Young Adult Narcissism - A 20 Year Longitudinal Study
Young Adult Narcissism - A 20 Year Longitudinal Study
Young Adult Narcissism - A 20 Year Longitudinal Study
a r t i c l e i n f o a b s t r a c t
Article history: The role of parenting styles in the development of young adult narcissism is investigated with individuals
Available online 11 November 2010 from the Block and Block (1980) longitudinal study. At age 3, participants were assessed for the presence
of narcissism precursors, and mothers and fathers provided information about their parenting styles. At
Keywords: age 23, the presence of both healthy and maladaptive narcissism was assessed, along with the use of
Narcissism denial. The results showed that parenting styles had a direct effect on the development of healthy nar-
Parenting styles cissism, but the effect on the development of maladaptive narcissism depended on the child’s initial pro-
Longitudinal study
clivity towards narcissism. Also, the use of denial was positively associated with the presence of
Defense mechanisms
maladaptive narcissism, but not with healthy narcissism.
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masks underlying feelings of vulnerability and insecurity lan, & Cassidy, 1985). Likewise, parenting that conveys warmth
(Kernberg, 1975; Kohut, 1976). Maladaptive narcissism may be and affection, without being demanding (Indulgent) supports a
divided into two types – overt and covert (Wink, 1991). In the pres- sense of being a person who is respected by, and desirable to oth-
ent paper, we focus on overt or grandiose narcissism, characterized ers (George & Solomon, 1989).
by an open expression of grandiosity, self-confidence, and conde- This thesis, however, should be qualified by the assumption that
scension, in which there is willful manipulation and exploitation the effect of parenting style may differ at different developmental
of others (Wink, 1992; Ziegler-Hill, Clark, & Pickard, 2008). This periods. Whereas indulgence during infancy and very early child-
is the type of narcissism that is assessed by the self-report Narcis- hood is expected to support positive development, indulgence dur-
sistic Personality Inventory (NPI: Raskin & Terry, 1988). ing the adolescent period may result in an attitude of entitlement.
This is because the needs – both physical and emotional – of a very
1.2. Precursors of narcissism in childhood young child are different from those of a late adolescent. The infant
and young child are almost entirely dependent on the parent to
In school age children, clinical study has identified certain char- provide physical and emotional gratification, and require the sup-
acteristics that lead to a diagnosis of childhood narcissism. These port and encouragement of the parent in order to develop new
include an excessive need for attention and admiration, exhibition- capacities and skills, which is not true of the late adolescent. The
ism, impulsivity, aggression, and chronic violation of rules (Berren, parent who provides this support influences the development of
1998; Kernberg, 1998; Weise & Tuber, 2004). Although there is no ‘‘mastery skills, the capacity for affective involvement, and a sense
evidence that narcissism as a psychological disorder exists in of confidence . . . [In the preschool period] the child will be confi-
3 years old children, it is possible to identify precursors of narcis- dent, skilled and positive in dealing with peers and other tasks’’
sism at this young age. Based on Q-sort ratings provided by multi- (Sroufe, 1979, p. 837). Responsive parenting thus supports a posi-
ple observers of children’s behavior (Block & Block, 1980), Carlson tive model of the self, based on the parent’s belief that the child can
and Gjerde (2009) developed scales assessing five components, or acquire a level of competence appropriate to his/her developmen-
precursors, of narcissism in preschool children. These scales dem- tal level.
onstrated good reliability and were shown to predict an indepen- Parenting styles that do not provide this responsiveness and
dent measure of narcissism (10 CAQ items highly correlated with support for cognitive and physical development are likely to inter-
the NPI) at ages 14, 18, and 23. fere with positive development, with the child developing a sense
of inadequacy (Kernberg, 1998), and a model of the self that is
1.3. Parenting styles deemed unworthy of support (Bowlby, 1969; George & Solomon,
1989).
The child development literature has identified four different To expand on these ideas: What does it mean to be ‘‘indulged’’
styles of parenting (Baumrind, 1971). The Authoritarian/Autocratic as a 3-year-old? To be given as much food as desired, an excessive
parent tries to shape, control and evaluate the behavior of the child number of toys, too many hugs and kisses? What does the 3-year-
according to a set standard. Obedience to authority is stressed; or- old learn from this? Something like, although I am not able to pro-
ders are expected to be obeyed without explanation. Punitive mea- vide these things for myself, I believe that others will take care of
sures are favored to bring about compliance. This type of parenting me and meet my needs, because I am young and have not yet devel-
is demanding, but not responsive. The Authoritative/Responsive par- oped the capacities to provide these things for myself. For the late
ent provides clear standards for the child’s conduct, and uses rea- adolescent, parental ‘‘indulgence’’ is not required for survival.
soning and explanation to influence the child’s behavior. These When the late adolescent is indulged (excessive allowance, too
parents are assertive but not intrusive. They consider the child’s many fancy clothes, expensive car, no curfew, excessive non-con-
point of view, and assume that the child has rights. Discipline is tingent praise, etc.) s/he learns ‘‘I deserve to be given whatever I
supportive rather than punitive. This type of parenting is both want, despite my own ability to work and provide these things
demanding and responsive. The Indulgent/Permissive parent ex- for myself, because I am special and should be admired’’. The
presses affection easily, is lenient, finds it difficult to punish the presence of Indulgence in adolescence may result in maladaptive
child, and does not require mature behavior. This parent is more narcissism.
responsive than demanding. The Indifferent/Uninvolved parent is While the presence of indulgence in very early childhood may
neither demanding nor responsive. S/he expects the child to handle have positive results, the absence of indulgence may create a sense
problems alone, encourages the child to be independent of the par- of neediness and an expectation that others will not naturally be
ent, is not supportive, and expects the child to take responsibility responsive to those needs. To obtain this gratification, the child
for his/her own life (Baumrind, 1971, 1980, 1991a, 1991b). may develop compensatory defensive behaviors, including the
development of a ‘‘grandiose self’’ (Kernberg, 1998), in which the
1.4. Parenting styles and narcissism self is aggrandized, needs are met through wishful thinking, and
relations with others (who do not meet the child’s needs) are dis-
It is the thesis of the present paper that the type of parenting regarded (i.e., behaviors we characterize as narcissistic). The ab-
style the child experiences will influence the development of his/ sence of indulgence in late adolescence, when coupled with
her sense of self, which will in turn be related to the development minimal demandingness (Indifferent parenting) is also likely to
of narcissism. In this regard, the dimensions of ‘responsive’ and have negative effects, including antisocial behavior and illicit drug
‘demanding’ are especially important. Too much or too little use (Baumrind, 1991a; Kernberg, 1998) but is unlikely to produce a
Demandingness, without being Responsive to the child’s legitimate sense of personal inadequacy (Levy-Warren, 1998).
needs (i.e., Authoritarian or Indifferent) leaves the child feeling Similarly, it is suggested that whether ‘‘demandingness’’ is a po-
incompetent, either because the child is not allowed to develop sitive or negative factor in development depends on the develop-
his/her own skills, or because, without needed assistance and guid- mental level of the child. What are the effects of experiencing a
ance, the child is left vulnerable to mishap and trauma (Kernberg, demanding Authoritarian parental style as a 3-year-old?
1998). In contrast, Demandingness that at the same time recog- Authoritarian parents tend to be over-controlling, taking over the
nizes and is Responsive to the child’s needs – i.e., Authoritative child’s activities and requiring obedience to their way of doing
parenting – supports competent skill building and self-regulation, things (Baumrind, 1971). Excessiveness demandingness interferes
thus supporting autonomy (George & Solomon, 1989; Main, Kap- with the child developing his/her own skills and with recognizing
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personal thoughts, feelings and skills – i.e., with the development Although denial is an immature defense that is characteristic of
of the self (Miller, 1981; Winnicott, 1965). The child remains young children, it sometimes continues to be used by older indi-
dependent on outside approval to maintain the false self, which viduals who exhibit evidence of psychopathology (e.g., Cramer,
may in turn be a source of pride and gratification for the parent. 1999; Vaillant, 1994). Because narcissism is characterized by
Such positive regard from the parent staves off feelings of vulner- immaturity (Morf & Rhodewalt, 2001), and because the narcissist
ability and worthlessness (Winnicott, 1965). is avoiding the recognition of a negative and vulnerable self repre-
When the late adolescent encounters the Authoritarian parent, sentation, the defense of denial may be expected to be associated
the attempt of the parent to take over or dictate the adolescent’s with the presence of maladaptive, but not healthy, narcissism in
behavior, creates doubts about personal competence, and retards young adults.
adolescent development (Baumrind, 1991a). This may result in
rebellion against the parent, or, if the parent lavishes praise and
1.5.1. Overview of study
approval on the adolescent for meeting the demands, it may con-
In this longitudinal study, we investigate the role of preschool
tribute to a feeling of specialness and importance, since adoles-
precursors of narcissism, parenting styles of mothers and fathers,
cents who follow the rules of the Authoritarian parent may be
and the defense of denial in predicting the presence of both mal-
‘‘over-idealized’’ and hence have an unrealistically grandiose
adaptive and healthy narcissism in young adulthood. Narcissism
picture of the self (Kernberg, 1975). This sense of specialness, how-
at both ages is assessed via expert observations. Parenting styles
ever, can only be maintained by the continuing admiration of oth-
are independently assessed at preschool age via an ipsative proce-
ers. Thus, throughout development, the reliance on the approval of
dure (Q-sort) that controls for response set bias and requires the
the Authoritarian parent may lead to a continuing requirement of
parents to focus on their treatment of the individual child, not as
admiration from others in order to sustain personal equanimity.
compared to treatment of other children, or to treatment by other
In contrast, too few demands by the parent, coupled with a lack
parents. Denial is assessed at young adulthood from the coding of
of responsiveness to needs (Indifferent parenting) will also inter-
narrative material. Despite specific predictions, two-tailed tests are
fere with the development of skills and competencies that would
used throughout.
support a positive sense of self. As suggested above, this may lead
to antisocial behavior.
There is some evidence supporting these assumptions regarding 1.6. Hypotheses
the relation of parenting style to narcissism. In a study of children
and adolescents, maladaptive narcissism, as assessed with a self- The development of adaptive and maladaptive narcissism at age
report child version of the NPI, was found to be positively related 23 will depend on the presence of early precursors of narcissism,
to a combined parent/child report of negative parenting styles, the use of denial, and the parenting style (responsive, demanding)
including lack of supervision, inconsistent discipline, and corporal that the child experiences. Indulgent parenting is characterized as
punishment (Barry, Frick, Adler, & Grafemen, 2007). Study of High responsive, but not demanding. Authoritarian parenting is
School students found that their concurrent report of their parents’ demanding but not responsive. Indifferent parenting is neither
psychological control and warmth was related to higher NPI scores, responsive nor demanding. Authoritative parenting is both
whereas parental monitoring was negatively related to NPI scores demanding and responsive.
(Horton, Bleau, & Drwecki, 2006). College students who completed
a self-report measure of maladaptive Narcissism and also provided Hyp. 1. The presence of early precursors of narcissism will pre-
retrospective reports of their parents’ parenting style showed that dict the presence of maladaptive narcissism at age 23,
Authoritarianism and Parental Disinterest were positively corre- but not healthy narcissism.
lated with maladaptive narcissism as assessed by the OMNI Hyp. 2. The use of Denial at age 23 will be associated with the
(O’Brien, 1987, 1988), whereas Authoritativeness was unrelated presence of maladaptive narcissism, but not healthy
to OMNI narcissism (Ramsey, Watson, Biderman, & Reeves, narcissism.
1996). For an older group (adults aged 18–52 years) self-reports Hyp. 3. The development of adaptive narcissism will be posi-
of current maladaptive narcissism, as assessed by the NPI, were tively predicted by parenting styles that are responsive
positively related to retrospective reports of parental ‘‘coldness’’ (Authoritative, Indulgent) and negatively predicted by
and ‘‘overevaluation’’ (Otway & Vignoles, 2006). styles that are non-responsive (Authoritarian,
The interpretation of these results is compromised by the fact Indifferent).
that in three of the studies both the narcissism measures and the Hyp. 4. The development of maladaptive narcissism will be pre-
report of parenting styles were based on concurrent self-report dicted by the combination of early precursors of narcis-
measures, and in two studies the report of parenting styles was sism and early parenting styles.
retrospective, raising the possibility in both cases that current nar- A. In combination with early precursors of narcissism, par-
cissism may have biased the report of parenting styles. Further, enting styles that are not responsive (Authoritarian,
these studies have focused on parenting styles during late child- Indifferent) will predict the development of maladaptive
hood and adolescence, the effects of which may differ from those narcissism. Parenting styles that are responsive (Author-
of infancy and very early childhood. itative, Indulgent) will be negative predictors of mal-
adaptive narcissism.
1.5. Narcissism and the defense of denial B. In combination with early precursors of narcissism, the
relation of parental demandingness to the development
Narcissism, itself, may be understood as a defensive process, the of age 23 narcissism will depend on the presence/
purpose of which is to defend the individual from the anxiety asso- absence of responsiveness.
ciated with a negative sense of self. By maintaining a façade of self-
importance, entitlement and condescension, the narcissist defends Thus, parenting styles that are demanding but not responsive
against recognition of self-doubt, vulnerability, and worthlessness. (Authoritarian) will predict the development of maladaptive nar-
If narcissism serves a defensive purpose (Morf & Rhodewalt, 1993, cissism. Parenting styles that are both demanding and responsive
2001; Carlson & Gjerde, 2009; Morrison, 1986), it is interesting to (Authoritative) will be negative predictors of maladaptive
consider its relation to other defensive processes, such as denial. narcissism.
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attitudes, values, behavior and goals. Parents are asked to arrange The validity of the coding approach has been demonstrated
the items as a Q-sort, with seven categories and a fixed, rectangular both through observational studies of children, adolescents, college
distribution of 13 items per category, ranging from ‘‘least descrip- students and psychiatric patients, in which defense mechanism
tive’’ to ‘‘most descriptive’’ of themselves. Parents were given de- scores differentiated between age or diagnostic groups (e.g., Cra-
tailed instructions for completing the Q-sort under the supervision mer, 1991a, 2003, 2004; Hibbard et al., 1994; Porcerelli et al.,
of research personnel. Mothers and father completed the Q-sorts 1998). Denial has also been shown to be positively related to the
independently when the child was 3 years old. personality variables of Anxiety (Cramer, 2002) and Big 5 Neurot-
To create prototypes for the four different styles of parenting – icism (Cramer, 2003), and to the Identity variables of Diffusion and
Authoritarian/Autocratic, Authoritative/Responsive, Indulgent/ Moratorium (Cramer, 1995), and to be negatively related to Loev-
Permissive, and Indifferent/Uninvolved – several doctoral level psy- inger’s Ego Level (Cramer, 1999) and Big 5 Agreeableness and Con-
chologists and advanced graduate students sorted the 91 items to scientiousness (Cramer, 2003) among others. Validity has also been
represent each of these styles of parenting. These sorts were com- demonstrated in empirical investigations in which experimental
posited to form a prototype for each style. Items that are highly manipulations that increased stress produced predicted changes
characteristic of the Authoritarian style include: Believes child should in defense mechanism use (Cramer, 1991b, 1998; Cramer & Gaul,
be seen and not heard; Does not allow child to get angry with me; Has 1988; Sandstrom & Cramer, 2003).
strict, well-established rules for child; Does not allow child to question
parental decisions. Items that are highly characteristic of the Author-
3. Results
itative style include: Respects child’s opinions, encourages expression;
Talks it over, reasons with child when he/she misbehaves; Future plans
3.1. Descriptive statistics
include child’s preferences; Trusts child to behave properly even when
not with him. Items that are highly characteristic of the Indulgent/
A comparison of the Narcissism Precursor scores at age 3/4 for
Permissive style include: Feels child should have time to think/day-
boys (Mean = 13.67, SD = 30.05) and girls (Mean = 7.28, SD =
dream/loaf; Lets child make many decisions for himself/herself; Child
25.39) indicated no significant difference, t(100) = 1.16, p = .25. A
should be comforted when scared; Finds it difficult to punish child.
comparison of Willfulness scores at age 23 for men (Mean = 34.06,
Items that are highly characteristic of the Indifferent style include:
SD = 10.80) and women (Mean = 28.52, SD = 10.36) showed that
Child expected to handle problems by self; Sometimes forgets promises
men scored significantly higher on Willfulness, t(100) = 2.64,
made to child; Encourages child to be independent of parent. Each par-
p < .009. Autonomous Narcissism did not differ for men (Mean =
ent’s score for each style of parenting was determined by correlating
35.00, SD = 13.97) and women (Mean = 35.85, SD = 9.58).
his/her own Q-sort with each prototype sort.
Scores for Child Rearing Practices are presented in Table 1. A ser-
There is considerable evidence for the test–retest reliability and
ies of t-tests indicated that Mothers’ and Fathers’ Child Rearing Prac-
the validity of the CRPR (Block et al., 1981; Dekovic, Janssens, &
tices scores did not differ for male and female children (see Table 1).
Gerris, 1991; Kochanska, Kuczynski, & Radke-Yarrow, 1989; Leahy,
However, overall, Mothers were more Authoritative, t(100) = 2.54,
1981; Mussen, Harris, Rutherford, & Keasey, 1970). Studies of the
p < .01, whereas Fathers were more Authoritarian, t(100) = 1.91,
CRPR have indicated consistency in item response across time
p = .059 and more Indifferent, t(100) = 5.30, p < .001. Mothers and
(age 3–12; age 7–16), with patterns of sameness or change being
Fathers did not differ on Indulgent/Permissive, t(100) = 1.25, p > .20.
similar for both mothers and fathers of girls and of boys (McNally,
For the total group, the mean Denial score = 5.39 (SD = 4.27).
Eisenberg, & Harris, 1991; Roberts, Block, & Block, 1984). Changes
Men and women did not differ, t(88) = .54.
that occurred were appropriate to the changing developmental le-
vel of the child. Research also demonstrated congruence between
the parent self-report CRPR and observational data on parenting 3.2. Correlations among the Narcissism measures
styles (Dekovic et al., 1991; Kochanska, 1990; Kochanska et al.,
1989). For a detailed description of the CRPR, see Block (2008). The age 3/4 Narcissism Precursor correlations with age 23
Narcissism are presented in Table 2. Age 3/4 Narcissism Precursors
2.2.6. Denial
The Defense Mechanism Manual (Cramer, 1991a) was em-
Table 1
ployed to assess the use of Denial in TAT stories told at age 23. Sub-
Child Rearing Practices Report: Means, SD.
jects told stories to six TAT pictures (Cards 2, 8GF, 8BM, 10, 15, and
18GF) representing males and females, individuals, dyads, a group, All Males Females t df p
and interior and exterior scenes. These stories were recorded and Mother Authoritarian
subsequently transcribed. Mean .40 .37 .43 1.67 87 .10
(SD) (.16) (.17) (.14)
Without knowledge of the subject’s gender or other informa-
tion, each of the 540 stories was scored by a trained coder for Mother Authoritative
Mean .63 .61 .64 .81 87 .42
the presence of Denial according to the Defense Mechanism
(SD) (.15) (.16) (.13)
Manual. To score Denial, there are seven categories representing
Mother Indulgent .51 .48 .53 1.45 87 .15
different aspects of the defense; each category is scored as many
(SD) (.16) (.18) (.14)
times as it occurs in each story. The scores were then summed over
Mother Indifferent .16 .16 .15 .42 87 .68
the six stories, yielding a total score for Denial. This measure of de-
(SD) (.12) (.11) (.12)
nial has been demonstrated in previous studies to have adequate
Father Authoritarian .36 .33 .38 1.11 72 .27
inter-rater reliability, with children, adolescents, adults, and psy-
(SD) (.18) (.19) (.17)
chiatric patients (e.g., Cramer, 1998, 2003; Cramer & Jones, 2008;
Father Authoritative .59 .59 .60 .03 72 .98
Hibbard et al., 1994; Porcerelli, Thomas, Hibbard, & Cogan, 1998;
(SD) (.17) (.19) (.15)
Sandstrom & Cramer, 2003). In the present study, a second coder
Father Indulgent .48 .46 .50 .84 72 .41
independently scored a random selection of 100 of the stories.
(SD) (.18) (.20) (.16)
The agreement between coders, based on intra-class correlation,
Father Indifferent .09 .07 .09 .76 72 .45
was .80, indicating adequate inter-rater reliability. Disagreements
(SD) (.14) (.16) (.13)
were resolved subsequently by discussion.
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Table 2
Intercorrelations: Narcissism, Child Rearing Practices and Denial.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13
*** !
1. Narcissism age 3 .38 .06 .01 .16 .19 .18 .08 .15 .08 .13 .21 .11
2. Willful. age 23 .41*** .19* .09 .06 -.06 .05 .08 .07 .05 .22* .29**
3. Hyper. age 23 .28** .09 .03 .10 .10 .01 .05 .01 .02 .12
4. Auton. age 23 .30** .40*** .38*** .04 .21! .28** .24* .18 .01
5. Mother Authoritarian .70*** .96*** .29** .41*** .27* .39*** .23* .17
6. Mother Authoritative .82*** .08 .46*** .48*** .52*** .18 .01
7. Mother Indulgent .16 .45*** .34** .46*** .20 .13
8. Mother Indifferent .19 .19 .14 .42*** .03
9. Father Authoritarian .79*** .97*** .46*** .02
10. Father Authoritative .85*** .56*** .16
11. Father Indulgent .40*** .02
12. Father Indifferent .15
13. Denial
!
p = .07.
*
p < .05.
**
p < .01.
***
p < .001.
were significantly related to age 23 Willfulness (r = .38) but not to Rearing Practices, and age 23 Denial. In the present section, the lat-
Autonomous Narcissism (r = .01). There was a negative relation ter three independent variables are included in hierarchical regres-
between Willfulness and Autonomous Narcissism, (r = .19, sion analyses, to determine the contribution of each to predicting
p < .05).1 age 23 Narcissism. In addition, the role of the interaction between
Childhood Narcissism Precursors and Child Rearing Practices in
3.3. Correlations of Father and Mother Child Rearing Practices predicting age 23 Narcissism is tested.
Because there is evidence that parenting styles of mothers and
In general, the correlations between Father’s and Mother’s Child fathers may have differential effects on the personality of children
Rearing Practices scores showed greatest similarity for the same (e.g., Baumrind, 1980; Gjerde, 1998; Vaughn, Block, & Block, 1988),
style of parenting (e.g., Father Authoritarian–Mother Authoritar- separate analyses are carried out for the four Mother Child Rearing
ian), varying from .41 to .48. The exception to this was Father Practices and for the four Father Child Rearing Practices measures.
Indulgent/Permissive Mother Authoritarian, r = .52; the correlation For Mother, this results in four separate regression analyses to pre-
between Mother Indulgent/Permissive and Father Indulgent/Per- dict Willful Narcissism and four analyses to predict Autonomous
missive = .46 (see Table 2). Narcissism at age 23. A similar plan is followed for the Father Child
Rearing Practices.
3.4. Correlations between Denial and Narcissism
3.7. Mother Child Rearing Practices, age 3/4 Narcissism Precursors and
Table 2 shows that the use of Denial at age 23 is positively cor- Denial predicting age 23 Willfulness Narcissism
related with the presence of Willful Narcissism, r = .29, p < .01. De-
nial is unrelated to healthy, Autonomous Narcissism (r = .01). A hierarchical multiple regression analysis was carried out, with
age 23 Willfulness as the dependent variable. At Step 1, Sex was
3.5. Correlations between Child Rearing Practices and Narcissism entered as a control variable. At Step 2, age 3/4 Narcissism Precur-
sors was entered. At Step 3, Denial was entered.2 At Step 4, Moth-
As may be seen in Table 2, the zero order correlations of Mother ers’ Parenting score was entered. At Step 5, the interaction between
and Father Child Rearing Practices with age 3/4 Narcissism Precur- age 3 Narcissism and Mothers’ Parenting score was entered. All vari-
sors are not significant. However, Child Rearing Practices were re- ables were centered prior to calculating interactions (Aiken & West,
lated to the presence of healthy Autonomous Narcissism at age 23. 1991).
For both parents, both Authoritative and Indulgent/Permissive It is predicted that age 3/4 Narcissism precursors, and age 23
styles of parenting positively predicted the presence of Autono- use of Denial, will be positively related to the presence of Willful-
mous Narcissism, whereas an Authoritarian style of parenting ness at age 23. It is further predicted that strong use of parenting
was a negative predictor of Autonomous Narcissism. Thus, consis- styles that are not responsive to the child’s needs – Authoritarian
tent with prediction, a more nurturant attitude on the part of the and Indifferent – when combined with an early proclivity towards
parents predicted healthy narcissism at age 23. On the other hand, narcissism, will increase the likelihood of the development of Will-
Indifferent Parenting on the part of the Father was a significant fulness by young adulthood. Also, it is predicted that weak use of
predictor of Willful Narcissism at age 23 (r = .22, p < .05). parenting styles that are responsive to the child’s needs – Author-
itative and Indulgent – when combined with an early proclivity to-
3.6. Age 23 Narcissism, as predicted by age 3/4 Narcissism Precursors, wards narcissism, will increase the likelihood of the development
Child Rearing Practices and Denial of Willful narcissism by young adulthood.
Table 3 shows that age 23 Willfulness was predicted by age 3/4
The previous zero order correlations show a variety of relations Narcissism Precursors (Beta = .40, p < .001), by Denial (Beta = .27,
among age 23 Narcissism, age 3/4 Narcissism Precursors, Child p < .01), and by the interaction between Mothers’ Authoritarian
Practices and age 3/4 Narcissism Precursors (Beta = .26, p < .01).
1
An analysis of simple slopes indicated that when Mother had a
In another study of community participants (Cramer & Jones, 2008), the
correlation between Willfulness and Autonomous narcissism was, r = .07. However,
2
Wink (1991) found positive relations between the two variables (rs = .24 and .28) in Preliminary hierarchical regression analyses indicated it made no difference if
samples that included college students. Denial was entered prior to Parenting Practices.
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40
35
Age 23 Willful Narcissism
30
25
20
15
M High Authoritarian
M Low Authoritarian
10
0
0 0.5 1 1.5 2 2.5
Age 3/4 Narcissism Precursors (centered)
Fig. 1. Predicting Age 23 Willfulness Narcissism: interaction between Mother Authoritarianism (high = 1 SD above mean; low = 1 SD below mean) and Age 3/4 Narcissism
Precursors.
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