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One of the hardest lessons I've learned is this: What's obvious to me isn't obvious to others. I realized this when we were refreshing our company strategy doc. I'd rather build things than write strategy, but at our size, I can't make every decision. So it’s useful to have a clear strategy that aligns the team. I wrote a draft, and asked for feedback. I was told it wasn’t clear. Fine, I added more details. Still not clear enough. Okay, more details. Still the same response. I felt frustrated pretty quickly. I thought I got it all down, and it seemed pretty clear to me. At one point I just wanted to say, “look man — just tell me what you want to hear, I’ll write that.” Eventually what I realized is that the problem was that I had a deep aversion to including anything “obvious” in the strategy, but that’s exactly what the team needed from me. I actively avoid saying the obvious things, because I want to be liked, and when other people say things that are obvious to me, I think they’re being pedantic and condescending, and worse — stupid. And I don’t want people to think that about me. But the obvious things are only obvious to you because they are deeply informed by your own intuition and experiences — those obvious things are the things that are most likely to be inside your zone of genius. They are actually the most important things to communicate. Thinking that other people are like me has impacted me over and over — to think what’s obvious to me should be obvious to everybody else, he way I would react is the same way everyone else would react. When I realized what the team really needed me to do is offload my intuition, and especially the things that were most “obvious” to me, overnight, the team told me the strategy became much clearer and more useful. I have to remind myself of this often: people think differently from me, and we each have our own zones of genius that aren’t the same. That’s what makes teams powerful — if we hold back the things that are “obvious” to us, we don’t get to multiply each other’s effectiveness. We hold the team back.
You're writing about the curse of knowledge, exemplified by the Tappers and Listeners experiment. I use this all the time because it's so easy to replicate and so easy to understand once demonstrated... https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/tappers-listeners-experiment-deep-dive-communication-murthy-bjas-uglxc/
This is one of the most profoundly accurate things I've read. I see this a lot with companies who are unable to describe what they do on their homepage. They start expanding their vision and trying to use some brand marketing speak to appeal to the widest possible range of people when users just want to know what it is.
It’s a good idea to always state your assumptions no matter how basic especially in industries with heavy jargon. I’ve found a lot of people would rather stay silent so it can be assumed they’re following but who does that really help? Nobody.
This is one of the most insightful posts I’ve read on LinkedIn. I wish more leaders had this insight. Thanks, Siqi.
This happens all the time. Great insight. My takeaway is that I should overstate obvious things. I try to do that a lot now a days but still I feel it's not enough.
Thanks for making the obvious "What's obvious to me isn't obvious to others" obvious!
Yep! Anyone who’s done time as an instructor knows this well. It’s the reason I still volunteer to teach and mentor—it forces me to stay aware of my “zone of genius.” While the context gap is more obvious in a student-teacher dynamic than at work, it’s wild how often the teacher forgets what’s “obvious” to them isn’t obvious to others. They’ve taught it so many times that it feels second nature. It’s why some of the most brilliant professors are actually the worst teachers. The more brilliant they are, the harder it is for them to relate to the average student—they’re just too deep in their own expertise. For me, documenting stuff meticulously and treating confusion as feedback has worked well. When things I thought were “obvious” get called out, I take note and look for patterns in what’s missing or unclear. Being intentional about it, having a real passion for knowledge sharing, and seeing it as a challenge to get better at communicating have helped me a ton!
One way I found to get comfortable with stating the “obvious” is to call it out. It really was for me than anyone else! It got me over the cringe I felt and I quickly learned that the connections I saw were not widely seen or understood by others and it wasn’t serving the company if I hoarded this knowledge. By saying things like “Captain Obvious here, but [insert statement]” it really diffuses things and opens the door for others. I also like to say things like “newbie question, but…” to learn more when I’m not an expert. My team now regularly says phrases like “I know this is obvious but…” so I know it definitely helps others and was worth taking the perceived risk to my ego to out it into practice. 😊
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1moOne of the most common pain points I hear from other product folks is wanting clearer articulation of strategy. Stating the obvious (including things like "Obviously we are NOT going to work on X." is key. Especially as the company grows there can be a lot of competing voices as to what's important, having a clear articulation of strategy to tie back to decreases uncertainty and helps teams move forward with conviction. I've often wondered why leaders think the strategy is crystal clear while the product teams keep saying "we are so confused." This stating of the obvious is so interesting - C-Suite leaders have a very different context so their reading in between the lines is going to be completely different than what their teams are able to do.