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𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲: 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐛𝐲 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐥 As a leader, countless challenges and uncertainties can feel overwhelming. Reclaim your power and navigate complexities with ease by understanding and embracing what you can control and what you can't. 𝘿𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙎𝙥𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙡𝙪𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 Imagine two circles: one small, one large. The small one represents what's within your power - your thoughts, actions, and attitudes. The large one represents everything else: the market, individual personalities, how your communication is received - all beyond your direct control. 𝙐𝙣𝙡𝙤𝙘𝙠 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝘽𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙩𝙨 This mindset empowers you to lead with clarity and resilience: 𝘙𝘦𝘥𝘶𝘤𝘦 𝘚𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘐𝘯𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘍𝘰𝘤𝘶𝘴: Stop wrestling with the uncontrollable, and free up mental space for strategy and action. 𝘓𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦: Focus on your sphere of influence, inspiring your team even in turbulent times. 𝘔𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘋𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴: Recognise what's within your control and make informed choices. 𝘊𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘈𝘥𝘢𝘱𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺: Accept what you can't change, respond to challenges with agility, and position your team for success. 𝙏𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝘼𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙏𝙤𝙙𝙖𝙮 Incorporate this principle into your leadership. Throughout your day, pause and ask: "Is this within my control?" Do this three times today to sharpen your focus and enhance decision-making. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧: * You control your vision, not the market's response * You control your team's culture, not individual personalities * You control your communication, not how it's received 𝗕𝘆 𝗺𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗴𝗼 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁, 𝘂𝗻𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗮𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿. #LeadershipMindset #Empowerment #FocusOnWhatMatters #ControlYourControllables #LetGo #LeadWithClarity #ResilientLeadership

Emotional intelligence (EQ) isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a game-changer for both personal and business success. Here’s how you, as a leader, can improve your EQ and build stronger relationships with your team—without losing your boundaries. Here are 3 Strategies for Leaders to Build Emotional Intelligence & Strengthen Staff Connections While Maintaining Boundaries 1. Self-Awareness: Regularly check in with yourself—pause and ask, “How am I feeling today?” Reflect on how your emotions affect your leadership decisions and adjust accordingly. Tip: Start a daily journaling practice to recognize patterns in your emotional responses. 2. Emotional Regulation: Practice deep breathing or mindfulness before reacting in tough situations. Recognize triggers and take a step back to prevent emotional responses from clouding judgment. Tip: Use the “5-4-3-2-1” grounding technique to regain control in high-stress moments. 3. Building Relationships: Show empathy by actively listening to your staff’s needs and concerns. Foster an open, non-judgmental environment that encourages vulnerability and trust. Tip: Schedule regular one-on-one check-ins to connect with your team on a deeper level. When you master emotional intelligence, you’ll notice a shift in your business—better communication, higher morale, and more effective leadership. Emotional intelligence is the key to transforming both your team’s success and your own. #Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfAwareness #BusinessSuccess #PersonalGrowth #LeadershipDevelopment

🌟 Are you a vitamin or a painkiller? 🌟 I challenge you to really think about this question. It could definitely prove to be a #mirrormoment (and mirror moments are a great thing!). This question isn't just a quirky metaphor; it's an amazing lens to examine your impact as a leader or an individual contributor, especially when we consider the role emotional intelligence plays in this. Leaders: Vitamin: You consistently provide value, nurturing your team’s growth and resilience. You're proactive, fostering a culture where people thrive. Painkiller: You step in (and sometimes take over) during challenge or crisis, resolving issues swiftly and effectively. You're reactive, a go-to problem solver when things go left. Individual Contributors: Vitamin: You're a culture add. Your work enhances the team’s overall health. You bring positivity, foresight, and added value to the table. Painkiller: You excel at troubleshooting and handling urgent tasks, ensuring smooth operations when challenges arise. One isn't better than the other. And, honestly, it's your mindset, attitude, perspective and level of engagement that determine how effective one or the other is. Balancing both roles is crucial. The key: knowing there is space for both to exist. Self-awareness and emotional intelligence play a big role in understanding your strengths and how they enhance -or inhibit- your brand and the way people experience you. So, which one are you? I'm a self proclaimed vitamin, who can ease into painkiller as needed. 🤓 Share your thoughts below! 👇 #Leadership #EmotionalIntelligence #Branding #WorkCulture #KimGems

Let's just call today "Introspective Wednesday". Whether you're an individual contributor, or people manager, this is a great question to consider. Add agility into this mix, and you'll know how to navigate both whenever needed. #agility #leadership #workculture

I don’t want to hear your excuses…. How are you going to fix this 😤. I have often wondered if people see this as motivating their team and, if their team appreciate the motivation… 😉… I’ll take a stab and say no…. Addressing failures that arise from factors beyond the team's control requires a balanced approach of empathy, support, and strategic vision 🤓. It's essential to recognise and validate the hard work and dedication of your team, while also guiding them through internal or external challenges. Acknowledge the uncontrollable factors and express appreciation for their efforts. This transparency builds trust and demonstrates your awareness of the situation. Emphasise that sometimes, despite their best efforts, external variables can impact outcomes . Encourage your team to identify and analyse the factors within their influence. This can help them feel empowered and proactive, rather than helpless. Facilitate brainstorming sessions to explore creative solutions and contingency plans. This collaborative approach leverages the team's collective expertise and fosters a sense of shared purpose during a challenging time. Motivation during tough times is crucial. Recognise and celebrate the team's hard work and resilience, even in the face of setbacks ⚒️. Providing ongoing support, whether through additional resources, training, or emotional encouragement, reinforces your commitment to their success. A leader who can acknowledge the uncontrollable factors while celebrating the team's efforts and fostering a proactive mindset can navigate through external challenges effectively, turning challenges into opportunities for growth and resilience. Guide the discussion towards actionable steps and clear goals, ensuring that everyone understands their role in the recovery process 🎉. #Leadership #ResilientTeams #GrowthMindset #FailureToSuccess #TeamEmpowerment

The Hidden Costs of Constant Pressure: Why Protecting Your Mindset is Key to Leadership Success As a leader, you’re no stranger to pressure. But when did constantly being “on” become the norm? Here’s the truth: working under constant pressure doesn’t equal effectiveness. In fact, it can sabotage your productivity, decision-making, and long-term success. Myth: “The more I push myself, the better leader I’ll be.” Truth: A protected mindset breeds clearer thinking, better leadership, and smarter strategies. 3 Simple Shifts to Protect Your Mindset: 1. Set Boundaries – The first step to protecting your headspace is creating non-negotiable time away from work. Clarity comes from space, not endless action. 2. Master Your Morning – Start your day with focus. Whether it’s journaling, meditation, or just a quiet moment of planning, that first 30 minutes is your most powerful leadership tool. 3. Delegate Effectively – High-pressure leaders often feel like they have to do it all. You don’t. Empower your team and give yourself permission to step back. The best leaders aren’t those who push the hardest but those who protect their headspace and mindset first. When you lead from a place of clarity, everyone benefits. Ready to prioritise your mindset and lead with purpose? Let’s chat. Book a free discovery call to explore how to keep your focus sharp and your leadership on point. https://lnkd.in/dxd6x2rf #Leadership #BusinessMindset #Focus #Success #MindsetMatters #BusinessGrowth #Headspace

Lately, I’ve discovered the secret power of slowing down at work. Turns out, it’s not just about ‘doing more’ but doing things better. Here’s what I’ve learned: 1. People aren’t processes 🤝 Teams are made up of individuals, each with their own strengths and perspectives..and challenges. Slowing down allows us to listen and connect. (Spoiler alert: it turns out that people really appreciate being heard!) 2. Great ideas need breathing room 💡 Sometimes the best ideas don’t come under pressure; they emerge when we give ourselves a little extra space to think. The “aha!” moments rarely happen when we’re speeding down the highway. 3. Trust takes time 🕰️ Building trust with a team, isn’t about quick wins—it’s about steady progress and showing up consistently. Slowing down builds the kind of relationships that lead to long-term success. So here’s to a more balanced approach: slowing down to speed up in the areas that matter most. Who knew taking it slow could be so productive? #Leadership #PublicHealth #Teamwork #WorkSmarter #MindfulWork

I love how this infographic and additional information brings together these two critical factors.

  “hyper-achiever-ness” No, it’s not a disease, but it can cause problems for leaders. Here's how my hyper-achiever-ness plays out: I love ticking off tasks and hitting targets, I get a burst of satisfaction with each success.  My competitive nature propels me to do better than last time and better than the other guy! But the sense of accomplishment doesn't last long. Before long, I am pushing toward my next goal. The recent win never feels enough; the next one is more important. I worked with a team whose CEO was the same. No matter how big or complex the project, the leader always pushed the Team for more. People on that Team were in a constant state of drive. Salespeople know this feeling too—the next sale is the only one that measures their worth. While striving for more can energize and motivate, sometimes it's too much. As they say, "too much of a good thing is still too much." Constant drive isn't sustainable and can have the opposite effect. If you're always pushing for the next goal, take a step back and listen to your inner voice. Is your inner voice making you feel anxious, or enthusiastic? Are your Team members celebrating their success or are they downplaying it? Balance your drive to succeed with mindfulness to maintain a motivated, sustainable workplace. If you are not sure how your inner voice is causing you more harm than good, contact me to take the ‘saboteur assessment’. DM⤵ #saboteurs #leadership #team #sageconversations #motivation #productivity                                       🌿  🌿  🌿 What fuels my work with Leaders is that all business relationships and challenges can be improved with 🌿 sage 🌿 conversations - the type where everyone feels heard, understood, and appreciated. DM me, Diane Nelson, if you need more 🌿 in your conversations!

📚 Book Spotlight: “Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ” by Daniel Goleman 📚 Emotional intelligence impacts leadership capabilities, teamwork, communication, and workplace culture. Organizations that prioritize emotional intelligence development see improved employee performance and satisfaction. Let’s explore the key takeaways for business professionals: Self-Awareness: Understand your emotions, strengths, and weaknesses. It’s the foundation for effective leadership and decision-making. Self-Regulation: Manage your reactions, stay calm under pressure, and adapt to changing situations. Empathy: Connect with others on a deeper level. Empathy fuels collaboration, negotiation, and team dynamics. Motivation: Cultivate passion, resilience, and a growth mindset. What drives you? Social Skills: Build strong relationships, communicate effectively, and influence positively. How can you enhance your emotional intelligence to thrive in today’s digital, fast-paced world? Share one practical way you’ll apply emotional intelligence principles in your work this week. Tag a colleague to join the challenge! Remember, success isn’t just about what you know—it’s about how well you understand and manage your emotions. Let’s unlock our full potential together! #EmotionalIntelligence #Leadership #ProfessionalDevelopment #Success #BusinessSkills #ReadyToBloom #BusinessMindset #SelfDevelopment #ProfessionalGrowth