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The Art of
the Author Erotic

The Book ...
Three things stimulated
me to write this book.
Peter Spalton aka The Dating
Doctor helps people of both
sexes to build confidence and
create lasting relationships.
Kissing
He is a widely recognised
The first was when I did a two-hour
relationship guru in the field of
radio programme for Oxford
social skills, flirting, dating,
FM107.2 and a listener phoned in
seduction and body language.
to ask how she could teach her
boyfriend to kiss properly. She said
He provides personal coaching
'he kisses like a vacuum cleaner'
as well as flirting, dating
so I gave her some ideas on how
and seduction workshops, and
to help him improve. The others
is frequently called upon by the
you can read about inside...
media to give expert advice on
finding the one and adding a
This book is for adults.
spark to a existing relationship.
It is not meant to be a primer on
kissing, but rather a Master Class.
He is a member of the advisory
My intention is to encourage you
board to the Academy of Sex
to experiment and find new
and Relationships in London
ways of exciting and entrancing
and the media have given him
your partner.
labels like the 'Body Boffin',
'Dating Guru' and 'Love Coach'.
Your goal should be to
become a 'great kisser'.
ISBN 978-1-906198-01-5
a
DATING
DOCTOR
publication
9 781906 198015
Peter Spalton
The Art of Erotic Kissing
Peter Spalton, The Dating Doctor ä
The Art of Erotic Kissing
First Published in November 2008 by

Peter Spalton
Suite 413, 27 Colmore Row
Birmingham B3 2EW
United Kingdom
[email protected]
www.thedatingdoctor.co.uk
Copyright © Peter Spalton 2008

All rights reserved.
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from the copyright holder. Nor may it be otherwise
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including this condition being imposed on the
subsequent purchaser.
ISBN 978-1-906198-01-5
Cover Design by Karen Cooper

Contents
Foreword 1
Introduction 3
Erotic Kisses on the Mouth 6
Breath Kiss 6
Lick Kiss 7
Nibble Kiss 8
Tongue Tip Kiss 9
Corner Kiss 10
Moaning Kiss 10
Sharing Kiss 11
Love Kiss 11
Playful Kiss 12
Upside Down Kiss 13
Your Hands and Fingers 13
Erotic Kisses on the Body 15
Closed Kiss 15
Body Lick Kiss 16
Skin Nibble Kiss 17
Skin Suck Kiss 18
Combination Kiss 18
Nipple Kiss 19
Erotic Greetings 21
Heart to Heart Hug 21
The Spoon Hug 22
Suggestive Handshakes 23
Hand to Mouth Greeting 24
The Erogenous Zones 25
The Author 29
Foreword
Three things stimulated me to write this book. The

first happened when I did a two-hour radio
programme for Oxford FM107.2 and a listener phoned
in to ask how she could teach her boyfriend to kiss
properly. She said 'he kisses like a vacuum cleaner'
and I gave her some ideas on how to help him
improve. About a year later I helped to launch a new
chocolate from Galaxy called Mistletoe Kisses by
doing sixteen radio interviews about kissing in four
hours.
A few months later I was asked to do a radio
interview on national kissing day. When I arrived at
the BBC, the receptionist suggested that I should write
a book about kissing. She said it should be aimed at
men, but she expected it to be bought and avidly read
by women of all ages.
However, I have written this book for adults. It is
not meant to be a primer on kissing, but rather a Master
Class. My intention is to encourage you to experiment
and find new ways of exciting and entrancing your
partner. Your goal should be to become a 'great kisser'.
In this book I freely use and change between 'you',
'him', 'her' and 'they'. And because of my own sexual
orientation, I talk about kissing in a heterosexual
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context. But all my ideas, advice and techniques are just
as applicable to kissing as a same-sex activity. I cover
kissing on the lips and the other erogenous zones,
except the genitals. I think that there are already
enough books on fellatio and cunnilingus.
Peter Spalton
The Dating Doctorä
[email protected]
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Chapter 1
Introduction
The word kiss comes from the Old English cyssan,

which means 'to kiss'. Although we aren't taught how
to kiss at school, it is probably where most people
learn the basics. Interestingly the vast majority of
women (some surveys put it at over 85%) remember
their first kiss and can often recall the boy's name and
the colour of his eyes. And through my work as The
Dating Doctor I have discovered that women usually
judge a man's potential as a partner from the way he
kisses.
In its best form kissing should be slow and tender.
But it can also be very passionate and hungry,
depending on the mood you are both in. I describe
erotic kissing as using your mouth, tongue and teeth to
kiss, nibble, lick and suck so you create excitement and
build sexual tension. You also use your hands and
fingertips.
Erotic kissing should always be intoxicating and it
is possible to take some women to orgasm just with an
erotic kiss and a tweak of her nipples.
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The Science Bit
Kissing is not just a human activity. Touching tongues
is a fairly common gesture of affection in many
mammals. What they are doing is tasting and smelling
each other's pheromones to check their biological
compatibility and reduce the risk of inbreeding. In
humans, kissing also stimulates our sexual organs.
The mouth is one of the most erogenous zones of
the human body because the lips and tongue have a
very high number of nerve endings. Kissing uses a
complex array of 34 facial muscles and 112 postural
ones. The most important is probably the orbicularis
oris, which is the one we use to pucker our lips. In
erotic kissing we also use the tongue's longitudinal
muscle to raise and lower its tip.
The skin on our lips has only five layers so is very
thin compared to the rest of the face, which can have
up to sixteen. The lips do not have any sweat glands
which is why they are prone to getting chapped and
cracking.
Five Tips to be a Great Kisser

· As with most sexual activities, anticipation builds
up the excitement. So take it slowly and use
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techniques like the breath kiss to create sexual
tension.
· Variety is essential, as is reading the mood of your
partner. Be slow and tender sometimes, kissing
shallow or playful. At other times be passionate,
kissing hungry and deep.
· Use your hands and fingers to caress whilst
kissing. When standing you can caress the head,
neck, arms and upper body. If you're lying down
or sitting you can also play your fingers and hands
over their legs and tummy.
· No two people kiss the same, so learn to read your
partner and vary your technique and approach
according to what they like.
· As with most skills, practice makes perfect. Try
and develop a style that appeals to you and your
partner.
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Chapter 2
Erotic Kisses on the Mouth
Erotic kissing is much more than the French Kiss,

which is a generic term for a soul kiss where you
open your mouths and play with each other's tongues.
Think of erotic kissing as an à la carte menu of dishes
(or kisses) from which you can create a banquet of
passion according to your own and your partner's
taste.
The Breath Kiss

With the Breath Kiss the man is in charge. It is a tender
and sensual kiss that should be taken very slowly.
Correctly done it is one of the best kisses to build
anticipation and create sexual excitement. It's all about
what's to come and is the prelude to other erotic kisses.
The secret is to take time so she is eager to feel the
moment when your lips touch.
The best way to get the full effect and sweetness of
this kiss is standing up. Usually her head will be tilted
upwards and she'll be wanting to be kissed. He stares

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the Author Erotic

First Published in November 2008 by

Copyright © Peter Spalton 2008

Cover Design by Karen Cooper

Three things stimulated me to write this book. The

The word kiss comes from the Old English cyssan,

Five Tips to be a Great Kisser

Erotic Kisses on the Mouth

Erotic kissing is much more than the French Kiss,

The Breath Kiss

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