I hadn’t intended to vote early, it just worked out that way – road was closed on my way to my favorite gas station yesterday, early voting was open as I proceeded to another Sonoco this morning.
Polling location was on the righthand side of the road, making it too easy to ‘pop in’; thereby, easing my day on Tuesday.
As I got in line, I heard a father ask (out *loud*) “Girls, who are you voting for?”, they gleefully shouted “Harris!” (young, ~ 6-10yo) – brazenly drawing attention.
Taking my own personal ‘risks’ of sorts, I *respectfully* (‘conversation-level’ audibility) stated “Well, there’s the next generation.”
The woman in front of me sensed my candor & vocalized her concurrence. I felt compelled to share my perspective w/ her, which I think bodes well for a socially-professional LinkedIn post – here it goes:
1. Those motivated towards ‘power/control’ have used these “womens’ movements” to disassociate women from the home – relegating our children to the care of others, that’s proving to indoctrinate – not educate, especially in the most impressionable years.
2. Once the ‘greedy/control-starved’ realized manipulating women only advanced their agenda so far, they then went for our men – now, cajoling them out of their masculine place w/n the family/community.
Upon hearing that father w/ his two daughters, that 👆 was my immediate internal reflection! I literally “felt” for that man/father!
(Speculating here), but: isn’t it likely that – that man thinks he’s embodying ‘support / empower females' to his daughters?
You see, my perspective is:
1. those seeking domination try to maintain the focus on ‘societal’ division, while deepening their grips on the *man/woman* division!
2. Like a new big pharma drug, it’s decades before light falls on the true damages – these ‘movements’ to empower women are now being realized for their true targets: our children & our men
As a female veteran – I can speak to the in/external ‘tug-of-war’
1. My STEM career pursuits didn’t come from “what men can do, I can do better” motivation, rather – so that I’d viably contribute to my family’s wellbeing.
__a. these days, it takes two incomes 👉 conditioning – political, economic, societal
__b. if possible, live off one / save the other in event of loss of one/other’s income 👉 logic
__c. so my man would get to enjoy a quality of life, not carry full burden (providing one) alone 👉 love, empathy
2. Having made these investments in myself, for the benefit of my future family, have position me to
__a. Be selective of who gets the honor of being the (man) head of my house/home; make well-informed selection
__b. Make well-informed family decisions, not “influenced by pop-culture”
3. The work / home dynamic, interplay of choices – sometimes this career gets in the way of my cooking/baking 😞
May my post leave you w/ this:
💗 🤍 💙
To our men, if you’ve not yet voted – please ‘dig deep’ before you do.
Wellbeing, not ‘allyship’, it what lies in the balance.
Software engineering student at Codam Coding College
1moThank you SheSharp! Very grateful to be the recipient of this scholarship 🙏🏻