"I don't save much, how can I be better at managing my money?"
This is the question David asked me when we first met.
David and his wife are both freelancers with irregular incomes, both in their late 40s. They have one child and sometimes struggle to make ends meet. Yet, on average, they each earn around HKD 80k per month (=USD 10k).
David mentioned that neither of them has debt or overspending issues. He believes it's simply a money management problem, and they just want a "magical" solution.
So, what’s really going on?
Part of my role is to assess their money challenges: is this a long-standing pattern or just a lack of a proper system?
As I dug deeper, I discovered they had been maintaining the same spending habits from their first job after college. There were also some hidden issues in their relationship: secret purchases and shameful failed investment.
This is very common when we carry some emotional baggage around money since their childhood, which can lead to mixed feelings as an adult. And then we grow up, and we end up having irrational finances. Typically, one would say "they know they shouldn't but they still do it".
The solution: to address those underlying money beliefs, emotions, and values.
Financial literacy alone isn't the answer for most people.
If I shared a system with David and his wife on how to stop spending and start saving and investing, they might follow it during coaching, but they would likely stop once the coaching is over.
But what if I help them create a system that makes the process itself a source of joy, so they could continue even when I'm no longer coaching them?
This is exactly how you can break free from old patterns, build a healthier relationship with money and start living your wealthy life.
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