Sheena Hakimian’s Post

Do you frequently find yourself putting your own needs aside in order to focus on the needs of your clients, friends, or family? And while there is nothing wrong with prioritizing work, family or your friends, if you find yourself always putting your own needs last, you may be jeopardizing your success. No, no one likes self-centered, self-absorbed, arrogant narcissists, but that’s not what the concept of “focusing on yourself” is about. Rather, it’s about recognizing that focusing on yourself and your needs and prioritizing them accordingly is the act of caring about yourself and understanding that your needs are equally important. The reality is this: you cannot keep up with everyone’s desires or try to help them when your own life is falling apart, or you have exhausted all of your own resources already. So, if you pride yourself on being “selfless,” reassess what that means to you and its impact on your life. - Do you prefer to give rather than to receive? - Are you always ready to help a colleague but rarely ask for help yourself? - Do you take on new assignments even when you know that you will spread yourself too thin? - Do you frequently take over projects that are not strategic and do not help you accomplish your own goals? - Do you put off working on your personal goals because you feel they are less important? Take an honest look at where you are and realize that by putting yourself last, you are doing a great disservice to yourself and those around you. When you are consistently putting off working on your personal goals or things that matter to you to prioritize other people’s, you are signaling to others that you - as an individual - and your needs are not that important. The reality is that you are likely feeling drained and exhausted and not as fulfilled or happy as you want to be. The solution: get clear on your personal and professional goals and priorities and dedicate adequate amounts of time on a weekly basis to focus on them. Like getting your office organized, or researching a new dentist in your area, or identifying prospective clients. If you feel the need to put them off or start feeling guilty because you are not working on that client matter or project instead, this is a sign that you need to dig deeper to understand what’s really going on. #SelfLeadership #GrowthMindset #PersonalDevelopment

If you have a discerning mind, then you should be aware of its dark side… Every entrepreneur knows the fear of constantly detecting what can go wrong. I've honed my critical thinking skills to spot unchecked patterns that could lead to bigger issues. My clients come to me with problems, and I become their detective. I help them identify the root causes of their issues. It’s as if I’ve developed X-ray vision, seeing how conditioning, and even trauma, can lead to disempowering circumstances. Once in work mode, my brain is in problem-solving mode. While that’s my superpower, at times, it can also be exhausting. So, I found a solution, two powerful morning routines that you need if you’re using your brain many hours a day: 👉 Gratitude: I note 3 things I’m grateful for “before my feet touch the ground” and I’m out of bed. 👉 Positive Affirmations: I listen to affirmations I’ve recorded for myself that I made up, that are what I say to myself in my highest state of clarity, happiness, and productivity. Gratitude helps me appreciate what I have rather than focusing on what could be better. Positive thoughts and affirmations feed my brain the right kind of messages before the day kicks into high gear. I’m still the detective my clients rely on, but now I’m also my own ally. If you found this helpful, consider resharing ♻️ and follow me for more insights on personal and professional growth.

That voice telling you to wait for the ‘perfect moment’ to quit your job, start that business, write that book—it's fear. Fear of growth. Fear of success. Fear of judgment ... it's fear masking as reason. Every one of us is born with two innate fears: falling and loud sounds. 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘥. I like to think of 'fear' in two categories: (1) Rational fears (aka real threats to your wellbeing) (2) Irrational fears (aka inner critic, resistance to growth) Category no. 2 is basically FAKE fear 😱 There is no real threat!! It's creating the illusion of threat to keep you in your comfort zone with sneaky inner narratives: "that's too risky" "you're not good enough" "that would be too hard" "you need more experience" For me, the story was: "I can see myself as a coach .. 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵, I need to get to the Director or VP level, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘯 I'll have what it takes". Coaching—what I REALLY wanted to do—was in this rosy distant future. Something to look forward to ... Thinking about 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 in this way creates a great excuse to stay exactly where you are. 🤔 What if you have you everything you need to start right now? 🤔 What if you have the experience .. the passion .. and the desire to do something truly extraordinary? That little voice is going to keep whispering: "Who are you to do this now?" And, you have two choices: either listen to the voice, or don't. When you realize that the voice is just an echo of your past experiences, fears, and social conditioning ... the choice becomes pretty obvious 💅 💫 What would happen if you stopped letting that voice run your life? 💫 If you stopped waiting for the 'perfect moment'? 💫 And you trusted that you already have what it takes? Growth doesn’t require permission. It's a choice. And that voice? It’s just the past trying to keep you where it’s comfortable. So, ask yourself: what irrational fear is keeping you from taking the leap you know you want to take? Let's hear it 👇 and if you're afraid your company is watching LOL DM me because I REALLY want to know!!

A year ago, I was struggling to get one client - I was Working non-stop, clients were feeling let down, and my bank account? Hardly moved an inch… High expense on daughter’s education and my parents high medical bills, dissatisfaction was high and so was my stress and fear😱! ↳ One day, I said enough is enough I will do whatever it takes to get out of this situation, Even if I have to work 24/7 I realised hard work alone wasn’t enough It was time for a shift in my personality! So → Instead of: ❌Blaming on situations ✅I chose to focus on my emotional patterns. → Instead of: ❌Doing it all alone ✅I surrounded myself with community of like-minded people. → Instead of: ❌Trying to figure out on my own, ✅I Invested in my skills and in understanding my preferences. And guess what? ↳ Not only did I change in my belief system in 21 days, but I started attracting clients too. One of them solved her relationship issue also. I manifested my business partner to grow fast together. It’s been a ride of emotional highs and lows, But here’s what I’ve learned: - Change is good (really good). - Situation has nothing to do with your condition. - Know your worth (it’s more than you think). - Coach + Strategy + the right mindset = 🔑 to success. To anyone feeling stuck: Remember, this is just a chapter, not your whole story. Your biggest success is yet to come. Keep pushing, keep evolving. 💪 PS: What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned in your life journey? #lifeskills #evolve #believe #manifestation #feeling

“What is holding you back from becoming the person you want to be?” Today, I took a deep dive into a challenging question: “What is holding you back from becoming the person you want to be?” I’ve been grappling with motivation lately, feeling as though I’ve sidelined important aspects of my life—like pursuing a Job and Career, and honing my writing skills, reading both fiction and non-fiction, and even committing to regular workouts. When I reflected on my progress, I realized I’ve mainly focused on writing, which is great, but there’s so much more I want to achieve. One realization hit me hard: my morning routine has often set the tone for my day. I found myself reaching for my phone first thing, getting sidetracked by content that, while interesting, doesn’t align with my goals. This distraction led me to procrastinate on my non-negotiables, opting for immediate gratification over long-term fulfillment. It’s easy to choose comfort —our brains are wired to protect us from discomfort and fear. But I’ve come to understand that true growth often requires us to endure the challenges and monotony of hard work. It’s about recognizing that every choice shapes our path. So, what’s holding me back? It boils down to prioritizing short-term pleasure over long-term significance. I realize that while the easy path feels good in the moment, it often leads to regret when the satisfaction fades. Moving forward, my focus will be on being more mindful and intentional in my daily choices. I want to embrace discomfort and work toward the better version of myself, knowing that fulfillment lies just beyond the challenges. Let’s remind ourselves: growth isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it. What choices will you make today to propel yourself forward? Read this post and more on my Typeshare Social Blog: https://lnkd.in/g8tV5syG

I'm 52, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that perspective shapes everything. Here are 8 visuals I wish I’d seen earlier—each one holds a lesson I learned the hard way: 🎨 Created by Value The Mind 1️⃣ Discipline is choosing what you want most. ↳ When you’re stuck, think long-term. Short-term wins often cost you big down the road. 2️⃣ Burnout isn’t a badge of honor. ↳ Productivity thrives on rest. Hard work matters, but recovery fuels success. 3️⃣ Fear fades when you take action. ↳ Overthinking? Take one small step forward. Momentum is the antidote to fear. 4️⃣ The only real limit is your mindset. ↳ If your belief system says “impossible,” it will be. Dreams are supposed to be scary—chase them anyway. 5️⃣ Consistency > intensity. ↳ Success isn’t about going all out once; it’s about showing up every single day. 6️⃣ Hard conversations prevent harder consequences. ↳ Misunderstandings grow when ignored. Make the call, have the conversation, and move forward. 7️⃣ Done beats perfect. ↳ Perfectionism stalls progress. Aim for good enough, and keep going. 8️⃣ Hard work wins every time. ↳ Talent is great, but discipline and effort will take you further. For me, #1—discipline over short-term gratification—is the game-changer. What about you? Which one speaks to you the most? Drop your thoughts below. 👇 ♻️ Repost to inspire your network to think differently. 👉 Follow me, Greg Moran, for more insights. 👉 Join the Founder's Collective Newsletter https://bit.ly/49NZKei

Does saying “Don't worry about it” ever make you stop worrying? "Don't worry!" "Stop worrying!" "Worrying doesn't help!" All those sayings have never helped anyone. So what does help? Let me share what has helped me in the past, try it, It might help you. As a matter of fact, last week I spent a day away with one of our sales agents - it was mind-blowing. He was stuck. But we quickly realized that 'I'm stuck' really means 'I'm scared.' And being scared can of course make you stuck. And saying 'stop worrying' doesn't help! The only way for me to stop worrying is to focus on constructive actions. We spent that day, immersed in planning and skill enhancement, we navigated the complexities of scaling up, addressing the challenges head-on. So here's what we worked on: ▪️Where am I headed? ▪️What does success look like to me? ▪️By when do I want to achieve my goals? ▪️What’s the gap between my current reality and my desired future? ▪️What activities will bridge this gap? ▪️When do these activities need to be completed? By directing my energy towards positive and productive activities, it shifts my mind away from anxiety and towards achievements and solutions. Worrying does not take away tomorrow's troubles. It takes away today's peace. By directing your energy towards positive and productive activities, you shift your mind away from anxiety and towards achievements and solutions. Focusing on constructive actions takes away today's stress And enables Tomorrow's success. How do you deal with too much worry? #ShlomoFromImperial #FluexMedia #Tgg #Growth

Interesting and informative perspective from Henna Pryor, PCC! Worth the read!

11 Toxic Excuses You Let Hold Yourself Back (And how to rise above them) Face them to get unstuck and thrive: 1. "I’m not ready yet" ↳ Perfectionism paralyzes progress. ↳ Take imperfect steps today, learn and grow. 2. "I’m not talented enough" ↳ Consistent effort beats natural ability. ↳ Focus on practice and skill-building. 3. "My manager doesn’t develop me" ↳ Waiting for others limits your growth. ↳ Own your development journey. 4. "I’m too junior to speak up" ↳ Fresh ideas spark innovation, no matter your role. ↳ Share your insights with courage. 5. "I’ll fail anyway" ↳ Self-fulfilling prophecy prevents success. ↳ View setbacks as stepping stones. 6. "I’ve tried before" ↳ Past failures dictate future attempts. ↳ Use past mistakes as roadmap for improvement. 7. "Others are better than me" ↳ Comparison kills joy and motivation. ↳ Compete with yourself, not others. 8. "I don’t deserve success" ↳ Self-doubt undermines your potential. ↳ Build confidence through progressive wins. 9. "What will others think?" ↳ Seeking approval limits authenticity. ↳ Prioritize your own values over opinions. 10. "That’s not in my job description" ↳ Limits career growth and opportunities. ↳ Treat every task as a learning opportunity. 11. "I’ll do it when ..." ↳ Waiting for the perfect time is a trap. ↳ Start with what you have, where you are. These excuses are universal, but they don’t have to define you. Every step you take away is a step toward the life and career you deserve. Face your fate today or remain stuck beyond. Which excuse are you ready to leave behind? Let me know in the comments! ⬇️ ♻️ Repost to help your network overcome self-doubt. ➕ And follow Mike Leber for more.