POWER OF #TRUST ?! As Expat moving to new country, I got to experience a lot of “cultural differences”. When I moved to #Berlin it felt like there is much more trust to “people are inately good” than what I was used to from my home country. As it goes with measures like trust, they are hard to demonstrate (or even measure first place). So it took me quite long to find a “proof” of this hunch. And you might be surprised by what it is. As it is … #PHYSICAL #POST #deliveries. Whenever you are to receive a package and courier fails to find you at home, (s)he simply leaves the package with some of the neighbors and leaves a slip for you signalling at whom the package is stored. This is actually a win-win-neutral situation. You #win, because the package is some much closer than to go fetch it from some pick-up location (it would be otherwise reverted to). The delivery person #wins as they save time of redelivery and hence face higher productivity. The neighbor harbouring your package for a day or two does not have to exert any additional activity (leaving aside small storage space needed), as you gonna pick the parcel proactively, as prompted to by slip. This magical habit (unthinkable in my homeland) is #substantial #improvement, but can only be realized with trust as key ingredient. Because, yes, you can cast a lot of doubts and concerns: - what if the package get stolen (by nefarious neighbor) - what if you don’t have good relationship with some problematic neighbors - what if you forget to fetch the par el and it sits and takes space in someone’s appartment - what if courier forgets to leave a slip or slip gets lost somewhere - what if … WHAT IF WE TRUST that most people around gladly do these small favor, as they know they will be the ones getting the same service in return? After coming back from week-long trip I had 4 slips (see below) each at different neighbor. All greeted me with smile and we exchanged few words about how lives go. This is how #trust #builds #extra #value.
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#reposted #creditstotheowner THE BURNT TOAST THEORY When things don’t go your way… Last February, I had a flight out of Sydney that was cancelled several minutes after we were asked to get ready for boarding. The airline management announced that their engineer couldn’t get the aircraft to operate. We were the only passengers left in the terminal. The airport had literally closed for the day already. You probably don’t know this but Sydney International Airport has a curfew for flights. No aircraft is allowed to fly in and out between 11PM and 6AM. We were asked to go through immigration again and then proceeded to collect our luggages. Afterwhich, we were given Uber vouchers so that we can all go home for the night. Everyone started to be grumpy. Well, as expected. But my first thought was “thank God they managed to identify the operational/technical issue of the aircraft before asking us to board and eventually take off.” This is where the Burnt Toast Theory comes in. It suggests that when delays happen or when things don’t go as planned, it could actually be a blessing in disguise. Those major or minor life’s inconveniences might actually be protecting you from something. Essentially, if you burn your toast in the morning (something challenging happens), the time you spend making another slice may have saved you from a car accident or something bad. Or maybe it causes you to be late for a meeting, but as you stroll in, you cross paths with someone who will become incredibly meaningful in your life that you wouldn’t have met otherwise. It’s kind of like the universe always has your back. As what I always tell myself: If you get what you want, that is God’s direction. If you do not get what you want, that is God’s protection. You may not understand His ways but you just have to trust His will. So the next time things don’t go your way, always remember that you are being redirected to something better.
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THE BURNT TOAST THEORY When things don’t go your way… Last February, I had a flight out of Sydney that was cancelled several minutes after we were asked to get ready for boarding. The airline management announced that their engineer couldn’t get the aircraft to operate. We were the only passengers left in the terminal. The airport had literally closed for the day already. You probably don’t know this but Sydney International Airport has a curfew for flights. No aircraft is allowed to fly in and out between 11PM and 6AM. We were asked to go through immigration again and then proceeded to collect our luggages. Afterwhich, we were given Uber vouchers so that we can all go home for the night. Everyone started to be grumpy. Well, as expected. But my first thought was “thank God they managed to identify the operational/technical issue of the aircraft before asking us to board and eventually take off.” This is where the Burnt Toast Theory comes in. It suggests that when delays happen or when things don’t go as planned, it could actually be a blessing in disguise. Those major or minor life’s inconveniences might actually be protecting you from something. Essentially, if you burn your toast in the morning (something challenging happens), the time you spend making another slice may have saved you from a car accident or something bad. Or maybe it causes you to be late for a meeting, but as you stroll in, you cross paths with someone who will become incredibly meaningful in your life that you wouldn’t have met otherwise. It’s kind of like the universe always has your back. As what I always tell myself: If you get what you want, that is God’s direction. If you do not get what you want, that is God’s protection. You may not understand His ways but you just have to trust His will. So the next time things don’t go your way, always remember that you are being redirected to something better.
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A great story that needed to be shared 🥰 THE BURNT TOAST THEORY When things don’t go your way… Last February, I had a flight out of Sydney that was cancelled several minutes after we were asked to get ready for boarding. The airline management announced that their engineer couldn’t get the aircraft to operate. We were the only passengers left in the terminal. The airport had literally closed for the day already. You probably don’t know this but Sydney International Airport has a curfew for flights. No aircraft is allowed to fly in and out between 11PM and 6AM. We were asked to go through immigration again and then proceeded to collect our luggages. Afterwhich, we were given Uber vouchers so that we can all go home for the night. Everyone started to be grumpy. Well, as expected. But my first thought was “thank God they managed to identify the operational/technical issue of the aircraft before asking us to board and eventually take off.” This is where the Burnt Toast Theory comes in. It suggests that when delays happen or when things don’t go as planned, it could actually be a blessing in disguise. Those major or minor life’s inconveniences might actually be protecting you from something. Essentially, if you burn your toast in the morning (something challenging happens), the time you spend making another slice may have saved you from a car accident or something bad. Or maybe it causes you to be late for a meeting, but as you stroll in, you cross paths with someone who will become incredibly meaningful in your life that you wouldn’t have met otherwise. It’s kind of like the universe always has your back. So the next time things don’t go your way, always remember that you are being redirected to something better.
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THE #BURNT #TOAST #THEORY When things don’t go your way… Last February, I had a flight out of Sydney that was cancelled several minutes after we were asked to get ready for boarding. The airline management announced that their engineer couldn’t get the aircraft to operate. We were the only passengers left in the terminal. The airport had literally closed for the day already. You probably don’t know this but Sydney International Airport has a curfew for flights. No aircraft is allowed to fly in and out between 11PM and 6AM. We were asked to go through immigration again and then proceeded to collect our luggages. Afterwhich, we were given Uber vouchers so that we can all go home for the night. Everyone started to be grumpy. Well, as expected. But my first thought was “thank God they managed to identify the operational/technical issue of the aircraft before asking us to board and eventually take off.” This is where the Burnt Toast Theory comes in. It suggests that when delays happen or when things don’t go as planned, it could actually be a blessing in disguise. Those major or minor life’s inconveniences might actually be protecting you from something. Essentially, if you burn your toast in the morning (something challenging happens), the time you spend making another slice may have saved you from a car accident or something bad. Or maybe it causes you to be late for a meeting, but as you stroll in, you cross paths with someone who will become incredibly meaningful in your life that you wouldn’t have met otherwise. It’s kind of like the universe always has your back. As what I always tell myself: If you get what you want, that is God’s direction. If you do not get what you want, that is God’s protection. You may not understand His ways but you just have to trust His will. So the next time things don’t go your way, always remember that you are being redirected to something better. Love and light 🫶✨ Credit: Nicole Kindhart Ps: Sent by a friend on whatsapp and I truly believe in this theory….
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🙋🏻♀️ I ditched the car for public transport 🚌 and it’s one of the best decisions I have made I like driving. I like the freedom that comes with it. But being behind the wheel means I cannot be distracted, which I often was, thinking about work. And when this affected me enough and I started getting into far too many minor accidents (the type that are serious enough to dent your wallet but not that serious that you should repeatedly file for insurance), I decided to let my wife take the car and took the bus and train instead. I told a friend over lunch recently that being seated in a public bus in Singapore can be one of the most private experiences. He was surprised but understood when I explained it: in a bus, no one knows me, and when I put on my ear plugs, I get to enjoy the music and the sights outside, or read my book, or reflect. I mind my own business and do not expect to talk to anyone along the way. The way seats are configured in public buses, where most of us face the front, also means that we don’t face each other. This contrast with taking the train, where seat facing each other and there often aren’t enough seats for the needy (so I always choose to stand in a train). Contrast that with taking a cab or a private hire, it’s just the driver and me in the vehicle - just somehow doesn’t feel as private as I have the habit to talk to the driver to make him/her feel at home. But the greatest benefit for me taking public transport is the ability to smell the roses 🌹🌹 - to be able to look out and appreciate the greenery, or the majesty of buildings around, or simply enjoy the moment and be grateful. Taking public transport means taking longer to get to my destination - so I leave earlier. And I don’t feel so stress about being late. When was the last time you smelled the roses on the way home? Be it going back to a spouse who cares, or a child who thinks the world of you, or our aging parents who remind us that there’s still time to enjoy with them, nothing deserves our time more than these who truly matter. And when we can prioritise what truly matters, we can focus our work to make it truly matter. Would you agree? #priority #smelltheroses #gratitude
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4moCau Filip. My neighbours are collecting my packages for me, too. In your home country! :) While western companies DHL, UPS are doing the same here…slovak post i did not experience the same yet. So i would not see it as a cultural difference or i would not think german people trust their neighbors more than any other people. It is just different process approved by management of various delivery companies. Some of them are ok with this, some of them are more strict as they may still need official signatures to legaly prove delivery if needed.