Kids in the workplace - early thinking
I spoke on a panel at a women's conference and had many come up to me afterward thanking me for my perspective on kids in the workplace.
Here's what I said that struck a chord...
"My 8 year old comes to work with me a lot. I never apologize to my team, I never even give people heads up that he's going to be there, he just is.
And my team isn't bothered by it.
I'm not bothered by it and I think they're taking my lead.
Jordi (my son) blends in. He might speak up every once-in-awhile needing something or responding to something someone said, but for the most part he's ignored, and he's just fine. Everyone is just fine!"
I know this works for me and I have control over it because I'm the boss.
I brought him with me to Microsoft on occasion when I worked there, but he never came to meetings. You see, I was trying to climb the corporate ladder and I believe that having a kiddo hanging around could have been a reason to not promote me.
As I think about work / life blend where work blends into my life, I think life should be able to blend just as much into work.
People bring dogs to work right? Why not kids? And as I think this out loud, it makes me realize that people with high-maintenence dogs know they aren't able to bring them to work, I think parents with kids who will disrupt a meeting wouldn't even try to bring them in. I feel like it will self-regulate.
So if you think you're in a position to bring your kiddo to work -- try doing it without apologizing and see what happens. Who knows, maybe you'll be surprised and a whole new way of working will open up.
Thoughts? Has anybody tried this?
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7yAt Caliber Companies we definitely have kids come to work as well as puppies!
Territory Manager at Ferring Pharmaceuticals
7yLove it! I do it from time to time and don't apologize. Rather it shows the softer, nurturing side that is sometimes not revealed in the position of tenure or authority. Enjoyed the article Jess, hope you and Jordy are doing well.
Executive Coach, Author, Inner Development Engineer
7yThank you for pushing boundaries and challenging our deep held beliefs! So glad you were a part of the Workplace REvolution!