Lessons You Learn Through Life’s Challenges...

Instead of looking at external circumstances and blame them for unfortunate life events, look at yourself first and see if there’s anything you can improve. 

Whether it be changing your habits, attitude, or outlook, you need to change in order to improve your life’s situation. Failing to accept the truth life presents to you, you will forever fall into the traps you can never seem to escape. Everything happens for a reason and that reason leads you to another destiny. Accept the fact that shit happened to teach you something, to push you to grow, and to encourage you to change. Use this as a drive to make successfully change yourself for the better. Sometimes the uncomfortable things in life are there to teach us lessons because to go through a change of habit, we need to feel uncomfortable.

Never give an attention to the opinions of external crowd rather take their opinions professionally but not personally. If you want to bridge the gap between who you are and who you desire to be then ignore the negative opinions of others during the manifestation process. You have to experience unexpected knocks and stormy adversities or crisis during the manifestation process. We as human beings have chosen misery, because we believe in thinking and achieving, which has made a great mess. There are circumstances in life that you can’t control, i.e., being born into a dysfunctional family, losing your family member at a young age, becoming a victim of an unforeseeable accident, or having a cancer.

When you go through life’s challenges, you have the choice to either fall apart and become a victim of the circumstances, or you can rise up high and above others. We have allowed the mind to command us, which has developed the mind into a maniac, which is dragging humanity towards self destruction, pain and misery. Technology which we have created gives us temporary comfort but if we see closely there is unhappiness hidden beneath the carpet of mind built technology. When you desire to design your quality of life then dare to rise above the stormy adversities and every odds that comes in your highway of life with courage. The most important thing is the understanding of the call, which is stimulating us every moment but we because of our lack of awareness miss the invisible fortune and everlasting beauty. We choose the visible, tangible and limited beauty which vanishes every moment giving us a chance to connect it in the right way but every time we fail and connect it wrong and suffer. Once you practice visualization, positive affirmation and meditation then you can be more focused on your life purpose.

The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.

Actually your dream purpose can give you everything you desire to experience into your physical reality once you work on it passionately. So when you do what you love to do and your intuition approves you to do then you can live a destined version of life sooner or later. As long as we will keep on relying on our surroundings we will never reach the fruit, because the mind will always insist to just eat the peel of the fruit, it will never let us taste the delicious part of the fruit which lies beyond the peel, and we will keep on saying life is hard, life is a struggle, life is not a bed of roses so on and so forth, because the peel of the fruit is always bitter and most of time it is cut off and thrown in the waste basket.

Sometimes when life hits you with a brick, you just really hate yourself. You hate yourself for letting people who’ve done you wrong into your life. You hate yourself for not being more disciplined and doing the right thing. You hate yourself for what you did in the past which caused your life to go sideways. You just can’t forgive yourself. You feel sad, upset, and angry. You just keep thinking about this over and over.

In case of our existence we may taste the peel but not without the fruit inside, it would remove the bitterness of the peel, and the experience of life will become pleasant automatically. Whenever you live your precious life without being your authentic self then you can't experience happiness, prosperity and peace in your life for the life time. You can alter your negative beliefs by loving yourself unconditionally and accepting yourself for who you are. When you are up in life your friends get to know who you are. When you are down in life you get to know who your friends are. There will be many people who will be great to be around when times are easy. Instead take note of the people who remain in your life when times are hard. The friends that are willing to sacrifice their time and the resources they have in their life to help improve yours. Those are your real friends. A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

These moments are crucial in life because it’s when you realize who matters and who doesn’t. Only true friends will stick by you through tough times, help you in every way they can, and are always there to listen to you. When you practice gratitude about your all positive qualities then you can master over your negative beliefs created by the external forces. You must do what makes you happy all the time and associate with only positive quality of people who can prosper your quality of life. In fact once you follow your intuitive intelligence and trust in your own intelligence, abilities as well as your divine gifts then it can help to get back your self-identity faster.

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. Whatever had happened in your past is like the shadow of your own shadow and you must start to live yourself by loving yourself unconditionally and accepting yourself for who you are being at present moment. You can't experience harmony in your personal, professional, relationship, health and spiritual life if you feel yourself unwanted and unloved. When you approve yourself about your self-identity then you can master over all criticism coming from the external forces or negative people. You can be a living magnet once you start to love yourself unconditionally and accept yourself for who you are. Once you practice meditation, self loving techniques and once you enjoy your own company being with the Nature then you can discover your authentic self. 

You can master over your negatively conditioned subconscious mind through self-love, self-acceptance, self-approval and self-appreciation in the light of some spiritual practices. Meditation is the best spiritual practice to align with your spiritual self which is your real self. Beside this, positive affirmation, visualization and Nature alignment method also helps to discover your authentic self. You are your own worst enemy and your own best friend. Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own unguarded thoughts...

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