The Little-Known Formulae: How Simplicity, Values and Gratitude Make a Warrior Combination

What defines success? I have been asked by quite a few clients, many who are entrepreneurs themselves, about what I prize most and what keeps me going. This got me thinking about my entrepreneurial journey and what I value most in life. This exercise in reflection has also produced a list of learnings, which have kept me in good stead, and which I would like to share.

It has been three years since I set up my company Global Lumen HR, and during that time I have learnt what my strengths are, and what I can offer my clients that is truly worthwhile. Pushing myself to do things hasn’t helped me grow as much as accepting what I can do, and doing it better each time.

I’ve learnt to keep things simple: if something is possible, I will do it. If something is not possible at that point in time, but is necessary for the business, I will build a pipeline and then work towards making it possible.

I’ve learnt to distinguish between what looks good on paper versus the reality of how it impacts my life. If something takes more from me than it adds value, then I have learnt to say no.

 I’ve learnt the importance of treating people right, of valuing people, and being true to the purpose of why I set up the company in the first place: to empower people to gain confidence, insight and inspiration in their personal and professional lives.

I’ve learnt to be clear about my goals: I started out with the goal of earning more than my spouse, who has set the bar fairly high by being in a global role, and to test myself and the concept of self-leadership. Could I be motivated and drive myself year after year with only my own initiative? I’m happy to say that I’m still excited about what I’m doing every single day.  

I’ve learnt to be clear about my priorities: I am focused on achieving my career ambitions, while being available for my family and allowing time for self-care and self-growth. Having complete autonomy of my time allows me to work only with people who have respect for others as well as for my craft.

 I’ve learnt to genuinely believe in the principle of abundance: yes, this is a tough and competitive marketplace. But there is enough space for all of us, as each one of us brings our own unique strengths and style. We can be graceful with our competitors and build professional networks that will help us grow and be better.

I’ve learnt to be grateful every single day for what I have. My clients don’t need to work with me, but they do—and I thank them by doing the best I can for them and with them. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that triggers feelings of hope and optimism, no matter what the circumstances.  

These learnings have shaped the way I view success—something I will discuss in the next post. Meanwhile, what are the learnings in your professional journey? Taking the time to reflect is important, and can help us decide what our strengths are, what success means to us, and how we can better chart our journeys.