parties every weekend, she’s 18 but acts like a child, etc.
It makes perfect sense to say the aging baby is afraid of death and getting
old, but an even bigger factor is the fear of taking on responsibility.
This type of woman simply doesn’t want to be held accountable when

things go wrong, so she doesn’t want to be responsible for a damn thing
and just play around.
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And here’s the psychological mindbender: because the aging baby doesn’t
want to take on responsibility, you’ll attract them by being the responsible
one. By being the adult.
Don’t start criticizing or judging these women for wanting to play around,
but be like a parent to them: forgiving, loving their youthful enthusiasm,
and you will be their perfect escape from growing up.
One of the ladies who worked for my previous employer was in her thirties
and partying every week, and giggling all the time like she was 18. Now
that’s an aging baby.
Then, one day, she mentioned that she had a boyfriend and I expected
him to be an equally irresponsible douche. You know, a 40-year old,
perverted guy who goes to clubs where 16-year olds go to dance.
But the truth was stranger than fiction: her man had his own company,
was responsible for dozens of people in his community (he did lots of
volunteer work). In short: he was her exact opposite.
I really didn’t understand why she would like such a guy, because I
thought he must have been the most boring person on the planet ever in
her eyes.
Then I started thinking: she’s immature and knows she can’t be by now.
He’s very mature. Put them together and he makes up for her lack of
responsibility… wait a minute… that’s it! She needs him to make good for
her childish, playful ways. A-ha!
7.2 Real Life Examples of Psychological Needs
Let me give you a background story on the lack of a father figure here:
Don’t ask me why and when, but I still remember that at a certain point I
met this brilliant chick who was studying psychology, was very into the
material, and ended up psycho-analyzing me.
After I explained several things about how my childhood was, she told me
that the lack of a male father figure made me more aggressive and hot
headed than the average person. It also made me want to prove myself
more and made me look up to male authority figures more than usual
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(because I did not have much of a father, an authority figure).
So far, it was all true. And it got me thinking:
If the lack of a male role model (a father figure) has effect X on men,
what will be the effect on women?
I quickly found at that the lack of a father figure made women look for
men’s approval more, date around more, and crave dominance in men
more simply by experimenting.
Its funny what a seemingly random encounter with a random stranger can
teach you about yourself, life, and dating, isn’t it?
That’s why I always say: everyone is your master in some area. Don’t
underestimate anyone, because they have unique talents that could teach
you more about yourself and the world… if you paid attention.
Remember when, in the beginning of the ebook, I told you I wanted to

show you how to meet as many women as possible in the shortest period
of time, and without much effort?
Good! Because fulfilling a woman’s psychological needs is by far the

fastest way to do it…
That, and checking out the two popular blog posts that gave me the idea
for writing an entire ebook about what attracts women:
1) 27 Ways Of Creating Attraction That Will Get You The Hotties
2) 27 More Ways Of Creating Attraction That’ll Get You Hotties
See those brief descriptions of each way of creating attraction? Yep, those
are what made this ebook happen…
Anyways, moving on!
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8. Get Dates By Being Ambiguous

Famous psychologist Sigmund Freud proved that humans are narcissists.
Men are attracted to women who like guy stuff and women are attracted
to men who like girlie stuff. I’m not kidding! Here’s a question as proof:
can you guess why many women fall in love with gay guys? Creating
attraction is using that what human psychology is attracted to “against”
women.
8.1 Why Being Ambiguous Works

I’m doing my best here to show you as many uncommon ways to attract
women as I can come up with right now, and I think that you’ll say what
the f… in a couple minutes, if you already didn’t think that when you read
the brief overview of how this concept works…
Because dude, if you thought you had a good idea of how deep the rabbit
hole of the dating game goes? Then you’re about to be surprised!
Do you know how many guys fantasize about women who love football,
cars, games, beer, and all the other typical stuff us men like?
Many! Hell, I’m willing to bet you that you’ve fantasized about it at some
point in time. I know I have. Every man does.
And women do the EXACT same thing: they secretly fantasize about guys
who like Oprah, shopping, watching chick flicks, and so on.
But… why?
Well, famous psychologist Sigmund Freud found that us humans associate

the unknown with risk, and risk with pain. We tend to avoid pain and seek
pleasure, meaning that we like familiarity.
In fact, Freud found that not only are we more likely to become friends
with people who are similar to us and that we become friends with them
faster…
But we also secretly crave someone of the opposite sex who is similar to
us, simply because we ASSUME someone similar is less risky, easier to
understand, easier to relate to, and so forth.
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Looking at the COMPLETE lack of understanding from women about men

and from men about women that 90% of the population suffers from?
It makes perfect sense that most people want someone who is similar to
them because that someone will give them a lot less to worry about than
an “opposite” would.
THAT’S how narcissistic (self-loving) we are! Don’t worry, it’s not as bad
as this:
Anyways, I call this whole process not the need for a significant other, but
the need for a similar other.
And the consequences are profound my friend. Let’s look at what it means
to single women for example:
- If you like Dr. Phil for whatever reason (like I do), tell a girl about it and
you’ll be catering to her narcissistic need of finding a similar other.
- If you like shopping, you’ll do the exact same thing
- If you like to gossip or talk for hours about anything and everything on
the planet, you’ll do the exact same thing
In short: do like girls do and you’re doing well. That doesn’t mean you
should FAKE that you like certain things, because that’s manipulating
women and not only is that something only a coward does…
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It’s also something women quickly discover, after which they’ll dump your
sorry ass.
So, if there is ANYTHING, any activity or hobby or other thing you like,
that is generally considered to be something that only women usually like?
Use it to your advantage. Thinking along these lines I should consider

myself to be one lucky bastard, because I somehow genuinely like
watching Oprah, Dr. Phil, chick flicks (I’m a movie junkie so I like most
movies), and shopping.
How about you?
And I think this is the right time for me to say: it makes perfect sense
now that it’s real easy for women to fall in love with gay guys.
They love shopping, fashion, glitters, and all that other over-the-top
female crap. They even freaking TALK like women.
Doesn’t mean you should admire gays or become one yourself. Don’t be a
biased a-hole and think a little more open-minded. Think along the lines
of: if I see something that works with women, I’ll use it and see if I can
make it work as well.
In that respect, there are several things you can learn from queers
without being one or becoming one.
And hey, if your friends mock you for liking “chick stuff”? Guess who has
the last laugh? You do, when you walk away with dozens of phone
numbers after a night of mingling with the ladies, while they only
successfully came into contact with… a barstool.
I think it’s worth mentioning here, too, that I’m talking about what society
considers to be male traits and female traits. So, just so we’re 100% sure
that you grasp the concept of ambiguity, allow me to give you a short list
of typical male stuff and female stuff.
Keep in mind that you need to focus on the female stuff, unless you’re
gay. If so, then why the hell are you reading my ebook!? Go away! Now!
Male stuff: cars and racing, technology, gadgets, games, sports, beer,
wrestling and other forms of fighting, etc.
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Female traits: Oprah, horses, cocktails, Dr. Phil, Sex And The City,
women’s magazines, pop music, shopping, shoes, flowers, babies and
children in general, etc.
Make a list for yourself of the things women typically like. Which of those
things do you like? If it’s none, try each item on your list at least once.
I’m willing to bet you that you’ll like AT LEAST one thing, because every
guy has a softer side he’s unwilling to show because that’s not “cool”, but
let me tell you: getting the girl and being cool are two VERY different
things.
Final hint: clothing style, particularly colors. Pink, for example, is

considered to be a feminine color.
8.2 Real Life Examples of Why Ambiguity Works

Because my dad was almost never around when I was a kid, I grew up
among women. Mom, aunts, grandmothers, stay-at-home moms from the
neighborhood, and even my class at school was 80% female for much of
my school years.
Needless to say, I was exposed to stuff women liked wayyyy more than to
stuff most dudes like. Even to this day I have to honestly say that I still
don’t know much about cars, technology, or sports.
I do like beer, games, and fighting though, but that’s not my point: my
point is that I grew up in a feminine environment. Because of that, I
figured that people in general most like talk shows and talking because
the majority of the people around me loved it.
Same goes for shopping, Oprah, Dr. Phil, and cocktails. They were
somehow were programmed into me. And this is where things get
interesting:
Even in kindergarten, girls would write little xxx’s on whatever I drew,

later on they wrote down xxx’s throughout my books, they always invited
me to birthday parties.
Then I got a little bit older and hit puberty and started hating everything
the girls liked. Gone where the birthday parties, the xxx’s, and all the rest.
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I was utterly clueless back then, but when I consciously decided to get the
women and dating part of my life handled and learned about Freud’s
findings? I was shocked!
I was shocked, because I spent my puberty up until age 17 dateless,

feeling lonely and frustrated, and as being very UNPOPULAR with women…
While it used to be the complete opposite in my younger days.
Can you guess why? I think you know. Yep, that’s how powerful being
ambiguous is… and was when you were growing up!
Start being ambiguous and you’ll have a hard time NOT meeting one
woman after the other… after the other in a short period of time, and
without much effort.
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9. Get The Girl By Making Her Compete

Study after study by scientists has shown that if you’re walking around
with a woman, more women than usual will be attracted to you. Women
figure that if someone else chose you, then you MUST be sexually
attractive so they want you. Plus you’re hard to get because you’re with
someone, so they want you even more.
9.1 Why Making Her Compete Works

Scientists once wanted to study the sexual selection process of peacocks.
Better said: they wanted to see if a female peacock’s “decision” would be
influenced by the presence of another female peacock.
The answer: YES!
If they would put a fake female peacock next to a male peacock, the
(real) female peacock would prefer him over a peacock that had no female
next to him.
Oddly enough, the same holds true for humans: women are much more
likely to be attracted to a man that already has a woman, than to a single
guy.
Why? Because a guy who already has a woman has already proven
himself genetically. Yes, that sounds weird, but the explanation is quite
straightforward:
A woman subconsciously assumes that, since you have a woman, you

must have good genes, women like you, and you can provide for a
woman.
From a purely genetic perspective, this translates into:
“You have already proven that you have what it takes to give my genes a
good chance of survival, because you’re already giving her genes a good
chance of survival.”
And then there’s a little thing called competition that explains the
phenomenon as well. Quite frankly, women think the grass is greener on
the other side just like the rest of us humans.
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They want what they can’t have much more than they want what they can
easily get. They’re jealous. Plus, women love the thrill of the kill (in this
case, the chase: chasing you) as much as men do.
As a matter of fact, women are so competitive that they will even crave
you if you have a “reputation”. I’ve talked about this before in my blog
post called The Real Deal Behind Having A Reputation and I highly
recommend you check it out.
It will permanently change your perspective on whether it’s right or wrong

to be a player, womanizer, Casanova, or whatever you want to call it.
And this leaves me with one thing left to say that I think is critical to drive
my point home: genetics overrule logical reasoning any time, anywhere.
You see, the human brain actually consists of three brains that jointly
allow you to do what humans are capable of:
1) The oldest brain is the instinctive, or animal, brain. It takes care of

bodily functions including the senses, it’s where hunches come from, and
it’s where our survival instinct rules the land. It also takes over all other
brains when necessary (in life threatening situations for example).
2) The emotional brain. This one’s responsible for the seven sins (lust,
envy, greed, pride, and so on), the subconscious, and everything in
between.
3) The logical brain. This is where our logical reasoning, speech, and so
on come from.
Do you realize what this means? It means you first act based on emotions
and subconscious decisions, and then you try to satisfy the action taken
with reasons (logical reasoning) because the emotional brain reigns
supreme over the logical one.
Well now, attraction is based on emotions. The survival of our species can
only be achieved by reproducing, which can only be done after enough
attraction has been created.
That means that the animal brain and emotional brain are interlinked and
decide what actions a woman takes in the dating game whether she likes
it or not.
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That’s why women like men who already have a woman more than they
like single guys, EVEN if they say they like single guys more. That’s why
they come inside with you, have sex with you, and then tell their female
friends “it just happened” (their emotional brain acted and then the logical
brain tried to reason a way out of it).
And sure buddy, you can thank me for this awesome insight into how the
female brain works later…
Later, AFTER you’ve started meeting as many women as possible in the

shortest period of time, and without much effort, thanks to all the
awesome insights I’m sharing with you in this ebook right here!
9.2 Real Life Examples of Making Her Compete

One of the guys that really motivated me to do something about the
women and dating part of my life was Sherwin, a guy from the Netherlands
Antilles, simply because he was so damn good with women.
Sherwin is what you would call a “natural”: someone who’s naturally good
at seducing the opposite sex. The guy was (and still is) so good at it, that
I’ve never heard him mention to me that he’s ever had a single week
where he wasn’t trying to get away with dating at least 3 women at once.
The only problem seemed to be that, back then, we lived in a small city in
the Netherlands called Nieuwegein which only has 60,000 inhabitants.
That didn’t mean everyone knew everyone, but news did travel fast.
Before he knew it, most women knew who he was within two years of him
moving to Nieuwegein. I thought it would stop him, a reputation, but it
didn’t. It never did.
And it wasn’t a “Nieuwegein thing” either, because in recent years? He’s

moved from city to city and even lived in Belgium for a while and I’ve
seen him continue his activities (for lack of a better word) successfully in
every single city he has lived in so far.
If that isn’t proof of how making women compete works when you want to
attract them? I don’t know what is!
And oh yeah, did I mention I did the exact same thing as Sherwin did at
several workplaces? Hey, it’s one of the many benefits of working in one
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of the call centers of the Netherlands: lots of pretty ladies all around you!
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10. Spark The Chemistry By Showing Your Flaws

Saying you aren’t scared during a horror movie is somewhat attractive to
women because it’s showing confidence. BUT, there’s no better way to
show confidence than to admitting you made a mistake or have a
weakness to a woman and not getting upset or uncomfortable when doing
it. It’s being confident because it shows women you can allow yourself to
be vulnerable without feeling bad about it.
10.1 Why Showing Your Flaws Works
When women grow up, they soon realize that men and women aren’t
created equal.
Why?
Because while men are considered to be heroes when they sleep with
multiple women in 1 week, women are considered to be sluts when they
sleep with multiple men in 1 week.
And they also see that, although it’s accepted for women to be open about
their emotions and flaws and insecurities, men are ridiculed when they try
to do the same thing.
Us men are raised believing that it isn’t “man-like” to admit defeat,

apologize, cry, or show any kind of emotion except anger and joy.
“Wehhh! Stop being a cry baby!” That’s how we’re raised.
Women know this. They know we’re taught not to show most emotions on
the surface, but that we still feel them deep down inside.
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Plus, the ladies know that we’re taught to be dominant and thus that
admitting defeat (admitting that we made a mistake) subconsciously feels
wrong for us because it means we’ll have to be submissive:
“I’m sorry! How can I make it up to you?” (Read: tell me what to do to

make it right, you’re the boss for now)
In a few words, women don’t fall for the macho act. Ever. Unless they’re
brain dead or as dumb as a door nail (unfortunately most of them aren’t).
It means that YES, doing typical male stuff like being dominant could work
when done right… but you’ll really get women going when you show
emotions or admit a mistake or flaw.
Because when you start doing that? You’ll let a woman know that although
you know you aren’t supposed to do that, are still doing it, and couldn’t
care less about it.
That tells a woman a whole lot more about how confident you are than
telling her you won a game of chicken with your new car or any of that
other macho bullshit.
As I frequently mention in my Inner Game newsletter: confidence is

attractive to women and if you want to show them you’re confident? Then
the best way to do it is by doing something women know isn’t typical male
behavior (example: hiding emotions) and not feeling bad about it
afterwards.
This opens up a world of opportunities for us dude! It means that

admitting a mistake is okay, especially when you’re around a woman, and
if you don’t turn every single thing you do into a mistake because that’s
being a negative person and it turns women off.
It also means you have yet another reason to start being ambiguous (see
Chapter 8 on page 40).
And here’s a juicy secret: a big part of the attraction between you and her
is the connection she feels with you. In other words, how comfortable,
safe, and awesome she feels around you.
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The safer, more comfortable, and better a woman feels around you? The
faster and easier she will take things to the next level with you, whether
we’re talking about going on a second date with you, kissing you, or
having sex with you here.
And guess what?
By revealing a little imperfection here and a little imperfection there, you

let a woman know you feel safe and comfortable around her. That’s a
signal for her to relax and make herself comfortable as well.
And since people tend to hold back when around strangers in the
conversation department (they’re very carefully thinking about what they
can and cannot say), you give her as a person a signal that she can talk
about sensitive topics with you as well. And that, my friend, creates a
connection.
The stronger the connection, the stronger the attraction. So, in a way,
little flaws can be a man’s best friend. Trust me on that one!
10.2 Real Life Examples of Showing Your Flaws

Back when I was 17 and still a rookie in the dating game, I was too
insecure to ask for a woman’s phone number, so I talked to massive
amounts of girls on social networks sites and asked for a MSN Messenger
address so we could chat instead of call.
On a side note: MSN Messenger is the most popular chat software in

Holland to date and is used by 90+% of adolescents (age 12-17).
Anyways, I had already been using MSN for several years (I was actually
one of the first users in my hometown!) and was doing fairly well for
myself as in…
It wasn’t that hard for me to get a girl’s MSN address or to create enough
attraction via MSN to make her send me all kinds of hugs and kisses and
love emoticons. Ahhh, the good old days of puppy love huh?
So, there I was trying to be an internet Casanova, and then I went

through some difficult times. I felt I didn’t have anyone I felt comfortable
talking to about the troubles at home, so I made what seemed to be a
sucker mover:
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I started telling the girls I just met online about it. I didn’t know who else
to talk to about it, but you know what? Something strange happened:
they suddenly started asking me when we could meet up.
At first, I thought I was on a lucky streak or something. So, I played

around a bit and noticed that if I first did what I always did (make women
laugh, tease them a little, talk about a whole bunch of stuff), and then
show a weakness, a little flaw?
They were much more into me than if I would keep doing what I always
did on day 2, day 3, and day 4 after meeting women online.
That’s when I knew showing a weakness, a flaw, or whatever you want to

call it, works better than trying to come across like you’re bulletproof.
Makes sense too: no one believes there’s a single person on the planet
that is perfect, has only strengths, and always knows what to say and
what to do. And women want real men, not phony’s. Mistakes make you
human and real.
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11. Make Her Love You By Being Sexually Aggressive

These days, men are a bunch of pussies. They don’t dare to grab a
woman, who they know is attracted to them, by the hair to straight up
make out with her. Meanwhile, women love this physical aggressiveness.
If they’re attracted, they want you to jump on them.
11.1 Why Being Sexually Aggressive Works

You know what? Us “modern day” humans are funny little creatures.
You see, males used to gain dominance over other men (and with women
to “get the girl”) in a physical way, while males do it in a mental way 9
out of 10 times in these modern times.
Let’s take a step back here:
Dominance creates attraction simply because when us humans still lived

in tribes, he who was the most dominant could claim the most resources
in the tribe (food, shelter, clothes, etc.) and would thus give a woman the
highest chances of survival.
Because our genes are selfish, they look for ways to ensure the highest
chances of survival of the species.
And that’s why women started to sexually select men for their dominance:
because a dominant male who would take a woman under his wing would
give her AND her offspring a higher chance of survival. Dominance was
beneficial for the species, so it became a factor in creating attraction.
Here’s the funny part: in these “modern times”, it’s considered to be

“uncivilized” if you train to gain dominance over others in a physical way.
Put in simpler terms, you’re seen as an a-hole if you beat up people so

they will obey you in the near future.
But just because society has changed from a mostly physical society to a
mostly mental society doesn’t mean attraction changed, and doesn’t mean
our biological nature changed.
While the transformation from a physical-oriented society into a mental-

oriented society is a thing of the last couple thousands years, physical
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dominance and physical attraction were around for hundreds of thousands

of years. And that means they still play a role in the dating game.
That means that when you’re being sexually aggressive (dominant) with
women, even in these modern times, you’ll create more attraction and will
do it faster than if you would take the mental route.
So, now I’ve presented you with some scientific proof, it’s time to look at
the nuts and bolts of being sexually aggressive…
Let’s start with with sexual aggression (dominance) isn’t:
- Being sexually aggressive DOESN’T mean beating up other guys who

talk to a woman you want to approach (or have approached)
- Being sexually aggressive DOESN’T mean mouth raping a hot chick you
don’t even know by sticking your tongue down her throat before you’ve
even introduced yourself… or pulling out your dick and asking for a suck
- Being sexually aggressive DOESN’T mean you keep trying to have sex
with a girl who just said no a MILLION times
Being sexually aggressive, or sexually dominant as I like to call it, means

taking what you’ve earned without asking for it.
Example: you’ve been talking to a woman for several minutes, she’s

giggling, and she gives you other signs she’s interested.
Instead of asking her if she would like to go out with you some time,
which is what most average guys that are just like you and me would do,
you approach the situation a little differently.
Here’s an example when meeting a woman on the street:
“You know what? Let’s go grab a drink somewhere” and then you grab her
hand and gently pull her to where you plan on taking her.
Now THAT is being sexually dominant! And trust me: it works way better
and much faster than asking a girl if you can take her out some time.
Why? Well, like I explained above, women are still programmed by Mother
Nature to respond to physical dominance as a better signal of dominance
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than mental dominance (telling her what to do)… and dominance is

attractive.
Plus, asking a woman if you COULD take her out on a date is the opposite
of being dominant anyways. It’s asking a girl for permission, which is
turnoff for her.
11.2 Real Life Examples of Being Sexually Aggressive

I was once on a date with this Eastern European chick in the middle of the
summer. It was surprisingly hot that day, well for the Netherlands at
least, and at some point we were walking in the center of town.
I promised her earlier that day we would go somewhere to grab a drink,

but I didn’t feel like being inside any building where it was much hotter
than outside.
Hell, I got pissed off because she insisted on drinking coffee with me
somewhere, reminded me about it like 10 times, and I wanted to go to a
place a little more private with her.
Before that day? I always respected women’s wishes: if they liked to do

this, I would usually go ahead and do it even if I didn’t like to do it. I
simply thought that I would make up for my lack of dominance by being
picky and teasing the crap out of them (which usually worked by the way)
But on that day, I got so pissed off that I thought to myself:
“You know what? I want to get ourselves some ice cream and then I want
to chill out in that park over there, even if I have to drag her down there.”
So, this “rebel without a cause” told the girl “Screw coffee!”, grabbed her
hand and pulled it towards the nearest ice cream stand I could find. And
then I heard a sound that made me realize the full extent of my actions:
A giggle.
I was shocked and thought it was a lucky coincidence, so I decided to

stand near the ice cream stand until we were done devouring our ice
cream, and I grabbed her hand again and pulled her into the direction of
the park.
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Another giggle.
I’ve come a long way since, obviously, but that was the first situation in
my life where I realized the potential of being physically dominant with
women, of being sexually dominant with women.
I went on to straight up make out with girls in clubs and bars as soon as I
recognized several signs of their interest in me. Not long after that it came
down to getting women to come inside with me on the first date by
passionately kissing them and pulling them inside like my middle name
was “Romeo”.
My whole point here: when a woman starts giggling, laughs a lot when
she’s around you, gently touches you without reason (or does any other
kind of “play fighting”)?
That’s when you can make a move on her by being sexually dominant and
it will lead to EXACTLY what you want 9 out of 10 times!
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12. Let Her Chase You By Being a Charmer

If you adapt to a woman’s moods, needs, and wants it will seem to her
like you always know exactly what she wants and how to treat her
because you give her what she needs. Men are notorious for not knowing
what women want, which is why women fall for a man who DOES know
what a woman needs here and now 100% of the time easier than saying
1, 2, 3!
12.1 Why Being a Charmer Works

This is where I will “bore you to death” again by saying how important the
work of psychologist Sigmund Freud is. Throughout several chapters of
this ebook, I’ve mentioned that all humans of a basic drive. A universal
need. And it’s the need to be recognized.
Hell, I think this basic drive of human nature is what made us develop an
ego, but that’s beside the point. My point here is this:
If you adapt to a woman’s moods, needs, and wants? You’ll be stroking

her ego by indirectly letting her know her feelings (= her and her ego) are
important enough for you to adapt to them and/or copy them from her.
In other words: you’ll be catering to her need to be recognized. Her need

to feel important.
I think this is such a crucial part of attracting women in these modern

times, in these times of individualism where more people spend time
listening to the music on their smartphones, iPods, and tablets and
“talking” to their friends on Facebook… than they spend talking to you.
We’re almost as individualistic as this…
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And the older people (that includes women) get, the less important and
recognized they feel. To tell you something from experience here: as soon
as you start working fulltime, you’ll be very aware of how expendable and
NOT important you are as soon as the company’s in trouble or the boss is
not happy with your work.
To make a long story short: women are made to feel less and less
important and recognized so this factor of creating attraction will become
more and more important.
On top of that, let’s not forget the battle of the sexes here. The age old
misunderstanding between men and women, where women don’t have a
clue about how men work and men don’t have a clue about how women
work. This makes both sexes look for someone that truly understands
them, hell, it has become a universal search.
It’s commonly called the search for “Miss Right”, the women that just
“gets you”. It all originated from the need to be recognized, in this case
recognized (understood) by the opposite sex.
Anyways, when you start catering to a woman’s need to feel recognized

and important by adapting to her moods? You’ll create attraction like
CRAZY… and isn’t that why you’re reading this ebook? Because you want
to attract more women and do it better and more easily than before?
How to be a charmer you ask?
Okay, say you just met a hot babe and she mentions she’s feeling
bummed out because she has a big birthday coming up, the birthday of
her best friend, but she doesn’t have a clue about what to get for her BFF.
This is where you relate to her by mentioning you also feel crappy when
you’re “in a birthday gift crisis”, or you figuratively relate to her by
mentioning you feel bummed out as well because of XYZ.
In essence, you either relate to the situation or directly to the emotion

she’s feeling. Do this whenever a woman mentions emotions or you SEE
she’s emotional. By emotional I also mean positive emotions by the way.
The result: a woman will feel like you really “get her”. You always seem to
know exactly how to make her feel and how to support her by letting her
know she’s not alone with her feelings = you make her feel important!
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Do you see the basic drive of human nature, the need to be recognized, at
work here? I hope you do man.
On a side note: finding common situations and common interests in

general works well when you want to attract women, because her feeling
a bond with you is a big part of the sexual tension.
Like I explained before: a woman needs to feel safe and comfortable

around you before she wants to take things to the next level.
And that means you can create attraction either by talking about
situations you two have both been in, common interests, or emotions you
two are both experiencing.
Sometimes creating attraction can be done very subtly, but the devil’s into
details my friend.
Most men won’t recognize what you’re doing when you do this, they’ll
think you’re making small talk or that you’re being a douche, but you
should see the look on their faces when you leave the scene with a woman
on your arm!
Want to know more about being a charmer? Then you’ll get more dude!
Here are two words that are awesome if you’re into the dating game:
perceived loss. Just like giving women the opposites of being a pleasure
and being a pain works well to create attraction, the WITHDRAWAL of
someone’s importance and recognition is just as powerful.
She will do anything to get it back, just like celebrities do everything to

make a comeback after they’ve been out of the spotlight for years.
12.2 Real Life Examples of Being a Charmer

Before I consciously made an effort of handling the women and dating
part of my life, the only thing I knew about women was that they loved
talking about everything and anything.
I grew up around women, lots of women, and it was the first thing I
noticed, so me and my naïve but just tried to talk when I wanted to be
with a girl. I tried to talk really well with them.
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I spent hours and hours talking to one chick after the other about
everything ranging from their exes to their hobbies, to why they’re crazy
and why they’re not crazy (those last two are great topics for a
conversation with a woman by the way).
At some point I got really good at empathizing with a woman’s emotions

that she would give me all kinds of hints that she wanted me to ask her
out.
Back then I didn’t know the signs of when women are interested, so I did
the first part right and screwed up the part where you are actually
rewarded for all your hard work.
Because, At the time, I didn’t realize yet that there comes a time where
you need to take action and actually ask them out, but without realizing it
I was already slowly but surely mastering one of the basic principles of
attraction:
He who makes a woman feel important and recognized, gets the girl,
simply because a basic human drive is the need to feel important and be
recognized.
Freud was right, women respond to it, so you decide: you either pretend it
doesn’t exist or you try to use this to your advantage.
Whatever you do though, if you find something that works, then keep
doing what works and do some experimenting of your own on the side.
Reinventing the wheel isn’t necessary and isn’t a smart idea. That’s why I
highly recommend you try some of the things I’m teaching you, find
something that works, stick with it, and try the other things on the side so
you don’t have to start from scratch in the dating game every time.
Because once you start taking action, RIGHT NOW?
Then becoming a chick magnet will be a reachable goal for you, hell, it’ll
be reachable within just a few weeks…
Start being a pain, making her compete, fulfilling her psychological needs,
being ambiguous, and being the anti-prude and all of the other things I’ve
mentioned before…
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And I can almost GUARANTEE YOU that you will be meeting as many
women as possible in the shortest time possible, without much effort…
and without hurting women’s feelings.
That’s what I promised you this ebook could do for you, so, tell me
something: did I deliver on that promise or what!?
I think you and me both know that I OVERDELIVERED on what I promised

here. I’m giving away 50+ pages with free dating advice like it’s nothing
for Christ’s sake!
And if you’ve learned a thing or two after checking out these tips?
Then I think you’re going to like what I will say next…
13. There’s One More Thing You Need To Know…

And it’s this: all of the tips inside this ebook combined, are just the
beginning of all the opportunities to create attraction that await you in the
dating game. There’s much more dating success waiting for you dude, and
I would like to help you achieve it.
Do you want more tips for becoming a chick magnet not with money,
power, fame or any other materialistic crap… but purely based on
psychology, on your personality?
Do you want to meet EVEN MORE women in the shortest time

possible than you already have, without much effort, and without
hurting feelings? Then what are you waiting for dude?
More tips await you inside my free Inner Game newsletter.
And Get This…

If you liked this ebook about what attracts women, then brace yourself,
because you’ll temporarily get another TWO free ebooks if you
subscribe to the exclusive Inner Game newsletter now.
Want to know more about what the newsletter gives you? CLICK HERE
Trust me: there’s much more it will do FOR YOU than I can explain to you
in a couple of paragraphs… so check it out now.
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You won’t regret getting the tips inside the Inner Game newsletter, and
besides, it only takes 60 seconds of your time to improve your dating
success by getting those tips!
And I think this is the right time for me to say: enough is enough!
But if you would like to get some personal advice from me, then I would
understand. Inside the newsletter you’ll learn how to contact me
personally, so be sure to do that when you think you need it.
And promise me something. Promise me you’ll take action with the things
you’ve learned inside this ebook about what attracts women. Promise me!
To More Dating Success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
P.S. Ready for more tips? Then check out my Inner Game newsletter now:
The Inner Game Newsletter
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What Attracts Women – FREE Ebook

What Attracts Women

Discover The Overlooked Secrets That Separate Guys

Hell, do you want to meet as many women as possible in the

If You Answered “YES” To One Or More Of The Questions Above,

-- By Dennis Miedema & Win With Women

© 2010-2011 Dennis Miedema & Win With Women. www.Win-With-Women.com.

Why You Need This Ebook About Attracting Women…

All of that nastiness in your life is about to go away though.

Because I promise that after you’re done reading all of this?

… No more frustration and desperation because you don’t know what a

… You’ll almost forget what walking is like, because you’ll be spending

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It took me years to figure out how to walk up to a woman and have a

So, you could say I know what I’m talking about.

But let me get this straight:

To More Dating Success,

© 2010-2011 Dennis Miedema & Win With Women. www.Win-With-Women.com.

Chapter 1: Attracting Women By Being A Pain…………………………..7

Chapter 2: What Attracts Women? Being A Pleasure Does!..........11

Chapter 3: Get Women By Being In Need of Help……………………..15

Chapter 4: Attract Women By Being The Anti-Prude…………………20

Chapter 5: Make Women Like You By Being Different……………….24

Chapter 6: Being The Manager of Her Crushed Stardom……………28

Chapter 7: Get Her By Fulfilling Her Psychological Needs………….33

Chapter 8: Get Dates By Being Ambiguous………………………………40

Chapter 9: Get The Girl By Making Her Compete………………………45

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Chapter 10: Spark The Chemistry By Showing Your Flaws…………49

Chapter 11: Make Her Love You By Being Sexually Aggressive…..53

Chapter 12: Let Her Chase You By Being A Charmer…………………57

Chapter 13: There’s One More Thing You Need To Know…………..61

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The Best Way To Use This Ebook

Because I really do want you to meet as many women as possible in the

Here’s a quick breakdown of how it all works:

1) First, I’ll give you a brief description of a certain way to create

On a side note: when I said my personal experiences with it, I mean

Shocking stories as in: everything from learning about very unlikely

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1. Attracting Women By Being a Pain

1.1 Why Being a Pain Works

But looks can be deceiving my friend.

Where am I going with this?

And you know what?

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they normally don’t go through.

And by criticizing a woman for example, you’re giving her a contrast.

By being unpredictable, you prevent a conversation, a date… hell… you’ll

That’s why a woman is attracted to you when you’re being a pain.

Whenever I bring this up, guys often bring up several objections:

© 2010-2011 Dennis Miedema & Win With Women. www.Win-With-Women.com.

Because here’s the deal: as soon as us men like a woman, we accept

And on a biological level, whenever you refuse to be territorial (here and

In a nutshell, I highly recommend you stop accepting second class

All because of the reasons I’ve mentioned before.

That’s when you’ll become a chick magnet…

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1.2 Real Life Examples of Being a Pain