There it is, another one. Yup, one more, and when you thought that was it, there’s another. What am I talking about? Promotions. LinkedIn alerts you to an exciting new chapter in someone’s career—where they proudly share their promotion. It’s not envy or jealousy, but there’s a feeling. A little whisper in your mind that says, "Why not me?" "What am I doing wrong?" "Am I not doing enough?" "Is my performance good enough?" The overthinking begins, and soon enough, you feel demoralized. Sound familiar? It’s natural to have these thoughts, how we respond to them defines our next move. Instead of getting lost, use the 21 Disciplines to transform these moments into powerful opportunities for growth: 1. Embrace Adaptability: Understand that everyone's career path is unique, and changes in direction are normal. Instead of fixating on one route, open yourself to new possibilities and growth opportunities. 2. Foster a Growth Mindset: Promotions aren't the only markers of success. Focus on continuous learning and development, even if the recognition hasn’t come—yet. Growth happens every day, not just in the form of titles. 3. Cultivate Perseverance: Success isn’t always linear. Don’t let one missed opportunity discourage you. Consistency in your effort, attitude, and skill-building will pay off in the long run. Keep pushing forward, even when the path seems steep. 4. Embody Integrity and Honor: Don’t compare your journey to someone else’s. Focus on your values, your contribution, and what you bring to the table. Integrity in your work is the foundation for long-term success. 5. Develop Emotional Intelligence: Recognize the emotions you feel—disappointment, frustration, confusion—and allow yourself to process them. But also take control. Channel those feelings into positive, constructive action rather than letting them pull you down. 6. Practice Strategic Thinking: Use this as an opportunity to reassess your career trajectory. What skills do you need to develop? Who can you network with? What goals need refining? Promotions often go to those who can think ahead and plan their path. 7. Seek Balance and Harmony: Promotions aren’t everything. Make sure your personal goals, well-being, and life outside of work are just as fulfilling. A balanced life is a successful life. 8. Harness the Power of Discipline: Ultimately, discipline is what will carry you through. Stay focused, consistent, and committed to your long-term vision, and don’t be swayed by short-term comparisons. So, when you see that next promotion announcement, don’t spiral into self-doubt. Pause. Refocus. Apply the 21 Disciplines to guide you through. And remember, your time will come—because you’re building something bigger than just a title. What strategies do you use when facing these feelings? Let’s discuss how we can all use moments like these to motivate, not discourage. #21Disciplines #CareerGrowth #Leadership #MindsetMatters #ChromeCode #ProfessionalDevelopment
You must have been at my office space! Thanks for the confirmation and ability to center and re-evaluate things.
Congratulations Raymond!!! Well deserved!!!🙌🏼
Amazing thanks for sharing such profound and insightful. The depth of wisdom in your words truly stands out and servers and a guiding ligth for anyone seeking clarity and growth.
Head of Quality Engineering @ NTUC FairPrice | Quality Engineering Expert
2moCongratulations Raymond