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 Autism Confession #3: I still don’t know if I fit in…. even in the Autistic Community. The constant scolding of words I am allowed/not to use and images I am allowed/not to acknowledge and how everyone wants to identify and how they do not. Am I supposed to say that I am Autistic or do I have Autism- honestly, it depends on the dang day.     I have to say, I DO feel like a puzzle piece. Perfectly shaped and absolutely meant for the whole but I just don’t quite know how to get in where I fit in. But I keep hearing how wrong that is so…. I must be wrong even here. I keep hearing WE get to choose things about our Autism but no one else gets a say but we can’t do it the wrong way…. And it feels very divisive. It seems sometimes that people who are trying get scolded and that feels a lot like me trying to fit in and being told how wrong I was… and it seems like an unnecessary tit for tat. Maybe the solution is we all offer each other a little more grace? (These are just small blurbs that I may expand later…. Or may not. Remember these are MY thoughts and 'if you have met one Autistic person, you have met ONE Autistic person'....)   #Autism #Autistic #AutismSupport #AutisticAdults #AutismAcceptance #DisabilityAwareness #Inclusion #Spectrum #Neurodivergent

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