Rebecca Zung’s Post

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How do you respond to a lying narcissist? Well, you don't call him out on it. They're just going to project and deflect, lie and deny, right? No. So the first thing that you do is you don't be surprised by them. They are going to be who they are. You just go, well, there they are being themselves once again. So #1 don't be surprised #2 is you document everything and you write it down and you go, well, thank you for the gift. I know I'm going to be able to use that against you at some point, so thank you #3. As you see them as a toddler, you see them as a toddler having a tantrum on the floor. And you start looking at them like that and you say, I can see that you're upset. I can see that you're angry. And you remain calm. You say things that are neutral, like thank you for the feedback, alright. And #4 you stay absolutely calm. And you never did never justify, argue, defend, or explain.