I'm 22, i resigned from my job recently. and all so suddenly. What's the problem? everyone asked. Was the money low? was the management too tough on you? Did you face any serious problem at work? The answer is no.. I was doing great, i was head of product marketing, leading two brands, even went abroad for a work trip with some of the biggest personalities. The people were great too. My parents are worried, my relatives are curious, my friends are concerned. Me on the other hand? So excited, so anxious, so on the roller coaster of life. Here are a few REAL reasons why i resigned and they may not be valid to everyone but are what drove me to take the decision: 1- I have been working days and nights (at some phases, 2-3 jobs at the same time) since i was 18. I wanted to constantly learn, evolve and most selfishly keep myself distracted and busy. I forgot that i was still very young and RESTING was not a "luxury", it was a necessity - which i should have taken. and the result was i didn't burn out, i felt like i broke apart. 2- When you work a corporate job, the harsh truth is you give the right to other people to vocalize their feedback on your work. Although one opinion does not change the quality of the work you produce, it does mess with your creativity. The thing that triggered the most was people not in your seat will think they have a say on how things can be done, esp when you know very well what's possible in the limited resources you have. 3- The amount of time it takes + the commute time + the additional commute cost especially when you live so far away and plus lack of boundaries. You're always expected to be available, doesn't matter if it's 9pm and you left the office at 8pm. (just an example!) The future is hybrid jobs tbh. The amount of productivity that can be achieved if people just work from their home and meet only when it's needed is insane > anyways these are just my 3am thoughts - hope this can help someone young who's working relentlessly. Take a break when you need it because you deserve it, only do stuff you're passionate about and LEARN as much as you can.
Hey Vania, very brave of you to make such a bold decision. There are loads of corporate entities that vax eloquently about staff well-being but they never walk the talk. I was in a similar situation like you and did the same thing as I felt really sick the way that company was having unrealistic expectations from their staff. It's very refreshing to see young people taking this stance as this could be the beginning to us seeing some changes to how companies handle their human resources.
Vania, your article leaves me wondering just what it was that you were trying to prove, and to whom, by working those 2 and 3 jobs at a time. Were you driven by economic necessity? a certain idea of success? a fear of a void or of something else if you ever slowed down or stopped? And what have you found to fill that drive instead? Too often, I've seen people pushed by some external vision of what they ought tobe doing or accomplishing wake up one day and realise this was not at all the way they wanted to end up. So I'm curious, when all that "doing" stops, what do you want your life to BE?
Good. No such thing as not working for some one. It just depends on how you do it and where and what you offer. If you can achieve balance with these options you may find it's what you believe in regards to your character that keeps you on the Hopeful side of the dynamics of life. I am 71 years old. I quit the U.S. grind 14 years ago and immigrated to Brazil with two pieces of luggage and rebuilt. I live near jungle on a nature preserve and work as a private teacher and I compose film score music. I feel God in Nature. A person does not have to do what I did. All you need is in you it's cultivating it that counts. I have found there's a thousand ways to kill it, only one way to make it grow. This idea is the exact opposite of what most people are taught. Think with open eyes and ears..introspectively and wisely without haste. Life is short. I wish you all the best.
Believe decision to leave was too quick. You shld have negotiated better working terms instead of quitting because apparently you were working in a good co., had a good position and responsibility, so the problem was no boundaries as you said between your life and work life. This cld have been discussed with management or yr direct boss before resigning. Hate to say this, although you might be relaxed now, but soon will start to look for a job and you may not find another good opportunity. You cannot resign from every job if you have a problem or tired. Try to, first, negotiate a better work atmosphere which is always possible, especially with such a hard working character, many firms will want to keep you, therefore wld agree to improve your working life. Remember that, when you face same situation in yr coming job
Vania I am proud of you. When I was your age up to age 47 they called me the machine. No tea or lunch breaks just work., work, work. I woke one morning and was paralyzed. Every test on my physical body and blood tests came back negative. The professor at the hospital had a serious talk with me and said to me the next time I'll be a corpse as inwardly my body was healthy yet it gave in after me working like crazy. I had to go for therapy to force me to slow down. Eventually I stopped being so hard on myself. So kudos to you to realize that it really isn't worth it. Well done!
Your insights resonate deeply with the challenges faced by many, particularly young professionals. It takes courage to pause and focus on what truly matters to you, especially when societal expectations may not align with your choices. Your motivations are completely valid, and like you say whilst they may not connect with everyone, those who do relate will appreciate your perspective. Your narrative and guidance serve as a powerful reminder that success is not solely defined by career advancement or perseverance. It also involves tuning into your own needs, even if that means taking a step back or exploring a new path. That’s something to celebrate.
GREAT CHOICE VANIA---- I am 73 years old with 3 PHDs, I am a structural and civil engineer- and I teach babies to 5 years old----- AND I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT I REALLY WANT TO DO!! But I love to learn & work and travel.... AND I AM STILL WORKING. People take life too seriously sometimes!!! You are just a baby at 22! YOU DECIDE your life and to hell with the naysayers
I have worked almost relentlessly from the age of 17, and I will be turning 60 next. I have spent my working life (it seems), learning new skills, qualifications and knowledge that I thought would make me a better employee. I was offered and took this current role because I thought it would be the perfect fit heading up to retirement. Boy was I wrong on that one. Never had such a lonely job. One thing I learned over the years, is that it is never about the job, it is about your own welfare and happiness in whatever career you choose. Make sure you have time for you, and make sure you draw the line and stick to it.
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