"The Hidden Taboo We Didn’t Expect to Encounter" In the spirit of #InternationalDisabilityDay, here is a story I would like to share about our work. Last week, we faced a case at our @therapy pod in Raipur that left us reflecting on how deeply ingrained taboos around mental health and disability still are in our society. A family came to us, distressed about their 26-year-old daughter’s “lack of motivation.” They described her as someone who loved cooking but struggled to take initiative. This seemed like a case of low motivation, so we advised bringing her in for a session. When they arrived, it became clear that her challenges weren’t just motivational—they were developmental, indicating a possible undiagnosed disability, which was clearly visible physically and intellectually. What surprised us even more was the parents’ reluctance to acknowledge this. Despite obvious signs and our observations, they continued to deny it, citing reasons that didn’t align with the facts. Their resistance likely stemmed from stigma—both internal and external. They mentioned visiting a center where other children with disabilities were present and self-diagnosing their daughter as “not like that.” They believed she just needed “motivation” to overcome her challenges. This encounter reminded me how much work remains to destigmatize conversations about disabilities. Families may deny the reality out of fear or shame, but it ultimately delays the help their loved ones need. At BetterSpace, we strive to open up safe, judgment-free spaces for such conversations. This case reaffirms the importance of empathy and education, not just for individuals but for families navigating these challenges. We’re here to lead these difficult conversations because acknowledgment is the first step toward growth. #MentalHealthAwareness #DisabilitySupport #BreakingTaboos #BetterSpace
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#Communication, belonging, experiences and #friendships. These are not luxuries reserved for “typical people.” These are the needs of all human beings. At Ashish, we are sensitising and equipping families, #communities and organizations to respond and engage productively so that children and adults with #autism and other #developmentaldisabilities lead fulfilling lives. Know more about us and our services: https://ashishindia.org/ #specialeducation #inclusiveedication #Delhi
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Indian Doctors? Hmmm.... You now need to know that Queer-Affirmative Mental Health Services in India is still at its colonial era and Government of India's schemes like - Mariwala Health Initiative (MHI) and Queer Affirmative Counseling Practice (QACP) has not gained any attention at all from anyone, as Doctors don't get any incentive. Why? I am also clueless as you are! But Doctors are happy to engage in Conversion therapy, despite knowing it is illegal! Reasons? There is a law governing LGBT, but who cares? There are many healthcare schemes and benefits for LGBT community in India, but who cares? They are a minority and have no ground anywhere today. Government owned healthcare - AIMS has very recently tried to educate themselves on Queer, because Hon. Supreme Court has brought a law in India and thrashed a handful of Doctors about their ignorance and arrogance. How many Doctors in India know that when a patient is on Hormone Replacement Therapy, they cannot provide same treatment or medication as regular patients? Answer - NONE. If someone reaches Emergency or meets an accident, those who are on HRT, for sure they are expected to leave this planet and everyone shall remain courteous to the Doctor, because they showcase their ignorance! This is not an offense! Mental health organization of India, NIMHANS is yet to make any progress on this as my own friends are working Doctors at NIMHANS, I know, absolutely there are no skills available, there are no PhD's available and like AIMS, even NIMHANS is trying to make first scratches, fearing people jumping on them. Result ? - I am giving you two case studies - "Patient 1" is a 24-year-old lesbian living in a conservative suburb of Mumbai. She has been struggling with depression and anxiety for several years due to the societal pressure to conform to heteronormative expectations."Patient 1" is hesitant to seek help from a mental health professional because she fears being judged or rejected. Additionally, she is worried about confidentiality and whether the therapist will be understanding of her sexual orientation. Without adequate support, "Patient 1" mental health continues to deteriorate. "Patient 2" is a transgender man living in a small town in Rajasthan. He has been experiencing gender dysphoria and depression since adolescence but has never received professional help due to the lack of transgender-affirmative mental health services in his area. "Patient 2"'s family is unsupportive of his gender identity, which has further contributed to his mental health struggles. Despite his desire to seek therapy, "Patient 2" feels isolated and hopeless due to the lack of resources and understanding available to him locally. Answer is - Who ties bell to a cat? Who has time and money to talk to a Government Employee and convince them to act for humanity? Does it have any value here? Welcome to India 😍 Gods must show mercy on us, not to visit a Doctor!
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5 Top Reasons you should go on a “self discovery” journey as someone with disability. People with disability are liable to depression cause of the way the society treat them. Below are five ways to go on a self discovery journey as someone with disability. 1. Empowerment: Discover your strengths, abilities, and passions, and learn to advocate for yourself with confidence. 2. Self-awareness: Understand your needs, limitations, and boundaries, and develop strategies to overcome challenges. 3. Inclusivity: Connect with others who share similar experiences, and find a sense of belonging and community. 4. Personal growth: Develop resilience, adaptability, and problem-solving skills, and reach new heights of personal achievement. 5. Autonomy: Take control of your life, make informed choices, and live independently with purpose and direction. Embark on a self-discovery journey and unlock your full potential. You are capable of achieving greatness! Do you find this post inspiring ? Follow for more ✅ you can write us through [email protected] or contact us through +2348104647493 , hoping to hear from you. #jiborefoundation #disabilityadvocate #disabilityadvicateinkwara #jiborefoundationinnigeria #ngoinilorin #ngoinkwara #ngoinnigeria #trendingnow #trendingpost #AccessibleTransportation #InclusiveStreets #DisabilityRights"#InclusiveStreets #DisabilityRights" #AccessibleForAll #InclusiveDesign #DisabilityRights"
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How did a soap opera parody by Bold Care revolutionize men's health in India? In a jaw-dropping twist, Bold Care's 2024 campaign shattered taboos and got millions talking about what was once unspeakable. Here's how they pulled it off: ✅ Star power: Featuring Ranveer Singh and adult film star Johnny Sins ✅ Clever format: Parodying Indian daily soaps to resonate with millennials ✅ Strategic humor: To break the ice on a topic uncomfortable in India This unexpected combination captured the attention of the audience and started conversations about men's sexual wellness. The founder Rajat Jadhav observed that this category holds an assumption that this problem is usually faced by men above 50-60 years old, but surprisingly the average age is closer to 30. And, mostly men don’t figure out a solution but choose to stay quiet. So they decided to create the ad film to: 1️⃣ Educate viewers: Provided information about the prevalence of issues among younger men ( age closer to 30) 2️⃣ Encourage action: Motivated men to seek solutions rather than staying silent 3️⃣ Break stigma: Showed that sexual health problems can affect anyone, reducing shame and embarrassment By thinking outside the box, Bold Care has opened up a new era of dialogue around men's sexual health in India. How can other brands learn from this approach to tackle sensitive subjects? #MensHealth #MarketingInnovation #HealthAwareness #BoldCare
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Research findings from Karinna Saxby and colleagues showed people in same-sex relationships living in areas more strongly opposed to #marriageequality had higher rates of #chronichealth problems after the vote compared to those living in areas with less opposition. The study is the first to show the link between opposition to marriage equality and health in this way. It’s also a reminder of how underlying community attitudes can magnify #stigma, which can have long-term consequences for people’s health. #samesexrelationship #lgbtiq+ #samesexmarriage
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Common Dysfunctional Traits in Indian Families That Have An Impact On The Individual 1. Authoritarian Parenting Elders often exert control over the younger generation's choices—education, career, marriage. This can lead to emotional suppression, particularly for women and children, who feel pressured to conform to patriarchal expectations and avoid conflict to maintain family harmony. 2. Lack of Open Communication Mental health, personal struggles, or relationship issues are often considered taboo. The resulting culture of silence can lead to long-term resentment and emotional disconnect, as problems go unresolved. 3. Traditional Gender Roles The expectation that women sacrifice their personal needs for the greater good of the family often leaves them with disproportionate domestic responsibilities. This imbalance can foster feelings of frustration, isolation, and being undervalued. 4. Joint Family System Conflicts The joint family system, while offering emotional and financial security, can become a source of tension due to lack of personal space. Differing opinions, particularly among younger generations who seek more independence, can cause conflict, especially around issues like arranged marriages or gender roles. 5. Unresolved Intergenerational Issues Old rivalries or financial disputes often simmer beneath the surface, contributing to long-term tension and emotional strain on the family as a whole. How Can We Address Family Dysfunction and Foster Harmony: 1. Promote Open Communication Encourage honest, transparent conversations around personal challenges, ambitions, and mental health. Breaking the culture of silence allows for deeper understanding and connection between family members. 2. Adopt Democratic Decision-Making Move away from authoritarian structures and encourage input from all members, particularly the younger generation. This fosters a sense of autonomy and inclusion, while maintaining mutual respect. 3. Respect Boundaries Emotional and physical boundaries are essential for personal growth without compromising family unity. Respecting each individual’s need for space fosters healthier relationships. 4. Champion Gender Equality Share responsibilities equitably within the household and challenge patriarchal norms. Ensure that both men and women can participate equally in domestic and professional life, creating a more balanced environment. 5. Support Individual Aspirations Encouraging individual goals and personal development, while maintaining family bonds, allows members to feel valued and supported. 6. Consider Family Counseling Family counseling or therapy, though often stigmatized, is a powerful tool for addressing deep-rooted issues and fostering emotional well-being. Therapy can help families navigate challenges constructively, improving overall dynamics. Reach out if you have concerns about your family and are seeking help! #hobbyogin #FamilyWellness #MentalHealth # #FamilyCounseling
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### Navigating Gender Disparity in Marriage Emma and Daniel had been married for six years. Initially, their relationship was a beautiful partnership, filled with mutual respect and understanding. However, as they settled into their careers, subtle differences began to emerge. Emma quickly rose to a managerial position in software engineering, while Daniel struggled to find stability in marketing. Traditional gender roles started to take root in their household. Emma found herself taking on a disproportionate share of household chores and childcare. Despite her long hours at work, Daniel, though supportive in words, often left home responsibilities to Emma. The disparity led to growing resentment. Emma felt undervalued and overburdened. One evening, after an exhausting day, frustration boiled over, and Emma confronted Daniel. The argument escalated, with both sides feeling misunderstood and hurt. Realizing the pattern couldn't continue, Emma had an honest conversation with Daniel. She explained how the unequal division of labor affected her emotionally and physically. They decided to seek help from a couples' coach. Through coaching, they learned to communicate better and understand each other's perspectives. They started implementing practical changes, like creating a chore chart and setting aside time each week to check in with each other. Over time, the changes brought them closer, teaching them the value of partnership and mutual support. Emma and Daniel's story highlights how gender disparity can cause conflicts in a marriage and the importance of open communication and partnership to overcome such challenges. Blissful marriage is possible! Join our community where we dissect such issues. Check the comments section on how to join. #antiquarrelquotient #impactfulkemiwa #triggerengine #healtothrive #healthymarriage
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13 Tussles Of Being A Single Parent In India 🧗 Being a parent is nothing less than climbing Mt Everest. 💁 Okay, this might seem a bit of an exaggeration, however, it's close! 🤷 Parenting is truly a challenging task for everyone across the globe. 🙆 And all the more, being a single parent makes the climb even more adventurous and exploratory. 🤷 But being a single parent in India has its own jumps and hurdles. 😠 Thanks to the strong gender bias and stereotypical mindsets of the people. 👉 Here are the some of the tussles of being a Single Parent in India:- (Note:- These challenges may vary from person to person depending upon different factors) ♦️Life becomes an art of juggling multiple tasks and schedules without much-needed support from the other parent. 🏋️ Super Powers you see! ♦️ As per Indian society,'Single parents cannot have friends. Period.’ 🤷 Because if they do people will make assumptions. 🤦 Obviously! ♦️ Moreover indian children can't accept their parents dating or going into a new marriage. 🤔 How can they do it? ❌ Single parents are not allowed to date in Indian Society. ♦️Single parents are attacked with the most unwanted help and solutions from people and so called well-wishers. 🙆 And these are, "Marriage Proposals". ♦️ The financial struggles force single parents to go out and work extra, while the extra-concerned Indian society make them feel guilty for not being there for their child. 🤦 Single parents looked as they are not concerned about their child. ♦️The schools have criteria of asking for father's income certificates. 😔 This makes many single mothers face problems with admissions of their children in educational institutions. 🙆 Because oh! 🤷 We live in a patriarchal society! ♦️ Leaving the child with a relative implies the interrogation of your child against you. ♦️ "ME" time? 🤔 Are you kidding? 😔 There is no, "Me"time for single parents. 😌 Just never at all! ♦️ People tend to ask offensive questions without giving it a second thought, embarrassing the single parent in front of their children. ♦️Single dads are usually not familiar with the duties moms have, perhaps because they never did rather avoided them earlier due to societal pressure. ♦️No one can understand the struggle of single parents. 🤷 Their friends are often oblivious to the challenges since they haven't been there. 🤦 No one can understand the struggle of single parents ♦️The children are usually taunted on by their friends for not having the other parent making them question the single parent. 😔 And this is heart-wrenching! ♦️Indian society has a narrow mind set and stereotypically biased view of single parents, especially single moms. 💁 It would be great if single parents can share their own views and experiences #singleparentlife #singleparentchallenges #vanshikagarg #coachforsingleparents
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🌿 How are health and sexuality perceived during early adulthood? These perceptions play a crucial role in shaping our well-being and future. 🌟 #Health #Sexuality #EarlyAdulthood
🔍 Early adulthood is a transformative period where health and sexuality perceptions evolve. Understanding these changes is vital for personal and professional growth. 🌟 #Health #Sexuality #EarlyAdulthood
How Are Health and Sexuality Perceived in Early Adulthood?
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बिवाह पछी महिलाहरु को समस्या Problems of Women After Marriage.Mp4 https://lnkd.in/dZc-2xbx 1. Loss of Identity Some women struggle to maintain their personal identity while balancing new roles as a wife, daughter-in-law, or mother. 2. Work-Life Balance Managing household responsibilities alongside a career can be overwhelming, especially if there is limited support from a partner or family. 3. Adjusting to In-Laws Living with or meeting the expectations of in-laws can create emotional stress, particularly in joint family systems. 4. Financial Dependence Some women face challenges if they leave their careers after marriage, making them financially dependent on their partners. 5. Expectations Regarding Parenthood Pressure to have children and manage parenting responsibilities can create stress, especially if societal or family expectations are high. 6. Health and Mental Well-being Emotional burdens, societal expectations, and neglect of self-care can lead to mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. 7. Gender Roles and Equality Issues Traditional gender roles can result in unequal sharing of responsibilities, leading to frustration and conflict. 8. Communication Gaps in the Relationship Poor communication with a partner may result in misunderstandings and emotional distance over time. If you'd like more detailed insights or specific video recommendations, I can guide you on where to find relevant resources.
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