My last post invented the name "stand-uppers". If you get a feeling of "Yes, that' me!" as you read the rest of this post, then you have it within you to become a "stand-upper". Does any of the below resonate with you? Are you nearing retirement and have just been hit by a health condition, or a loss of any kind, that throws those all-important last few years of saving for retirement into jeopardy? Are you post retirement and finding that your retirement planning has been tossed in the fire by soaring prices of everything? Have you developed a physical or mental problem that has put a premature stop to your planned career path? Are you scrabbling for something, anything to fill the void in your bank account and your life? Did someone once hurt you in a way that broke your trust in life, so that you now work some hum-drum job for which you feel nothing more than boredom and yet more cynicism at life? Do you spend your meagre salary in pursuit of something, anything to dull the pain inside, and then run short on life's bare necessities? Have you always enjoyed being part of a big, noisy family in which there was always some crisis and always hands to hold you, hands to help you up and hands to get you going again? Have you woken up one day to realise that your children have grown up, graduated and emigrated; that your cousins, nephews and nieces have moved and are too engrossed in their new lives to spare much thought for once close companions from their old lives; that your parents, aunts, uncles and even some of your contemporaries have died? Do suddenly find yourself lonely, anxious and living in the past? Then you, my friends, and others with different and yet similar stories, hold it within you to be a "stand-upper". You can choose to stand up, take life by the scruff of its neck, give it a good shake, and then redefine your life on your own terms. It might not work out the way you had in mind, but it will work out in a way that makes you feel stronger and more resilient, and that's what you really need. I have rambled on about my own story of ups and downs and getting up again, all over my posts on a range of topics. How about you, now? Do you feel an urge to stand up and turn your life into something that you like better than the life you have now? That means you are a "stand-upper". If you are already a succesful "stand-upper", are you willing to share with the rest of us some of the secrets of your success? Please, come, so that we can jointly weave our different fall-down stories into routines, structures and tools with which we can re-purpose our fall-down histories into one big rausous celebration of standing up. Posr your story here , or message it to me if you prefer to remain anonymous, but still feel that you want your story known. i will repost it with identifiers removed.
Hello dear people who engaged with this post. In my latest post I have started looking at some stand-upper stories and, perhaps, if I am not being too pretentious and audacious, providing some hints on how to get going with standing up. Please do come and have a look.
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