I was wrong. The child was right!
As adults, we often assume we're right and children are wrong.
But a life-changing moment taught me to slow down, listen, and consider their perspective.
There was a shoe mix-up.
It was dismissal time at school, and two children were struggling to identify their identical shoes, differing only in size.
I confidently assumed the smaller child would take the smaller shoe. Despite the taller child's protests, I insisted on giving her the bigger shoe.
She became distressed, refusing to leave with the incorrect shoe. She was practically dragged home by her nanny who came to pick her.
The next day, the small child's mother arrived, confirming our mistake.
She explained that she intentionally purchased larger shoes for her child so it would last longer.
I felt embarrassed, surprised, and humbled.
However, I learnt a valuable lesson.
Children can be right. Their voices matter. They are intelligent beings, deserving respect and consideration.
Now, my takeaway
🎯 Slow down and truly listen to childrens' concerns
🎯 Consider their submissions before making decisions
🎯 Recognize their inherent value and dignity
We need to listen to foster:
🎯 Stronger relationships
🎯 Better decision-making
🎯 Emotional intelligence
🎯 Empowerment
It's your turn now to share your own story of learning from a child.
Haleemah Salaudeen
Founder, Early Years Architect
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