Fast-Track Your Male Allyship Journey! Here are THE key steps that will propel you forward into the express lane of allyship. You'll need to develop these 4 qualities and skills: Listening Actively There’s just no way around this one. If you cannot listen fully with focus and positive intent, then allyship will continue to slip through your fingers. 👉 Example: During team meetings, make a conscious effort to listen more than you speak. Reflect on what your female colleagues are saying and ask thoughtful questions to understand their perspectives deeply. Empathy and Compassion The ability to walk in the shoes of your female colleagues and understand things from their unique perspectives is crucial to success as an ally. 👉 Example: Participate in diversity workshops or panels that highlight women's experiences in the workplace. Use these insights to better comprehend the challenges they face and how you can support them. Self-awareness If you don’t have a handle on what makes you tick, how can you understand and positively react to your female colleagues? You need awareness of your own biases (we all have them because it’s a universal human trait). 👉 Example: Take an implicit bias test and reflect on the results. Discuss with peers or mentors about ways to mitigate these biases in daily interactions. Humility Be humble and ask women how you can amplify gender parity efforts rather than replace or usurp them and a woman's unique experience. Remember, you are not truly a male ally until a woman says you are. Be open to learning ongoingly. 👉 Example: Approach female colleagues with genuine curiosity and ask how you can support their initiatives. Show appreciation for their contributions and acknowledge that you are on a learning path. By cultivating these qualities and skills, you can accelerate your impact as a male ally and contribute to a more inclusive workplace for everyone. #MaleAllyship #Inclusion #Empowerment
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On what Inclusion means to her, Mrs Wonuola Adetayo, the CEO of Soft Skills Limited, has this to share: "Many years ago, as a young female manager in a multinational company, I wanted to use the restroom as a pregnant woman. Now, at this time, there was only one management restroom for both genders. As I was exiting the restroom, a male colleague came in to use the convenience and he made an awkward joke that made me uncomfortable. I waited for our next management meeting that involved the MD and spoke up when an opportunity arose for questions. I asked why there was no separate female management restroom whereas the staff had separate restrooms for each gender. My question took the room by surprise as most people felt it was not in my place to ask such a question. Interestingly, the MD promised to look into it and about three months later, a female management restroom was provided. And so, female managers in that company didn't have to share a restroom with their male colleagues any longer. This is one out of many experiences where I've successfully advocated for inclusion. Today, I continue to inspire inclusion through the Springboard Women's Development Program and my participation in other local and international organizations. I do this, knowing fully well that an inclusive world helps us to maximize—and not miss out on—the talents, skills, perspectives and contributions of everyone for the well-being and advancement of humanity." Incredible! 🙌
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1moThis is such a powerful reminder of the active steps needed to be a true ally! Listening, empathy, self-awareness, and humility are essential in supporting gender equity. Thanks for breaking down these actionable insights—each one has such real potential to foster an inclusive workplace.