March 2009 Tidings Newsletter, Temple Ohabei Shalom
March 2009 Tidings Newsletter, Temple Ohabei Shalom
March 2009 Tidings Newsletter, Temple Ohabei Shalom
Your Synagogue
Friday, March 27
This Is Not Your Bubbe’s Manischewitz!
“Spirited” Passover Preparation
“Friday Night Lights” Wine Tasting Dinner - Friday, March 27 RSVP by Friday, March 20
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Total: $ ______
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Or call the synagogue office: 617-277-6610
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The Project For Our Future:
We have a history of more than 150 years of service to the Jewish community. Our congregation educates minds, guides
lives, inspires righteous action, and gives solace to the spirit. It's a proud, but imperfect legacy, one that our community
constantly strives to complete.
Therein lies the dream. Some years ago, synagogue leaders, with the vision of Rabbi Emily Lipof, identified two goals for
Ohabei Shalom. They knew that to reach our potential, we must make our synagogue facility more accessible to all who
want to come through our doors. And they believed that we would best fulfill our mission by offering pre-school
education to all families who treasure Jewish learning from the very earliest days of their childrens' lives. We call this the
Project for Our Future.
Our grand sanctuary, religious school classrooms and community spaces are unreachable for too many people who wish
to join us here, whether in prayer, study, or friendship. Too many of our disabled students, synagogue members, and
visitors are prohibited from taking part in the very activities that we have determined make us thoughtful and
compassionate Jews. When our doors are too narrow and our steps are too high, we are not faithful to our ideals. We
are not permitted to call ourselves a warm and welcoming congregation when we knowingly limit entry to our
synagogue.
As a community, we dream; as a community, we will transform the dream to reality; and as a community, we must pay
for the dream. We ask each one of you, to the fullest of your ability, to join in accomplishing this vision. To date, we
have received two very magnanimous gifts totaling $1.5 million. Your fellow congregants have already pledged and
donated an additional $350,000. Now, we need your help to raise the final $650,000. We seek a donation from every
single congregant, 100% participation, so that we can all look with pride when the doors open in September. You and
your most generous gift are vital to our success. Thank you to so many whom have already given.
With great belief in the power of our community, we trust you will respond, as you always have, with generosity toward a
legacy for future generations and appreciation for the values we hold dear. Together we can make our synagogue a
shining place of welcome to all while insuring a strong, vibrant future for out congregation.
Mark Lipof, Co-Chair, Congregational Gifts Ellen Harder, Co-Chair, Congregational Gifts
Founding Director Past President, Temple Ohabei Shalom
Ansin Religious School of Temple Ohabei Shalom
Robin Shore and Laura Moscowitz Diane “Didi” Trust & Rabbi John Franken Mark Lipof & Ellen Harder
Laura Trust & Alan Lichtman Howard Koor, Ellen Mosner & Stan Keiser
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Securing TOS in the 21 Century st
The Project for our Future is moving forward toward a date when we can begin construction. While the exact date has yet to
be determined, the Town of Brookline has indicated that a building permit will
issue, and as of the date of publication of this month’s Tidings, we may already
be on our way. The architects, BKA Architects, and the contractor, Brophy and
Phillips of Brockton, have been working to refine and improve the designs, both
from an aesthetic and a cost-effectiveness standpoint. In addition, we have been
investigating options to make the building more accessible within our current
facility. We have been looking at ways to enable those with disabilities to access
more parts of our building and to remove impediments that exist. It is truly an
exciting Project.
The designs for the Project call for renovations that will make our building more
accessible to all, with a full-size elevator instead of a “lift” to enable people to access the building from the parking lot. Plans
for the Diane Trust Early Childhood Education Center are moving forward as well. We hope to begin renovations of our
second floor later in the spring, allowing us time to finish the work prior to school opening in September. In the process,
there will be some disruption, but we hope to keep it to a minimum as we build toward a better future.
Current Donors
Douglas and Toni Gordon Robert Gottlieb and Margo Rosenbach
Cornerstones ($500,000 and higher)
Donald Hootstein and Belinda Walters Spencer and Betsy Gould
Richard Leibovitch
Steve Kern The Greenfield Family
The Trust Family Foundation
Shellee Robbins and Donald Steinbrecher Clifton and Ruth Helman
R.K. (Shelley) Schwartz Jeffrey Hurwit and Elizabeth Greenspan
Benefactor ($50,000-$99,999)
Joel Sklar and Adrienne Shishko Hideaki Ishihara
Robert Beal
Mike Weintraub and Diane Rosen Kathy Jonas
Shirley Spero
Dan and Priscilla Karnovsky
Donor ($1800—$4,999) Jonathan Kaufman and Barbara Howard
Patron ($25,000-$49,999)
Alan Beggs and Jami Levine Stan Keizer
Mindy Berman and Andy Sumberg
Bill and Marcia Harris Dov and Sima Kirsztajn
Charles and Sheila Landay
Dorothy Lebach Hana Kolton-Patsouris & Peter Patsouris
Rabbi Emily Lipof Howard Koor and Ellen Mosner
Guardian ($18,000-$24,999)
Mark Lipof Marcia Levine
Anonymous
Louise Levingston
Supporters ($1-$1799) Karen Livingston
Sponsor ($10,000 - $17,999)
Anonymous Bob and Tammy Loeb
Anonymous
Barry and Faith Abrams Jeffrey Macklis and Carol Levin
Larry and Denise Green
Ciro and Ellen Alfaro Tom Marton and Danit Ben Ari
Betsy and Eddie Jacobs
George Bazer Laura Moskowitz and Robin Shore
Ed and Margie Kahn
Selma Bengis David Pearlman
David G. Kanter
David and Rebecca Brendel Robert Pierson
Alan Litchman and Laura Trust
Mark and Denise Casper Eric and Allison Rimm
Mark and Audrey Schuster
Mike and Shari Churwin David Rogovin and Susan Liberman
Martin Shore and Shari Lisann
Jesse Cochin and Alice Newton Tom and Donna Rubenoff
Maurice Zabarsky
Robert Coopersmith and Amy Tishelman Zita Samuels
Steven Davis Cantor Randall and Leah Schloss
Friend ($5,000-$9,999)
Rabbi John Franken Glenn Stevens and Shelly Tenenbaum
Edward Bloom and Ellen Harder
Steven and Frances Freiman Esther Strachman
Len Davidson and Laurie Katzman
John and Beth Gamel Ronny Sydney
Richard and Carol Daynard
Lillian Garber Ita Weiner
Dan and Eva Deykin
Louis Goldman Spencer Wootton and EllenFox
David Fialkow and Nina Sing
Doris Zich
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Community
Date
which his book The Accidental Empire is based, Gorenberg
observed that similarly in 1967, government leaders after the
Six Day War were well aware that continued occupation of
the newly conquered territory of the West Bank would
Installation of Rabbi Franken inevitably threaten those two essential elements of the state
of Israel, yet failed to develop a clear policy to prevent
settlement.
June 6, 2009
Speaking about the recent conflict in Gaza, Gorenberg said
6:30 dinner, 7:30 service he took a “wide angle” as opposed to “telephoto” view of
the situation, by which he meant looking at the larger context
and not just the immediate events that provoked the
If you would like to be involved in outbreak of war. He observed that neither Israelis nor
Palestinians have become more moderate in the wake of
planning this event, please contact attacks on their people and territory, and therefore that war
as a method of “diplomacy by other means” was unlikely to
Steven Davis, [email protected] make the respective populations more inclined toward peace.
or 617-277-6610. He stressed the importance of the role of diaspora Jewry in
reminding Israel of the need to treat minorities well.
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Leadership Music & Worship Benefit Concert
The January 31st Music and Worship Benefit was an unqualified
Nominations are now being accepted for Temple success! Special thanks to a fabulous committee led by Shelley
Trustees and Officers! Schwartz and Michael Weintraub. They worked diligently to create
an amazing evening! Thanks as well to many more volunteers and
Temple Ohabei Shalom is blessed to have fantastic members, dynamic to the TOS staff for their invaluable contributions. Thanks to our
and committed lay and professional leaders, a wonderful building, a wonderful artists, pictured below, for their hard work and talent.
great school, and a spirited and spiritual community. Now, more than And finally, thanks to all of you who attended and gave to the Mu-
ever, you can make a difference and impact the future of TOS—and sic and Worship Fund. Your attendance and participation (we sold
you don’t even have to volunteer for a committee! Instead, let us out!) highlighted and exemplified the vibrant TOS community. Your
know who you think might make a good trustee or officer of the generosity helped to raise more than $38,000, benefitting the
Temple. You can even nominate yourself! spiritual and musical life of TOS.
Send in your suggestions – including your own name if you would like
to serve – so that the Nominating Committee can assemble the best
slate possible.
Phone: Synagogue Office 617-277-6610
Fax: Synagogue Office 617-277-7881
Email: [email protected]
Mail: Nominating Committee
c/o TOS
1187 Beacon Street
Brookline, MA 02146
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Community
There are so many ways to get involved at
Temple Ohabei Shalom...here are a few Todah Rabah
Volunteer @ TOS
volunteer opportunities that will help our
community:
We express our deep
Rabbi Franken’s Installation
appreciation to the following
Help plan the installation and celebration of
our new Rabbi, John Franken. individuals who have recently
Front Desk Assistance enriched the life of our
A friendly face and warm phone manner help community:
make our congregation welcoming to
members, new and old! If you have time to
volunteer in the front office and assist with Shelley Schwartz for her generous
greeting, answering the phone and light filing,
we would welcome your help.
donation of funds to purchase our
new recording equipment. Thanks
Zimriah Assistance Needed to Shelley, we now have the
Temple Ohabei Shalom will host a number of
shuls in the area for a Zimriah, or musical
capability to produce professional
festival, on March 22. We could use your help CDs as well as to create high
putting out food and making other local quality recordings of services, B'nei
temples feel welcome! Volunteers are needed Mitvah, concerts etc.
from 11:30am-2:30pm.
If you can volunteer for any of the items listed
above, please contact the main office at 617-
277-6610. Thank you for your help!
Honoring Dottie Berman
Our beloved Dottie Berman’s time as a dedicated
TOS employee is coming to an end, but thankfully
Illness? not her dear friendship and membership. As our
Executive Director for many years, and now in the
Hospitalization? front offices, she has been a source of help, care,
familiarity, and closeness to so many of us. Come
Birth? Simcha? to the TOS Spring Breakfast on Sunday, March
22nd, as we bestow the honor of TOS PERSON of
Please let us know... the YEAR to Dottie.
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Community
TOS’s Len Davidson Named to URJ Board
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Vote for who you want to see soaked in the silly shower at the Purim
carnival on March 8! 25¢ per vote, all proceeds will go towards the
organization of their choice. Collection cans in the TOS office!
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Join us for the Megillah Reading & Purim Shpiel—
Monday, March 9 at 6:30 pm. Pizza dinner
preceding services at 5:45p.m. $5 per person
recommended donation for dinner. Please RSVP
to Amanda, [email protected] or 617-277-6610.
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Cantor Randall Schloss
Presents
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Lifelong Learning
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Ansin Religious School News
Family Education
Mark Your Calendars! Facebook 101 Sunday, March 15, 9:30 am
Interested in learning more about Facebook and how it affects
your children? Join us for an informational session about how to
used Facebook and what you can do to keep your kids safe.
For the Whole Family
Annual Purim Carnival Sponsored by OSTY Sunday, March 8, 10:30 am – 12:15 pm
Open to the whole community, invite your friends. Come join
us for food, fun & games. Tickets are 3/$1. ARS classes will
be brought to the carnival at 10:30 am. All Kindergarten – Gr 2
students must be accompanied by a parent.
Tot Shabbat
Friday, March 6, 2009 First Friday of the month, 5:45 pm
Join Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss as they bring the Shabbat
experience alive for the youngest participants in our community.
The evening will include activities, music, dancing and dinner for
all participants.
Mark your Calendars:
TOSTY Wizard of Zo Shul-In, Parents & Students in Grades 1 & 2 Saturday, April 4 – Sunday, April 5
Watch your mail for more information!
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Auxiliaries
Brotherhood News Sisterhood News
Jonathan Atkins & Louis Goldman Betsy Gould
At our February 9, 2009 dinner/meeting we discussed the annual On January 14th Sisterhood hosted author and humorist Beth Teitell
Brotherhood Shabbat, which will be held on Saturday, April 18th, at with her amusing approach toward aging in America. Thanks to Julie
10:30am, followed by a kiddush downstairs in Lissner Hall. Cantor Boris for an entertaining evening meeting also enjoyed by other
Schloss has volunteered to train any of our brothers in trope so that members of our TOS community.
they can chant part of that week’s sidrah during the Torah Service.
A night of jewelry making with Ellen Mosner is still in our future at
We are very pleased to announce the following upcoming programs: this early February writing. We will assuredly be wearing some of our
beautifully crafted self-made beaded products when you next see us!
Our March meeting will be the TOS Annual Spring Breakfast with
the Brotherhood, which will take place on Sunday, March 22, 2009 Sisters, come support our Brothers at their TOS Annual Spring
at 9:30am in Penn-Spero Hall. We are honoring Dottie Berman as Breakfast with the Brotherhood, at 9:30 a.m. Sunday morning,
the TOS Person of the Year, for her dedication and service to the March 22nd. Our extremely dedicated, long-term former Executive
Ohabei Shalom community for close to twenty years! We are also Director and cherished synagogue member Dottie Berman will be
proud to announce that the Hon. David B. Cohen, Mayor of the City honored for her amazing hard work and devotion to our beloved
of Newton, will be the keynote speaker, discussing “Hate Crimes and Ohabei Shalom. Your presence will honor her, while we as a
the Rise of Anti-Semitism.” There will be raffle drawings and a silent community enjoy breakfast and their always interesting speaker!
auction, with the proceeds to be divided between the Ben Adler
Memorial Fund and other worthy projects. Reservations for must be Vayikyra is the parasha, and the theme is Judaism in the Modern Era:
received no later than Friday, March 13, 2009. Please call Jerry @ Prayer, Study, Mitzvot, and Participating in Tikkun Olam, at our
617-731-5736, by email [email protected] or mail in a Sisterhood Shabbat on Saturday morning, March 28th, at 10:30 a.m.
reservation form. Checks should be made payable to Brotherhood Hilda Lopez is once again doing a superior job coordinating this
Temple Ohabei Shalom. Sisterhood service which ALWAYS is a most sacred spiritual
experience. Torah readers Diane Rosen, Ita N. Wiener, and Margie
The“Ben Adler Memorial Blood Drive” also takes place on March Kahn, haftarah chanting by Rhonda Solomon, d’var torah by Hilda,
22, from 10am in Lissner Hall, so that people coming to the and participation by many of our Sisterhood members, will create a
breakfast can donate blood in Ben’s memory. We will need two genuine and special ruach. Past Presidents Ita N. Wiener, Ellen
volunteers every hour during the blood drive, to assist with the sign- Mosner, and Betsy Gould will be honored as well for their past and
in table, and snack table. Adults donating blood receive a $5 rebate continuing leadership. We all take such pride in this annual Shabbat
from the price of the breakfast. Please email the Brotherhood at celebration, and it is our finest endeavor.
[email protected] if you are interested in donating blood or
helping staff the blood drive or both! We are still recruiting for the following, so please contact where your
interests lie.
Our June dinner/meeting, which will take place on June 9th at Amy Hozid wants to start a book club. Those interested can contact
6:30pm, in Lissner Hall, is our Annual Meeting with election of new her at [email protected] , or (617) 566-1939.
officers, and the 1st Ben Adler Men’s Health Initiative Program, a talk Ita N. Wiener would like to conduct a class in post-Moses Torah
given by Dr. Dodson, of the Massachusetts Medical Society, on study. Reach her at [email protected] , or (617) 734-7137.Judy
men’s health and its effects on families. Mabel would like to begin a meditation group. You may reach her at
[email protected] , or (617) 232-7049.
The Annual Breakfast, Blood Drive, and June dinner/meeting with
the 1st Ben Adler Memorial Men’s Health Program are open to the “Knitting & Noshing” at Zita’s house is incredibly successful. Zita
public. We strongly urge our members to invite their families, has lost 30 lbs. knitting instead of noshing…Yea, Zita! Thank you to
friends, neighbors, and colleagues to join us for these events. this talented group of women, whose beautiful shawls were so
appreciatively received in January by our congregational shut-ins.
Once again, we thank all congregants for remembering to either mail They have now started knitting men’s scarves. Zita also obtained
or bring in their stamped cash register receipts from the Butcherie, information about knitting black wool hats for the IDF (Israel Defense
to the Brotherhood. Force). Anyone wishing to knit or donate black wool yarn should
contact Zita at [email protected], or (617) 277-3653.
Sisterhood and Brotherhood, along with DWS (Daily Worship
Service) leaders Ita N. Wiener and Spencer Gould are planning a
We need ALL of your papers and mail. congregational Yom Hashoah remembrance service for Tuesday,
April 21st at 6 p.m., followed by a light dinner, and viewing of the
magazines, catalogues, Please do NOT include poignant film “Paper Clips.” We hope the TOS community will join
newspapers, office & school trash, plastic, glass, us.
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Tributes
General Fund In Honor Of Prayer Book Fund
Shirley Spero Sara Gopen Weintraub Adrienne Shishko & Joel Sklar
Beatrice Shapero Sara Gopen Weintraub Brotherhood of Temple Ohabei Shalom
Estelle L. Dine Sara Gopen Weintraub Henry Penn Trust of the Brotherhood
Dora M. Cohen Sara Gopen Weintraub Beth & John Gamel
In Memory Of
In Memory Of Robbins/Steinbrecher Family Selma S. Robbins
Louise Levingston Helvi Wintarri
Enid Shapiro Solomon Hozid Life Long Learning Fund In Honor Of
Anonymous Ed & Margie Kahn
In Appreciation Of
Leona R. Zarsky Rabbi Emily Lipof Pulpit Flowers Fund In Memory Of
Shirley Spero Louis Spero
For The Health & Well-Being of George Rabinowitz Nathan Rabinowitz
Helen & Robert Sawyer Matthew Sawyer
Sophia Solow David E. & Bruna H. Rosengard Fund In Memory Of
Stephen Ardizzoni Robert S. Rosengard Max Rosengard
Bob Wolf
Project for Our Future
Temple Ohabei Shalom Music Fund In Memory Of Doris R. Zich
Beth & John Gamel Irving Cohn Larry & Denise Green
Marie Kargman Donald Steinbrecher & Shellee Robbins
Joel Sklar & Adrienne Shishko
Cantor Schloss Discretionary Fund In Appreciation of the Cantor Spencer & Betsy Gould
Bob & Jodi Silton Esther Strachman
TOS Brotherhood David Pearlman
The Karnovsky Family
Minyan Fund In Memory Of Allison & Eric Rimm In Honor and Appreciation of the
Gertrude Goldberg William Goldberg TOS Educators:
Diane, Fred, Leah Rae & Shira Rose Berk Harold Berk Rabbi Franken
Selma J. Bengis Milton M. Bengis Shari Churwin
Maurice Prolman Kate Mikesh
Sally G. Dubrow Leonore K. Grover Amanda Singer
Anita B. Garfinkle Charles Garfinkle
Jay & Carol Marlin Herman L. Marlin In Honor Of
Pauline A. Rhodes Esther P. Mann Deb, Ken, Basia, Zak & Jonah Schwartz Rabbi Emily Lipof
Osa Kamp Andrew Von Bargen
Bernard & Marjorie Birnbaum Edith Birnbaum
George H. Oshry Harry Oshry
Irene Shapiro Bertha Baron DID YOU KNOW? In 2009, taxpayers
Marilyn Himelfarb Harold D.Himelfarb
Susan & Alan Greene Edna Greene age 70.5 and older can give
Paul & Marcia Merlin
Jodi & Robert Silton
Charles Merlin
Joseph K. Shankman away up to $100,000 from
Ruth Shankman
Evelyn Bazer
their IRA's directly to chari-
Bernice & Kevin Berger Dana Eliezer Berger
Joseph Blumenthal
ties, TAX FREE! Please con-
Jerry Kravitz Max Kravitz
Gertrude Kravitz
sult your financial advisor.
Elinor R. Goldman Louis Cohen
Aileen B. Cabitt Henry L. Cabitt
Bernice L. Wyzanski Esther Miller Wyzanski
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Leadership Staff and Executive Board Mon.—Thurs. 8:00 a.m. & 6:00 p.m.
John A. Franken, Rabbi Jesse Cochin, President Friday 8:00 a.m..
Randall M. Schloss, Cantor Arnie Greenfield, Vice President Saturday 6:00 p.m.
Emily G. Lipof, Rabbi Emerita Edward Jacobs, Vice President
Steven Davis, Executive Director Kathy Jonas, Vice President Sun./Holidays 9:00 a.m. & 6:00 p.m.
Daily Worship
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