James C. Collins called this "The Stockdale Paradox," after Admiral James Stockdale. Stockdale was a United States Navy aviator who was shot down during the Vietnam war, on September 9, 1965. He was held as a Prisoner of War (P.O.W.) in the infamous "Hanoi Hilton" until his release in 1973. When Collins asked Stockdale about the P.O.W.s who didn't survive, Stockdale replied: "Oh, that's easy, the optimists. Oh, they were the ones who said, 'We're going to be out by Christmas.' And Christmas would come, and Christmas would go. Then they'd say, 'We're going to be out by Easter.' And Easter would come, and Easter would go. And then Thanksgiving, and then it would be Christmas again. And they died of a broken heart. This is a very important lesson. You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be." The key takeaway from the Stockdale Paradox is that maintaining faith and hope is crucial, but it must be coupled with a clear-eyed assessment of the current situation and a willingness to confront and adapt to the harsh realities as they are. This balanced approach can help individuals and organizations navigate through adversity with resilience and determination. #leadershipdevelopment #constructionleadership #personalgrowth
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Embrace the Suck” by Brent Gleeson — a must-read for anyone who’s faced adversity, fought through the grind, or struggled to find purpose in challenge. Gleeson, a former Navy SEAL, delivers lessons that resonate deeply with veterans, first responders, and anyone in high-pressure roles. From combat to the front lines of life, he reminds us that growth comes when we lean into discomfort rather than avoid it. For my fellow Marines, law enforcement officers, and anyone who thrives under pressure: this book speaks to our mindset — the one that keeps us pushing forward when the rest of the world slows down. Gleeson doesn’t sugarcoat the path to success, and that’s what makes it powerful. Life will test you. Work, relationships, fitness, or personal growth — you’ll get knocked down. This book gives you a blueprint to stand back up, build resilience, and keep moving. Highly recommend this one if you’re ready to embrace the hard things and come out stronger on the other side. #EmbraceTheSuck #Leadership #Resilience #VeteranMindset #KeepPushing
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To understand the rank of Fleet Admiral, one needs to consider the context of World War II. The United States was working alongside Allies who had higher ranks like Field Marshals and Fleet Admirals, which were superior to American ranks. To ensure American senior officers were not outranked, the United States established the ranks of Fleet Admiral and General of the Army, both five-star ranks. In total, nine men held these ranks. For the Navy, they were Nimitz, Halsey, King, and Leahy. In the Army, the five-star generals were Arnold, Eisenhower, Marshall, MacArthur, and Bradley.
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The final book of The Stoker Trilogy, Acceptance, is now available everywhere. It tells the story of WW2 as experienced in Europe by British commandos, in the desert by the 8th Army, in the oceans by the Royal Navy, and at home by ordinary people living behind blackout curtains. A big book and a good read.
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Regarding the Admiral's (a fellow Ole Miss alum) post below i offer some food for thought .... https://lnkd.in/ec99FZ5k 1) As I have seen in the last fifty years American citizens confidence in their military continues to decline meanwhile retired Flag Officers have become more politicized -- perhaps a direct correlation? When i joined the Navy in 1970 many senior officers did not vote in presidential elections so that they would not demonstrate allegiance to one candidate or the other. My how times have changed .... 2) As the article referenced points out "When retired officers speak out it increases the public’s demand for politicization, and the military’s willingness to supply it. 3) Retired officer commentary also shapes demand for military politicization because of its effects on politicians’ incentives to seek out allies within the military. As they observe retired generals endorsing or critiquing an opponent or her policies, politicians may solicit their own retirees to provide testimonials of their leadership or the merits of their policy positions. 4) Politicians also face fewer inhibitions in violating the military’s nonpartisan status if they witness norm violations by their opponents. This is apparent with the competing lists of retired officer endorsees compiled by presidential campaigns. 5) Retired officers’ dissent, however, raises questions about the norm’s resilience and therefore whether the active-duty officers with whom a president interacts are indeed fully committed to it. The president might fear that a military leader will not just bias his advice, but perhaps actively work to promote a partisan agenda, by for example leaking vital information to the public, or courting allies to oppose the president in Congress. They may simply marginalize them as a result, degrading the consultation process essential to healthy civil-military relations. " If service members and their families should not political props perhaps then perhaps neither should be those who the average citizen perceives perceive to still represent the United States Military .... thoughts ....
Eight years ago, other senior retired military officers and I tried to warn the Nation of the danger of having Donald Trump as Commander-in-Chief. The warning signs were clear even before Trump criticized Kizr Khan's dead son, before he called John McCain a loser, before he questioned why John Kelly's son would want to serve his country, before he declined to honor America's WWI fallen heroes because he didn't understand why it is important, and before he dishonored Arlington National Cemetery (and the law) be politicizing it. Nothing that has happened since then dissuades me from the danger. Donald Trump does not have the requisite understanding or empathy for members of the Armed Forces and their families to be trusted with the decision to place our troops into combat. Service members and their families are not political props. The world is getting more dangerous and more in need of level-headed, thoughtful, bold American leadership. https://lnkd.in/gruGHV9v
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Join us in wishing #MedalofHonor recipient Michael Thornton a very happy birthday! He is one of 63 living recipients today. 🇺🇸 On October 31, 1972, then Petty Officer Michael Thornton, an Assistant U.S. Navy Advisor, took part in an operation against an enemy river base to capture prisoners and gain intelligence. Soon after landing, the patrol came under enemy fire. A heavy firefight ensued as Thornton and those near him acted to prevent encirclement. While doing so, Thornton learned that the senior advisor, Lieutenant Thomas Norris, had been hit. Thornton risked his life through a hail of enemy fire to take his wounded comrade to the shore, swimming with him on his back for two hours until picked up by friendly forces. For saving Norris’s life and the successful extraction of all the patrol, Thornton was awarded the Medal of Honor on October 15, 1973 by President Nixon. At the time of the action, Thornton was one of only about a dozen U.S. Navy SEALS still in Vietnam. In previous interviews, Thornton remarked that the Medal of Honor, “…belongs to every man and woman who’s ever served our country or is going to serve our country. I’m a custodian of the Medal.”
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Ros Poplar, you raise some very interesting insights. We share in a strong belief that our Military, Intelligence Community, and Law Enforcement Agencies should be unbiased, apolitical organizations. Rear Admiral Barnett is entitled to his opinion, and the two of us agree on this, “The world is getting more dangerous and more in need of level-headed, thoughtful, bold American leadership.” That said, our opinions differ in at least two major areas. First, my recollection of the past eight years is apparently much different than the Admiral’s. For four years we had no new wars, a secure border, a strong economy, energy independence (& more). For the past four years, we’ve had none of those things (& less). Secondly, if the Admiral is implying that Kamala Harris and Tim Waltz would provide the “level-headed, thoughtful, bold American leadership” that he mentioned, the historical facts support quite the opposite. In the four years that Kamala Harris has been Vice President, we’ve had the disastrous Afghan withdrawal, record levels of illegal border crossings, the loss of U.S. energy independence, inflation, rising crime, the Russian invasion of Ukraine, the Hamas terror attack on Israel, thousands of Hezbollah missile attacks on Israel, Houthi attacks on allied vessels in international waters, Iranian proxy attacks against US forces and US maritime vessels, and more. There is an unambiguous distinction in the results of the leadership of both Harris and Trump. I fear the dangers to our Nation have increased exponentially in the last four years.
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